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Guys in long term relationships who aren't getting any: is your lady on hormonal birth control? (if you are unsure ask her)
by that I mean either: combined oral contraceptive pill progesterone only (or mini) pill IUD with slow release progesterone implant such as Implanon® or Norplant® II Depo Provera® injections
and then report back. I'm conducting a study
My husband's theory is that your women have never had an orgasm I'm telling him it's because their sex drive is completely gone thanks to birth control. | |
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I would like to know this answer as well before I make any long term commitment. | |
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This study will be published in the Org Journal of Sex and Random-ass Fuckery | |
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this will encourage a lot of replies | |
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I have learned a lot about relationships from the org. | |
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Each time I've started a new birth control pill, I've been scared I'd lose my sex drive. Luckily for me and my other half, it's only ever made me hornier. It's also made me crazier at times so he must suffer from that | |
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Oh for sure there's a lot to be learned here. | |
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sextonseven said: I would like to know this answer as well before I make any long term commitment. | |
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LionsAndTigers said: Each time I've started a new birth control pill, I've been scared I'd lose my sex drive. Luckily for me and my other half, it's only ever made me hornier. It's also made me crazier at times so he must suffer from that Have you been on progesterone only ones? Or low dose combined? | |
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Lots of horror stories! | |
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What and whom to avoid. | |
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I've only ever used the low dose combined ones. | |
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LionsAndTigers said:
I've only ever used the low dose combined ones. I got horrible migraines from those "not tonight dear, I have a headache!" | |
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I've never heard anything about birth-control resulting in some widespread loss of libido.
I think guys should be more worried if their girlfriends don't use birth control at all. "I don't think you'd do well in captivity." - random person's comment to me the other day | |
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Why can't the guy use birth control instead? | |
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armpit said: I've never heard anything about birth-control resulting in some widespread loss of libido.
I think guys should be more worried if their girlfriends don't use birth control at all. I was reading on a mums forum, and woman after woman was posting "OMG so have I!!" about loss of libido | |
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The one I'm on now has very little estrogen in it and that has been a lot better for me. I didn't have migraines with any of them, but I had awful emotional side effects before and I did not feel like myself, which made me stop taking them altogether for a while. Then I had my ovarian issues and my hormones got all nuts so now I'm using them again and it's been a much better experience in terms of side effects (or lack thereof in this case). | |
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When she was on the combined oral contraceptive pill it was a bit... She's stopped using contraceptives all together for the past 14 years, and lets just say...im not complaining... | |
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LionsAndTigers said:
The one I'm on now has very little estrogen in it and that has been a lot better for me. I didn't have migraines with any of them, but I had awful emotional side effects before and I did not feel like myself, which made me stop taking them altogether for a while. Then I had my ovarian issues and my hormones got all nuts so now I'm using them again and it's been a much better experience in terms of side effects (or lack thereof in this case). I'm glad to hear if | |
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now, who is going to respond to this? My Legacy
http://prince.org/msg/8/192731 | |
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no. she should be on pills to LOWER her sex drive. :doh: | |
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Guys who aren't getting any. I was thinking the same thing as you. I'm sick and tired of the Prince fans being sick and tired of the Prince fans that are sick and tired! | |
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whistle? | |
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Sex during a relationship is destined to dry up. It's why men cheat. Gay or str8. | |
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I did not receive the last issue.
To whom do I address the angry letter? I'm firmly planted in denial | |
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NDRU said: now, who is going to respond to this? The ones that have publically lamented of their wives not putting out I dont want to hear from all the freakish exceptions | |
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Adisa said:
Guys who aren't getting any. I was thinking the same thing as you. You guys can just orgnote me! | |
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Spinlight said: Sex during a relationship is destined to dry up. It's why men cheat. Gay or str8. I agree the attraction wanes if not maintained And I would add that women are just as likely to cheat. | |
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You really think that most women don't have sex with their partners because of their birth control? | |
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JustErin said:
You really think that most women don't have sex with their partners because of their birth control? All the ones who aren't using sex as a weapon, who don't have health issues, exhaustion, depression, childhood sexual abuse or any other legitimate reason. After what I read on another message board, I'm inclined to believe there is a link. | |
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