Ok, i know there has been a million convos on his but i am getting really worried. A guy i had a huge crush on, recently told me he got Chlamydia.... And i liked the guy and i mean i almost went on a date with him. And who know's might have done stuff with him eventually, i am so scared to do anything with anyone here in L.A

I am hearing more and more of guys[and gals to] getting diseases, and it's 2011 now and people are still so fucking unsafe. I am always safe i use condoms, dental dams, w/e for my sexual business.

And i have always been a relationship guy, but did mess around[not full on sex] with a few guys who i knew where clean. They showed me there results, and it was all protected. I really want a relationship.. and besides that i am honestly scared to have sex. With these guys cause of how reckless a lot of them are.

It's 2011 and i feel trying to get away from the std problem is just not happening....

Just protect yourself.

I had a scare once.Im never putting myself through that again.

I didnt realize how serious Stds are. I was doing major research becuase i was paraiod but i found out alot of fact about std transmission.

everyone thinks you can just take some pills and be clean...NO

if not detected early it can cause serve damage.

It takes awhile for the Meds to have an effect. You also still can transmitt an std after you takin all your Meds.

[Edited 7/14/11 21:15pm]

formallypickles said:

Just protect yourself.

But that is the easy answer i'm afraid, even people who have protected themselves have gotten thing's. People are just un trust worthy and a lot of people lie about there status sadly...

formallypickles said:

Just protect yourself.

But that is the easy answer i'm afraid, even people who have protected themselves have gotten thing's. People are just un trust worthy and a lot of people lie about there status sadly...

i remember the first time i heard 'STD'

last year someone said it like that ....... c that guy, He has STD

and i thought it had something to do with interstate fone calls

the look on their faces when i replied, so what big deal i call interstate............

[Edited 7/14/11 21:16pm]

FuzzyWitch said:

i remember the first time i heard 'STD'

last year someone said it like that ....... c that guy, He has STD

and i thought it had something to do with interstate fone calls

the look on their faces when i replied, so what big deal i call interstate............

[Edited 7/14/11 21:16pm]

oh lawd ahahah

Just gotta use protection; make sure they've been tested in the first place. Hell, go and get it done together! That way you can both be sure.

[Edited 7/14/11 21:19pm]

Gunsnhalen said:

formallypickles said:

Just protect yourself.

But that is the easy answer i'm afraid, even people who have protected themselves have gotten thing's. People are just un trust worthy and a lot of people lie about there status sadly...

protect yourself in all aspects

-Use a condom

-Before you have sex, you and your partner should get checked every so often.

( If they have a problem with ..drop them !! Its the easiest way to tell a person is full of shit and shouldnt be dating anyway.)

[Edited 7/14/11 21:21pm]

MyNameIsPiper said:

Just gotta use protection; make sure they've been tested in the first place. Hell, go and get it done together! That way you can both be sure.

[Edited 7/14/11 21:19pm]

That is what i do=] best way to make sure there is nothing crawling in the guys insides before we make love to be frank

FuzzyWitch said:

i remember the first time i heard 'STD'

last year someone said it like that ....... c that guy, He has STD

and i thought it had something to do with interstate fone calls

the look on their faces when i replied, so what big deal i call interstate............

[Edited 7/14/11 21:16pm]

I used to live with a girl who had an STD barred phone you could only make reverse charge calls on it

ZombieKitten said:

FuzzyWitch said:

i remember the first time i heard 'STD'

last year someone said it like that ....... c that guy, He has STD

and i thought it had something to do with interstate fone calls

the look on their faces when i replied, so what big deal i call interstate............

[Edited 7/14/11 21:16pm]

I used to live with a girl who had an STD barred phone you could only make reverse charge calls on it

that's called protection

Gunsnhalen said:

Ok, i know there has been a million convos on his but i am getting really worried. A guy i had a huge crush on, recently told me he got Chlamydia.... And i liked the guy and i mean i almost went on a date with him. And who know's might have done stuff with him eventually, i am so scared to do anything with anyone here in L.A

I am hearing more and more of guys[and gals to] getting diseases, and it's 2011 now and people are still so fucking unsafe. I am always safe i use condoms, dental dams, w/e for my sexual business.

And i have always been a relationship guy, but did mess around[not full on sex] with a few guys who i knew where clean. They showed me there results, and it was all protected. I really want a relationship.. and besides that i am honestly scared to have sex. With these guys cause of how reckless a lot of them are.

It's 2011 and i feel trying to get away from the std problem is just not happening....

It's the main reason why I'm not a ho here.

I mean, syphilis and a few other things, you can get a shot for.

But for many STDs, you have to live with it forever, or at least until some cures are found.

For me, it's just not worth rolling dice indiscriminately anymore. Sex is not that important.

imago said:

For me, it's just not worth rolling dice indiscriminately anymore. Sex is not that important.

That either means ur not getting any or ur married!?!?!

MetalMonkey said:

imago said:

For me, it's just not worth rolling dice indiscriminately anymore. Sex is not that important.

That either means ur not getting any or ur married!?!?!

Well, no...no it doesn't.

That's why I'm celibate! Too many folk just downright LIE! Hell, I wouldn't even trust seeing lab results. Who says those are true results that really are for the person you're about to screw? Not worth it. If I get horny, I've got two fingers or a vibrator.

imago said:

MetalMonkey said:

That either means ur not getting any or ur married!?!?!

Well, no...no it doesn't.

My face is red, I stand corrected ow!

Eye have never had 1????? .....eye think ive got my very own STD angel watching over me and my antics....