Do they really have that much time on their hands?

Are you asking before or after children...

ZombieKitten said:

Do they really have that much time on their hands?

My answer is no

but yes sometimes they do get bored.

tinaz said:

Are you asking before or after children...

or during?

In over 25 years ive slept with many housewives!!!!Its not that they r bored,they r simply very unhappy!!!inside they have died!!!The spark has gone from there lives & im the electric man & eye gharge ya like nobody can!!!! u bored Mrs Kitten????

davetherave6767 said:

In over 25 years ive slept with many housewives!!!!Its not that they r bored,they r simply very unhappy!!!inside they have died!!!The spark has gone from there lives & im the electric man & eye gharge ya like nobody can!!!! u bored Mrs Kitten????

no, this is just in response to "only bored 50+ housewives" like Pierce Brosnan and Simon Le Bon

the way the younger folks see us

davetherave6767 said:

In over 25 years ive slept with many housewives!!!!Its not that they r bored,they r simply very unhappy!!!inside they have died!!!The spark has gone from there lives & im the electric man & eye gharge ya like nobody can!!!! u bored Mrs Kitten????

coughbullshitcough

tinaz said:

davetherave6767 said:

In over 25 years ive slept with many housewives!!!!Its not that they r bored,they r simply very unhappy!!!inside they have died!!!The spark has gone from there lives & im the electric man & eye gharge ya like nobody can!!!! u bored Mrs Kitten????

coughbullshitcough

eye do not lie!!!!

davetherave6767 said:

Eye like that!!!The man of truth!!!Thats some cool shit!!

If they're bored, they should get into coupon clubs and have projects/hobbies to keep them from getting bored. I like Extreme Couponing... and that could be my new hobby too. I once read int the paper that someone was able to get a whole bunch of a type of cereal for free simply because he had the coupons or something and then donated the whole thing to the foodbank. That's could be a fun project or doing genealogy research. Or learn how to plan healthy meals. Or even take a class. Or get a part time job.

davetherave6767 said:

Eye like that!!!The man of truth!!!Thats some cool shit!!

wildgoldenhoney said:

If they're bored, they should get into coupon clubs and have projects/hobbies to keep them from getting bored. I like Extreme Couponing... and that could be my new hobby too. I once read int the paper that someone was able to get a whole bunch of a type of cereal for free simply because he had the coupons or something and then donated the whole thing to the foodbank. That's could be a fun project or doing genealogy research. Or learn how to plan healthy meals. Or even take a class. Or get a part time job.

I don't know what couponing is even we don't have that in my country, as far as I know

ZombieKitten said:

wildgoldenhoney said:

If they're bored, they should get into coupon clubs and have projects/hobbies to keep them from getting bored. I like Extreme Couponing... and that could be my new hobby too. I once read int the paper that someone was able to get a whole bunch of a type of cereal for free simply because he had the coupons or something and then donated the whole thing to the foodbank. That's could be a fun project or doing genealogy research. Or learn how to plan healthy meals. Or even take a class. Or get a part time job.

I don't know what couponing is even we don't have that in my country, as far as I know

Really? You don't use consumer coupons in Australia?

http://tlc.discovery.com/...ng-videos/

wildgoldenhoney said:

ZombieKitten said:

I don't know what couponing is even we don't have that in my country, as far as I know

Really? You don't use consumer coupons in Australia?

http://tlc.discovery.com/...ng-videos/

nope

So it seems we have more than one kind of bored here

bored - as in having time with nothing significant to fill it

and

bored with the situation, the marriage, the sex, the husband etc

I don't think couponing would fix the kind of bored that would have the bored housewife drooling over Pierce Brosnan(!).

is a working wife less bored than a housewife? (more social stimulation at work? less time to dwell on the negatives and less time for fantasy?.

Idle hands do devils work? The time should be filled so disaster can be averted!

I loved this book http://books.guardian.co....80,00.html

a debunking of the fairy tale

ZombieKitten said:

wildgoldenhoney said:

Really? You don't use consumer coupons in Australia?

http://tlc.discovery.com/...ng-videos/

nope

I know, that video clip was extreme.

But I do it moderately and if I have extra stuff, I like to give it to my friends. I don't like things to sit around and get old. But I am in no way like the man in the video. lol

wildgoldenhoney said:

ZombieKitten said:

nope

I know, that video clip was extreme.

But I do it moderately and if I have extra stuff, I like to give it to my friends. I don't like things to sit around and get old. But I am in no way like the man in the video. lol

I hope not!!

Oh, and google bored housewife with safesearch off

ZombieKitten said:

wildgoldenhoney said:

I know, that video clip was extreme.

But I do it moderately and if I have extra stuff, I like to give it to my friends. I don't like things to sit around and get old. But I am in no way like the man in the video. lol

I hope not!!

I could be. But I have my OCD under control!

wildgoldenhoney said:

davetherave6767 said:

In over 25 years ive slept with many housewives!!!!Its not that they r bored,they r simply very unhappy!!!inside they have died!!!The spark has gone from there lives & im the electric man & eye gharge ya like nobody can!!!! u bored Mrs Kitten????

I'm a housewife and the spark hasn't gone from my life! I'm never bored. Not all housewives lay around eating bon bons, some of us actually do stuff. Aside from cleaning and all that stuff, I'm always doing something- painting, writing, etc. And, I'm looking for no one outside of my husband to sleep with !

ZombieKitten said:

bored - as in having time with nothing significant to fill it

and

bored with the situation, the marriage, the sex, the husband etc

Then ... No and No

I am neither of these types of "Bored"

PenelopePaige said:

I don't believe that staying home and raising kids is for everyone. Sure, some women will thrive on it for a time or until the kids are older but I think most do get bored, feel disconnected from others and miss out on stimulating face to face conversations and relationships.

[Edited 6/28/11 10:09am]

davetherave6767 said:

In over 25 years ive slept with many housewives!!!!Its not that they r bored,they r simply very unhappy!!!inside they have died!!!The spark has gone from there lives & im the electric man & eye gharge ya like nobody can!!!! u bored Mrs Kitten????

You're a f*cking riot.

"The spark has gone & I'm the electric man.." That has to be the quote of the month!

On a serious note, you're right. Too many marriages become stale. When the wife starts roaming the husband usually is as well (or the other way around). Or the husband can get caught off guard and Dave could wind up getting clocked over the head with a baseball bat one day!

But it's not a "housewives" thing...it's a "stale relationship" thing. If there's still love there, then both parties should work to get that "charge" back together. When the other man or woman enters the picture, and becomes the priority, then it's a sign that the love is just not there anymore.

Empress said:

I don't believe that staying home and raising kids is for everyone. Sure, some women will thrive on it for a time or until the kids are older but I think most do get bored, feel disconnected from others and miss out on stimulating face to face conversations and relationships.

That's all fine & dandy...until it becomes a face to c*ck conversation...

I'm gonna get all serious here...

Before kids I worked 6 days a week. My plan was to stop working completely when my eldest was born, but within a few months I was SO bored and decided to work just one day a week to help keep me sane. As my children got a little older I got heavily involved with the pre-school committee to keep my brain ticking over... I just had to do stuff that didn't involve MY kids and being at home doing housey things.

I'm lucky that I have a great network of friends and a lovely family and managed to escape for weekends away and holidays and stuff... but the day to day life of being a mother bored the hell out of me.

My youngest son started full-time school in January and for a few months I still only worked 2 days a week. I hated it. I kept busy and tried to make the most of being able to do what I wanted, but I needed to work more.

I recently got an increase of hours at work and now do 3 1/2 days a week. My house is tidier, my life is far more organised, I procrastinate less, I make the most of the time I spend with my family and most importantly my kids seem happy.

I'm sure not ALL housewives are bored... but a lot of housewives that I know are bored.

PenelopePaige said:

davetherave6767 said:

In over 25 years ive slept with many housewives!!!!Its not that they r bored,they r simply very unhappy!!!inside they have died!!!The spark has gone from there lives & im the electric man & eye gharge ya like nobody can!!!! u bored Mrs Kitten????

I'm a housewife and the spark hasn't gone from my life! I'm never bored. Not all housewives lay around eating bon bons, some of us actually do stuff. Aside from cleaning and all that stuff, I'm always doing something- painting, writing, etc. And, I'm looking for no one outside of my husband to sleep with !

Maybe not yet but u will PenelopePaige.............U will:nod:

PurpleJedi said:

davetherave6767 said:

In over 25 years ive slept with many housewives!!!!Its not that they r bored,they r simply very unhappy!!!inside they have died!!!The spark has gone from there lives & im the electric man & eye gharge ya like nobody can!!!! u bored Mrs Kitten????

You're a f*cking riot.

"The spark has gone & I'm the electric man.." That has to be the quote of the month!

On a serious note, you're right. Too many marriages become stale. When the wife starts roaming the husband usually is as well (or the other way around). Or the husband can get caught off guard and Dave could wind up getting clocked over the head with a baseball bat one day!

But it's not a "housewives" thing...it's a "stale relationship" thing. If there's still love there, then both parties should work to get that "charge" back together. When the other man or woman enters the picture, and becomes the priority, then it's a sign that the love is just not there anymore.

A baseball bat!!!!!!......charming.....