well the first one froze right b4 the $ shot and i can't get the second one to load and buffer...?

does this thing at least have the option to vibrate? thats my question now

thank uu for posting

[Edited 2/6/11 22:18pm]

RenHoek said:

I just love how we Orgers love to support one another in our perversions...

JohnArt & JustErin, this 's for you...

http://www.tube555.com/tu...mouth.html

haha that looks like a tennis ball can!!! or pringles!!

you can adjust the suction and how tight it is. omfg! thats funny!!!

granted I have never used a fleshlight, but a vibrator seems a lot more practical. I can't move my tongue 300 mph.

What can a fleshlight do that a woman (or your hand) cannot do?

[Edited 2/6/11 22:54pm]

IstenSzek said:

and as for bob not telling his girlfriend about it straight away, i think everyone has the

right to their own privacy.

especially if you don't live together.

if you live together and you stick it to your fleshlights 3 times a day while your girl is

at work and then bail on her needs when she comes home and wants some romance,

sure it could be an issue and it would be like being secretive and well, unpleasant.

but if it doesn't take away from her shagging time, what's the problem?

if i'd have a dude, whom i was dating and not living with, go through my stuff and get

all up in a twist because i had a sextoy that he didn't know about, and then making a

freakin sextoy into an issue of trust, i'd seriously think about getting rid of him.

it's a sextoy people, we're not living in stalinist russia

Yeah I am totally cool with my bf jerking off when I am not around (and I am curious and ask him how often he does it and I expect him to answer, privacy or not ), but I would be pretty pissed if he'd choose to "waste" some sex that we could have shared. There are natural limits how often a man can have sex and we are not together all the time, so when I am around I want to be the only one he comes for like Prince would sing .

I sure would want to know if he used a sex toy. He asked me if I do and is interested in using it together, so I expect him to be honest too. And like Charlotte said, it might be fun to try it together too .

blackbob said:

my girlfriend has had a vibrator ( rampant rabbit i think its called ) since i met her and sometimes when we are having sex and we have had a few drinks...she asks me to use it on her....which i dont mind....bad day when you get jealous of a piece of plastic .... but i decided to get myself a male sex toy ( called a fleshlight ) to try it out and i saw a good deal on the internet so i thought...well if its good enough for her then its good enough for me....so i ordered it and it got here last week and all i can say is......wow !....f**k me its good....it feels real....but i havent told her that i have got one because i think she might not like me having one and i dont want to hurt her...she does get very jealous sometimes....i dont know if i should tell her or not.....and ..of course...i am a bit embarressed about having it anyway....

.

but its damn good...

You're ok with her having one, so why should she not like you having one?

I never understand when couples are like this. Everyone masturbates regardless of how much sex they're getting (or they should), and how they choose to do it should be up to them.

IstenSzek said:

and as for bob not telling his girlfriend about it straight away, i think everyone has the

right to their own privacy.

especially if you don't live together.

if you live together and you stick it to your fleshlights 3 times a day while your girl is

at work and then bail on her needs when she comes home and wants some romance,

sure it could be an issue and it would be like being secretive and well, unpleasant.

but if it doesn't take away from her shagging time, what's the problem?

if i'd have a dude, whom i was dating and not living with, go through my stuff and get

all up in a twist because i had a sextoy that he didn't know about, and then making a

freakin sextoy into an issue of trust, i'd seriously think about getting rid of him.

it's a sextoy people, we're not living in stalinist russia

.

yes ...good points...i dont think telling or not telling her is a big issue at the end of the day...as long as i wasnt over using and not giving her what she needs..i just feel personally that i would like to tell her so i will...

.

i think that male sex toys are looked down upon is maybe a macho thing.... a real man should be having sex with everything in sight....while a good woman shouldnt...so here is a sex toy ladies to keep you happy but you men.....get a women when you feel like you need one...sex toys are for women....

.

but i have never had sex with anyone else since i met pam and i have no intentions of doing so i think a sex toy should be acceptable for a man in a loving relationship...

.

i am not a bad looking guy...sure i could still pull if i chased it but i love pam so it aint happening.....

.

so all i need to do now is how do i tell her...?

.

over a nice valentines meal ?...candles...soft music... ' hey baby...i ordered this over the internet...thought we could have some fun with it....?....but honey....we already have a flashlight......WHAT THE FUCK !!!...' .. ...

..

[Edited 2/7/11 2:49am]

blackbob said:

so all i need to do now is how do i tell her...?

"Honey, remember your headaches?"

PANDURITO said:

blackbob said:

so all i need to do now is how do i tell her...?

"Honey, remember your headaches?"

.

.

ZombieKitten said:

IstenSzek said:

it's interesting, now that some of you mentioned it, how, indeed, it is always some

big laughing matter when a guy has a sextoy and yet a woman can have one and

no one bats an eye. heck, women even have sextoy/tupperwear parties, lol.

so why would that be? since in almost all other aspects of sexuality women are the

ones who always get shit upon if they show any kind of interest or enjoyment for

things.

men always get more respect or some such bull if they do sexual stuff.

yet, with sextoys it's the other way around. i find that quite interesting and wonder

what the cause of that might be.

sextoys for women have been around since they were used by doctors to cure their hysteria!

I'm pretty sure this whole idea is too do with the idea that a man would be desperate to have to use one, not something they would tell their mates, since it implies they can't get any real action - sadly that in itself is enough to be ridiculed. It's like blow-up dolls, a JOKE.

Women aren't SUPPOSED to be out getting action, perhaps then it's OK to rely on our battery operated friends? Like good little girls at home, staying out of trouble!

damn, you're good

IstenSzek said:

it's interesting, now that some of you mentioned it, how, indeed, it is always some

big laughing matter when a guy has a sextoy and yet a woman can have one and

no one bats an eye. heck, women even have sextoy/tupperwear parties, lol.

so why would that be? since in almost all other aspects of sexuality women are the

ones who always get shit upon if they show any kind of interest or enjoyment for

things.

men always get more respect or some such bull if they do sexual stuff.

yet, with sextoys it's the other way around. i find that quite interesting and wonder

what the cause of that might be.

sex toys for men just seem really unnecessary

NDRU said:

IstenSzek said:

it's interesting, now that some of you mentioned it, how, indeed, it is always some

big laughing matter when a guy has a sextoy and yet a woman can have one and

no one bats an eye. heck, women even have sextoy/tupperwear parties, lol.

so why would that be? since in almost all other aspects of sexuality women are the

ones who always get shit upon if they show any kind of interest or enjoyment for

things.

men always get more respect or some such bull if they do sexual stuff.

yet, with sextoys it's the other way around. i find that quite interesting and wonder

what the cause of that might be.

sex toys for men just seem really unnecessary

It's true. You've got two hands and a mouth. What more do you need?

Efan said:

NDRU said:

sex toys for men just seem really unnecessary

It's true. You've got two hands and a mouth. What more do you need?

Exactly!

You can masturbate and eat pizza at the same time

PANDURITO said:

johnart said:

We're dying to get one btw.

One?

As in "pass me the vagina, darling" ?

Efan said:

NDRU said:

sex toys for men just seem really unnecessary

It's true. You've got two hands and a mouth. What more do you need?

You masturbate with your mouth? As in auto-fellatio? If so Imma stand up and clap for you.

Efan said:

NDRU said:

sex toys for men just seem really unnecessary

It's true. You've got two hands and a mouth. What more do you need?

Nobody needs. Lawd if you're gonna look at pleasure as in terms of only the necessary

I've got those too and I still wouldn't mind one of these.

johnart said:

Efan said:

It's true. You've got two hands and a mouth. What more do you need?

You masturbate with your mouth? As in auto-fellatio? If so Imma stand up and clap for you.

OMG I didn't even notice that .

johnart said:

Efan said:

It's true. You've got two hands and a mouth. What more do you need?

Nobody needs. Lawd if you're gonna look at pleasure as in terms of only the necessary

I've got those too and I still wouldn't mind one of these.

My point about "necessary" refers more to women. For them, sex toys are much more practical and do things at speeds that humans aren't really capable of.

If you want a fleshlight for fun, that's fine with me, but I don't really see what it would offer that a human could not.

I haven't read this thread but has anyone covered how you actually clean the thing?

NDRU said:

johnart said:

Nobody needs. Lawd if you're gonna look at pleasure as in terms of only the necessary

I've got those too and I still wouldn't mind one of these.

My point about "necessary" refers more to women. For them, sex toys are much more practical and do things at speeds that humans aren't really capable of.

If you want a fleshlight for fun, that's fine with me, but I don't really see what it would offer that a human could not.

IMO masturbating can never compare to sex with a human. Being with somebody is just so much better. Even the orgasms are better.

johnart said:

Efan said:

It's true. You've got two hands and a mouth. What more do you need?

You masturbate with your mouth? As in auto-fellatio? If so Imma stand up and clap for you.

What, doesn't everybody?

blackbob said:

my girlfriend has had a vibrator ( rampant rabbit i think its called ) since i met her and sometimes when we are having sex and we have had a few drinks...she asks me to use it on her....which i dont mind....bad day when you get jealous of a piece of plastic .... but i decided to get myself a male sex toy ( called a fleshlight ) to try it out and i saw a good deal on the internet so i thought...well if its good enough for her then its good enough for me....so i ordered it and it got here last week and all i can say is......wow !....f**k me its good....it feels real....but i havent told her that i have got one because i think she might not like me having one and i dont want to hurt her...she does get very jealous sometimes....i dont know if i should tell her or not.....and ..of course...i am a bit embarressed about having it anyway....

.

but its damn good...

i love mine, i don't see anything wrong with taking care of business yourself, when your business partner is unavailable

NDRU said:

johnart said:

Nobody needs. Lawd if you're gonna look at pleasure as in terms of only the necessary

I've got those too and I still wouldn't mind one of these.

My point about "necessary" refers more to women. For them, sex toys are much more practical and do things at speeds that humans aren't really capable of.

If you want a fleshlight for fun, that's fine with me, but I don't really see what it would offer that a human could not.

But the point of masturbation should not be (or have anything to do with) about trying to achieve anything that you can with other person(s).

That said, a fleshlight can certainly offer something that a person can't. Exploring different sensations by and with yourself, for one. And the sleeves come in different textures for different sensations as well as some have vibrating options. Unless one's partner's anus or vagina or mouth can suddenly shapeshift and vibrate, those are things a human can't provide.

Efan said:

johnart said:

You masturbate with your mouth? As in auto-fellatio? If so Imma stand up and clap for you.

What, doesn't everybody?

French Canadian circus performers do.

johnart said:

Efan said:

What, doesn't everybody?

French Canadian circus performers do.

I always aspired to a life in the circus.

Alas, I'm not that bendy. Some people are blessed, though.

johnart said:

NDRU said:

My point about "necessary" refers more to women. For them, sex toys are much more practical and do things at speeds that humans aren't really capable of.

If you want a fleshlight for fun, that's fine with me, but I don't really see what it would offer that a human could not.

But the point of masturbation should not be (or have anything to do with) about trying to achieve anything that you can with other person(s).

That said, a fleshlight can certainly offer something that a person can't. Exploring different sensations by and with yourself, for one. And the sleeves come in different textures for different sensations as well as some have vibrating options. Unless one's partner's anus or vagina or mouth can suddenly shapeshift and vibrate, those are things a human can't provide.

I get what you're saying, it just does not really call out to me. It's like a fifth wheel on a car. But a vibrator is a great invention, IMO.

NDRU said:

johnart said:

But the point of masturbation should not be (or have anything to do with) about trying to achieve anything that you can with other person(s).

That said, a fleshlight can certainly offer something that a person can't. Exploring different sensations by and with yourself, for one. And the sleeves come in different textures for different sensations as well as some have vibrating options. Unless one's partner's anus or vagina or mouth can suddenly shapeshift and vibrate, those are things a human can't provide.

I get what you're saying, it just does not really call out to me. It's like a fifth wheel on a car. But a vibrator is a great invention, IMO.

And I get that as well.

It's all about how invested you wanna be in self-pleasure.

There's days when I'm just like I GOT SHIT TO DO LET'S GET THIS DONE SO I CAN CONCENTRATE and there's days when I'm like, I might wanna have me special hour to myself

This is like the sister thread to the T.M.I one.

Efan said:

johnart said:

French Canadian circus performers do.

I always aspired to a life in the circus.

Alas, I'm not that bendy. Some people are blessed, though.

When I was 14 and first discovered I was able to felate about a third of myself. I've lost some flexibility since then

Efan said:

johnart said:

French Canadian circus performers do.

I always aspired to a life in the circus.

Alas, I'm not that bendy. Some people are blessed, though.

johnart said:

NDRU said:

I get what you're saying, it just does not really call out to me. It's like a fifth wheel on a car. But a vibrator is a great invention, IMO.

And I get that as well.

It's all about how invested you wanna be in self-pleasure.

There's days when I'm just like I GOT SHIT TO DO LET'S GET THIS DONE SO I CAN CONCENTRATE and there's days when I'm like, I might wanna have me special hour to myself

This is like the sister thread to the T.M.I one.

I can see the candles & hear the Norah Jones already. Your fleshlight is a lucky tube!