blackbob said:

KoolEaze said:

How do you clean it?

just run it under the tap...it goes right through it...it unscrews both ends... ....f**kin hell...

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now why do i feel like i shouldnt have this?....why is it more acceptable for a women to have a sex toy than a man ?...its ok for a woman to f**k a piece of plastic but i feel like a sad pervert ???....hmmm.....

You SHOULD own one ~ anyone that wants one should

blackbob said:

KoolEaze said:

How do you clean it?

just run it under the tap...it goes right through it...it unscrews both ends... ....f**kin hell...

.

now why do i feel like i shouldnt have this?....why is it more acceptable for a women to have a sex toy than a man ?...its ok for a woman to f**k a piece of plastic but i feel like a sad pervert ???....hmmm.....

So, why DO you feel like you shouldn't have it?

physco185 said:

PANDURITO said:

Hey! Where's the light?

at the end of the tunnel i guess

They call it fleshlight

At least I hope, if it burns out, you can change the vulv

blackbob said:

my girlfriend has had a vibrator ( rampant rabbit i think its called ) since i met her and sometimes when we are having sex and we have had a few drinks...she asks me to use it on her....which i dont mind....bad day when you get jealous of a piece of plastic .... but i decided to get myself a male sex toy ( called a fleshlight ) to try it out and i saw a good deal on the internet so i thought...well if its good enough for her then its good enough for me....so i ordered it and it got here last week and all i can say is......wow !....f**k me its good....it feels real....but i havent told her that i have got one because i think she might not like me having one and i dont want to hurt her...she does get very jealous sometimes....i dont know if i should tell her or not.....and ..of course...i am a bit embarressed about having it anyway....

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but its damn good...

It would be ridiculous for her to be jealous. Especially since she uses a toy as well.

That would make her selfish IMO.

There's nothing embarassing about it and it's in no way different (other than physically of course) than a female enjoying a vibrator or dildo.

We're dying to get one btw. Glad to hear the good review.

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johnart said:

blackbob said:

my girlfriend has had a vibrator ( rampant rabbit i think its called ) since i met her and sometimes when we are having sex and we have had a few drinks...she asks me to use it on her....which i dont mind....bad day when you get jealous of a piece of plastic .... but i decided to get myself a male sex toy ( called a fleshlight ) to try it out and i saw a good deal on the internet so i thought...well if its good enough for her then its good enough for me....so i ordered it and it got here last week and all i can say is......wow !....f**k me its good....it feels real....but i havent told her that i have got one because i think she might not like me having one and i dont want to hurt her...she does get very jealous sometimes....i dont know if i should tell her or not.....and ..of course...i am a bit embarressed about having it anyway....

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but its damn good...

It would be ridiculous for her to be jealous. Especially since she uses a toy as well.

That would make her selfish IMO.

There's nothing embarassing about it and it's in no way different (other than physically of course) than a female enjoying a vibrator or dildo.

the issue is not her being jealous, John...it's about him hiding something from her. that can cause a lack in trust.

BlackAdder7 said:

johnart said:

It would be ridiculous for her to be jealous. Especially since she uses a toy as well.

That would make her selfish IMO.

There's nothing embarassing about it and it's in no way different (other than physically of course) than a female enjoying a vibrator or dildo.

the issue is not her being jealous, John...it's about him hiding something from her. that can cause a lack in trust.

Yeah, but there's got to be some reason he's not telling her about it.

Efan said:

BlackAdder7 said:

the issue is not her being jealous, John...it's about him hiding something from her. that can cause a lack in trust.

Yeah, but there's got to be some reason he's not telling her about it.

there cannot be intimacy in a relationship if there are secrets, and poor communication. He should have told her from the beginning.

johnart said:

We're dying to get one btw.

One?

As in "pass me the vagina, darling" ?

PANDURITO said:

johnart said:

We're dying to get one btw.

One?

As in "pass me the vagina, darling" ?

I can picture the Johnart home...

"Ron, the lights are out again!....Ok John, I'll get the flashlight......WHAT THEHELL?????

BlackAdder7 said:

Efan said:

Yeah, but there's got to be some reason he's not telling her about it.

there cannot be intimacy in a relationship if there are secrets, and poor communication. He should have told her from the beginning.

^ i volunteer to spank him, if you feel discipline should be involved.

BlackAdder7 said:

Efan said:

Yeah, but there's got to be some reason he's not telling her about it.

there cannot be intimacy in a relationship if there are secrets, and poor communication. He should have told her from the beginning.

I agree! I just didn't understand why he wouldn't tell her about it in the first place. If she DID have a problem with it, she would be in the wrong.

Efan said:

BlackAdder7 said:

there cannot be intimacy in a relationship if there are secrets, and poor communication. He should have told her from the beginning.

I agree! I just didn't understand why he wouldn't tell her about it in the first place. If she DID have a problem with it, she would be in the wrong.

I'd disagree with you on her being wrong. If she was upset that he had a sex toy, it would be her feelings. How could someone be wrong about their feelings? Let me put it another way...If she was upset about the sex toy, and she told him...he could respect her feelings and get rid of it, or he could calmly explain his feelings as to why he likes it, and incorporate it into their play. If she says she's not comforetable with it..and he loves her...He'll respect her feelings, or they'll hopefully work out a compromise. He didn't give a chance to give her input on it, and that's wrong, in my opinion

BlackAdder7 said:

Efan said:

I agree! I just didn't understand why he wouldn't tell her about it in the first place. If she DID have a problem with it, she would be in the wrong.

I'd disagree with you on her being wrong. If she was upset that he had a sex toy, it would be her feelings. How could someone be wrong about their feelings? Let me put it another way...If she was upset about the sex toy, and she told him...he could respect her feelings and get rid of it, or he could calmly explain his feelings as to why he likes it, and incorporate it into their play. If she says she's not comforetable with it..and he loves her...He'll respect her feelings, or they'll hopefully work out a compromise. He didn't give a chance to give her input on it, and that's wrong, in my opinion

Given that I've never been able to make a relationship work for longer than about a weekend, maybe I should defer on this one. But even so, I think it's his body and his choice to do with it as he will. He's not cheating or exposing her to possible STDs or doing anything wrong. He can respect her and not use it in her presence if she doesn't want it, but I don't think she has a right to tell him he can't use it ever.

Efan said:

BlackAdder7 said:

I'd disagree with you on her being wrong. If she was upset that he had a sex toy, it would be her feelings. How could someone be wrong about their feelings? Let me put it another way...If she was upset about the sex toy, and she told him...he could respect her feelings and get rid of it, or he could calmly explain his feelings as to why he likes it, and incorporate it into their play. If she says she's not comforetable with it..and he loves her...He'll respect her feelings, or they'll hopefully work out a compromise. He didn't give a chance to give her input on it, and that's wrong, in my opinion

Given that I've never been able to make a relationship work for longer than about a weekend, maybe I should defer on this one. But even so, I think it's his body and his choice to do with it as he will. He's not cheating or exposing her to possible STDs or doing anything wrong. He can respect her and not use it in her presence if she doesn't want it, but I don't think she has a right to tell him he can't use it ever.

agreed. i'm no expert, but if i might interject, i think if he intends to ask her to wear it while he rides her like a pony, he might want to discuss that with her in advance. just my

BlackAdder7 said:

Efan said:

I agree! I just didn't understand why he wouldn't tell her about it in the first place. If she DID have a problem with it, she would be in the wrong.

I'd disagree with you on her being wrong. If she was upset that he had a sex toy, it would be her feelings. How could someone be wrong about their feelings? Let me put it another way...If she was upset about the sex toy, and she told him...he could respect her feelings and get rid of it, or he could calmly explain his feelings as to why he likes it, and incorporate it into their play. If she says she's not comforetable with it..and he loves her...He'll respect her feelings, or they'll hopefully work out a compromise. He didn't give a chance to give her input on it, and that's wrong, in my opinion

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ok...i will tell her tomorow...just feel a bit embarrassed ..thats all...i can see her getting it out when her friends come over when i am not in.....then i will die with my legs in the air..

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i can just see it now... pam and her friends round for dinner... ....yes ..roberts got a sex toy... ....and he f**ks it when i am not there... ....here he comes now.... .... ' HI ROBERT !!!....HEAR YOU HAVE A NEW SEX TOY ?.. '.... ..........yes i am a feckin ....

[Edited 2/6/11 16:39pm]

blackbob said:

BlackAdder7 said:

I'd disagree with you on her being wrong. If she was upset that he had a sex toy, it would be her feelings. How could someone be wrong about their feelings? Let me put it another way...If she was upset about the sex toy, and she told him...he could respect her feelings and get rid of it, or he could calmly explain his feelings as to why he likes it, and incorporate it into their play. If she says she's not comforetable with it..and he loves her...He'll respect her feelings, or they'll hopefully work out a compromise. He didn't give a chance to give her input on it, and that's wrong, in my opinion

.

ok...i will tell her tomorow...just feel a bit embarrassed ..thats all...i can see her getting it out when her friends come over when i am not in.....then i will die with my legs in the air..

.

i can just see it now... pam and her friends round for dinner... ....yes ..roberts got a sex toy... ....and he f**ks it when i am not there... ....here he comes now.... .... ' HI ROBERT !!!....HEAR YOU HAVE A NEW SEX TOY ?.. '.... ..........yes i am a feckin ....

[Edited 2/6/11 16:39pm]

blackbob said:

BlackAdder7 said:

I'd disagree with you on her being wrong. If she was upset that he had a sex toy, it would be her feelings. How could someone be wrong about their feelings? Let me put it another way...If she was upset about the sex toy, and she told him...he could respect her feelings and get rid of it, or he could calmly explain his feelings as to why he likes it, and incorporate it into their play. If she says she's not comforetable with it..and he loves her...He'll respect her feelings, or they'll hopefully work out a compromise. He didn't give a chance to give her input on it, and that's wrong, in my opinion

.

ok...i will tell her tomorow...just feel a bit embarrassed ..thats all...i can see her getting it out when her friends come over when i am not in.....then i will die with my legs in the air..

.

i can just see it now... pam and her friends round for dinner... ....yes ..roberts got a sex toy... ....and he f**ks it when i am not there... ....here he comes now.... .... ' HI ROBERT !!!....HEAR YOU HAVE A NEW SEX TOY ?.. '.... ..........yes i am a feckin ....

That would never happen at a gay dinner party. There would just be a bunch of blank stares and people going, "And...?!?!"

Efan said:

blackbob said:

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ok...i will tell her tomorow...just feel a bit embarrassed ..thats all...i can see her getting it out when her friends come over when i am not in.....then i will die with my legs in the air..

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i can just see it now... pam and her friends round for dinner... ....yes ..roberts got a sex toy... ....and he f**ks it when i am not there... ....here he comes now.... .... ' HI ROBERT !!!....HEAR YOU HAVE A NEW SEX TOY ?.. '.... ..........yes i am a feckin ....

That would never happen at a gay dinner party. There would just be a bunch of blank stares and people going, "And...?!?!"

i doubt she would do that to you. but, it wouldn't be any shame on you. i don't think most women would mock a man for that

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Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

I wonder if the butt one is also vagina inside?

That's so stupid, why do they even come in different outside shapes then?

visual stimulation? :confused:

XxAxX said:

Efan said:

That would never happen at a gay dinner party. There would just be a bunch of blank stares and people going, "And...?!?!"

i doubt she would do that to you. but, it wouldn't be any shame on you. i don't think most women would mock a man for that

[Edited 2/6/11 16:46pm]

two words. little prince.

RenHoek said:

Serious said:

That's so stupid, why do they even come in different outside shapes then?

visual stimulation? :confused:

But isn't it pretty irritating if you see a mouth, but it feels as if you are fucking a pussy?

Serious said:

RenHoek said:

visual stimulation? :confused:

But isn't it pretty irritating if you see a mouth, but it feels as if you are fucking a pussy?

when you talk dirty like that.....

BlackAdder7 said:

XxAxX said:

i doubt she would do that to you. but, it wouldn't be any shame on you. i don't think most women would mock a man for that

[Edited 2/6/11 16:46pm]

two words. little prince.

that's different

Serious said:

RenHoek said:

visual stimulation? :confused:

But isn't it pretty irritating if you see a mouth, but it feels as if you are fucking a pussy?

Men are simple creatures... if you consider that in the past all we needed was a dirty magazine and a free hand then you can only imagine what a step up a fleshlight must be...

hell, all things considered, if you can imagine some men like to get down on an inflatable doll we REALLY must be simple creatures...

blackbob said:

RenHoek said:

Men are simple creatures...

And God bless 'em for it...

BlackAdder7 said:

johnart said:

It would be ridiculous for her to be jealous. Especially since she uses a toy as well.

That would make her selfish IMO.

There's nothing embarassing about it and it's in no way different (other than physically of course) than a female enjoying a vibrator or dildo.

the issue is not her being jealous, John...it's about him hiding something from her. that can cause a lack in trust.

And why the hell would he need to tell her? The man can't have any privacy?

JustErin said:

BlackAdder7 said:

the issue is not her being jealous, John...it's about him hiding something from her. that can cause a lack in trust.

And why the hell would he need to tell her? The man can't have any privacy?

there's privacy, and there's hiding sex toys. he knows about her vibrator. she doesn't know about his flashlight.

BlackAdder7 said:

JustErin said:

And why the hell would he need to tell her? The man can't have any privacy?

there's privacy, and there's hiding sex toys. he knows about her vibrator. she doesn't know about his flashlight.

But does he need to tell her if he masturbates?

BlackAdder7 said:

JustErin said:

And why the hell would he need to tell her? The man can't have any privacy?

there's privacy, and there's hiding sex toys. he knows about her vibrator. she doesn't know about his flashlight.

So what if it's a sex toy? Why would that mean he should tell her? He knows about hers because she made the choice to tell him. If he decides not to tell her, that's his choice. He has every right to keep it private without getting shit on for it.