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Thread started 12/21/10 9:37am

Gunsnhalen

If Someone Ignores You For No Reason

So, there was a guy who i was very interested in. We went on a few dates and i was a gentleman, nothing but nice and he he even told me he appreciated that i was a nice guy.

We even had a special moment where he trusted me enough to tell me some VERY personal stuff. That i was shocked he told me...

BUT, he was capable of being an ass at time's but hey who isn't lol

And sometimes we both got really busy, cause we are both 20 and in College so we are busy, so we can't talk everyday, Or return text's all the time that's cool.

But Thanksgiving week is when it started. He told me if i ever needed a ride from LAX when i came in to call him. And he would give me a ride, and i asked him the week of thanksgiving no reply, asked him the day of. NADA, Sent him an email saying what's up few day's later... nada... texted him 5 day's later about my birthday party nada. And i know he's out of school right now and doing nothing. Cause he post's it on his statuses=0 i was incredibly nice to him to idk what his deal is...

Last night i sent him the last message, and asked why is he so afraid to talk to me? I mean i have done NOTHING to him. And if there's some sort of issue why can't he just tell me? and not do this ignoring crap?

Any who should i just let this die? it's pretty hard cause i like the guy a lot sad And got quite attached to him.

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Reply #1 posted 12/21/10 9:41am

zaza

Try to ignore him too. Now he can see you need him - if you will ignore him, he will notice you can do without him and that's what nobody can't stand wink Just don't post him any other message. It's his turn.
[Edited 12/21/10 9:42am]
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Reply #2 posted 12/21/10 9:45am

Genesia

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He doesn't want you. Move on. shrug

I mean if he did have sex he would break every rule Jehova's have regarding premarital sex so Prince is really just friends with them all anyway.
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Reply #3 posted 12/21/10 10:07am

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Genesia said:

He doesn't want you. Move on. shrug

Ditto

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Reply #4 posted 12/21/10 10:10am

CarrieMpls

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It sucks when someone doesn’t return the affection you have for them. But he’s making it loud and clear that he isn’t interested in pursuing anything with you. Sorry. sad

You deserve someone who is crazy about you, likes you lots and can’t wait to spend time with you. Clearly, this isn’t the guy.

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Reply #5 posted 12/21/10 10:27am

TotalANXiousNE
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Sorry about that. It blows.

Move on though.

hug

I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies
Whats it all worth only the heart can measure
It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside
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Reply #6 posted 12/21/10 10:29am

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Reply #7 posted 12/21/10 10:44am

PunkMistress

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Gunsnhalen said:

If Someone Ignores You For No Reason

There IS a reason.

He's not interested.

Please listen to what everyone on this thread is saying and forget about him.

It's what you make it.
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Reply #8 posted 12/21/10 10:46am

Shyra

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[Edited 12/23/10 6:23am]

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Reply #9 posted 12/21/10 11:00am

Gunsnhalen

zaza said:

Try to ignore him too. Now he can see you need him - if you will ignore him, he will notice you can do without him and that's what nobody can't stand wink Just don't post him any other message. It's his turn.
[Edited 12/21/10 9:42am]

I actually tried that but eh, didn't quite work maybe I should have done it longer lol
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Reply #10 posted 12/21/10 11:02am

Genesia

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Gunsnhalen said:

zaza said:
Try to ignore him too. Now he can see you need him - if you will ignore him, he will notice you can do without him and that's what nobody can't stand wink Just don't post him any other message. It's his turn. [Edited 12/21/10 9:42am]
I actually tried that but eh, didn't quite work maybe I should have done it longer lol

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I mean if he did have sex he would break every rule Jehova's have regarding premarital sex so Prince is really just friends with them all anyway.
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Reply #11 posted 12/21/10 11:03am

Gunsnhalen

Ow well, life goes on. No need to get upset over a dumb bitch. Its just hard cause I'm a bit of a romantic. And most guys I mmet here in hollywood just want to fuck, I'm just not that kind of guy. So I did get quit attached now even with the obvious signs. Its hard to let go, but its probably for the best
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Reply #12 posted 12/21/10 11:08am

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Gunsnhalen said:

Ow well, life goes on. No need to get upset over a dumb bitch. Its just hard cause I'm a bit of a romantic. And most guys I mmet here in hollywood just want to fuck, I'm just not that kind of guy. So I did get quit attached now even with the obvious signs. Its hard to let go, but its probably for the best

It IS hard to let go, but know that your not the first and your def not the last to go through this. You sound like a really nice guy. Do whatever you can to move on, focus on what makes you happy and before you know it, someone who appreciates you for you, and makes you feel good aobut yourself will come along. hug

I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies
Whats it all worth only the heart can measure
It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside
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Reply #13 posted 12/21/10 11:44am

Gunsnhalen

TotalANXiousNESS said:[quote]



Gunsnhalen said:


Ow well, life goes on. No need to get upset over a dumb bitch. Its just hard cause I'm a bit of a romantic. And most guys I mmet here in hollywood just want to fuck, I'm just not that kind of guy. So I did get quit attached now even with the obvious signs. Its hard to let go, but its probably for the best

It IS hard to let go, but know that your not the first and your def not the last to go through this. You sound like a really nice guy. Do whatever you can to move on, focus on what makes you happy and before you know it, someone who appreciates you for you, and makes youfeel good aobut yourself will come along. hug

[/quote. Thank you very much for the kind words:-) very true
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Reply #14 posted 12/21/10 12:36pm

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aww man unrequited love is a bitch

a good way to get back at him is..

just leave him a message (tell him you bought 2 floor tickets to a Basketball game or kickass tickets 2 whatever he liked

and if he calls you back wanting to go

say this (Welp! you didn't answer your phone so i just figured you weren't interested sooooo im going with a friends of mine and its to late to cancel ...

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Reply #15 posted 12/21/10 1:10pm

PDogz

Hate when this happens. But if this is the first time you've experienced something like this, take notes, because everyone here is offering excellent advice (and you can count on this happening again at some point in the future).

I understand EXACTLY what you're describing here. When people act like this, we want, no... we NEED them to explain to us what the Hell happened. But many people just aren't comfortable with picking up a phone to call and explain to you why they are no longer interested in you, particularly if you're gushing all over them. What they seem to prefer is for you to GET THE MESSAGE from their silence. They probably feel on some level that they are sparing your feelings by not articulating all the things about you that make them nauseous, lol (...not YOU specifically of course, but the person that silence is directed toward - which in this case; just happens to be you). But clearly, if he were the slightest bit interested in you, he would have been in touch long before now. If he were interested, he would have been at that airport with bells on!

If it's any consolation, I can guarantee you he's had the same thing happen to him before in regards to someone ignoring him that he was crazy about. It's not a fun process to go through, I've actually spent some time in therapy over this exact type of issue.

You're not alone (just feels that way at the moment).

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Reply #16 posted 12/21/10 1:12pm

PDogz

Genesia said:

He doesn't want you. Move on. shrug

Concisely.

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Reply #17 posted 12/21/10 1:13pm

PDogz

PunkMistress said:

Gunsnhalen said:

If Someone Ignores You For No Reason

There IS a reason.

He's not interested.

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Reply #18 posted 12/21/10 1:19pm

PDogz

PicklesMcMillan said:

aww man unrequited love is a bitch

nod Strongly agree.

PicklesMcMillan said:

a good way to get back at him is..

disbelief Petty, a waste of time, and lowers your integrity.

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Reply #19 posted 12/21/10 2:18pm

Timmy84

He played you for a fool.

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Reply #20 posted 12/21/10 2:40pm

Angelic1302

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cop Stalker alert! Please stop...check yo self b4 u wreck yo self!

[Edited 12/21/10 14:40pm]

Um... let me warm up my vocals
Me ME ME ME ME...U U U U U!
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Reply #21 posted 12/21/10 2:56pm

Gunsnhalen

Angelic1302 said:

cop Stalker alert! Please stop...check yo self b4 u wreck yo self!

[Edited 12/21/10 14:40pm]

Ow shut the fuck up lol

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Reply #22 posted 12/21/10 2:57pm

Gunsnhalen

PDogz said:

PicklesMcMillan said:

aww man unrequited love is a bitch

nod Strongly agree.

PicklesMcMillan said:

a good way to get back at him is..

disbelief Petty, a waste of time, and lowers your integrity.

There is no point in trying to get back. I mean i am young and i once thought thats hit would work. But it's just a waste of time and it does lower your integrity

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Reply #23 posted 12/21/10 2:58pm

Gunsnhalen

Timmy84 said:

He played you for a fool.

I need a real man like you Timmy lol jk lol

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Reply #24 posted 12/21/10 2:58pm

PDogz

Gunsnhalen said:

And if there's some sort of issue why can't he just tell me?

Because it would be uglier, and more painful, than you can imagine at this point of the process.

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Reply #25 posted 12/21/10 2:59pm

Angelic1302

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Gunsnhalen said:

Angelic1302 said:

cop Stalker alert! Please stop...check yo self b4 u wreck yo self!

[Edited 12/21/10 14:40pm]

Ow shut the fuck up lol

batting eyes biggrin eek lol

[Edited 12/21/10 14:59pm]

Um... let me warm up my vocals
Me ME ME ME ME...U U U U U!
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Reply #26 posted 12/21/10 3:00pm

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PunkMistress said:

Gunsnhalen said:

If Someone Ignores You For No Reason

There IS a reason.

He's not interested.

Please listen to what everyone on this thread is saying and forget about him.

yeahthat pay extra attention to the bolded parts. YW fine sir mr.green

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Reply #27 posted 12/21/10 3:02pm

Gunsnhalen

Angelic1302 said:

Gunsnhalen said:

Ow shut the fuck up lol

batting eyes biggrin eek lol

[Edited 12/21/10 14:59pm]

I love when you flaunt it like that. Can i take you to dinner and maybe sing you some Stevie Wonder? if that doesn't work guess i can do the stalker thing and stalk u cool

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Reply #28 posted 12/21/10 3:05pm

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eek DANG! I was eek late to the party! lol ... well anyways, don't beat yourself up over this. Do NOT personalize why someone is not attracted to you, just move on and stay positive.

You may have very well dodged a bullet. wink Stay confident, or get confident and continue on.

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Reply #29 posted 12/21/10 3:06pm

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Genesia said:

Gunsnhalen said:

zaza said: I actually tried that but eh, didn't quite work maybe I should have done it longer lol

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nod yup!

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