So, there was a guy who i was very interested in. We went on a few dates and i was a gentleman, nothing but nice and he he even told me he appreciated that i was a nice guy.

We even had a special moment where he trusted me enough to tell me some VERY personal stuff. That i was shocked he told me...

BUT, he was capable of being an ass at time's but hey who isn't

And sometimes we both got really busy, cause we are both 20 and in College so we are busy, so we can't talk everyday, Or return text's all the time that's cool.

But Thanksgiving week is when it started. He told me if i ever needed a ride from LAX when i came in to call him. And he would give me a ride, and i asked him the week of thanksgiving no reply, asked him the day of. NADA, Sent him an email saying what's up few day's later... nada... texted him 5 day's later about my birthday party nada. And i know he's out of school right now and doing nothing. Cause he post's it on his statuses=0 i was incredibly nice to him to idk what his deal is...

Last night i sent him the last message, and asked why is he so afraid to talk to me? I mean i have done NOTHING to him. And if there's some sort of issue why can't he just tell me? and not do this ignoring crap?

Any who should i just let this die? it's pretty hard cause i like the guy a lot And got quite attached to him.

He doesn't want you. Move on.

Genesia said:

He doesn't want you. Move on.

Ditto

It sucks when someone doesn’t return the affection you have for them. But he’s making it loud and clear that he isn’t interested in pursuing anything with you. Sorry.

You deserve someone who is crazy about you, likes you lots and can’t wait to spend time with you. Clearly, this isn’t the guy.

Sorry about that. It blows.

Move on though.

Gunsnhalen said:

If Someone Ignores You For No Reason

There IS a reason.

He's not interested.

Please listen to what everyone on this thread is saying and forget about him.

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[Edited 12/23/10 6:23am]

zaza said:

Try to ignore him too. Now he can see you need him - if you will ignore him, he will notice you can do without him and that's what nobody can't stand Just don't post him any other message. It's his turn.
[Edited 12/21/10 9:42am]

Gunsnhalen said:

zaza said:

Try to ignore him too. Now he can see you need him - if you will ignore him, he will notice you can do without him and that's what nobody can't stand Just don't post him any other message. It's his turn. [Edited 12/21/10 9:42am]

I actually tried that but eh, didn't quite work maybe I should have done it longer lol

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Gunsnhalen said:

Ow well, life goes on. No need to get upset over a dumb bitch. Its just hard cause I'm a bit of a romantic. And most guys I mmet here in hollywood just want to fuck, I'm just not that kind of guy. So I did get quit attached now even with the obvious signs. Its hard to let go, but its probably for the best

It IS hard to let go, but know that your not the first and your def not the last to go through this. You sound like a really nice guy. Do whatever you can to move on, focus on what makes you happy and before you know it, someone who appreciates you for you, and makes you feel good aobut yourself will come along.

Gunsnhalen said:

Ow well, life goes on. No need to get upset over a dumb bitch. Its just hard cause I'm a bit of a romantic. And most guys I mmet here in hollywood just want to fuck, I'm just not that kind of guy. So I did get quit attached now even with the obvious signs. Its hard to let go, but its probably for the best

It IS hard to let go, but know that your not the first and your def not the last to go through this. You sound like a really nice guy. Do whatever you can to move on, focus on what makes you happy and before you know it, someone who appreciates you for you, and makes youfeel good aobut yourself will come along.

aww man unrequited love is a bitch

a good way to get back at him is..

just leave him a message (tell him you bought 2 floor tickets to a Basketball game or kickass tickets 2 whatever he liked

and if he calls you back wanting to go

say this (Welp! you didn't answer your phone so i just figured you weren't interested sooooo im going with a friends of mine and its to late to cancel ...

Hate when this happens. But if this is the first time you've experienced something like this, take notes, because everyone here is offering excellent advice (and you can count on this happening again at some point in the future).

I understand EXACTLY what you're describing here. When people act like this, we want, no... we NEED them to explain to us what the Hell happened. But many people just aren't comfortable with picking up a phone to call and explain to you why they are no longer interested in you, particularly if you're gushing all over them. What they seem to prefer is for you to GET THE MESSAGE from their silence. They probably feel on some level that they are sparing your feelings by not articulating all the things about you that make them nauseous, lol (...not YOU specifically of course, but the person that silence is directed toward - which in this case; just happens to be you). But clearly, if he were the slightest bit interested in you, he would have been in touch long before now. If he were interested, he would have been at that airport with bells on!

If it's any consolation, I can guarantee you he's had the same thing happen to him before in regards to someone ignoring him that he was crazy about. It's not a fun process to go through, I've actually spent some time in therapy over this exact type of issue.

You're not alone (just feels that way at the moment).

Genesia said:

He doesn't want you. Move on.

Concisely.

PunkMistress said:

Gunsnhalen said:

If Someone Ignores You For No Reason

There IS a reason.

He's not interested.

PicklesMcMillan said:

aww man unrequited love is a bitch

Strongly agree.

PicklesMcMillan said:

a good way to get back at him is..

Petty, a waste of time, and lowers your integrity.

He played you for a fool.

Stalker alert! Please stop...check yo self b4 u wreck yo self!

[Edited 12/21/10 14:40pm]

Angelic1302 said:

Stalker alert! Please stop...check yo self b4 u wreck yo self!

[Edited 12/21/10 14:40pm]

Ow shut the fuck up

PDogz said:

PicklesMcMillan said:

aww man unrequited love is a bitch

Strongly agree.

PicklesMcMillan said:

a good way to get back at him is..

Petty, a waste of time, and lowers your integrity.

There is no point in trying to get back. I mean i am young and i once thought thats hit would work. But it's just a waste of time and it does lower your integrity

Timmy84 said:

He played you for a fool.

I need a real man like you Timmy lol jk

Gunsnhalen said:

And if there's some sort of issue why can't he just tell me?

Because it would be uglier, and more painful, than you can imagine at this point of the process.

Gunsnhalen said:

Angelic1302 said:

Stalker alert! Please stop...check yo self b4 u wreck yo self!

[Edited 12/21/10 14:40pm]

Ow shut the fuck up

[Edited 12/21/10 14:59pm]

PunkMistress said:

Gunsnhalen said:

If Someone Ignores You For No Reason

There IS a reason.

He's not interested.

Please listen to what everyone on this thread is saying and forget about him.

pay extra attention to the bolded parts. YW fine sir

Angelic1302 said:

Gunsnhalen said:

Ow shut the fuck up

[Edited 12/21/10 14:59pm]

I love when you flaunt it like that. Can i take you to dinner and maybe sing you some Stevie Wonder? if that doesn't work guess i can do the stalker thing and stalk u

DANG! I was late to the party! ... well anyways, don't beat yourself up over this. Do NOT personalize why someone is not attracted to you, just move on and stay positive.

You may have very well dodged a bullet. Stay confident, or get confident and continue on.

Genesia said:

Gunsnhalen said:

zaza said: I actually tried that but eh, didn't quite work maybe I should have done it longer lol

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