paintedlady said:

DANG! I was late to the party! ... well anyways, don't beat yourself up over this. Do NOT personalize why someone is not attracted to you, just move on and stay positive.

You may have very well dodged a bullet. Stay confident, or get confident and continue on.

Well from talking to my friend's & the comments on this board. I am positive and realize it's for the best and i probably did dodge a bullet, so in the end i should be happy i'm not in a shitty relationship.

Gunsnhalen said:

paintedlady said:

DANG! I was late to the party! ... well anyways, don't beat yourself up over this. Do NOT personalize why someone is not attracted to you, just move on and stay positive.

You may have very well dodged a bullet. Stay confident, or get confident and continue on.

Well from talking to my friend's & the comments on this board. I am positive and realize it's for the best and i probably did dodge a bullet, so in the end i should be happy i'm not in a shitty relationship.

And next time, know this...

only a REAL friend (like a BFF of 20+ years) will help you move or drive you to an airport on a holiday.

Everyone else dissapears. Always rely on YOU only in such occasions. (((TAXI!)))

I hope you still enjoyed your Thanksgiving.

paintedlady said:

Gunsnhalen said:

Well from talking to my friend's & the comments on this board. I am positive and realize it's for the best and i probably did dodge a bullet, so in the end i should be happy i'm not in a shitty relationship.

And next time, know this...

only a REAL friend (like a BFF of 20+ years) will help you move or drive you to an airport on a holiday.

Everyone else dissapears. Always rely on YOU only in such occasions. (((TAXI!)))

I hope you still enjoyed your Thanksgiving.

That right there is good advice.

paintedlady said:

Gunsnhalen said:

Well from talking to my friend's & the comments on this board. I am positive and realize it's for the best and i probably did dodge a bullet, so in the end i should be happy i'm not in a shitty relationship.

And next time, know this...

only a REAL friend (like a BFF of 20+ years) will help you move or drive you to an airport on a holiday.

Everyone else dissapears. Always rely on YOU only in such occasions. (((TAXI!)))

I hope you still enjoyed your Thanksgiving.

Lol, well my car was broke0_0 but i once took the bus 3 hour's to pick up a friend...

But it was worth it. Same friend did the same for me.

Sometime's you just need your friend's not those pesky lovers

Gunsnhalen said:

paintedlady said:

And next time, know this...

only a REAL friend (like a BFF of 20+ years) will help you move or drive you to an airport on a holiday.

Everyone else dissapears. Always rely on YOU only in such occasions. (((TAXI!)))

I hope you still enjoyed your Thanksgiving.

Lol, well my car was broke0_0 but i once took the bus 3 hour's to pick up a friend...

But it was worth it. Same friend did the same for me.

Sometime's you just need your friend's not those pesky lovers

Lovers can be such lazy mofo's.... you shouldda known!

paintedlady said:

Gunsnhalen said:

Lol, well my car was broke0_0 but i once took the bus 3 hour's to pick up a friend...

But it was worth it. Same friend did the same for me.

Sometime's you just need your friend's not those pesky lovers

Lovers can be such lazy mofo's.... you shouldda known!

Child i do now lol

mynameisnotsusan said:

paintedlady said:

And next time, know this...

only a REAL friend (like a BFF of 20+ years) will help you move or drive you to an airport on a holiday.

Everyone else dissapears. Always rely on YOU only in such occasions. (((TAXI!)))

I hope you still enjoyed your Thanksgiving.

That right there is good advice.

Everything else is

Gunsnhalen said:

Timmy84 said:

He played you for a fool.

I need a real man like you Timmy lol jk

Timmy84 said:

Gunsnhalen said:

I need a real man like you Timmy lol jk

Let's go listen to some marvin & black sabbath together haha

paintedlady said:

DANG! I was late to the party! ... well anyways, don't beat yourself up over this. Do NOT personalize why someone is not attracted to you, just move on and stay positive.

You may have very well dodged a bullet. Stay confident, or get confident and continue on.

Yes, totally!

This is even better advice.

I'm not proud to admit that I've done this to perfectly nice and attractive people who I just didn't feel a "click" with, and didn't know how to say that. I was young and self-centered (now I'm old and self-centered), and was ignorant of how hurtful that behavior was.

It really doesn't mean you did anything wrong.

Remember your worth and find someone who has learned how to express how he feels instead of acting like a dick. Would you want to get into a relationship with someone who would just clam up and ignore you every time he had something uncomfortable to say, anyway?

PunkMistress said:

paintedlady said:

DANG! I was late to the party! ... well anyways, don't beat yourself up over this. Do NOT personalize why someone is not attracted to you, just move on and stay positive.

You may have very well dodged a bullet. Stay confident, or get confident and continue on.

Yes, totally!

This is even better advice.

I'm not proud to admit that I've done this to perfectly nice and attractive people who I just didn't feel a "click" with, and didn't know how to say that. I was young and self-centered (now I'm old and self-centered), and was ignorant of how hurtful that behavior was.

It really doesn't mean you did anything wrong.

Remember your worth and find someone who has learned how to express how he feels instead of acting like a dick. Would you want to get into a relationship with someone who would just clam up and ignore you every time he had something uncomfortable to say, anyway?

=], well sadly we all do stupid crap. I have hurt friend's when i didn't mean to but we learn from it.

But like i was saying, after talking to friend's and these post's. I actually feel really good=]! and i feel cool about just saying forget and move on.

And no, would not want to be in a relationship of ignoring and untrust

PicklesMcMillan said:

aww man unrequited love is a bitch

a good way to get back at him is..

just leave him a message (tell him you bought 2 floor tickets to a Basketball game or kickass tickets 2 whatever he liked

and if he calls you back wanting to go

say this (Welp! you didn't answer your phone so i just figured you weren't interested sooooo im going with a friends of mine and its to late to cancel ...

Why would he want to get back at him? The guy's not into him, that's not the guy's fault, no reason to play games.

robertlove said:

PicklesMcMillan said:

aww man unrequited love is a bitch

a good way to get back at him is..

just leave him a message (tell him you bought 2 floor tickets to a Basketball game or kickass tickets 2 whatever he liked

and if he calls you back wanting to go

say this (Welp! you didn't answer your phone so i just figured you weren't interested sooooo im going with a friends of mine and its to late to cancel ...

Why would he want to get back at him? The guy's not into him, that's not the guy's fault, no reason to play games.

I think we have already established this the last few post's lol

but yes true

Gunsnhalen said:

Timmy84 said:

Let's go listen to some marvin & black sabbath together haha

That sounds like a date.

kewlschool said:

Genesia said:

He doesn't want you. Move on.

Ditto

Yerrrrp.

Timmy84 said:

Gunsnhalen said:

Let's go listen to some marvin & black sabbath together haha

That sounds like a date.

lol, well i think i am swearing off men for awhile

But in like 2 years if your still single

Gunsnhalen said:

Timmy84 said:

That sounds like a date.

lol, well i think i am swearing off men for awhile

But in like 2 years if your still single

But WHYYYYYY???????? Timmy was being incredibly nice to you!!!!!! He didn't do nothing wrong to you!!!!

PDogz said:

Gunsnhalen said:

lol, well i think i am swearing off men for awhile

But in like 2 years if your still single

But WHYYYYYY???????? Timmy was being incredibly nice to you!!!!!! He didn't do nothing wrong to you!!!!

Your right=]

But i think i am going to just stay single awhile:D

Plus these long distant thing's just do not workout, even though i could have sent you some killer Marvin Gaye t-shirt's

Gunsnhalen said:

PDogz said:

But WHYYYYYY???????? Timmy was being incredibly nice to you!!!!!! He didn't do nothing wrong to you!!!!

Your right=]

But i think i am going to just stay single awhile:D

Plus these long distant thing's just do not workout, even though i could have sent you some killer Marvin Gaye t-shirt's

Gunsnhalen said:

Angelic1302 said:

[Edited 12/21/10 14:59pm]

I love when you flaunt it like that. Can i take you to dinner and maybe sing you some Stevie Wonder? if that doesn't work guess i can do the stalker thing and stalk u

PDogz said:

Genesia said:

He doesn't want you. Move on.

Concisely.

You have no idea how I wish someone had said this to me a few times when I was in my 20s. I'd've wasted a lot less time - and had a lot less heartache.

.

[Edited 12/23/10 6:22am]

Genesia said:

PDogz said:

Concisely.

You have no idea how I wish someone had said this to me a few times when I was in my 20s. I'd've wasted a lot less time - and had a lot less heartache.

I had to wind up paying good money to a therapist for him to blurt that one out to me during one session, lol.

Honey - you need to take a deep breath - pull your knickers up - calm down - and get on with it!

blueblossom said:

Honey - you need to take a deep breath - pull your knickers up - calm down - and get on with it!

Honey, as in the last post's we already established this

And everything is cool

Gunsnhalen said:

blueblossom said:

Honey - you need to take a deep breath - pull your knickers up - calm down - and get on with it!

Honey, as in the last post's we already established this

And everything is cool

and give him the ol'

treatment

Gunsnhalen said:

Timmy84 said:

That sounds like a date.

lol, well i think i am swearing off men for awhile

But in like 2 years if your still single

You won't have to worry about 2 years.

blueblossom said:

Gunsnhalen said:

Honey, as in the last post's we already established this

And everything is cool

and give him the ol'

treatment

Thank your for the hugs my dear

And i shall give him the silent treatment. No reason to talk to him now

Timmy84 said:

Gunsnhalen said:

lol, well i think i am swearing off men for awhile

But in like 2 years if your still single

You won't have to worry about 2 years.

Giggity