I sat next to this cute guy on the train home this evening. Some kids were sat near us and they said something that made us both laugh - we both tried to hide it then realised the other was laughing so then laughed openly. We seemed to be the only people on the train that found it funny. We chatted briefly about it but then a friend I'd been seperated from when we got on the train interruped and asked me to sit with him as there was now room. That ended our chat. Laughing guy said bye as he got off the train but now I so wish I'd continued our conversation.

So.....question is, how do I find him again?

Ride the same train tomorrow at the same time.

Craig's list... or another ad.

describe your encounter and your manner of dress that day in full detail and leave a contact e-mail... have the person email a pic to confirm it was the person you speak of.

paintedlady said:

Craig's list... or another ad.

describe your encounter and your manner of dress that day in full detail and leave a contact e-mail... have the person email a pic to confirm it was the person you speak of.

Craig's List is turning into such a meat market. I'm trying to find a good home for my turtle with it but I have a feeling I could find a piece of ass quicker.

CuddlyBear said:

paintedlady said:

Craig's list... or another ad.

describe your encounter and your manner of dress that day in full detail and leave a contact e-mail... have the person email a pic to confirm it was the person you speak of.

Craig's List is turning into such a meat market. I'm trying to find a good home for my turtle with it but I have a feeling I could find a piece of ass quicker.

I'm in the UK and Craig's list isn't big here but suppose it's worth a shot.

Your story made me smile. I hope you find him.

I'd also suggest Craigslist and taking that train route around the same time on Friday evenings.

You should also kick your friend in the balls for interferring in your potential love connection.

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Lammastide said:

Your story made me smile. I hope you find him.

I'd also suggest Craigslist and taking that train route around the same time on Friday evenings.

You should also kick your friend in the balls for interferring in your potential love connection.

[Edited 11/12/10 13:09pm]

Yep, kick in the balls is deserved!

Annoying thing is, I'd really hoped our friendship was going to develop into something more but he made it clear he just wants to be friends - and now he does this to me! I half think he did it on purpose. Grrrr.....

Your friend was cock-blocking.

paintedlady said:

Your friend was cock-blocking.

That was my very first thought, too! Next time that happens, ignore the block.

Shyra said:

paintedlady said:

Your friend was cock-blocking.

That was my very first thought, too! Next time that happens, ignore the block.

ha ha - nice phrase! Not heard that before.

starfish100 said:

Shyra said:

That was my very first thought, too! Next time that happens, ignore the block.

ha ha - nice phrase! Not heard that before.

Oh, you must be a "youngblood."

Shyra said:

paintedlady said:

Your friend was cock-blocking.

That was my very first thought, too! Next time that happens, ignore the block.

Yeah. It sounds like a case of he doesn't want you but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either.

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CuddlyBear said:

Shyra said:

That was my very first thought, too! Next time that happens, ignore the block.

Yeah. It sounds like a case of he doesn't want you but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either.

[Edited 11/12/10 14:07pm]

All the more reason to find dude, sex him up like mad, and share every little dirty detail with ol'cock-blocker.

paintedlady said:

CuddlyBear said:

Yeah. It sounds like a case of he doesn't want you but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either.

[Edited 11/12/10 14:07pm]

All the more reason to find dude, sex him up like mad, and share every little dirty detail with ol'cock-blocker.

Damn you're evil! I LOVE IT!!!!

CuddlyBear said:

paintedlady said:

All the more reason to find dude, sex him up like mad, and share every little dirty detail with ol'cock-blocker.

Damn you're evil! I LOVE IT!!!!

So do I!!! Sounds good!

starfish100 said:

CuddlyBear said:

Damn you're evil! I LOVE IT!!!!

So do I!!! Sounds good!

I don't condone lying.... but in this case, you MUST tell cock-blocker that dude has a huge dick/or gave you awesome sex..... just because.

I did that when I was younger.... it was wonderful!

paintedlady said:

starfish100 said:

So do I!!! Sounds good!

I don't condone lying.... but in this case, you MUST tell cock-blocker that dude has a huge dick/or gave you awesome sex..... just because.

I did that when I was younger.... it was wonderful!

Good tip - I'll bear it in mind! Frustrating thing is I'd love to be with cock-blocker. Bloody annoying!!

starfish100 said:

paintedlady said:

I don't condone lying.... but in this case, you MUST tell cock-blocker that dude has a huge dick/or gave you awesome sex..... just because.

I did that when I was younger.... it was wonderful!

Good tip - I'll bear it in mind! Frustrating thing is I'd love to be with cock-blocker. Bloody annoying!!

If cock-blocker is competitive by nature.... you will be. [img:$uid]http://i216.photobucket.com/albums/cc99/gataloca_bucket/093_hubba.gif[/img:$uid]

paintedlady said:

starfish100 said:

Good tip - I'll bear it in mind! Frustrating thing is I'd love to be with cock-blocker. Bloody annoying!!

If cock-blocker is competitive by nature.... you will be. [img:$uid]http://i216.photobucket.com/albums/cc99/gataloca_bucket/093_hubba.gif[/img:$uid]

Cock-blocker is VERY competitive but we've talked about it a lot and he's told me he's not interested so I know it's a no-go.

Just have to keep my eyes peeled for laughing train guy.

CuddlyBear said:

Ride the same train tomorrow at the same time.

That's what I was going to say

CuddlyBear said:

paintedlady said:

Craig's list... or another ad.

describe your encounter and your manner of dress that day in full detail and leave a contact e-mail... have the person email a pic to confirm it was the person you speak of.

Craig's List is turning into such a meat market. I'm trying to find a good home for my turtle with it but I have a feeling I could find a piece of ass quicker.

Lucky this didn't happen at your mother's funeral

http://www.snopes.com/inb...sister.asp

(I'm glad this one isn't true, I had assumed it was and never knew it was an internet story!)

Your friend might be keeping you on the back burner, which is generally a shitty thing to do, IMO.

And here's some inspiration to keep up the good fight.

FauxReal said:

Your friend might be keeping you on the back burner, which is generally a shitty thing to do, IMO.

And here's some inspiration to keep up the good fight.

I loved that song! She was scheduled to do a concert in DC back in 1992 I believe, but it was canceled because it was the day her manager died. I was so sorry that happened and never got a chance to see her again.

starfish100 said:

I sat next to this cute guy on the train home this evening. Some kids were sat near us and they said something that made us both laugh - we both tried to hide it then realised the other was laughing so then laughed openly. We seemed to be the only people on the train that found it funny. We chatted briefly about it but then a friend I'd been seperated from when we got on the train interruped and asked me to sit with him as there was now room. That ended our chat. Laughing guy said bye as he got off the train but now I so wish I'd continued our conversation.

So.....question is, how do I find him again?

start a twitter/facebook project campaign ?

like in that commercial where thousands of individuals band together as one in performance art rampages throughout the city?

starfish100 said:

paintedlady said:

If cock-blocker is competitive by nature.... you will be. [img:$uid]http://i216.photobucket.com/albums/cc99/gataloca_bucket/093_hubba.gif[/img:$uid]

Cock-blocker is VERY competitive but we've talked about it a lot and he's told me he's not interested so I know it's a no-go.

Just have to keep my eyes peeled for laughing train guy.

BULLSHIT! If he wasn't interested or competing, why did he bust up what he could see was a nice connection you had going? I think he's stringing you along just in case. Simple enough to rectify if you have the "balls." If it happens again and he's clearly "cock blocking," tell him to take a hike.

Shyra said:

starfish100 said:

Cock-blocker is VERY competitive but we've talked about it a lot and he's told me he's not interested so I know it's a no-go.

Just have to keep my eyes peeled for laughing train guy.

BULLSHIT! If he wasn't interested or competing, why did he bust up what he could see was a nice connection you had going? I think he's stringing you along just in case. Simple enough to rectify if you have the "balls." If it happens again and he's clearly "cock blocking," tell him to take a hike.

Hey, I find it hard to believe he isn't interested and so do other people because of the way we are together but if he says he isn't then there is nothing I can do about it. This train incident just puts more doubt in my mind but.....he's had a few chances and if he's changed his mind then I want a damn good explanation! If he does this again he will certainly be told where to go!

CuddlyBear said:

Ride the same train tomorrow at the same time.

This is more realistic than posting classifieds he will not read.

for the love of all that is holy, do not post an ad.

same train, same time. good luck.