Vendetta1 said:

Just one for me, but

Genesia said:

There is one in particular but he's super stingy so

Vendetta1 said:

That's as dominant as it gets for me, though. Okay, maybe a little biting here and there, too...upon request.

Genesia said:

Thinking of the person you'd be biting is making me all

You're hot. He's hot. Can I watch?

Vendetta1 said:

I'm not dominant - or an exhibitionist.

Genesia said:

Damn.

evenstar3 said:

I can't believe I'm on this thread, but...

I'm confused.

By making a man a "b*tch," do you all mean like if a women is simply being the aggressor in bed? Or if they are completely dominating a guy -- maybe physically abusing him, verbally humiliating him, making him dress in panties and makeup, penetrating him... stuff like that?

Without getting graphic, I most often take the more active role, but occasionally I think it is CRAZY HOT to be attacked, roughed up and commanded to be my wife's boy toy. It's not at all emasculating, though. In fact, if anything, it makes me feel all the more the stud -- if slightly animalized. Does that mean I'm being the "b*tch?"
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Lammastide said:

I think they just mean in bed. You know, have the woman be dominant. I think you summed it up well in the second paragraph.

iinthesky85 said:

whose alt are you?

I love being sexually dominant in bed and so did my man, when I had one.

evenstar3 said:

You wouldn't know if I told you.

hokie said:

SirPsycho said:

I'm still confused. Are you saying that what I describe in my 2nd paragraph is being a...

I like my men to be dominant in the bedroom, but ocassionally I quite like to be the one spitting orders

SirPsycho said:

hmmmmm, thank you baby. .....

DanceWme said:

...uhhm, i talk a good game, but uhh, co-sign....BEEEOTCH! ! ! ...
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In life? Hell, no. Equality or nothing is where it's at.

In bed? I prefer more or less equality there too, but if that's what made the fella happy I'd be cool with playing along once in a while.

What I DO love though is watching men who are normally aggressive, macho, or otherwise Alpha types to submit sexually to other men.

meow85 said:

for those of you on the short yellow bus that just means she like the gay porn.

DesireeNevermind said:

Only some kinds of gay porn. And -with a few notable exceptions -nothing with stereotypically gay types involved. Watching Swishy McLavender get it on is not my idea of sexy.

I think this goes a long way in explaining my lady hard-on for superheroes, come to think.

meow85 said:

swishy mclavender in "where's the beef III" co-starring larry butts and penis d'milo. special appearance by perez hilton

yes that was totally juvenile, totally amusing and totally meow's fault.

DesireeNevermind said:

I accept all blame.

No.

- I want the man to wear the pants

i prefer he took mine off.

what's the question again?

Vendetta1 said:

See, that's hot.

In general though, there's a reason why there's so much fighting in our bedroom. It works, kinda, but sometimes I wonder if we don't need a bitch for us both to beat up on, ya know, as a shared, romantic couple experience (I kid! ). The tension thing works in its own way. Hole versus extremity, a fight to the orgasm.

thats f-in bullshyt. I dont need no heat or meat to beat.