I'm more the "Er?!" inquisitive stare kind of girl, to make him realise I see that and am slightly unimpressed. It doesnt bother me unless it is constant, which I would hope would be something you would notice before they became a significant other. If it is relatively rare I just think well, we are all drawn to beauty, and as you say men are very visual, so I don't really mind that.... I think

My other half ogling others mmmmm well he'd have to get on his box because he's only 5' 2" hee hee hee!!!!

Well, sometimes it's can be cute. But I guess it depends on what kind of person they are and what they do.

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

At the end of the day, once you're in a committed stable relationship,both of you should only eyes for each other and vice versa. However, on a man roaming eyes=roaming dick. Next, the women needs to erase and replace.
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Touchy subject for me only in terms of fairness. I LOVE to ogle people. But in all sincerity it's always to look at small non-sexual details on a person, such as the cut of their boot or coat, the condition of their nailbeds, the quality of their skin. I don't think I'd be offended if my mate looked at another woman and said "I like that haircut, I think it would look great on you". However, lecherous ogling is disrespecful in my book. If a man is out with a lady, be it his wife, girlfriend, or new date, he should have been brought up to have genteel enough manners to not leer and be offensive to either female party.

Honestly though, when I have been the one who has been ogled I certainly didn't feel a sense of pride, rather than being COMPLETEY disgusted by the male in the couple. There is definitely a diffence between someone who's looking at how you're dressed or some minor detail, vs.men that give you "bedroom eyes"...the fact that they would do that while out with their mate shows me that there is something deficient in their character to disrespect their counterpart like that. So while I think it can be perfectly harmless in some cases, I would be VERY wary of any mate of mine that would "salivate" over another woman in my presence

we both do it all the time. he does mostly to check out clothes/shoes that are cool and then tell me i should wear them, though. that said, there is a difference between just looking at someone and looking at someone. whenever a guy with an obvious girlfriend/wife/his kids does that to me i want to punch him in the face.

evenstar said:

Except for the fact that you are soft as puppy shit and punch like a

mdiver said:

bring it, bitch

evenstar said:

Laughable

evenstar said:

Hi Laurel

See you later.

shanti0608 said:

hi val!!

i'm gonna ogle you for sure

evenstar said:

There ya go!

all depends on what kinda relationship were involved in etc ...
if its another woman she's checking out? then i know what i'm jacking off to that night.
if its a dude she's looking at then i need to pay close attention if i have feelings for her.

evenstar said:

YIPPY!!!!!

Right back at ya beautiful lady!!!

no problem i am secure enough with myself to acknowledge another woman's beauty but i have had men who were not like that and would get upset if i complemented someone i saw on tv ain't that crazy? i'm like it's not like i would ever meet this person and if i did, I WOULDN'T TELL YOU ANYWAY!!!!

MsLegs said:

ROFLMAO! You just made my sig!

crazyhorse said:

Hey you!

Where have you been? Out from under a car long enough to pop in huh?

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

No big deal to me - I do it myself. Nothing wrong with appreciating others' hotness. The rule is, you can look, but don't touch.

I'm not naive enough to say my man has never looked at another woman...but over the past 15 years, I can say he has never done anything like this in my presence.

I don't have a significant other but if I did it would be a look but don't touch policy because if I see something that catches my eye, I'm going to look.

I couldn't care less lol. I do it too. We are both pretty discreet I think.

Last night at the wedding there was a very beautiful cousin of the groom. I sure had noticed her anyway, he made a comment to me "I can't believe SHE is with HIM!" incredulous that someone so attractive could be with someone so odd looking (her partner was VERY unusual, to put it politely). So I noticed he had noticed, if he hadn't said anything I wouldn't have.

ZombieKitten said:

two or three steps from becoming swingers it sounds like.

When we go to the strip club together I expect him to find one he likes and then I get him a dance. So he needs to look and very much enjoy.

then we go home and go at it like wild monkeys.

....I don't know about you, but my man doesn't ogle. He may comment here and there and we'll talk briefly and then move on...that's outside the strip clubs...

Imago said:

I agree.....
And I think if u have a trusting relationship it wouldn't be a issue at all..unless it was done in a crude and offending manner

crazyhorse said:

nice avie btw

Ocean said:

exactly.

If you're willing to watch each other take a dump, then you should be willing to let your partner 'ogle'

But if you don't trust each other that much, then be respectful of their insecurities.

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