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My birth mother found me 
I am kinda in shock this morning. We had a long conversation last night. She answered all of the questions I had. I feel connected to someone, and I have a history at last. she's been keeping tabs on me my whole life, she told me things about my childhood that lead me to believe that she had been talking to someone. she mentioned a social worker. she called the state of california and said you have to help me find my child. she paid someone to find me. I have 2 brothers. wow. 
We all should know that diversity makes for a rich tapestry, and we must understand that all the threads of the tapestry are equal in value no matter what their color. Maya Angelou | |
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wow  | |
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 wonderful
my friend shay connected with her birth mother 3 yrs ago and WOW is right | |
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Awesome news.
Best wishes | |
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Wonderful news, go slow, learn,connect. Best wishes to you both. | |
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Incredible.  Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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yeah she says "so you like prince huh?" when the woman she hired got my name she did an internet search and found buttefli25 on prince.org
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Wow. You have got to have a million emotions inside you right now. I hope that you can have a relationship with her and your brothers. Family is important, I'm glad she found you. Wishing you the best! | |
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yeah its all kinda undefineable right now.
mind blowing that's for sure.
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 AWESOME. | |
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Wow !With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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that is a neat story . hope it continues to just work out well !
I on the other hand am still convinced my parents are not my real parents ...   Colonel Angus may be smelly. colonel angus may be a little rough . but deep down ... Colonel angus is very sweet. | |
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How exciting. | |
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butterfli25 said: yeah she says "so you like prince huh?" when the woman she hired got my name she did an internet search and found buttefli25 on prince.org
So she's reading this now? 
This is shocking news, and I'm sure it'll answer a lot of your questions. | |
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ArielB said: butterfli25 said: yeah she says "so you like prince huh?" when the woman she hired got my name she did an internet search and found buttefli25 on prince.org
So she's reading this now?
This is shocking news, and I'm sure it'll answer a lot of your questions.may be she's online we've been emailing back and forth this morning. she still in the hallelujah stage I am just confused 
its all good though, 
I told her I am a people person anyway so we can talk and maybe visit if I could ever get enough time to go to cali
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this is wonderful | |
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I hope this works out the way you want it to. These things can be tricky | |
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proceed .....s l o w l y. | |
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I'm happy for you. | |
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I'm happy for you | |
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Yowsa, that's cool. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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I'm so happy for you | |
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 Wow, thats incredible, I hope you are able to build a beautiful relationship with her. All the best Rock n roll baby | |
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butterfli25 said:
I am kinda in shock this morning. We had a long conversation last night. She answered all of the questions I had. I feel connected to someone, and I have a history at last. she's been keeping tabs on me my whole life, she told me things about my childhood that lead me to believe that she had been talking to someone. she mentioned a social worker. she called the state of california and said you have to help me find my child. she paid someone to find me. I have 2 brothers. wow. WOW! I hope this is a joyful experience for you! | |
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That's really great news.....I'm happy for you..... THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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ArielB said: butterfli25 said: yeah she says "so you like prince huh?" when the woman she hired got my name she did an internet search and found buttefli25 on prince.org
So she's reading this now?
This is shocking news, and I'm sure it'll answer a lot of your questions.I hope so because, as she will soon find out, she birthed one of the most amazing women this planet will ever know!  And you have family in Cali???!!!! Please tell me they live closeby to me so your cousin Supa can visit!
I hope that everything works out for the positive with this.  Your birthmother can only be proud of the person that she had a hand in bringing into this world. She will be truly blessed to be able to know you
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butterfli25 said:
I am kinda in shock this morning. We had a long conversation last night. She answered all of the questions I had. I feel connected to someone, and I have a history at last. she's been keeping tabs on me my whole life, she told me things about my childhood that lead me to believe that she had been talking to someone. she mentioned a social worker. she called the state of california and said you have to help me find my child. she paid someone to find me. I have 2 brothers. wow.  That's awesome, butterfli. Are you going to meet your two brothers one day?RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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Janfriend said: I hope this works out the way you want it to. These things can be tricky
yes I know. thanks for the concern
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Graycap23 said: proceed .....s l o w l y.
it is moving quite fast, but i know a few things 1. she is not my mama, that one is at my house 2. she is not trying to be mama, she knows she missed that 3. since I already have 1 crackhead brother, i am leary about finding more  so I will slow down.
4. i am pretty pragmatic and wasn't really looking for her so this is cool, I wasn't desparate, this just fell in my lap. 5. it is nice though to know that she's been looking for me for quite some time. so I will slow the process, right now she is just asking questions. I sent her a couple of those survey things you know the ones where you answer questions about yourself? just to let her know that I am silly.
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butterfli25 said: Graycap23 said: proceed .....s l o w l y.
it is moving quite fast, but i know a few things 1. she is not my mama, that one is at my house 2. she is not trying to be mama, she knows she missed that 3. since I already have 1 crackhead brother, i am leary about finding more so I will slow down.
4. i am pretty pragmatic and wasn't really looking for her so this is cool, I wasn't desparate, this just fell in my lap. 5. it is nice though to know that she's been looking for me for quite some time. so I will slow the process, right now she is just asking questions. I sent her a couple of those survey things you know the ones where you answer questions about yourself? just to let her know that I am silly. you sound like such a sensible and grounded person, so I can tell this will go well for you, since you have no unrealistic expectations. all the best for you | |
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