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PrintableCarrieMpls said: IstenSzek said: yeah, once. I didn't really know it whilst we were doing it and I was
having a foul mood and was playing Nick Cave's "The Boatman's Call", which is in itself not that happy happy joy joy, lol. still, the thought of someone losing their virginity to Nick Cave's "people just ain't no good" is  to me to this day.
so sad 
 Mine happened listening to the Cure's Pornongraphy.
Oddly fitting.  mine actually happened to a prince song  it was one of those boots
from the glam slam shows in 94. during that sequence of Interactive, Days of Wild and Now  and true love lives on lollipops and crisps | |
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Smashing Pumpkins album "Gish" was playing in the background when I did it for the first time | |
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CarrieMpls said: JustErin said: I simply do not understand how the first time hurts, unless she just wasn't physically ready yet and was dry as a bone.  My first time HURT!!! I bled quite a bit too. Some women have more of a hymen than others and sometimes you don't have any at all really left due to it tearing for other reasons.  Most women/girls break their hymens long before they have sex. I'm curious though about it hurting you. Hurt how? Um, this is a pretty personal question so I understand if you don't wanna discuss it in a thread....maybe through orgnotes? | |
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JustErin said: CarrieMpls said: My first time HURT!!! I bled quite a bit too. Some women have more of a hymen than others and sometimes you don't have any at all really left due to it tearing for other reasons. Most women/girls break their hymens long before they have sex. I'm curious though about it hurting you. Hurt how? Um, this is a pretty personal question so I understand if you don't wanna discuss it in a thread....maybe through orgnotes? I think maybe cos they dont know how to relax properly and so contract their vaginal muscles, through fear, hence hurting more.. well thats what I am guessing.. I will love you forever and you will never be forgotten - L.A.F.  | |
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JustErin said: CarrieMpls said: My first time HURT!!! I bled quite a bit too. Some women have more of a hymen than others and sometimes you don't have any at all really left due to it tearing for other reasons. Most women/girls break their hymens long before they have sex. I'm curious though about it hurting you. Hurt how? Um, this is a pretty personal question so I understand if you don't wanna discuss it in a thread....maybe through orgnotes? It was a long time ago, so I'm not sure I can describe it accurately... It hurt. A lot. Inside. I didn't feel a specific tear that I remember, just pressure and pain and a sort of give and then blood. Similar to a story above, the first time I made him stop cause it really did hurt that badly. The next time we tried a few days later, all was fine. |
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JediTodd said: My wife and I were each other's "first".
 That's sweet. | |
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CarrieMpls said: JustErin said: Most women/girls break their hymens long before they have sex. I'm curious though about it hurting you. Hurt how? Um, this is a pretty personal question so I understand if you don't wanna discuss it in a thread....maybe through orgnotes? It was a long time ago, so I'm not sure I can describe it accurately... It hurt. A lot. Inside. I didn't feel a specific tear that I remember, just pressure and pain and a sort of give and then blood. Similar to a story above, the first time I made him stop cause it really did hurt that badly. The next time we tried a few days later, all was fine.oh man, I think I feel light headed now... | |
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unlucky7 said: CarrieMpls said: It was a long time ago, so I'm not sure I can describe it accurately... It hurt. A lot. Inside. I didn't feel a specific tear that I remember, just pressure and pain and a sort of give and then blood. Similar to a story above, the first time I made him stop cause it really did hurt that badly. The next time we tried a few days later, all was fine.oh man, I think I feel light headed now...
Don't worry. I believe I'm in the minority. Studies suggest it's true that most women lose their hymen long before they're ready to be sexually active. |
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LittleSmedley said: This is the Official Org Virgin Day
I've never been with a first-timer, not knowingly anyway. Has anyone here? Yep, a few times, they're special  | |
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CarrieMpls said: JustErin said: Most women/girls break their hymens long before they have sex. I'm curious though about it hurting you. Hurt how? Um, this is a pretty personal question so I understand if you don't wanna discuss it in a thread....maybe through orgnotes? It was a long time ago, so I'm not sure I can describe it accurately... It hurt. A lot. Inside. I didn't feel a specific tear that I remember, just pressure and pain and a sort of give and then blood. Similar to a story above, the first time I made him stop cause it really did hurt that badly. The next time we tried a few days later, all was fine.It must be mostly mental, nerves and such causing your body to not relax enough to do it's thing. My advice to first timers is to get drunk and then go for it. [Edited 5/16/07 10:15am] | |
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ThreadCula said: UCantHavaDaMango said: My doctor told me that using larger tampons can break it, so an intact hymen isn't much of an indication of virginity.Years ago on 20/20 they were doing a report about women who pay to have theirs restored. They said most girls tear the hymen during sports and other everyday things. It's really too bad that they go to such lengths. It all goes back to the idea that a woman is only a virgin if her hymen is intact, and will have to have her "Cherry popped" (which is a term I find very disturbing anyway  )Wanna hear me sing? www.ChampagneHoneybee.com | |
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JustErin said: CarrieMpls said: It was a long time ago, so I'm not sure I can describe it accurately... It hurt. A lot. Inside. I didn't feel a specific tear that I remember, just pressure and pain and a sort of give and then blood. Similar to a story above, the first time I made him stop cause it really did hurt that badly. The next time we tried a few days later, all was fine.It must be mostly mental, nerves and such causing your body to not relax enough to do it's thing. My advice to first timers is to get drunk and then go for it.
[Edited 5/16/07 10:15am] That's probably a big part of it.
As for the question of the thread, I've not taken anyone's viriginity that I'm aware of. And I can't imagine it happening in the future, though I suppose anything's possible. |
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CarrieMpls said: unlucky7 said: oh man, I think I feel light headed now...
Don't worry. I believe I'm in the minority. Studies suggest it's true that most women lose their hymen long before they're ready to be sexually active. I'm almost 22 and haven't been down that road yet, so hopefully.. maybe I won't experience all of that. [Edited 5/16/07 10:21am] | |
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JustErin said: CarrieMpls said: It was a long time ago, so I'm not sure I can describe it accurately... It hurt. A lot. Inside. I didn't feel a specific tear that I remember, just pressure and pain and a sort of give and then blood. Similar to a story above, the first time I made him stop cause it really did hurt that badly. The next time we tried a few days later, all was fine.It must be mostly mental, nerves and such causing your body to not relax enough to do it's thing. My advice to first timers is to get drunk and then go for it.
[Edited 5/16/07 10:15am] They don't want to get too drunk that they forget to use a condom. hehe | |
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unlucky7 said: JustErin said: It must be mostly mental, nerves and such causing your body to not relax enough to do it's thing. My advice to first timers is to get drunk and then go for it.
[Edited 5/16/07 10:15am] They don't want to get too drunk that they forget to use a condom. hehe Good point. Tipsy then. | |
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My ex boyfriend and I were each others first. It was horrible | |
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does it always involve bleeding? | |
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ArielB said: does it always involve bleeding?
nope. | |
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ArielB said: does it always involve bleeding?
Fuck, no. | |
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JustErin said: ArielB said: does it always involve bleeding?
Fuck, no. So there's a chance that you wouldn't know she was a virgin? | |
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ArielB said: JustErin said: Fuck, no. So there's a chance that you wouldn't know she was a virgin? You have no guaranteed way of knowing. |
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ArielB said: JustErin said: Fuck, no. So there's a chance that you wouldn't know she was a virgin? The hymen can be easily broken during non-sexual activities, so it's a poor indicator of virginity. Wanna hear me sing? www.ChampagneHoneybee.com | |
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UCantHavaDaMango said: ArielB said: So there's a chance that you wouldn't know she was a virgin? The hymen can be easily broken during non-sexual activities, so it's a poor indicator of virginity. So I can just pretend my girlfriend was a virgin and I was her first?  | |
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ArielB said: UCantHavaDaMango said: The hymen can be easily broken during non-sexual activities, so it's a poor indicator of virginity. So I can just pretend my girlfriend was a virgin and I was her first? Sure, why not? Wanna hear me sing? www.ChampagneHoneybee.com | |
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Like George Costanza said, I don't want to be remembered, I'd rather be forgotten.
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ArielB said: JustErin said: Fuck, no. So there's a chance that you wouldn't know she was a virgin? Omg, yes. | |
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I didn't take her virginity, but we definitely learned together.
She had only done it a couple times and didn't really know anything about sex. Neither did I, other than what I'd mislearned from Playboy & porn. My Legacy
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Yes but he did not tell me until afterwards..... Feel Good, Feel Better, Feel Wonderful | |
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Wife took mine. She didn't know it until after though, she says. I know I was really crap though. | |
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