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PrintableSpats said: I am not whining and i am not an A hole. The only way i might appear like an Ahole is when i am forced to compete in the current dating scene. It's dog eat dog scene.
I sometimes get what i want so i must not be not as offensive as you think i am. The women i have been with haven't had that many complaints. And i am not lonely. I am just having trouble getting the pretty blonde i want right now. let's hope it turns out the way i want. I am going through a dry spell. What meetup? http://www.prince.org/msg/2/165653 | |
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It would cost to much money. | |
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Spats said: It would cost to much money.
I'll pay for your ticket  | |
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mdiver said: Spats said: It would cost to much money.
I'll pay for your ticket  | |
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I was just teasing the boyfriend calling him a "sissy boy", and he said," It means that I'm in love with you and therefore I treat you with respect, something's wrong with that? Am I supposed to treat you like a pig?"
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The problem is that with most women today if you treat them with respect they put you in the "friend zone" and no guy wants to be put there if you want to hook up with the woman. | |
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Spats said: The problem is that with most women today if you treat them with respect they put you in the "friend zone" and no guy wants to be put there if you want to hook up with the woman.
Like i said I will pay for your ticket I so wanna have this conversation face to face | |
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Spats said: The problem is that with most women today if you treat them with respect they put you in the "friend zone" and no guy wants to be put there if you want to hook up with the woman.
What the hell do you think a relationship is based on? I use the word relationship loosely for you to comprehend..... ANY close relationship is based on friendship. You on crack! | |
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Ask any guy about the "friend zone". They'll tell you it's not where you want to be if you want some action. | |
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Spats said: Ask any guy about the "friend zone". They'll tell you it's not where you want to be if you want some action.
I don't want to get all involved in all this, but do you get much ass dude? | |
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Spats said: Ask any guy about the "friend zone". They'll tell you it's not where you want to be if you want some action.
I guess you get that a lot.....  | |
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Nice guys get that all the time. Women like guys with attitude. You can't treat them too good or too respectly. Most women like bad boys. If you are too nice you get put in the "friend zone". Go out into the dating scene. You will see it all the time. | |
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Spats said: Nice guys get that all the time. Women like guys with attitude. You can't treat them too good or too respectly. Most women like bad boys. If you are too nice you get put in the "friend zone". Go out into the dating scene. You will see it all the time.
 you sound like you're the only one in the 'dating-zone' right now, is that why you're lonely?  | |
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Spats said: Ask any guy about the "friend zone". They'll tell you it's not where you want to be if you want some action.
Au contraire, the most intense relationships I've had in my life had their bases in friendship. You're significant other should also be counted as your best friend. | |
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A certain someone is playing huge mindfucks with me at the moment
and its succeeding , stupid me for allowing it to happen but it is and Im not a happy  | |
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I am not the only one out there. I am out there with my guy friends all the time and the clubs are packed with people doing the same thing. | |
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Ive never liked mind games..if u play them then people cant see u for who you are and its important to me to have friends/boyfriends who knows and likes me for me if they play games then they are not being genuine and I cant be arsed making the effort to know fake people. Be true to yourself! If people fuck with u then dont have them in ur life their not worth it.
I am sooooo! fed up meeting men that think they can just say anything to get u and u will fall for it. Uh Uh!  Well maybe sometimes  | |
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I think excluding obvious "coniving" ones,
we all participate in some form of mind-games. Especially between the sexes. Male & female mind-sets are so different, most can't help but talk & act in certain ways in order to get signals from the other of what type of person he/she is. It's like Chris Rock sed: "When you first meet some-one "you aren't meeting them. "You're meeting their representative." Eventually, as the relationship goes on, we become aware of each others games and that's when the actual relating begins or as the case of someone like 'spats'*, ends. *I don't mean that as a diss. He's just a good example. | |
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Exactly. When it's not enjoyable anymore then i don't want to be involved anymore. Life is too short to put up with crap. | |
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No games at all...can't stand them. I'm pretty straightforward in what I do and say... | |
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Nobody has ever (to my knowledge) played mind games with me, and I have never done it to someone else.
And I can't wait for my big sissy man to come home tomorrow so we can  | |
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Illustrator said: I think excluding obvious "coniving" ones,
we all participate in some form of mind-games. Especially between the sexes. Male & female mind-sets are so different, most can't help but talk & act in certain ways in order to get signals from the other of what type of person he/she is. It's like Chris Rock sed: "When you first meet some-one "you aren't meeting them. "You're meeting their representative." Eventually, as the relationship goes on, we become aware of each others games and that's when the actual relating begins or as the case of someone like 'spats'*, ends. *I don't mean that as a diss. He's just a good example. my husband's approach to mating HIM: wanna go out? ME: OK. end of game.  | |
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charlottegelin said: my husband's approach to mating HIM: wanna go out? ME: OK. end of game.   | |
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charlottegelin said: Illustrator said: I think excluding obvious "coniving" ones,
we all participate in some form of mind-games. Especially between the sexes. Male & female mind-sets are so different, most can't help but talk & act in certain ways in order to get signals from the other of what type of person he/she is. It's like Chris Rock sed: "When you first meet some-one "you aren't meeting them. "You're meeting their representative." Eventually, as the relationship goes on, we become aware of each others games and that's when the actual relating begins or as the case of someone like 'spats'*, ends. *I don't mean that as a diss. He's just a good example. my husband's approach to mating HIM: wanna go out? ME: OK. end of game.  | |
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Spats said: Exactly. When it's not enjoyable anymore then i don't want to be involved anymore. Life is too short to put up with crap.
especially your crap | |
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charlottegelin said: Illustrator said: I think excluding obvious "coniving" ones,
we all participate in some form of mind-games. Especially between the sexes. Male & female mind-sets are so different, most can't help but talk & act in certain ways in order to get signals from the other of what type of person he/she is. It's like Chris Rock sed: "When you first meet some-one "you aren't meeting them. "You're meeting their representative." Eventually, as the relationship goes on, we become aware of each others games and that's when the actual relating begins or as the case of someone like 'spats'*, ends. *I don't mean that as a diss. He's just a good example. my husband's approach to mating HIM: wanna go out? ME: OK. end of game. sounds good 2 me LOL | |
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won't do it... once i'm aware someone is playin' mind games i'm out... no ifs ands or buts... no question... o-u-t. | |
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Natisse said: how far do you go or alternatively allow yourself to be played in regards to mindgames?  I wonder how you can protect some1 you love from a person who is playing mindgames on that loved one. Especially when it could cause damage to the relationship you have with this person. | |
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By debating with Spats you fell into his mind game and gave his comment attention....but that is just an outsiders point of view.(will shut up now ) | |
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billyjackbitch said: Natisse said: how far do you go or alternatively allow yourself to be played in regards to mindgames? I wonder how you can protect some1 you love from a person who is playing mindgames on that loved one. Especially when it could cause damage to the relationship you have with this person. you've hit the nail on the head so to speak, there ...something that's really concerning me and has been for a while is someone very close to me is totally being taken for a ride emotionally. the other person in question is very much playing mind games but I'm scared I'll lose this person if I say too much so I shut up most of the time lol even though I'm seething inside desperate to shake the shit out of this other person in question | |
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