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Everyone should be allowed to be sexual, it’s part of their being.
But a good majority of this seems to exist primarily to open ears, minds and cash registers via the g-spot. And if we weren't living in such a superficial society, none of these tricks would work, even in the short term. | |
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Brendan said: Everyone should be allowed to be sexual, it’s part of their being.
But a good majority of this seems to exist primarily to open ears, minds and cash registers via the g-spot. And if we weren't living in such a superficial society, none of these tricks would work, even in the short term. Sex will always sell, its that simple. What we talk about now is how they talked about Elvis Jim Morrison Diana Ross Donna Summer etc..back in the day as being nothing more than selling "sex" "We went where our music was appreciated, and that was everywhere but the USA, we knew we had fans, but there is only so much of the world you can play at once" Magne F | |
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lastdecember said: Brendan said: Everyone should be allowed to be sexual, it’s part of their being.
But a good majority of this seems to exist primarily to open ears, minds and cash registers via the g-spot. And if we weren't living in such a superficial society, none of these tricks would work, even in the short term. Sex will always sell, its that simple. What we talk about now is how they talked about Elvis Jim Morrison Diana Ross Donna Summer etc..back in the day as being nothing more than selling "sex" I agreed people acting Brand new to Sex Sells Slogan. [Edited 12/20/09 11:32am] | |
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meow85 said: Cinnie said: Often it is the final gimmick to make the public take notice.
Watch the same Lady Gaga get ignored 5 years ago: I also have issues with Lady GaGa. She's not doing TnA the same way other young female performers are, but she is showcasing a weird sort of titillation and ripped-off quasi-Glam image to hide the fact that she's just so-so in the talent department. Sorry but who are you to judge talent? Like her or not, she has a talent for writing catchy tunes. She's wrote for a lot of other singers as well. Until you're giving your acceptance speech for your Grammy, you have no right to dictate who has talent & who doesn't. Although I am sick of these half-dressed sluts parading around & miming live when there are much greater musicians living in the gutter, at least Lady Gaga is doing something different.... Anyway, it's a bit of a double negative bitching about people in the music business selling SEX on a PRINCE fansite, the man is the biggest sexually provocative musician in the world! He's a made millions singing about sex, it's just how it is... | |
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Cinnie said: Cinnie said: Cinnie said: meow85 said: Artists in all genres do that. Do we expect to see, say, Leonard Cohen, half naked on his album cover because of it? Now that you make the comparison, there are plenty of female Canadian artists that don't play this game. Damn, just about every Canadian female artist I can think of doesn't pander to this. oh, meow85, you don't get away without replying to this in some form. | |
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meow85 said: I am tired of all these young female singers posing half naked in magazines (see Rihanna's GQ shots) or posing with a Come Hither look on their album covers, or wiggling their asses in their music videos.
It's boring, and IMO nothing is more indicative that a performer doesn't really have much of an act at all if they've got to resort to Playboy style to get their image out. I'm tired of being sold singers who are all tits 'n' ass, and no voice. Sexuality is apparently a substitute for talent. | |
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WaterInYourBath said: Cinnie said: I think meow85's point (and YOU CAN RETURN TO YOUR THREAD ANY TIME HERE! ) is that the pressure for male musicians to get naked simply does not exist with the same expectation level as females. I think you said it best... even females would rather see female nudity. Umm...No, I wouldn't. LOL. | |
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Either you're sexy are you're not and it doesn't have a damn thing to do with removing a stitch of clothing. I'm bored by it all really and for the most part, these folks taking it off.... don't a have a bit of talent. I guess they have to do something to kinda distract use from that fact. | |
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MyNameIsCally said: meow85 said: I also have issues with Lady GaGa. She's not doing TnA the same way other young female performers are, but she is showcasing a weird sort of titillation and ripped-off quasi-Glam image to hide the fact that she's just so-so in the talent department. Sorry but who are you to judge talent? Like her or not, she has a talent for writing catchy tunes. She's wrote for a lot of other singers as well. Until you're giving your acceptance speech for your Grammy, you have no right to dictate who has talent & who doesn't. Although I am sick of these half-dressed sluts parading around & miming live when there are much greater musicians living in the gutter, at least Lady Gaga is doing something different.... Anyway, it's a bit of a double negative bitching about people in the music business selling SEX on a PRINCE fansite, the man is the biggest sexually provocative musician in the world! He's a made millions singing about sex, it's just how it is... | |
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Brendan said: Everyone should be allowed to be sexual, it’s part of their being.
But a good majority of this seems to exist primarily to open ears, minds and cash registers via the g-spot. And if we weren't living in such a superficial society, none of these tricks would work, even in the short term. | |
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MyNameIsCally said: meow85 said: I also have issues with Lady GaGa. She's not doing TnA the same way other young female performers are, but she is showcasing a weird sort of titillation and ripped-off quasi-Glam image to hide the fact that she's just so-so in the talent department. Sorry but who are you to judge talent? Like her or not, she has a talent for writing catchy tunes. She's wrote for a lot of other singers as well. Until you're giving your acceptance speech for your Grammy, you have no right to dictate who has talent & who doesn't. Although I am sick of these half-dressed sluts parading around & miming live when there are much greater musicians living in the gutter, at least Lady Gaga is doing something different.... Anyway, it's a bit of a double negative bitching about people in the music business selling SEX on a PRINCE fansite, the man is the biggest sexually provocative musician in the world! He's a made millions singing about sex, it's just how it is... How's that for an oxymoron? I agree with your opinion. | |
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Vendetta1 said: WaterInYourBath said: Umm...No, I wouldn't. LOL. Me either. Male singers I'm different about, but I seen too many female singers nude. I don't mind Gaga doing it lol because she's unusual but other females do it and you're like "why?" | |
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I can see both sides of the argument and we all got our likes and dislikes. Just wanted to say that. | |
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TD3 said: Either you're sexy are you're not and it doesn't have a damn thing to do with removing a stitch of clothing. I'm bored by it all really and for the most part, these folks taking it off.... don't a have a bit of talent. I guess they have to do something to kinda distract use from that fact. And in the land of short attention spans, it works. | |
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I see male singers taking their clothes off too but yes us women have to be whores to sell | |
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But it amazes me the whole double standard because we all made a show like AI the biggest thing ever and it was all about image. Im not saying that many on that show cant sing, but, alot were told, you'll make it because you have the look? so what image are we sending? Why does Kris Allen get through and someone that doesnt have the boy next door look who can write songs not get through? this has always gone on. I think that now we are all amazed at the level it exits, but lets be honest, if Britney Spears was ugly would she make it? No she wouldnt, because she had the catchy songs, but they needed something to catch your eye too, but dont think this is where it started, i mean Look at anyone from Madonna to Janet, and then look back in the late 80's how C&C used fashion models to lypsynch because they thought Martha Wash wouldnt be the image to put out there. And then in the mid 1980's the guys in HEART wanted to kick "ann wilson" out, because she gained weight??? I mean it was her fucking band? So they put her in Black Clothes and only shot her face, so this whole deal didnt start with the Rihanna's and Cassie's and Justins and Xtina's. Blame the source "We went where our music was appreciated, and that was everywhere but the USA, we knew we had fans, but there is only so much of the world you can play at once" Magne F | |
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lastdecember said: Blame the source
Heterosexual men. | |
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Cinnie said: lastdecember said: Blame the source
Heterosexual men. | |
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Vendetta1 said: Cinnie said: Heterosexual men. Sometimes it is the only option presented, for those seeking "success" | |
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Cinnie said: Vendetta1 said: As much as I want to high five you on that, I can't. No one is forcing these women to take off their clothes.
Sometimes it is the only option presented, for those seeking "success" | |
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Vendetta1 said: Cinnie said: Sometimes it is the only option presented, for those seeking "success" I don't mean the powers that be either, I mean the regular ole guy with a pulsing hot dick that only wants to listen (or watch) a female singer if she is "hot". | |
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SEX is OVERRATED!!!! | |
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sextonseven said: Cinnie said: I think the key gripe is "willing to get naked" while men are not expected to (yet).
Did I take this post out of context? meow85 said: I want the fat girl that can sing. I want the girl in a buttoned up shirt that can sing. I want the girl with geeky glasses and flat shoes that can sing. Doesn't anyone remember the music video I did with David Bowie where he and I were nude in a rocket ship? The song was "Major Dong". Big hit. Very edgy but way ahead of its time. We are all so full of here | |
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hollywooddove said: sextonseven said: Doesn't anyone remember the music video I did with David Bowie where he and I were nude in a rocket ship? The song was "Major Dong". Big hit. Very edgy but way ahead of its time. take your bo-ner pills to turn your helmet on | |
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TotalAlisa said: SEX is OVERRATED!!!!
Don't try and change the subject. | |
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Cinnie said: Cinnie said: Damn, just about every Canadian female artist I can think of doesn't pander to this. oh, meow85, you don't get away without replying to this in some form. I can think of Canadian female artists that do, but they never really made it big. Maybe there's less of a focus on blatant sex in our branch of the industry? "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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lastdecember said: Yeah but its such a double standard. Lets take the world of sports. OK, Mark Sanchez of The New York Jets, Jose Reyes of the NY Mets, ALex Rodriguez of NY Yankees, Derek Jeter of NY Yankees to name a few, all have done spreads in GQ, shirts off, etc, labeled Sexiest in Sports and no one says a damn thing. Anna Kournikova did a Bikini Calendar and they said she "disgraced" womens tennis? I mean really now, do we not see double standards.
I don't know anything about sports so I can't speak on that topic. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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lastdecember said: Brendan said: Everyone should be allowed to be sexual, it’s part of their being.
But a good majority of this seems to exist primarily to open ears, minds and cash registers via the g-spot. And if we weren't living in such a superficial society, none of these tricks would work, even in the short term. Sex will always sell, its that simple. What we talk about now is how they talked about Elvis Jim Morrison Diana Ross Donna Summer etc..back in the day as being nothing more than selling "sex" This is the same as this? Not even close. Even taking into consideration the relative difference in the media's focus on sex over the decades, objectifying a fully dressed man is NOTHING like objectifying a scantily clad woman in a submissive pose. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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