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Reply #180 posted 12/22/09 12:27am

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Vendetta1 said:

Paris9748430 said:




You haven't STOPPED mentioning them!!!
Last I checked, I didn't name a single woman on this thread.

Thanks for playing. biggrin


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Reply #181 posted 12/22/09 12:31am

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Here's the scene in question.

You can decide for yourself if it's offensive or not.

http://www.youtube.com/wa...bfrOoiWwto



That's it? yawn I don't know what I was expecting. Yes I do. Something more. That's was just an earlier version of "Royal wit Cheese". lol



I wasn't hyping it up. I was just making an example.
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Reply #182 posted 12/22/09 3:10am

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Um, no one. I was just repeating what's been said before. A girl shows some skin, she's automatically a whore, or a pawn.

She's never an assertive woman who's comfortable with her body. Heaven forbid that women like that exist. I mean, sheesh, that might give people one less thing to bitch about. I think what it boils down to is that some people are offended too easily, or they see other people doing things that they're not comfortable enough with themselves to do, and so they've got to blame everyone else for it.



Who on here is calling these women or any female music performer a whore? Nobody on here is stupid enough to think that there is no such thing as an assertive woman comfortable with her body. Shit, have you not heard of Aretha Franklin and Macy Gray?

Nobody is easily offended at anything other than the topic at hand which is the notion that these chicks can't sell a record unless they drop it like it's hot. That's the offensive part and it's offensive because many of them can actually sing.

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Reply #183 posted 12/22/09 3:25am

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Paris9748430 said:

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But you know what's crazy? There was a time when female singers were a lot sexier without being so overtly sexual or naked - and guys were turned on.

Remember these women? They had successful singing careers without resorting to the types of overly sexualized images we see today that really seem created to distract from limited vocal ability. As a young woman, I took cues from these women on how to be sexy and classy at the same time. The classy part seems to be missing now. I think what we are seeing of today's female "singers" also says something about where we are as a society as well as the state of the "music" industry. Everything is so in your face and there is NOTHING left to the imagination any more. The envelope has been pushed out the door. Frankly, it's just not entertaining anymore. It's so forced and contrived that it just comes off as talk to the hand.



I also remember a time where proteges of a certain musician from Minneapolis would dance and sing on stage in Lingere. Singing songs about how much of a "Nasty Girl" they were. Later on that protege would sing a song about the "Pretty Mess" her man had made by ejaculating on her Dress.

If you've seen Resivoir Dogs, you know all about how Madonna was perceived.

You also might wanna Google "Sade Nude"

Please, spare me the 80's and 90's were so innocent routine.

Also, it's not like there aren't women out there in the mainstream who don't dress and act provocatively.

Yeah, and look at her now. Totally covered, in church every week, preaching to everyone she meets. If she was proud of those images, she wouldn't have completely abandoned and rebuked them even after her medical problems were cured years ago. Please, don't use Vanity as an example, 'cause it's a horrible one.

And I've loved Sade's music and videos ALL of my life, and have never seen any pictures of her nude publicized or on TV. Maybe I missed that, LOL, and it's on the internet now, but regardless, she never dressed like Madonna (and darn sure not like no Vanity) during her prime years. lol
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Reply #184 posted 12/22/09 3:28am

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bellanoche said:

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Meanie. lol

I know that, I'm just saying that it seems like people are overthinking certain issues. Sometimes people are just comfortable in their own skin, and want to possibly show everyone else. There might not be any malicious intent at all in some of these cases.

Plus, this kind of thing has been going on for decades. It's a great way to get people's attention. I mean, we're talking about them, aren't we? They must be doing something right.


That's cool if that's who the artist is, but it just comes off as so unbelievably forced. Like Robin Thicke, the whole "sex therapy/ladies man" image just seems so out of place on him. Also, it seems that the longer the female artists are out there now, the more they start taking off their clothes. It's like desperation sets in and they resort to all they have left to garner attention. Mariah, Beyonce, Britney, Christina, Mya (I saw the what happend to her career thread lol) They all just started getting naked and sexual as either their sales dropped or they wanted to breakout and get attention. One thing about Whitney, she might have picked up that pipe, but she kept her clothes on.

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Reply #185 posted 12/22/09 4:05am

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Ok,so I'm this middle age record exec..no nothing about music,nothing about talent..I'm here because my college buddies got me in years ago and I've been able to hang around...I get this young new girl singer that I signed (A&R says I should)..she's cute..she can hold a note..the first album did ok,made us a profit..But I wonder what she looks like underneath them clothes?Okay I'm perving a little but we all wondered about that in the boardroom meetings.Do other men think like we do?..Call the A&R and A&D (artist Development)..change her look..show more skin..I wonder..oops,I mean the public wonders what she has under those baggy pants..pay the payola to the radios to play her spins a little more..payoff billboard and push the soundscans..o yeah let her do some semi-nude photo-ops on some magazines....and when you're done with her,go tell Miley Cyrus to do a show dancing with a stripper pole..- thoughts of a slimy record exec...
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Reply #186 posted 12/22/09 9:59am

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Ok,so I'm this middle age record exec..no nothing about music,nothing about talent..I'm here because my college buddies got me in years ago and I've been able to hang around...I get this young new girl singer that I signed (A&R says I should)..she's cute..she can hold a note..the first album did ok,made us a profit..But I wonder what she looks like underneath them clothes?Okay I'm perving a little but we all wondered about that in the boardroom meetings.Do other men think like we do?..Call the A&R and A&D (artist Development)..change her look..show more skin..I wonder..oops,I mean the public wonders what she has under those baggy pants..pay the payola to the radios to play her spins a little more..payoff billboard and push the soundscans..o yeah let her do some semi-nude photo-ops on some magazines....and when you're done with her,go tell Miley Cyrus to do a show dancing with a stripper pole..- thoughts of a slimy record exec...


Nicely done. lol

If someone chose to fuck on stage, I probably wouldn't agree with it, but I'm sure to have much more respect if they actually had their own deeply-held reasons that spoke to all kinds of larger truths about artistry that they mostly controlled.

Puppets on strings have always existed, but perhaps now more than ever before in the music industry.
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Reply #187 posted 12/22/09 10:22am

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Nicely done. lol

If someone chose to fuck on stage, I probably wouldn't agree with it, but I'm sure to have much more respect if they actually had their own deeply-held reasons that spoke to all kinds of larger truths about artistry that they mostly controlled.

Puppets on strings have always existed, but perhaps now more than ever before in the music industry.


Thnx..I couldn't word it like I wanted to because I was rushing for work....yes,they're mostly puppets on a string and I was trying to evoke the puppetmaster's point of view..
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Reply #188 posted 12/22/09 10:28am

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Paris9748430 said:

WaterInYourBath said:



I completely agree with you, and you're right about them. I happen to be a fan of Beyonce, and can't stand the examples you posted, LOL. I do not think B. is a trashy character like them. My point was that unlike people like Spears and Miley Cyrus, Beyonce is a veritable singer and performer, who, in my opinion, shouldn't have to rely on being half-dressed and sexual on stage to be successful. And you're also correct when you say that in comparison to someone like Cyrus, Beyonce is a grown woman. That's true and she can do what she wants, but I just think she would be taken more seriously if she toned her image down somewhat. But then again, maybe I'm wrong. shrug

And to answer your first question: Michael Jackson. LOL. "From the very young, to the very old...." And also, Whitney Houston.



She's a POP STAR!!!


They're not supposed to be taken seriously!!!

I could see if she was dressing conservatively for 10 years and then all of a sudden started dressing sexy.

That might be a reason to get upset.

When Meshell Ndegeocello starts dressing like Beyonce, then maybe you should start being concerned.

Pop music, done right, is a legitimate art form that could and should be taken seriously. It's because performers are so willing to strip down and wiggle their asses instead of hiring a vocal coach or trying their hands at songwriting that it's not.
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Reply #189 posted 12/22/09 10:31am

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Funny, I don't recall The Supremes ever posing naked for Playboy, or writhing and wriggling in their performances, or dressing like strippers.

Of course sex sells. Everyone knows that. But it's gone way, WAY overboard now when it comes to young female performers. And most of these acts have no talent behind the ass shaking.


Blurring the line between music & porn doesn't only ruin music, it ruins porn! The Pussycat Dolls are not good for either purpose.

It's gotten so bad that I actually can appreciate American Idol for at least requiring that their contestants have just the slightest bit of musical talent!

lol I do not like AI but I can respect that point. Contestants aren't allowed to rely on their tits to win, they do have to have at least a modicum of vocal ability. Britney would have been kicked off in the first round of auditions, and for damned good reason.
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Reply #190 posted 12/22/09 10:36am

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Vendetta1 said:

meow85 said:


This

is the same as this?


Not even close. disbelief

Even taking into consideration the relative difference in the media's focus on sex over the decades, objectifying a fully dressed man is NOTHING like objectifying a scantily clad woman in a submissive pose.
Robin could spank me. drool

Carry on. lol

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You know what I mean. Don't change the subject. lol
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Reply #191 posted 12/22/09 10:40am

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Paris9748430 said:

WaterInYourBath said:


Exactly. lol Just like I remembered, the only thing bare was their WAISTS, lol, and under loose/baggy clothing. Nothing like today, lol.



And those feminine girls were HUGE then, without being half-naked. I was little, but I remember them vividly, and all of my young male cousins loved them, and some of my teenage female cousins at the time were wearing big jeans and cut t-shirts like them, or like Janet. I'm not saying we need to start that particular baggy trend again, but my point is that the good ones don't need to strip.



Nobody NEEDS Strip.

If Beyonce or Rhianna makes the choice to be more sexual or show more skin. Who the hell are we to say they shouldn't?

It's a Free Country.

What the hell is the point of this thread? Other than to act like an Old Coot saying "Why can't things be like they were in the Good 'Old Days"???

I can't believe people here are actually being Nostalgic about the '90s. Like it was some sacred time of innocence!!!

Nothing is like you remembered it!!!


"Old Coot"? Nice try. I'm 24. I wasn't even born when Vanity 6 were rockin' , and even I know they were the exception. My problem is that these days, acts like that are the rule.
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Reply #192 posted 12/22/09 10:41am

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Paris9748430 said:


That's was a different time period. You know damn well that aren't buying music anymore period.

Those acts aren't more successful because they "showed less skin". It's because most people are downloading music.

I would definitely say Destiny's Child was more successful than En Vogue. TLC maybe not, but definitely En Vogue.

So, to say that those groups sold more albums because they wore less clothing is a little disingenuous.

ACTUALLY



Market studies have shown that people who download the most music also buy the most music.
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Reply #193 posted 12/22/09 10:46am

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lastdecember said:

Can we at least agree that "females" arent the only ones selling the sex? I mean come on now, whats Robin Thicke selling? Whats Usher selling? Whats Pretty Ricky selling? Whats Day 26 selling? What were groups like 112 and NEXT selling in the 90's? And lets not forget the fact that they used the image plus the sexy women in their videos, and we didnt seem to mind that? So in reality what the hell is the difference from Robin Thicke in a video making it with his wife as opposed to Lil Wayne in the Mrs Officer video with Model Tammy Torres? No difference selling the same thing. SEX. And if a female artist did that shit in a video with a model she'd be a ho, of course unless it was one of the ICONS we give a pass to

Boybands and the like already got mentioned above. And while it is similar in many ways, it's rarely if ever really the same beast. The difference IMO is that female performers are being sold as the object, while male performers are almost always still being sold as the subject. If the sex object in question is still promoted as the aggressor, as the dominant in a traditional hetero-normative gender dynamic (even if it is in the "cute harmless boy" model) then it's still not the same thing.


Let's take a look at the boyband model, for an example:

The Cute One, or The Baby: Young, sweet, innocent, helpless, non-threatening. You want to Mommy him. His role in the group is to appeal to the youngest of young teen girl fans. (and dirty old men, but that's for another thread. lol )

The Bad Boy: dangerous, a softened-up model of the bad boys some grown women find attractive. He is untameable. The least likely to be promoted openly as a virgin. In fact, his sexuality is generally played up the most obviously out of any member.

The Boy Next Door. (see also, The Christian, depending on fan demographics) Good-natured sweetheart. The kind of guy you bring home to meet the folks. Explicitly or implicitly marketed as Husband Material.

The Big Brother, or "Dad". Usually the oldest member. Dominant, and has authority. Physically imposing, usually being a big guy. The daddy!Kink practically writes itself with this one.

There are other characters too. The Sweet One, The Ethnic One, (this one's problematic for a whole slew of reasons, but don't think racial sexual stereotypes aren't part of it) The Quiet One,(courtesy of George Harrison. See? The Beatles really did contribute to pop culture in every way) and others. But every single boyband "character" is designed to play into very different, but very, very traditional hetero-normative sex and gender roles.

The Twilight boys can be read the same way as boyband members, as far as this topic goes.
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Reply #194 posted 12/22/09 12:34pm

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This

is the same as this?

meow85 said:

Vendetta1 said:

Robin could spank me. drool

Carry on. lol

stfu

You know what I mean. Don't change the subject. lol




i will say it again meow85 for president
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Reply #195 posted 12/22/09 1:29pm

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It's not just a case of 'skin' or 'no skin', I don't think. It's the whole "show me how you want it to be" aspect of it - i.e. women just appearing as totally submissive, sexually-available objects of male fantasy. So many times there's even the whole paraphernalia of lap dancing (poles, etc) mixed up in it, which just drives home the point that the women are there to be 'bought'.

The idea of being a pimp became the pinnacle of the dull, chauvinistic image that a whole slew of tired male hip hop artists wanted to portray, and it's almost like the 'Look, I'm sexy' revelations these female singers tend to go through involves casting themselves as the submissive, available feminine object that suits that fantasy.
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Reply #196 posted 12/22/09 1:56pm

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It's not just a case of 'skin' or 'no skin', I don't think. It's the whole "show me how you want it to be" aspect of it - i.e. women just appearing as totally submissive, sexually-available objects of male fantasy. So many times there's even the whole paraphernalia of lap dancing (poles, etc) mixed up in it, which just drives home the point that the women are there to be 'bought'.

The idea of being a pimp became the pinnacle of the dull, chauvinistic image that a whole slew of tired male hip hop artists wanted to portray, and it's almost like the 'Look, I'm sexy' revelations these female singers tend to go through involves casting themselves as the submissive, available feminine object that suits that fantasy.



so sad and so true.
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Reply #197 posted 12/22/09 4:32pm

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ThreadBare said:

People keep referencing the Chili Peppers "nude" shots and miss the point -- those were comical pictures. Their nude routines were gags.


I was the only one here that cited the Chili Peppers nude RS cover and it was an example of how male nudity can NOT be sexy. We all know they're goofballs. lol
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Reply #198 posted 12/22/09 4:35pm

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ThreadBare said:

People keep referencing the Chili Peppers "nude" shots and miss the point -- those were comical pictures. Their nude routines were gags.


I was the only one here that cited the Chili Peppers nude RS cover and it was an example of how male nudity can NOT be sexy. We all know they're goofballs. lol


true, though I think their shirtless tattooed wild man image is sexy to many--especially around the time Dave Navarro joined
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Reply #199 posted 12/22/09 4:38pm

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Well, nude covers used to be daring and a guaranteed seller, but so many people have done it these days, that it has become boring. Unless you put a different spin on the idea à la Beth Ditto.

As far as men not being naked as much as women on covers, who really wants to see that? Even women generally would rather see female nudity than gross hairy male nudity. lol

Stop kidding yourself lol


You know most women don't want to see random guys' schlongs. lol But guys have no problem looking at anonymous tits. thumbs up!
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Reply #200 posted 12/22/09 4:39pm

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sextonseven said:



I was the only one here that cited the Chili Peppers nude RS cover and it was an example of how male nudity can NOT be sexy. We all know they're goofballs. lol


true, though I think their shirtless tattooed wild man image is sexy to many--especially around the time Dave Navarro joined


Which is one reason why I think Dave was all wrong for that band. He was too hot for them.
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Reply #201 posted 12/22/09 4:46pm

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NDRU said:

sextonseven said:



I was the only one here that cited the Chili Peppers nude RS cover and it was an example of how male nudity can NOT be sexy. We all know they're goofballs. lol


true, though I think their shirtless tattooed wild man image is sexy to many--especially around the time Dave Navarro joined


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Reply #202 posted 12/22/09 6:44pm

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NDRU said:



true, though I think their shirtless tattooed wild man image is sexy to many--especially around the time Dave Navarro joined


drool
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Reply #203 posted 12/23/09 6:27am

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NDRU said:



true, though I think their shirtless tattooed wild man image is sexy to many--especially around the time Dave Navarro joined


Which is one reason why I think Dave was all wrong for that band. He was too hot for them.

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Reply #204 posted 12/23/09 10:36am

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NDRU said:



true, though I think their shirtless tattooed wild man image is sexy to many--especially around the time Dave Navarro joined


Which is one reason why I think Dave was all wrong for that band. He was too hot for them.


Yeah he kind of changed their whole image. I remember seeing the video for Aeroplane and rather than being crazy naked tattooed guys, they were hot macho rock star guys.

But I'm in the minority in that I thought he fit well with them. Apparently (according to Anthony) he went off the deep end, though, all coked out and wearing the glasses & hats that tipped everyone off because "you could only wear them if you're on coke" lol

Frusciante (who just quit the band) seemed to bring them back from macho rock gods to a more sensitive place, but now we're off topic smile
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Reply #205 posted 12/23/09 10:48am

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sextonseven said:



Which is one reason why I think Dave was all wrong for that band. He was too hot for them.


Yeah he kind of changed their whole image. I remember seeing the video for Aeroplane and rather than being crazy naked tattooed guys, they were hot macho rock star guys.

But I'm in the minority in that I thought he fit well with them. Apparently (according to Anthony) he went off the deep end, though, all coked out and wearing the glasses & hats that tipped everyone off because "you could only wear them if you're on coke" lol

Frusciante (who just quit the band) seemed to bring them back from macho rock gods to a more sensitive place, but now we're off topic smile


Dave was a much better fit in Jane's Addiction which had a sleazier image. Listening to Jane's first era of albums always gave me the feel that I was listening to some dirty, deviant rock music--more so than the RHCP records that were out at the same time (Mother's Milk, Blood Sugar Sex Magik)
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Yeah he kind of changed their whole image. I remember seeing the video for Aeroplane and rather than being crazy naked tattooed guys, they were hot macho rock star guys.

But I'm in the minority in that I thought he fit well with them. Apparently (according to Anthony) he went off the deep end, though, all coked out and wearing the glasses & hats that tipped everyone off because "you could only wear them if you're on coke" lol

Frusciante (who just quit the band) seemed to bring them back from macho rock gods to a more sensitive place, but now we're off topic smile


Dave was a much better fit in Jane's Addiction which had a sleazier image. Listening to Jane's first era of albums always gave me the feel that I was listening to some dirty, deviant rock music--more so than the RHCP records that were out at the same time (Mother's Milk, Blood Sugar Sex Magik)


true, and he changed the RHCP's sound to harder rock, rather than funk. I liked it, but maybe just because I like his playing.
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Reply #207 posted 12/23/09 9:49pm

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NDRU said:

sextonseven said:



Dave was a much better fit in Jane's Addiction which had a sleazier image. Listening to Jane's first era of albums always gave me the feel that I was listening to some dirty, deviant rock music--more so than the RHCP records that were out at the same time (Mother's Milk, Blood Sugar Sex Magik)


true, and he changed the RHCP's sound to harder rock, rather than funk. I liked it, but maybe just because I like his playing.


Staying OT: When they first announced that Dave was joining the band, I had a hard time visualizing how his style would mesh with theirs. I couldn't see him grooving like John could. Flea and Chad need a guitarist he can play a funky comp over their bottom in addition to ripping a mean solo. I'd never really heard Dave do that.

Then, I saw the video where he and Anthony were kissing, and I KNEW they had gone in a different direction both musically and stylistically - and it DID NOT work for me. I was so happy when he left and John returned. biggrin
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Reply #208 posted 12/23/09 9:58pm

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meow85 said:[quote]

Vendetta1 said:

Robin could spank me. drool

Carry on. lol


Something about that pic of Rihianna and Robin Thicke bothers me. It goes back to what this topic is about. There is just rampant oversexualizing, objectifying and disrepecting of women in music - whether its the girls in the videos or the female singers themselves. For example, that video with Ciara and Justin Timberlake was just way over the top. It wasn't sexy to me at all. It looked like a desperate "artist" doing anything for shock value, allowing herself to be treated like a video skank in her own video. sad

Here it is. It highlights what someoneelse said on this thread about the women emulating strippers and the underlying implications of that.

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Reply #209 posted 12/23/09 9:59pm

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I think most people are scared of women sexuality. I don't want to turn this into a race discussion but to be specific - black women sexuality. Just an observation.
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