Margot said:
Though I am bisexual, I was was strictly with women for 8 years. I get it. I did not fit in. I also lived in Oakland, in the 'hood' for 25+ years. I'm not a fragile, white person. Please look at your bias.
IMO, Oakland is a great melting pot where, for the most part, there is harmony and humor among the groups.
[Edited 10/3/20 10:08am] Oh, I lived in Oakland for years. Right above International, near the police station. You're right, Oakland is a melting pot yet it's a great example of the haves and havenots separated by red lines. And the thing is, just living among black people does not give you the experience of a black person who experiences being black every moment of every day and that experience includes some elements that a bisexual white woman will never ever ever understand. And sometimes people who DO understand that experience like to remark about how prince understood it too because of his blackness. There's never been a lack of discussion about Prince's vision of a utopic Paisley Park blah blah blah. But PP ain't real. So what we are left with is what exists on this planet. | |
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Now that we have something in common, I lived for years in West Oakland, then moved to 61st street/Dover. (No Oakland)
I forgot to mention that one of the women I was involved with (5 years) was a black, French women of West Indian descent. She had a beautiful accent and told me frequently that she was treated very rudely by American black women. So, Intolerance is everywhere.
BTW, it's not always fun being a woman...You have male privilege if you want to go there. I could whine about that for hours. | |
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Margot said:
Now that we have something in common, I lived for years in West Oakland, then moved to 61st street/Dover. (No Oakland)
I forgot to mention that one of the women I was involved with (5 years) was a black, French women of West Indian descent. She had a beautiful accent and told me frequently that she was treated very rudely by American black women. So, Intolerance is everywhere.
BTW, it's not always fun being a woman...You have male privilege if you want to go there. I could whine about that for hours. You are right that intolerance is everywhere and I absolutely have the utmost respect for your experience and certainly the experience of your ex! But what isn't going on here is anyone assigning values to people's experience. What's happening is that SOMETIMES black people remark about the shared aspects of their experiences and Prince's. And so very often when these discussions arise, white people come out of nowhere talking about Prince somehow being above his blackness. Which is hilarious because Prince spent much of the latter half of his career speaking directly to his blackness! I think it's probably okay for people to acknowledge Prince's blackness. Not to think he was somehow playing dress up (or dressing down?) when he leaned into that blackness. It was him through and through. Sidebar: Prince loved Oakland btw. Oakland was the place he went to when recruiting nearly half of the musicians ever in his bands. Some of his most long-term musicians are from the bay area and of course he got his solo start in Sausalito where he recorded For You. I think Bay area people only compete with Minnesotans and Detroiters in terms of adoration of Prince. | |
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Oakland is a cool place. I lived there when it was quite raw, but I am a true Oakland booster. While at the Farmer's Market there yesterday, stopped by a earthy thrift shop nearby, with very cool stuff. It is in a large historic building near 7th and Clay owned by Marshawn Lynch. I know Prince was black and I found that very sexy about him. He was not above being black and I am sure that is frustrating for you to hear that from white people. Before I moved to Oakland, I lived in a lilly white town called Los Gatos (you may have heard of it) near San Jose. Because of my experience in Oakland, I learned a tremendous amount that I would not have understood if I had not lived there. I think many white people are not inherently mean, they have not had much experience with actual black people and say and do things that can be construed as racist or insensitive. IMO, much of it is tone-deafness/under-exposure/ignorance. Prince did not seem to discuss race very much until later and inexperienced whites may have taken that as 'transcending' race. I appreciate that we were able to talk about this. BTW: I love that Prince loved Oakland. Alot of great music originated in Oakland.
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a dumb amount of white people in this thread getting mad that they can't claim prince in the way they want. whatever he said about his relation to his black expression, take it and move on. whatever fellow org peers say about their relation to his black expression, take it and move on. listen to it and absorb it. whatever you do with it after that, whatever! no need to bitch and moan. not up to us to fixate and categorize it. and those that say it's "exluding non-black" folk by having these convos, you're far behind the train from the start! find it genuinely insane that anyone can be a hardcore enough of a fan to post on the org and not understand these points, which i think P expressed in his own way many times | |
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-- White people have no rhythmic ability -- White people can't clap in time -- Prince would have been dismayed by this [Edited 10/4/20 22:15pm] | |
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I only mentioned the lack of rythymic ability because I have seen it in many of the Prince videos and think it is fairly harmless though may have been a bit frustrating for a musician with such impeccable time. Apparently,we can't jump either. It is not a big criticism in the greater scheme of things. Actually, I think it's humorous.
I'll defer to others about your other ideas.
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Last few posts have been well spoken for sure. But I don’t think it’s that black Prince fans don’t think white fans can or should speak on him. It’s when they speak on certain aspects of him outside of the music or his choices and or misuse quotes. It’s not trying to be excluding by saying you won’t get or understand it. You just simply won’t because you aren’t black or had the same experiences that’s all. That is a fact. Prince didn’t want a black budget or be told he could only do traditional r&b. That’s what he meant. He even said a lot of things he did said and wore were for attention. I also agree that most articles and books are written by white folks cause they control the spaces mostly as well. We rarely see them interview black journalists concerning him. They really talk to black podcasters concerning him etc etc. Prince touring Europe was mainly cause they accept black artists better there but also his music was doing way better there in comparison to here so that’s understandable. There’s things about prince’s upbringing that heavily effected his choices in his life and career. Things that primarily occur in black households and families and neighborhoods. So no you won’t get or understand a lot of things. Doesn’t mean we’re smarter or have more knowledge. Just that we can relate in ways physically emotionally and mentally that others won’t. So when folks call a black man who grew up poor and never really had anything an asshole, I have a problem with that. | |
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Putting things in boxes is all that this is. They try to create a certain 'order' to things which might be unwarranted. Because if SOTT is 'all blackness' then why did he take it o the mostly `white` folks in Europe? And why did he choose the band he got at the time? These unwarranted discussions simply try to keep you from enjoying the music. Pills and thrills and daffodils will kill... If you don't believe me or don't get it, I don't have time to try to convince you, sorry. | |
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udo said: Putting things in boxes is all that this is. They try to create a certain 'order' to things which might be unwarranted. Because if SOTT is 'all blackness' then why did he take it o the mostly `white` folks in Europe? And why did he choose the band he got at the time? These unwarranted discussions simply try to keep you from enjoying the music. Says the non-American. There's a very real reason why these discussions happen and it ain't in a vacuum. Most European countries do not have the same legacy of slavery and systemic racism so your perception of race is quite different. | |
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. Do you even know 'what' I am? I do have some insights because of fairly extensive genealogy research showing things back as far as Alexander the Great and Darius I, as well as Norman influences, Pharaohs of the later dynasties, etc. So yes, probably not so (native?) American. I do not see a reason for these discussions about boxing up stuff. We (as local 'whites') do have a certain history with slavery, even Sinterklaas is now disussed here because of his black 'servants'. Racism is systemic and unavoidable. I have no obligation to like everybody and there might be signs of why I avoid people. Avoiding people in certain situations then becomes 'racism'. We (in theNetherlands) have loads of imported people around, so some forms of racism are quite clear here too. It's just that that the situation (uintil now) has been different from the leftists that want to create havoc in the USSA to show what will happen if their presidential candidate (really? they did not have anyone better?) fails. Be it some suspected 'murder' of drugged black criminal as a reason orn whatever else they can think of. It's the same stuff that leads to 'defund the police'. How braindead does one have to be to cry that? Ever checked the BLM (organisation) website? Pure Marxist ideas, that have nothing to do with helping the black people along, to help them get work, income, housing, a career, life, wealth, etc. So the racism is also from blacks internally there. Pills and thrills and daffodils will kill... If you don't believe me or don't get it, I don't have time to try to convince you, sorry. | |
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I think that though Prince grew up poor and never really had anything, he could be really rough on people, ie., his assistants were known to be over-worked, his early engineers, the same. His treatment of women was questionable etc. I don't think asshole is a great word, but it should be acceptable to talk about a person's behavior. I think he tried to be more considerate as he matured. We have to be careful not to over-idealize/stan a person.
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Cool, thanks for sharing. | |
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Nobody is over idealizing anything. Nor am I excusing his behavior. What I’m saying is a lot of his behavior stems from his childhood etc. Also I’m not soft in any way shape or form so a lot of what you’re saying doesn’t = being an asshole but then again I’m called that often as well so oh well...naturally with him as all folks he got better with age life and experience. They weren’t overworked. They just couldn’t keep up with him. That’s fine and fair. Move out the way so someone that can, can. Ya know? And as far as the women? Lol I mean they were adults. He was running game. Again not excusing but it happens everyday. Smarten up. Tighten up. Margot said:
I think that though Prince grew up poor and never really had anything, he could be really rough on people, ie., his assistants were known to be over-worked, his early engineers, the same. His treatment of women was questionable etc. I don't think asshole is a great word, but it should be acceptable to talk about a person's behavior. I think he tried to be more considerate as he matured. We have to be careful not to over-idealize/stan a person.
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Music has no color ............ except to racists. | |
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LoveGalore said: udo said: Putting things in boxes is all that this is. They try to create a certain 'order' to things which might be unwarranted. Because if SOTT is 'all blackness' then why did he take it o the mostly `white` folks in Europe? And why did he choose the band he got at the time? These unwarranted discussions simply try to keep you from enjoying the music. Says the non-American. There's a very real reason why these discussions happen and it ain't in a vacuum. Most European countries do not have the same legacy of slavery and systemic racism so your perception of race is quite different Ehhhhh Well anyway, is someone in here really saying "white people have no rhythm?" lol this thread is wild | |
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I think the point that almost everybody is missing, and probably the only point that matters, is that Prince was, by and large, a funk artist, as well as a fan of funk music. That's the essence of his music. And the genre of funk itself is pretty much a celebration of black music, black spirit and creativity. It's a band leader, and drums, and horns and clapping, chanting, call and response. It's about community and repetition and dancing away your pain. It's Africa. It's sex. It's endless rhythm. It's some black shit. Not even black people get how black it is. Prince did though. The man loved to funk so much he'd play thankufalettinmebemyself for hours straight. That's love And all them funk soldiers out there get it too. James Brown is the king. It's music again from the black soul, but you don't have to be black to love it and play it. | |
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jaawwnn said: LoveGalore said: Says the non-American. There's a very real reason why these discussions happen and it ain't in a vacuum. Most European countries do not have the same legacy of slavery and systemic racism so your perception of race is quite different Ehhhhh Well anyway, is someone in here really saying "white people have no rhythm?" lol this thread is wild Well I'm white and I admit most white people look funny when they are dancing. | |
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I noticed you said others call you an asshole too, so perhaps you are more tolerant of that behavior.
I would like it if you could talk about how his childhood formed him.
I am only asking as it seems he was also uncool with alot of his friends from No. Minnie whose childhood's happened alongside his.
I didn't perceive Morris, Andre, Jam, Lewis, Jerome, Sonny, Jellybean, Jesse etc. being as ruthless as Prince was. One could call it drive or vision or whatev, but it had a ruthlessness to it.
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Interesting article, and interesting discussion it has caused. Prince's career was amazing in that he attracted fans from so many different walks of life - he really did create his own "Uptown" of sorts. Feel free to join in the Prince Album Poll 2018! Let'a celebrate his legacy by counting down the most beloved Prince albums, as decided by you! | |
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jaawwnn said: LoveGalore said: Says the non-American. There's a very real reason why these discussions happen and it ain't in a vacuum. Most European countries do not have the same legacy of slavery and systemic racism so your perception of race is quite different Ehhhhh Well anyway, is someone in here really saying "white people have no rhythm?" lol this thread is wild I said "the same." Not "any at all." I'm happy to talk about colorism and slavery in Europe in the P&R forum. But some white af european who can't fit SOTT SDE on his shelf telling me racism is a figment of one's imagination is gonna get bullshit called on him. | |
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White people cried their eyes out when he passed just as much as black people did. He isn't ours anymore. He is and always did belong to the Lord (like we all do). Enjoy the incredible gift and legacy he left for us. "Music is healing. Write that down first. Music holds things together." - Prince | |
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this thread got weird.
'prince could be an asshole because he had it hard growing up but if you call him an asshole then youre an asshole, asshole, because if you had it tough growing up, it means everything you do later is excusable' 'if prince mistreated women in his life, thats their fault for falling for his bullshit!' 'if prince was so black, why did he play to white audiences?' 'europe has no racism' 'white people cant clap on time' 'white people cant dance'
well done everyone!
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lol pure MARXIST ideas. oh man, we got a bit of red scare in this thread as well | |
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a thoroughly pointless conversation
it really has nothing to do with Prince whatsoever
just everyone projecting their own issues and racism into the Prince conversation, I am SO over this trash | |
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ain't no dumpster fire like a prince.org dumpster fire <3 | |
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one thing i will say is about this: "Ever checked the BLM (organisation) website? Pure Marxist ideas, that have nothing to do with helping the black people along, to help them get work, income, housing, a career, life, wealth, etc." prince, in the 80s, would probably agree. and thats not cos he was a sellout, but cos he was more conservative. in a similiar way, JB was actually quite conservative, and believed in a certain practicalism/pragmatism rather than radicalism. what later prince would say about that, idk.
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He also sang: Whoever said that elephants were stronger than mules?, which is probably as close as he ever came to singing about party politics.
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ive a feeling prince in the 80s would prob have been behind this^^^ doesnt mean he would have looked down on others who didnt, necessarily. but doesnt mean he was the leftist radical some people would like him to have been either. though id love to hear others perspectives.
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