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. No they do not, that's just BS you made up in your mind to justify your sexism. .
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. No they do not, that's just BS you made up in your mind to justify your sexism. .
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There is no sexism involved at all, and it's stupid to think that there is.
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Yeah Prince fans sometimes just need to take a minute. It's really not that serious. | |
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for the Wendy & Lisa supporters who are hellbent on being in their feelings and name calling and making outlandish accusations: you DO realize that different people have different opinions, right?...i think as adults we should all understand that. So its almost comical to see that some of you are so insistent on trying to change peoples opinions or to ridicule them for having them...like databank said, i cant believe this thread has gone on this long.. but the reason it has, is because when a grown ass adult believes a certain way or has certain convictions they stand firm in, there is usually no swaying that. I love the Minnesota Vilings, but im well aware that the 31 other NFL teams have their loyal fans too. And that cause me no grief. I love fried chicken and there are those who wouldnt dare put their mouths on fried poultry. So if someone thinks Wendy Melvion is an overrated guitar player with delusions of grandeur, why does that cause people to get in their feelings and commence to reckless name calling?. I could see if you were actually Wendy or Lisa commenting...but im pretty sure youre not. Its not cool for adults who should know better, to act as such. I love Doja Cat, and i hear all kinds of negativity about her. No big deal. What i eat doesnt make you shit, so why get in your feelings because a great deal of people arent on the Wendy & Lisa bandwagon like some others are?...its not "sexism" or "hating" or "lesbian props"(whatever that is)...different people like and dislike different stuff...its fine to disagree, but to start with the name calling and belittling and psycho analysis of people, because someone doesnt like and agree with you or your beliefs is mad childish. | |
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You are correct. You are certainly allowed to have your opinion about any of Prince's band members, and also Prince's music. * However, the majority of folks on this site, and more specifically, this thread - completely disagree with your opinion - especially when you've made it clear that you have never even bothered to look into, or listen to, any of the music that Wendy has recorded since her time with Prince. * We have also supported our opinion by listing the extensive and consistent career Wendy has had since leaving Prince - both with her own recordings, and also collaborations with other very prominent musicians/recording artists. We have shown that, by far, she (along with Lisa) has had the most commercial output as compared to any of Prince's past band members. * So, while yes, you are entitled to your opinion, we have demonstrated that it is a rather unreasonable one at best, which is why it has been questioned that your thinking is stemming from some other issue with Wendy. | |
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It's not infrequent that threads go off topic into how people feel that an associate has character/personality issues, or into off topic beliefs/frustrations that an associate is unskilled or has made an unworthy contribution to, or even messed up, Prince's art.
This often leads to people getting upset. I think some of it comes down to the ideal of evenhandedness with language sensitivity. I'm the last one with answers about how to keep this from messing with threads. We can't wave a wand so that everyone has walked in everyone else's life-experience shoes. It's dicey stuff. [Edited 5/14/20 10:09am] | |
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You are correct. You are certainly allowed to have your opinion about any of Prince's band members, and also Prince's music. * However, the majority of folks on this site, and more specifically, this thread - completely disagree with your opinion - especially when you've made it clear that you have never even bothered to look into, or listen to, any of the music that Wendy has recorded since her time with Prince. * We have also supported our opinion by listing the extensive and consistent career Wendy has had since leaving Prince - both with her own recordings, and also collaborations with other very prominent musicians/recording artists. We have shown that, by far, she (along with Lisa) has had the most commercial output as compared to any of Prince's past band members. * So, while yes, you are entitled to your opinion, we have demonstrated that it is a rather unreasonable one at best, which is why it has been questioned that your thinking is stemming from some other issue with Wendy. i never said i didnt listen to their music...lol...ive listened thoroughly to ALL their albums on TIDAL...as a Prince fan i wanted to like their music, but i find their music is quite boring and uneventful...and i could care less what "most people" on this site do or think, when it comes to my own feelings and opinions.. and there are actually quite a few people on this site and out in the rest of the world who feel the same way i do...people from different demographics and different backgrounds hear and enjoy different music differently...but some people have a hard time accepting that, and then they get in their feelings when people dont see, hear or feel things the same way they do...whether its because of age, gender, race, or persomal experiences, people will always have polarizing opinions, especially when it comes to art...so to say somone is sexist or hating or "daft" or ignorant, is completely selfish and narrowminded and completely ignores that fact that we are all cut from a different cloth and have the right to different opinions... i love Jughead, DaddyPop and Housequake, and there is endless ridicule about those songs...i never felt compelled to start name calling because certain people here dont like those songs...im not sure why this doesnt make sense [Edited 5/14/20 7:58am] | |
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Going back to the topic, what's very interesting is that I always thought that Mountains sounded more like a Wendy and Lisa tune than a Prince one. I couldn't quite put my finger on it at the time, then when I later bought Wendy and Lisa's first album, I realised that most of the songs had that same feel. So it sort of makes sense now... Life Matters | |
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Life Matters | |
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The check. The string he dropped. The Mona Lisa. The musical notes taken out of a hat. The glass. The toy shotgun painting. The things he found. Therefore, everything seen–every object, that is, plus the process of looking at it–is a Duchamp. | |
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Prince chose Wendy. He wanted her to be a part of his musical endeavor.
Also, these angles can get dicey. Did you see the thread that got into another work/couples issue via discussion of Prince wanting to recruit Hannah for 3rdeyegirl, and subsequently retaining Josh? Prince wanted Josh there, and he wanted him to play certain roles and do certain work. That decision was made by Prince. If this site is about one thing first and foremost, isn't it Prince's immense musical talent and artistic vision? I'm not saying don't discuss from such angles. But it's good (I think) for all to be aware that people get vibes of racism, sexism, etc. when discussion wades into romantic connections, perceived "loud" personalities or lack thereof, talent or lack thereof, etc. [Edited 5/14/20 20:37pm] | |
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Other users made a solid argument for Wendy and Lisa's contributions to The Revolution and their talents as standalone artists, and you were completely dismissive every step of the way. Now you want to whine about people not being respectful? | |
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Other users made a solid argument for Wendy and Lisa's contributions to The Revolution and their talents as standalone artists, and you were completely dismissive every step of the way. Now you want to whine about people not being respectful? more silliness...because i refuse to change my opinion because of what others say, thats somehow construed as "whining"...what a joke... youre proving my entire point...some of you just cant accept the fact that people dont agree with you...thats you and their problem, not mine...in fact all of you are whining for 6 pages because i dont like W&L's music...that continues to humor me, as if you cant tell by now...ive tried to explain clearly and eloquently how and why i feel the way i do, but some of you are so stuck in your feelings that you wont let it go...if im "whining" so much and it hurts you so much, why do you keep addressing me?...are you trying to change my mind? or are you just displayimg how much my comments hurt your feelings?...i suspect the latter... | |
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What's also funny and VERY revealing is the same people who cape up for Wendy & Lisa, will remorselessly bash, disrespect and ridicule Prince collaborators like Larry Graham (who is WAY more accomplished and legendary than the entire Revolution combined), or Tony M. who was featured on Prince songs much longer than W&L were. But where is that same energy when the anti Larry Graham and Tony M rhetoric starts running rampant?...some of you just cant help but show your true colors...and i love it...so keep going..😎 | |
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I think there's a touch of racism on the other side . I didn't like it when Wendy said that Prince did things by instinct. Instinct is a word that people use to downplay one's intelligence and hard work. Prince most likely studied other composers, broke down what they did, and applied it to his work. Just because he didn't know the technical musical terms, doesn't mean he did it by mere "instinct." Maybe she meant it as a complement, but it didn't come off that way. There was also W & L's objection to the Parade tour set up. I saw the interview where they said Prince wanted to do a "Soul Revue" with such condenscion and eye rolling, as if the whole concept was beneath them. The whole idea of W & L introducing Prince to jazz is ridiculous because Prince's father was a jazz musician and P was doing jazz-funk fusion on his early demos. I would say his early demos and first two albums were more musically complex than the Purple Rain to Parade era. There were people on this very site implying that Prince was this talented but unsophsticated rube who's world was opened up to beauty and art by Wendy, Lisa, and Susannah. It's like that Sandra Bullock movie the Blind Side. I acknowledge W & L's contributions, their respect for Prince and their talent, but some of this stuff is so over the top and suspect. | |
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lrn36 said:
I think there's a touch of racism on the other side . I didn't like it when Wendy said that Prince did things by instinct. Instinct is a word that people use to downplay one's intelligence and hard work. Prince most likely studied other composers, broke down what they did, and applied it to his work. Just because he didn't know the technical musical terms, doesn't mean he did it by mere "instinct." Maybe she meant it as a complement, but it didn't come off that way. There was also W & L's objection to the Parade tour set up. I saw the interview where they said Prince wanted to do a "Soul Revue" with such condenscion and eye rolling, as if the whole concept was beneath them. The whole idea of W & L introducing Prince to jazz is ridiculous because Prince's father was a jazz musician and P was doing jazz-funk fusion on his early demos. I would say his early demos and first two albums were more musically complex than the Purple Rain to Parade era. There were people on this very site implying that Prince was this talented but unsophsticated rube who's world was opened up to beauty and art by Wendy, Lisa, and Susannah. It's like that Sandra Bullock movie the Blind Side. I acknowledge W & L's contributions, their respect for Prince and their talent, but some of this stuff is so over the top and suspect. exactly...especially your first sentence | |
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[Edited 5/14/20 14:05pm] The Colors R brighter, the Bond is much tighter
No Child's a failure Until the Blue Sailboat sails him away from his dreams Don't Ever Lose, Don't Ever Lose Don't Ever Lose Your Dreams | |
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Oh, and I can only recommend rewatching Syracuse on Youtube, The Colors R brighter, the Bond is much tighter
No Child's a failure Until the Blue Sailboat sails him away from his dreams Don't Ever Lose, Don't Ever Lose Don't Ever Lose Your Dreams | |
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i dont expect to reach an understanding or even an agreeable compromise with the opposite race while discussing matters of race, and how it applies to art, politics, entertainment or any other human endeavor...blacks and whites have NEVER agreed on how racism and prejudice is employed and acted out, and we never will..its the human condition that rears its head in every aspect of life and it will never change as long as different races of people walk the earth...so to say im "pissing against the wind" is not my concern nor should you even care...Brown people live in a perpetual state of conflict against the anglo saxon peoples and their followers, and this site is a microcosm of that condition...so trying to convince me otherwise is an effort in futility...no one said The Revoltion sucked either...so now, words are being twisted and accusations are being made recklessly, but as usual that is par for the course | |
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To be fair, Wendy also credited Prince as her biggest influence on guitar. She was floored when Prince wrote the Beautiful Ones seemingly out of nowhere. She said he was running on all cylinders. There is obviously a tremendous love and respect W & L have for Prince. I get the impression they thought the Revolution could be the next Beatles and Prince just wasn't commited to that idea. Maybe that disappointment still festers in some way. | |
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