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Reply #2010 posted 05/30/16 1:24pm

purplegirl00

GeniusLuv said:

wizardtelly said:

Hey friends, I found this brilliant video of Denise preaching and giving her testimony. Within the first five minutes, my heart has broken. https://vimeo.com/52010783 She was brutally abused, she veers off into other things but I'm not finished watching yet. At 18:50, she brings up Prince. "I left Prince so I could find the Prince of peace" and that in itself was the longest journey for her, I think her leaving him was devastating, but something that she had to do in order to hit the rock bottom that she did only to be saved by the glory she desperately was seeking in the first place.

i've seen that one, its good...

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Now, more and more, seeing the way she was, the way she looked the last 20 years of her life...it makes me wonder why he wrote sexy songs about her??? She was so far from that in her later years...i wonder if she knew, if she cared and if she was embarassed by it at all..or possibly flattered since she said she wanted to see him again in the mid 2000's....she became pretty conservative, always covered up..nothing sexual about her anymore, so i wonder why he still saw her that way???

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[Edited 5/30/16 7:39am]

I wondered about this too, but my thinking is that in her preaching videos she has a more conservative look because she had to. In other situations, she's still conservative but not covered up to the neck. About a year ago, she put up a new picture on Facebook and she's wearing a black & white dress that I would consider on the "tighter" side and her neck is not covered up. There is also a picture of her face with sunglasses from 2013 and again, she's still very beautiful- no make up and it appears she's wearing a black top- that's maybe a V-neck or button down. None of it sexual at all but she's not completely covered up to her neck either and as conservative as she appears in the preaching videos. So I don't know why he's still using some sexual type lyrics.

[Edited 5/30/16 13:47pm]

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Reply #2011 posted 05/30/16 1:38pm

beachy

great work Sunny!

now we need a list of all the songs and vids with bathing.

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Reply #2012 posted 05/30/16 1:54pm

beachy

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The lyrics to Holy River are very powerful because they clearly document what happened post Empty Room (which I'd assume is why the Empty Room's video is interspersed through it). In other words, what happened after Vanity married. On the surface, it looks like he self destructed with alcohol, futile casual sex, loneliness and he's forced to look at himself - he doesn't want many women he only wants one; finds God connection; and it ends with references to marriage.

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All the water references - river, drowning, tears

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He starts this with "Let's go down 2 the holy river. If we drown then we'll be delivered."

This concept of drowning ties back to a number of songs. I think it's to do with total emersion, oneness, elements of love, sexuality, purity, rejuvenation, spirituality. For eg:

1. Here (MPLSound 2009)

"I am gonna say this once then I am gonna leave this town
If you can learn 2 open ur eyes under water then you and me won't drown
Without each other I promise I'll c you on the other side
Just believe in me and trust this ride, I am so sincere right now, I just...
I just want you here, I just want you near me baby
I'm scared I'll cry and love you like crazy
I'm flying above all fears I haven't seen any tears not lately
No, I don't wanna land, not even maybe
Donny hathaway's "song 4 u" ain't the same without you here

.

It sounds like he's accepted they will remain apart , but still love each other.

"A Song For You"
(originally by Leon Russell)


Donny Hathaway

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HeHiio1sTTI


I've been so many places in my life and time
I've sung a lot of songs
I've made some bad rhymes
I've acted out my life on stages
With 10,000 people watching
But we're alone now and I'm singing this song to you

I know your image of me is what I hoped to be
I treated you unkindly
And darling can't you see
There's no one more important to me
Baby can't you see through me
Cause we're alone now and I'm singing this song to you

You taught me precious secrets
Of a true love, withholding nothing
You came out in front and I was hiding
Now I'm so much better
And if my words don't come together
Listen to the melody
Cuz my love is in there hiding

[Piano Break]

I love you in a place where there's no space or time
I love you for my life
You' re a friend of mine
And when my life is over
Remember when we were together
We were alone and I was singing this song to you

(just like in Revelation...)

[Edited 5/30/16 13:57pm]

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Reply #2013 posted 05/30/16 2:12pm

purplegirl00

beachy said:

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The lyrics to Holy River are very powerful because they clearly document what happened post Empty Room (which I'd assume is why the Empty Room's video is interspersed through it). In other words, what happened after Vanity married. On the surface, it looks like he self destructed with alcohol, futile casual sex, loneliness and he's forced to look at himself - he doesn't want many women he only wants one; finds God connection; and it ends with references to marriage.

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All the water references - river, drowning, tears

.

He starts this with "Let's go down 2 the holy river. If we drown then we'll be delivered."

This concept of drowning ties back to a number of songs. I think it's to do with total emersion, oneness, elements of love, sexuality, purity, rejuvenation, spirituality. For eg:

1. Here (MPLSound 2009)

"I am gonna say this once then I am gonna leave this town
If you can learn 2 open ur eyes under water then you and me won't drown
Without each other I promise I'll c you on the other side
Just believe in me and trust this ride, I am so sincere right now, I just...
I just want you here, I just want you near me baby
I'm scared I'll cry and love you like crazy
I'm flying above all fears I haven't seen any tears not lately
No, I don't wanna land, not even maybe
Donny hathaway's "song 4 u" ain't the same without you here

.

It sounds like he's accepted they will remain apart , but still love each other.

"A Song For You"
(originally by Leon Russell)


Donny Hathaway

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HeHiio1sTTI


I've been so many places in my life and time
I've sung a lot of songs
I've made some bad rhymes
I've acted out my life on stages
With 10,000 people watching
But we're alone now and I'm singing this song to you

I know your image of me is what I hoped to be
I treated you unkindly
And darling can't you see
There's no one more important to me
Baby can't you see through me
Cause we're alone now and I'm singing this song to you

You taught me precious secrets
Of a true love, withholding nothing
You came out in front and I was hiding
Now I'm so much better
And if my words don't come together
Listen to the melody
Cuz my love is in there hiding

[Piano Break]

I love you in a place where there's no space or time
I love you for my life
You' re a friend of mine
And when my life is over
Remember when we were together
We were alone and I was singing this song to you

(just like in Revelation...)

[Edited 5/30/16 13:57pm]

That Donny song really does spell it out quite nicely.

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Reply #2014 posted 05/30/16 2:20pm

SunnyGirl8

beachy said:

drowning made me think of the bathing motif.

When I read the lyrics, it almost sounds like Vanity has chosen to drown in religion rather than bathe with Prince. I thought he might be explaining his choice to marry Mayte, because Vanity had chosen religion.

also some of the scenes of Prince in the clouds remind me of the cover of Lovesexy

i'm pretty sure it was shot in 1997 at least way before 2007 there are people on this site discussing it in 2005

[Edited 5/30/16 10:18am]

That's the beauty of song lyrics they're open to interpretation. It could be about explaining the decision about marrying Mayte, the last verse is all about marriage. He just writes so much about water though!

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Reply #2015 posted 05/30/16 2:26pm

SunnyGirl8

beachy said:

great work Sunny!

now we need a list of all the songs and vids with bathing.

Hey thanks Beachy! It was a group effort! And none of this would have even fallen into place on this forum if you hadn't done your timeline - thanks! biggrin

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Reply #2016 posted 05/30/16 2:28pm

purplegirl00

SunnyGirl8 said:

beachy said:

great work Sunny!

now we need a list of all the songs and vids with bathing.

Hey thanks Beachy! It was a group effort! And none of this would have even fallen into place on this forum if you hadn't done your timeline - thanks! biggrin

yeahthat Thank you to both of you and others on here!

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Reply #2017 posted 05/30/16 2:39pm

SunnyGirl8

purplegirl00 said:

beachy said:

It sounds like he's accepted they will remain apart , but still love each other.

"A Song For You"
(originally by Leon Russell)


Donny Hathaway

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HeHiio1sTTI


I've been so many places in my life and time
I've sung a lot of songs
I've made some bad rhymes
I've acted out my life on stages
With 10,000 people watching
But we're alone now and I'm singing this song to you

I know your image of me is what I hoped to be
I treated you unkindly
And darling can't you see
There's no one more important to me
Baby can't you see through me
Cause we're alone now and I'm singing this song to you

You taught me precious secrets
Of a true love, withholding nothing
You came out in front and I was hiding
Now I'm so much better
And if my words don't come together
Listen to the melody
Cuz my love is in there hiding

[Piano Break]

I love you in a place where there's no space or time
I love you for my life
You' re a friend of mine
And when my life is over
Remember when we were together
We were alone and I was singing this song to you

(just like in Revelation...)

[Edited 5/30/16 13:57pm]

That Donny song really does spell it out quite nicely.

I didn't get that that meant they didn't end up together.

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I saw it as he's telling her can't you see I love you and you are the love of my life essentially and it's only the 2 of us together (ie. I'm not singing this to 10,000 people). And I guess I see the "place where there is no space and time" as a reflection of just how deep the connection is - that it's just so profound and it's so deep that you know it will continue whatever happens beyond this realm. That's why he's reminding her to remember. Maybe she was having a heath crisis then?

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Reply #2018 posted 05/30/16 2:50pm

beachy

Maybe I read too much in it but it does talk about separate journeys and seeing her on the other side.

We have no evidence that they ever got back together after 2007 so I'm trying to find a reason why. If they had got back together then he wouldn't be pining for her, and I dont think he would have been in Australia when she died, and I don't think she'd be forced to ask people for money.

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Reply #2019 posted 05/30/16 2:54pm

GeniusLuv

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GeniusLuv said:

Thanks! I never saw the Hot Wit U video before.

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Why did he do a Nasty Girl Remix???

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Especially, at that particular time---any guesses?

bawl wall eek

''The beautiful ones they hurt you every tiiiiime....''

yes RIP BEAUTIFUL ONES: Prince & Denise 2016
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Reply #2020 posted 05/30/16 3:00pm

GeniusLuv

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beachy said:

Maybe I read too much in it but it does talk about separate journeys and seeing her on the other side.

We have no evidence that they ever got back together after 2007 so I'm trying to find a reason why. If they had got back together then he wouldn't be pining for her, and I dont think he would have been in Australia when she died, and I don't think she'd be forced to ask people for money.

I have the feeling because she requested ''to see his face'' (in 2006-7??) Jet magazine article that is because she hadn't seen him up close and personal in a realllllllly long time so, maybe i wasn't until April 21, 2016 that she got that face 2 face sad

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But in my heart i'd like to believe they had at least one phone call where they got to say i love you 2 one another one last time.

''The beautiful ones they hurt you every tiiiiime....''

yes RIP BEAUTIFUL ONES: Prince & Denise 2016
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Reply #2021 posted 05/30/16 3:12pm

purplegirl00

beachy said:

Maybe I read too much in it but it does talk about separate journeys and seeing her on the other side.

We have no evidence that they ever got back together after 2007 so I'm trying to find a reason why. If they had got back together then he wouldn't be pining for her, and I dont think he would have been in Australia when she died, and I don't think she'd be forced to ask people for money.

Yea, no evidence and I agree on the other points. I do remember reading, and I am going to go look for it, but that she died really quickly after going into the hospital. I thought I read that she had pain and went to ER and things went downhill from there pretty quick. It's possible that she felt ok before that and he had no reason to think the end would be when it came. As for asking for money, I'm still stumped by that one. She had a lot of jewelry and other possessions that she was selling/auctioning off on FB. I don't think she was completely broke though because in her will, she had assets to distribute. Of course, the will did say that all debts and expenses were to be paid first, but it didn't sound like she was totally without money. I don't know.

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Reply #2022 posted 05/30/16 3:13pm

sunset3121

It sounds like Black Muse may have been about Denise. I read it was an old one.

"Black Muse"

Black Muse can eye talk to you
What eye got to share is mighty good news
A brand new day is dawning
But you and me know what to do
(so much work to do)

Black Muse we've been so abused
Our mothers were good-looking and our fathers were to
But if they don't stay together
We can't walk no better in these shoes
(Black Muse)

Long ago 2 men held one of us down
Another took a whip and made a terrible sound
Baby watched her father falling down to the ground
That was you and me.

Black Muse can eye share with you
Just came this morning and it's mighty good news
They tipped the hour glass
Now everything is passed
It's true.

They gave the world back to you and me
The faces on the mountains and a dirty sea
A trillion dollar bill and no currency
Still we believe

Black Muse we gonna make it thru
Surly people that created rhythm and blues
Rock and roll and jazz
So you know we're built to last
It's cool.. it's cool.. it's cool..
(Black Muse)

A new day is dawning
Black Muse
A new day is dawning
Black Muse

Now that eye got your attention
Eye think its 'bout time eye mention
The reason why eye wrote this song
Like a UFO sighting
From my heart eye am writing
The next close encounter
Tell me how long
Will it be on land or near the water
Will it produce the sun or the black moon daughter
Or a pillow covered with all our tears
1000 light years away from here
(1000 light years from here)

No yesterday or tomorrow
No better remedy for sorrow
Or why the 5th held forever will make you cry
Eye don't know why

1000 light years from here
(1000 light years from here)

2 unbroken circles joined together make a butterfly
Little darling don't you wanna try? (yeah I wanna try)
There ain't nothing better than looking for me (for me to)
And seeing you (seeing me)
Seeing you in the mirror
1000 light years away from here

Why do we always seem so far away?
When you know that eye really wanna be with you night and day
I'm running out of ways to say how
So eye think I'll just close
For now.
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Reply #2023 posted 05/30/16 3:24pm

purplegirl00

sunset3121 said:

It sounds like Black Muse may have been about Denise. I read it was an old one.

"Black Muse"

Black Muse can eye talk to you
What eye got to share is mighty good news
A brand new day is dawning
But you and me know what to do
(so much work to do)

Black Muse we've been so abused
Our mothers were good-looking and our fathers were to
But if they don't stay together
We can't walk no better in these shoes
(Black Muse)

Long ago 2 men held one of us down
Another took a whip and made a terrible sound
Baby watched her father falling down to the ground
That was you and me.

Black Muse can eye share with you
Just came this morning and it's mighty good news
They tipped the hour glass
Now everything is passed
It's true.

They gave the world back to you and me
The faces on the mountains and a dirty sea
A trillion dollar bill and no currency
Still we believe

Black Muse we gonna make it thru
Surly people that created rhythm and blues
Rock and roll and jazz
So you know we're built to last
It's cool.. it's cool.. it's cool..
(Black Muse)

A new day is dawning
Black Muse
A new day is dawning
Black Muse

Now that eye got your attention
Eye think its 'bout time eye mention
The reason why eye wrote this song
Like a UFO sighting
From my heart eye am writing
The next close encounter
Tell me how long
Will it be on land or near the water
Will it produce the sun or the black moon daughter
Or a pillow covered with all our tears
1000 light years away from here
(1000 light years from here)

No yesterday or tomorrow
No better remedy for sorrow
Or why the 5th held forever will make you cry
Eye don't know why

1000 light years from here
(1000 light years from here)

2 unbroken circles joined together make a butterfly
Little darling don't you wanna try? (yeah I wanna try)
There ain't nothing better than looking for me (for me to)
And seeing you (seeing me)
Seeing you in the mirror
1000 light years away from here

Why do we always seem so far away?
When you know that eye really wanna be with you night and day
I'm running out of ways to say how
So eye think I'll just close
For now.

nod Sure sounds like it!

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Reply #2024 posted 05/30/16 3:27pm

wizardtelly

I believe the eyes (and face) of WDC was also in PR? No? I remember when he was fondling Appolonia in the bedroom scene and seeing the pair of eyes off to the side on her furniture. Symbolism perhaps representing Vanity as the character was based on her?
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Reply #2025 posted 05/30/16 3:56pm

SunnyGirl8

purplegirl00 said:

beachy said:

Maybe I read too much in it but it does talk about separate journeys and seeing her on the other side.

We have no evidence that they ever got back together after 2007 so I'm trying to find a reason why. If they had got back together then he wouldn't be pining for her, and I dont think he would have been in Australia when she died, and I don't think she'd be forced to ask people for money.

Yea, no evidence and I agree on the other points. I do remember reading, and I am going to go look for it, but that she died really quickly after going into the hospital. I thought I read that she had pain and went to ER and things went downhill from there pretty quick. It's possible that she felt ok before that and he had no reason to think the end would be when it came. As for asking for money, I'm still stumped by that one. She had a lot of jewelry and other possessions that she was selling/auctioning off on FB. I don't think she was completely broke though because in her will, she had assets to distribute. Of course, the will did say that all debts and expenses were to be paid first, but it didn't sound like she was totally without money. I don't know.

Honestly, I don't know what was going on with them! It's all a bit bizarre like there's a missing piece of the puzzle! I guess that's I see the main sentiment of the song as - I love you now and if I die remember I love you

I love you in a place where there's no space or time

I love you for my life
You're a friend of mine and when my life is over
Remember when we were together, we were alone and I was singing this song to you

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Reply #2026 posted 05/30/16 3:59pm

GeniusLuv

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purplegirl00 said:

sunset3121 said:

It sounds like Black Muse may have been about Denise. I read it was an old one.

"Black Muse"

Black Muse can eye talk to you
What eye got to share is mighty good news
A brand new day is dawning
But you and me know what to do
(so much work to do)

Black Muse we've been so abused
Our mothers were good-looking and our fathers were to
But if they don't stay together
We can't walk no better in these shoes
(Black Muse)

Long ago 2 men held one of us down
Another took a whip and made a terrible sound
Baby watched her father falling down to the ground
That was you and me.

Black Muse can eye share with you
Just came this morning and it's mighty good news
They tipped the hour glass
Now everything is passed
It's true.

They gave the world back to you and me
The faces on the mountains and a dirty sea
A trillion dollar bill and no currency
Still we believe

Black Muse we gonna make it thru
Surly people that created rhythm and blues
Rock and roll and jazz
So you know we're built to last
It's cool.. it's cool.. it's cool..
(Black Muse)

A new day is dawning
Black Muse
A new day is dawning
Black Muse

Now that eye got your attention
Eye think its 'bout time eye mention
The reason why eye wrote this song
Like a UFO sighting
From my heart eye am writing
The next close encounter
Tell me how long
Will it be on land or near the water
Will it produce the sun or the black moon daughter
Or a pillow covered with all our tears
1000 light years away from here
(1000 light years from here)

No yesterday or tomorrow
No better remedy for sorrow
Or why the 5th held forever will make you cry
Eye don't know why

1000 light years from here
(1000 light years from here)

2 unbroken circles joined together make a butterfly
Little darling don't you wanna try? (yeah I wanna try)
There ain't nothing better than looking for me (for me to)
And seeing you (seeing me)
Seeing you in the mirror
1000 light years away from here

Why do we always seem so far away?
When you know that eye really wanna be with you night and day
I'm running out of ways to say how
So eye think I'll just close
For now.

nod Sure sounds like it!

WOW!!!!!!!! This makes me so sad though---part in red!!!!!!!

''The beautiful ones they hurt you every tiiiiime....''

yes RIP BEAUTIFUL ONES: Prince & Denise 2016
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Reply #2027 posted 05/30/16 4:20pm

purplegirl00

beachy said:

Maybe I read too much in it but it does talk about separate journeys and seeing her on the other side.

We have no evidence that they ever got back together after 2007 so I'm trying to find a reason why. If they had got back together then he wouldn't be pining for her, and I dont think he would have been in Australia when she died, and I don't think she'd be forced to ask people for money.

I just had another thought. Based on FB posts, it seems that Denise really admired her pastors, the Harpers' & their marriage. Perhaps that's what she was hoping to have too. Denise and Prince gave each other decades of heartache and suffering and maybe it was too much for Denise to reconcile? Then the religion differences. Maybe there were too many hoops for Prince to jump through- not saying he didn't give a shot or wasn't working on it, but time waits for no one. sad

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Reply #2028 posted 05/30/16 4:30pm

SunnyGirl8

purplegirl00 said:

sunset3121 said:

It sounds like Black Muse may have been about Denise. I read it was an old one.

"Black Muse"

Black Muse can eye talk to you
What eye got to share is mighty good news
A brand new day is dawning
But you and me know what to do
(so much work to do)

Black Muse we've been so abused
Our mothers were good-looking and our fathers were to
But if they don't stay together
We can't walk no better in these shoes
(Black Muse)

Long ago 2 men held one of us down
Another took a whip and made a terrible sound
Baby watched her father falling down to the ground
That was you and me.

Black Muse can eye share with you
Just came this morning and it's mighty good news
They tipped the hour glass
Now everything is passed
It's true.

They gave the world back to you and me
The faces on the mountains and a dirty sea
A trillion dollar bill and no currency
Still we believe

Black Muse we gonna make it thru
Surly people that created rhythm and blues
Rock and roll and jazz
So you know we're built to last
It's cool.. it's cool.. it's cool..
(Black Muse)

A new day is dawning
Black Muse
A new day is dawning
Black Muse

Now that eye got your attention
Eye think its 'bout time eye mention
The reason why eye wrote this song
Like a UFO sighting
From my heart eye am writing
The next close encounter
Tell me how long
Will it be on land or near the water
Will it produce the sun or the black moon daughter
Or a pillow covered with all our tears
1000 light years away from here
(1000 light years from here)

No yesterday or tomorrow
No better remedy for sorrow
Or why the 5th held forever will make you cry
Eye don't know why

1000 light years from here
(1000 light years from here)

2 unbroken circles joined together make a butterfly
Little darling don't you wanna try? (yeah I wanna try)
There ain't nothing better than looking for me (for me to)
And seeing you (seeing me)
Seeing you in the mirror
1000 light years away from here

Why do we always seem so far away?
When you know that eye really wanna be with you night and day
I'm running out of ways to say how
So eye think I'll just close
For now.

nod Sure sounds like it!

Hiya that's a beautiful song and it has the mirror reference down near the bottom. It does sound like it's about her. It was written in 2010 but it's on the latest album. biggrin

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Reply #2029 posted 05/30/16 5:05pm

beachy

purplegirl00 said:

beachy said:

Maybe I read too much in it but it does talk about separate journeys and seeing her on the other side.

We have no evidence that they ever got back together after 2007 so I'm trying to find a reason why. If they had got back together then he wouldn't be pining for her, and I dont think he would have been in Australia when she died, and I don't think she'd be forced to ask people for money.

I just had another thought. Based on FB posts, it seems that Denise really admired her pastors, the Harpers' & their marriage. Perhaps that's what she was hoping to have too. Denise and Prince gave each other decades of heartache and suffering and maybe it was too much for Denise to reconcile? Then the religion differences. Maybe there were too many hoops for Prince to jump through- not saying he didn't give a shot or wasn't working on it, but time waits for no one. sad

Prince wrote a song called "Time Waits for No One" its really beautiful from the early 90s. He gave it to Mavis Staples and you can find it on YT.

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I don't know I just think the ending where they are together at the end is hard to get my head around because there is not a peep from anyone that they ever saw each other since 2007. I believe that is the last time I know of that Vanity said they had talked on the phone, but even then she said she had not seen him face to face for many years. In later talks she gave, i don't think she ever spoke of seeing him, when asked she said it was private, but then again she would not want to admit publically that they had NOT spoken either, as she realized that her association with Prince was a main reason people came to hear her evangelize.

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Surely if they were close at the end someone would have phoned him when they took her to the hospital because she knew she was dying, she had said in church that night she was ready to go home. And Sunday the following day was Valentines Day which you would think he would have contacted her had they been in any kind of contact.

.Don't misunderstand I don't think their love diminished in fact I think it was hard to put into words and make it work in the real world.

[Edited 5/30/16 17:13pm]

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Reply #2030 posted 05/30/16 5:34pm

purplegirl00

beachy said:

purplegirl00 said:

I just had another thought. Based on FB posts, it seems that Denise really admired her pastors, the Harpers' & their marriage. Perhaps that's what she was hoping to have too. Denise and Prince gave each other decades of heartache and suffering and maybe it was too much for Denise to reconcile? Then the religion differences. Maybe there were too many hoops for Prince to jump through- not saying he didn't give a shot or wasn't working on it, but time waits for no one. sad

Prince wrote a song called "Time Waits for No One" its really beautiful from the early 90s. He gave it to Mavis Staples and you can find it on YT.

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I don't know I just think the ending where they are together at the end is hard to get my head around because there is not a peep from anyone that they ever saw each other since 2007. I believe that is the last time I know of that Vanity said they had talked on the phone, but even then she said she had not seen him face to face for many years. In later talks she gave, i don't think she ever spoke of seeing him, when asked she said it was private, but then again she would not want to admit publically that they had NOT spoken either, as she realized that her association with Prince was a main reason people came to hear her evangelize.

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Surely if they were close at the end someone would have phoned him when they took her to the hospital because she knew she was dying, she had said in church that night she was ready to go home. And Sunday the following day was Valentines Day which you would think he would have contacted her had they been in any kind of contact.

.Don't misunderstand I don't think their love diminished in fact I think it was hard to put into words and make it work in the real world.

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eek eek I had no idea he had a song with that title! I just dropped that comment on the fly. eek Now I need to go listen to that. WOW.

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Yes, someone would've called him and with Valentine's Day, the next day, he would've been in touch. I think you're right.

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Oh it definitely did not diminish the love & connection.

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Reply #2031 posted 05/30/16 6:28pm

purplegirl00

Just watched the video for "A Million Days" and I was trying to understand what's going on but the lady in the video is putting lipstick while looking in the mirror (2:31) and then the mirror does a kaleidoscope motion with the girl's face in the mirror. There are also clips of a couple showering throughout the video. I'm trying to figure out what the little girl represents- the child version of the girl? I don't know but it is interesting. Thoughts?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lFUmqIoCvTA

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Reply #2032 posted 05/30/16 7:00pm

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I was just reading about Vanity again and here one of her Christian friends confirmed that she loved Prince:

Denise considered me to be her "best friend" for the past 24 years. Denise often talked of her love for Prince and always called his name in prayer. It's true, she loved him and knew that she would never find what they shared in another human being. But One day she found a special love; a super abounding love and joy in Jesus. His love satisfied her till the day she departed. Did she still love Prince? Yes!! But the love of Jesus captures you and engulfs your entire being.

https://www.facebook.com/blameitonvanity/posts/10208207013326283

Love can last through the decades-and I do think her spirit wooed his to her and he left all of us

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Reply #2033 posted 05/30/16 7:14pm

wizardtelly

Vashtix said:

I was just reading about Vanity again and here one of her Christian friends confirmed that she loved Prince:




Denise considered me to be her "best friend" for the past 24 years. Denise often talked of her love for Prince and always called his name in prayer. It's true, she loved him and knew that she would never find what they shared in another human being. But One day she found a special love; a super abounding love and joy in Jesus. His love satisfied her till the day she departed. Did she still love Prince? Yes!! But the love of Jesus captures you and engulfs your entire being.



https://www.facebook.com/blameitonvanity/posts/10208207013326283





Love can last through the decades-and I do think her spirit wooed his to her and he left all of us




I've read something of that stature before. I think it's beautiful, that's something that also lead me to concluding that they both had an undying love for eachOther no matter how far in time or distant. The sexual flame didn't have to be lit because they found God in different ways and Denise especially tried to rebuke those sentiments to stay free of those demons of lust she felt troubling her from childhood. It makes sense due to the physical, sexual, and mental abuse she had to live through. I think Prince was always Prince and wrote "sexual songs" because he finally genuinely turned them into God songs. "Cum to revelation" is "Come to revelation" and that's special.

Personally, it's hard for me to separate Vanity from Denise because I see a beautiful woman who has just grown. I wonder what her life would be like had she not met Prince and though we will never know, I feel she would have passed years ahead of her time and had an even worse path. It's really humbling to read that she continuously prayed for him and loved him through the darkness.
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Reply #2034 posted 05/30/16 7:27pm

beachy

purplegirl00 said:

Just watched the video for "A Million Days" and I was trying to understand what's going on but the lady in the video is putting lipstick while looking in the mirror (2:31) and then the mirror does a kaleidoscope motion with the girl's face in the mirror. There are also clips of a couple showering throughout the video. I'm trying to figure out what the little girl represents- the child version of the girl? I don't know but it is interesting. Thoughts?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lFUmqIoCvTA

wow this is a hard one to figure out in general, not just regarding vanity or any other woman in Prince's life.

The song was written in 1995 right after Vanity got married presumably. Strange to write a song about losing someone just when supposedly the romance with mayte was getting hot and heavy, right? I presume its about Vanity and losing her.

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The video was done in 2004 and is harder to decipher. The girl has curly hair and reminds me more of Beyonce than Vanity. She is pictured in Medina. She is in a hotel room and the lady with dark straight hair is in her shower. Later she goes to the restaurant where the dark woman is with a man and the dark woman gets the lip gloss out and puts it on her. Then she puts it on herself in the mirror. It seems to be a bad dream. Prince is just playing his guitar in the studio. Finally the woman comes to the studio and Prince puts headphones on her, I guess its the song he just wrote. While she is listening to it he gets in the car and leaves her. So is this saying that if she succumbs to the song and does what it says she will be humiliated because there is a revenge plan behind it?

While she listens to the song there is more drama and what was particularly disturbing is at 3:36. There are many images of the dark woman, the man in the Room Tangier, an apple, and at 3:36 is the girl with what looks like white fur and royal jewelry but her hands are up and they have long demon like talons, on the palms of her hands is written the numeral 5. It goes by in a flash. Its very disturbing.

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I don't know what it means but somehow the young girl does look like the beyonce figure and the young girl seems to know what shes doing and disapproves.

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Reply #2035 posted 05/30/16 7:37pm

SunnyGirl8

purplegirl00 said:

Just watched the video for "A Million Days" and I was trying to understand what's going on but the lady in the video is putting lipstick while looking in the mirror (2:31) and then the mirror does a kaleidoscope motion with the girl's face in the mirror. There are also clips of a couple showering throughout the video. I'm trying to figure out what the little girl represents- the child version of the girl? I don't know but it is interesting. Thoughts?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lFUmqIoCvTA

Hiya PurpleGirl Sorry felt safer to go into detail here. I had a look I think it's meant to be a nightmare sequence. About (3:30) she's in bed and obviously dreaming and you see a someone in shower, couple at table, eyes closed, then she's the girl holding the guys hand, tossing and turning, red apple, little girl watching her on street, takes red apple, little girl again, tossing and turning, she's sitting looking at the mirror with the palm of her hand open, tossing and turning then ok this is really bizarre please freeze frame at 3:36 that's just bizarre you are seeing her reflection in the mirror and she has 5 on her palm but her hands duplicated.

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Yes it looks like her as a child. Lot going on. Taking the red apple? Do think this is about V. I really like the song. It was vague on PrinceVault when it was recorded (aluded to 1995) but released 2004.

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Reply #2036 posted 05/30/16 7:45pm

Vashtix

wizardtelly said:

Vashtix said:

I was just reading about Vanity again and here one of her Christian friends confirmed that she loved Prince:

Denise considered me to be her "best friend" for the past 24 years. Denise often talked of her love for Prince and always called his name in prayer. It's true, she loved him and knew that she would never find what they shared in another human being. But One day she found a special love; a super abounding love and joy in Jesus. His love satisfied her till the day she departed. Did she still love Prince? Yes!! But the love of Jesus captures you and engulfs your entire being.

https://www.facebook.com/blameitonvanity/posts/10208207013326283

Love can last through the decades-and I do think her spirit wooed his to her and he left all of us

I've read something of that stature before. I think it's beautiful, that's something that also lead me to concluding that they both had an undying love for eachOther no matter how far in time or distant. The sexual flame didn't have to be lit because they found God in different ways and Denise especially tried to rebuke those sentiments to stay free of those demons of lust she felt troubling her from childhood. It makes sense due to the physical, sexual, and mental abuse she had to live through. I think Prince was always Prince and wrote "sexual songs" because he finally genuinely turned them into God songs. "Cum to revelation" is "Come to revelation" and that's special. Personally, it's hard for me to separate Vanity from Denise because I see a beautiful woman who has just grown. I wonder what her life would be like had she not met Prince and though we will never know, I feel she would have passed years ahead of her time and had an even worse path. It's really humbling to read that she continuously prayed for him and loved him through the darkness.

It is clear her church family knew how deeply she always loved Prince - she told them things per what they say on Social media but none of them reveal much except she loved and prayed for him til her last breath. I love what you said about her loving him through the darkness; her spirit was with him through it all via all the prayers and love - traveled in the spirit world difrectly to him.

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Reply #2037 posted 05/30/16 7:49pm

purplegirl00

SunnyGirl8 said:

purplegirl00 said:

Just watched the video for "A Million Days" and I was trying to understand what's going on but the lady in the video is putting lipstick while looking in the mirror (2:31) and then the mirror does a kaleidoscope motion with the girl's face in the mirror. There are also clips of a couple showering throughout the video. I'm trying to figure out what the little girl represents- the child version of the girl? I don't know but it is interesting. Thoughts?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lFUmqIoCvTA

Hiya PurpleGirl Sorry felt safer to go into detail here. I had a look I think it's meant to be a nightmare sequence. About (3:30) she's in bed and obviously dreaming and you see a someone in shower, couple at table, eyes closed, then she's the girl holding the guys hand, tossing and turning, red apple, little girl watching her on street, takes red apple, little girl again, tossing and turning, she's sitting looking at the mirror with the palm of her hand open, tossing and turning then ok this is really bizarre please freeze frame at 3:36 that's just bizarre you are seeing her reflection in the mirror and she has 5 on her palm but her hands duplicated.

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Yes it looks like her as a child. Lot going on. Taking the red apple? Do think this is about V. I really like the song. It was vague on PrinceVault when it was recorded (aluded to 1995) but released 2004.

I am really diggin this song too, but there is A LOT to explore in that video. I did freeze the frame to have a look at 3:36 because it goes so fast, you'll miss it. It is a reflection of a girl, but what's up with the number 5 on her palms? I wonder why he released it in 2004 if he recorded earlier.

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Reply #2038 posted 05/30/16 8:02pm

beachy

purplegirl00 said:

SunnyGirl8 said:

Hiya PurpleGirl Sorry felt safer to go into detail here. I had a look I think it's meant to be a nightmare sequence. About (3:30) she's in bed and obviously dreaming and you see a someone in shower, couple at table, eyes closed, then she's the girl holding the guys hand, tossing and turning, red apple, little girl watching her on street, takes red apple, little girl again, tossing and turning, she's sitting looking at the mirror with the palm of her hand open, tossing and turning then ok this is really bizarre please freeze frame at 3:36 that's just bizarre you are seeing her reflection in the mirror and she has 5 on her palm but her hands duplicated.

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Yes it looks like her as a child. Lot going on. Taking the red apple? Do think this is about V. I really like the song. It was vague on PrinceVault when it was recorded (aluded to 1995) but released 2004.

I am really diggin this song too, but there is A LOT to explore in that video. I did freeze the frame to have a look at 3:36 because it goes so fast, you'll miss it. It is a reflection of a girl, but what's up with the number 5 on her palms? I wonder why he released it in 2004 if he recorded earlier.

[Edited 5/30/16 19:56pm]

I agree the woman in the mirror looks like Vanity of the UTCM vibe. That sequence has the 30s glamour.

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I don't get the dark haired girl but of all of Prince's women she reminds me of Susan Moonsie the most. The man she is with in the restaurant has a purple shirt on. Is it Prince? Then in the nightmare sequence it flashes by that the beyonce figure has taken the moonsie girl's place. The way Vanity took Moonsie's place? And Moonsie is very kind and helps her with her makeup so she can look good for Prince?

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I don't know what 5 might mean. There's lots of stuff it 'could' mean but nothing that I can think of to relate it directly to Prince. In the frame with the 5 on her palms she looks demonic. her fingernails are long like talons.

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The timing is curious. This is 2004 and he's right in the middle of his marriage to Mani and his Musicology comeback.

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The little girl is with her parents, the man is black the woman is blonde/white. Vanity connection?

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Why does Prince get in the car and leave her in the studio? She doesn't seem to realize he left her and it doesn't go with the song.

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If the Beyonce figure is Vanity is he finally delivering to her the song he wrote in 1995, she gets to listen to it now inn 2004, but he has already left the room. Why does her younger self look at her disapprovingly? the apple has to represent succumbing to temptation and it appears to be the man's hand that takes it. Vanity is seen bathed in green, the color of envy.

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Reply #2039 posted 05/30/16 8:11pm

purplegirl00

beachy said:

purplegirl00 said:

I am really diggin this song too, but there is A LOT to explore in that video. I did freeze the frame to have a look at 3:36 because it goes so fast, you'll miss it. It is a reflection of a girl, but what's up with the number 5 on her palms? I wonder why he released it in 2004 if he recorded earlier.

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I agree the woman in the mirror looks like Vanity of the UTCM vibe. That sequence has the 30s glamour.

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I don't get the dark haired girl but of all of Prince's women she reminds me of Susan Moonsie the most.

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I don't know what 5 might mean. There's lots of stuff it 'could' mean but nothing that I can think of to relate it directly to Prince.

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The timing is curious. This is 2004 and he's right in the middle of his marriage and his Musicology comeback.

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The little girl is with her parents, the man is black the woman is blonde/white. Vanity connection?

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Why does Prince get in the car and leave her in the studio? She doesn't seem to realize he left her and it doesn't go with the song.

I agree the timing of the release is a little curious to me.

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I noticed the little girl's parents as well and wondered too.

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Yea, I don't know why he leaves her, if he's saying "come back home baby" near the end. Lyrically, it makes sense that it would about Vanity and in the video I noticed the reflection and girl putting lipstick, but everything else is strange.

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