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Reply #180 posted 03/20/09 6:02pm

Anxiety

GloriaStienem said:

I don't wish to place any disparagement on Manuela or her personal/previous life.

I'm just here to let you know that, as a friend of Eric Benet's, I know that Eric has a personal girlfriend who he's been with for years. He protects her from the public eye because of his celebrity.

I don't know personally of whatever arrangement Manuela has with Eric Benet. But if she's looking at a deep love connection, there's somebody else already filling that space with Eric.

This was only to clear up the speculation of there being a deep boyfriend/girlfriend committed hookup between Eric Benet and Manuela. No so.


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Reply #181 posted 03/20/09 7:40pm

NuPwrSoul

salaciousV said:

GloriaStienem said:

I don't wish to place any disparagement on Manuela or her personal/previous life.

I'm just here to let you know that, as a friend of Eric Benet's, I know that Eric has a personal girlfriend who he's been with for years. He protects her from the public eye because of his celebrity.

I don't know personally of whatever arrangement Manuela has with Eric Benet. But if she's looking at a deep love connection, there's somebody else already filling that space with Eric.

This was only to clear up the speculation of there being a deep boyfriend/girlfriend committed hookup between Eric Benet and Manuela. No so.


eek


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Reply #182 posted 03/20/09 10:17pm

Vendetta1

GloriaStienem said:

I don't wish to place any disparagement on Manuela or her personal/previous life.

I'm just here to let you know that, as a friend of Eric Benet's, I know that Eric has a personal girlfriend who he's been with for years. He protects her from the public eye because of his celebrity.

I don't know personally of whatever arrangement Manuela has with Eric Benet. But if she's looking at a deep love connection, there's somebody else already filling that space with Eric.

This was only to clear up the speculation of there being a deep boyfriend/girlfriend committed hookup between Eric Benet and Manuela. No so.
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Reply #183 posted 03/21/09 6:11am

VenusBlingBlin
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Must have been a pissed girflriend when Eric talked about Manuela as the new love in his life.
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Reply #184 posted 03/21/09 12:09pm

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GloriaStienem said:

I don't wish to place any disparagement on Manuela or her personal/previous life.

I'm just here to let you know that, as a friend of Eric Benet's, I know that Eric has a personal girlfriend who he's been with for years. He protects her from the public eye because of his celebrity.

I don't know personally of whatever arrangement Manuela has with Eric Benet. But if she's looking at a deep love connection, there's somebody else already filling that space with Eric.

This was only to clear up the speculation of there being a deep boyfriend/girlfriend committed hookup between Eric Benet and Manuela. No so.

What in theee hayell?!?!
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Reply #185 posted 03/21/09 1:49pm

TypoQueen

GloriaStienem said:

I don't wish to place any disparagement on Manuela or her personal/previous life.

I'm just here to let you know that, as a friend of Eric Benet's, I know that Eric has a personal girlfriend who he's been with for years. He protects her from the public eye because of his celebrity.

I don't know personally of whatever arrangement Manuela has with Eric Benet. But if she's looking at a deep love connection, there's somebody else already filling that space with Eric.

This was only to clear up the speculation of there being a deep boyfriend/girlfriend committed hookup between Eric Benet and Manuela. No so.

rolleyes



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Reply #186 posted 03/21/09 2:11pm

Zannaloaf

mayrain said:

NuPwrSoul said:

I too am puzzled (well not really) at the hate being directed at her.

As far as I'm concerned (from a fan's perspective), some of the best things happened in Princedom while he was married to her...

We got three celebrations at Paisley Park--something that she was very involved in planning/executing; we got a real online music club that offered downloads and exclusive access (soundcheck, aftershows, and presales), we got a more fanfriendly Prince willing to walk around/stand around fans (at the Celebrations), take questions from members of the audience (at soundchecks), and some great music: The Rainbow Children, One Nite Alone, CNOTE, Xpectations, NEWS, Musicology.

In looking back, the "Manuela" Prince years were some of the best years to be a fan.

Upon her departure, we got a shutdown of NPGMC, internet darkness, cease and desist letters flying left and right, a take down of all Prince imagery & sound, a failed protege project (Tamar's "Milk & Honey" which is a very strong R&B record), and a shift to very high end / upscale parties/concerts for millionaire birthdays, and the Hollywood set.

Hmmmm.


How Do U know it was Mani that gave him those ideas. Prince is a very capable man I'm sure he gets tired of folks giving credit to his loves for things other than songs. Trust me Mani was just the face but not the inspiration behind those ideas. Prince is a very smart man if he kept certain things going she would've had more false right to his money. Why do you think he moved tore down the house and is renting. It is so that there wasn't a paper trail. Just like he changed his name so that Warner wouldn't have any ties to his music for the years that he was still under contract with them it's the same thing with Mani. She was smart but not Prince smart he has two heads working at all times. I think people are not dumb and they can see right through her it's like people have more respect for an honest person than someone who isn't so honest. It's okay if you wanna be married to Rock Stars just don't say you don't when all you date is Rock Stars. People can smell fake a mile away and that is why I think there is so much passion behind the mani comments not hate.


Prince smart? Um- what world do you live in? The one that only looks at his successes? Come on! He seems to wallow the most when he has no one around to bounce ideas off of. Smart is planning and follow through, not just ideas. I'd say his follow through was awfully good when he was married to Mani. What does that say? Coincidence or ....nah..not going there...lol.
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Reply #187 posted 03/21/09 4:21pm

babynoz

KidaDynamite said:

GloriaStienem said:

I don't wish to place any disparagement on Manuela or her personal/previous life.

I'm just here to let you know that, as a friend of Eric Benet's, I know that Eric has a personal girlfriend who he's been with for years. He protects her from the public eye because of his celebrity.

I don't know personally of whatever arrangement Manuela has with Eric Benet. But if she's looking at a deep love connection, there's somebody else already filling that space with Eric.

This was only to clear up the speculation of there being a deep boyfriend/girlfriend committed hookup between Eric Benet and Manuela. No so.

What in theee hayell?!?!



lol
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Reply #188 posted 03/21/09 4:32pm

DesireeNevermi
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GloriaStienem said:

I don't wish to place any disparagement on Manuela or her personal/previous life.

I'm just here to let you know that, as a friend of Eric Benet's, I know that Eric has a personal girlfriend who he's been with for years. He protects her from the public eye because of his celebrity.

I don't know personally of whatever arrangement Manuela has with Eric Benet. But if she's looking at a deep love connection, there's somebody else already filling that space with Eric.

This was only to clear up the speculation of there being a deep boyfriend/girlfriend committed hookup between Eric Benet and Manuela. No so.


So in other words, Eric getting some free poon tang on the side while he publicly dates Mani and tells the press she's his woman. Shit with that kind of arrangement what the hell she leave Prince for?
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Reply #189 posted 03/21/09 4:33pm

salaciousV

DesireeNevermind said:

GloriaStienem said:

I don't wish to place any disparagement on Manuela or her personal/previous life.

I'm just here to let you know that, as a friend of Eric Benet's, I know that Eric has a personal girlfriend who he's been with for years. He protects her from the public eye because of his celebrity.

I don't know personally of whatever arrangement Manuela has with Eric Benet. But if she's looking at a deep love connection, there's somebody else already filling that space with Eric.

This was only to clear up the speculation of there being a deep boyfriend/girlfriend committed hookup between Eric Benet and Manuela. No so.


So in other words, Eric getting some free poon tang on the side while he publicly dates Mani and tells the press she's his woman. Shit with that kind of arrangement what the hell she leave Prince for?
confused disbelief


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Reply #190 posted 03/21/09 4:56pm

mayrain

Yes I think Prince is smart. If that rubs you the wrong way maybe you should try another angle. smile
Proverbs 23:9
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Reply #191 posted 03/22/09 12:03pm

Shyra

squirrelgrease said:

Vendetta1 said:

funny how this woman is hated but we celebrate angelina jolie.


To set the record straight, Angelina Jolie is a succubus.




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Reply #192 posted 03/22/09 12:07pm

Shyra

NuPwrSoul said:

I too am puzzled (well not really) at the hate being directed at her.

As far as I'm concerned (from a fan's perspective), some of the best things happened in Princedom while he was married to her...

We got three celebrations at Paisley Park--something that she was very involved in planning/executing; we got a real online music club that offered downloads and exclusive access (soundcheck, aftershows, and presales), we got a more fanfriendly Prince willing to walk around/stand around fans (at the Celebrations), take questions from members of the audience (at soundchecks), and some great music: The Rainbow Children, One Nite Alone, CNOTE, Xpectations, NEWS, Musicology.

In looking back, the "Manuela" Prince years were some of the best years to be a fan.

Upon her departure, we got a shutdown of NPGMC, internet darkness, cease and desist letters flying left and right, a take down of all Prince imagery & sound, a failed protege project (Tamar's "Milk & Honey" which is a very strong R&B record), and a shift to very high end / upscale parties/concerts for millionaire birthdays, and the Hollywood set.

Hmmmm.


Now here's an observation that makes a hell of a lot of sense!
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Reply #193 posted 03/24/09 7:25am

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Anxiety said:

sometimes i feel like prince (the person) is like a bugzapper and prince (the icon) is the pretty glowing light that attracts moths (fans), and when they get too close...ZAP!!! dead

i've never heard a story of someone starting out as a fan, getting invited somehow into his world as a friend/employee/spouse, then leaving his world on glowing terms.

it's kind of sad, really...i'd hate to have decades of fun ruined by getting to know the source of that fun and being disillusioned by him.


Yeah,sounds like a horrible thing to go through after years of adoration and loving his music and the man from afar, being a fan and then for it all to so not turn out how you thought it would. To be in love with your favorite musician/idol/music....have a once in a lifetime opportunity to get into his inner circle, his world, his heart and then for it all to disintegrate/fail/unsuccessfully. How do you recover from that? A man like Prince plays such an important and huge role in front and behind the scenes in the worlds of music and entertainment, so it's not like you can truly escape his image, sound,Jay Leno shows etc. I mean, it's not like she was married to just any singer, she married Prince. She pursued him, but guess what, he accepted. I wonder why she still chooses to live in the same state that Prince does. I guess she REALLY IS over HIM! LOL.
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Reply #194 posted 03/27/09 12:03pm

SomewhereHereO
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Marie0124 said:

She used Prince for clearly one's business.
She doesn't have thanks to Prince.

sad but true...
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Reply #195 posted 03/28/09 5:17am

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moderator

wildgoldenhoney said:

wonder505 said:



you are? lol why?

you could actually find it online i think still, with her name displayed, the prince alt archives. i believe. someone had forwarded them to me a long time ago bcuz i didn't know how to search for that. it was kind of interesting cuz going from online fan to wife, but hey it paid off so hey, can't hate.
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I'm a very curios person.

lol

What was her username?

Manuela Testolini

In 1997-8 she posted at least 12 times in newsgroups alt.music.prince and once in alt.astrology
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Reply #196 posted 03/28/09 1:33pm

lladygold

people please bria is not any better than manie. they r all the same just diffrent faces, but all the same.
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Reply #197 posted 03/28/09 8:12pm

prodigalfan

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Vendetta1 said:

i don't know about anyone else, but i would have been on the phone. i would have been calling friends and family, at the very least. i will not speculate on why manuela called cnn because i cannot know what she was thinking.

i don't understand the nastiness directed towards her, period. she has done nothing to anyone here and NO ONE, none of you, know the facts behind her marriage to prince.

for all we know, prince's marriage to mayte was over when he met her. maybe they became friends during his marriage and she was there for him during a painful period in his life. i don't know. my own life would shrink under this type of spotlight so i am in no position to judge anyone.

even if the rumors are true, funny how this woman is hated but we celebrate angelina jolie. is it because prince is someone people here want? is it just people like to gossip about other people's lives?

i'm 40 years old and i just think this type of shit is childish.


Had to respond. Jolie is home wreaking bitch as well. Yeah, I said it!
"Remember, one man's filler is another man's killer" -- Haystack
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Reply #198 posted 03/28/09 8:15pm

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Giovanni777 said:

Anxiety said:



how does one weigh or measure opportunism in a person? we're all opportunistic to some degree, aren't we? it's one thing to call someone a liar and to say "so-and-so lied about this, this, this, this AND this." okay, that's measurable. but opportunism? ambition? i'd even venture to say it's hard to measure selfishness, because to some extent we're all selfish.


A girl should be able 2 go 4 her own, and not be negatively labeled 4 doing so, but it was like interrupting recording sessions unnecessarily, trying 2 get other people recording time, etc.

I actually liked Mani, from what little I knew, until I heard stuff like this. I mean, the source is the type of person that would never bad-mouth ANYONE like that... very professional.

U do know that Prince's last website wasn't just shut down 4 any old reason, right? He had 2 shut it down because of the divorce.



All the more reason to be pissed at Mani. I had just joined that "lifetime membership club" 2 months before it closed down. So It was Mani's fault huh??

lol
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Reply #199 posted 03/28/09 8:24pm

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DevotedPuppy said:

Boriqua1130 said:


Who in their right sense would think of calling CNN while there are gunmen shooting at you and others?



Vendetta1 said:

i don't know about anyone else, but i would have been on the phone. i would have been calling friends and family, at the very least. i will not speculate on why manuela called cnn because i cannot know what she was thinking.


I remember thinking it was actually very smart of her to call CNN because iirc, they had to leave their table so quickly they didn't have time to take their personal belongings (phones, blackberrys, etc.) with them. She borrowed someone's phone and didn't have time to call everyone (and maybe didn't even know some of their numbers by heart). By calling CNN she was able to get her name plastered all over CNN, thus communicating to anyone watching (friends, family, etc.) that she was alive, and relatively okay.

twocents


Actuallly when I first found out about the call to CNN, I actually thought the same thing Devoted.
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Reply #200 posted 03/28/09 8:34pm

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DesireeNevermind said:

GloriaStienem said:

I don't wish to place any disparagement on Manuela or her personal/previous life.

I'm just here to let you know that, as a friend of Eric Benet's, I know that Eric has a personal girlfriend who he's been with for years. He protects her from the public eye because of his celebrity.

I don't know personally of whatever arrangement Manuela has with Eric Benet. But if she's looking at a deep love connection, there's somebody else already filling that space with Eric.

This was only to clear up the speculation of there being a deep boyfriend/girlfriend committed hookup between Eric Benet and Manuela. No so.


So in other words, Eric getting some free poon tang on the side while he publicly dates Mani and tells the press she's his woman. Shit with that kind of arrangement what the hell she leave Prince for?
confused disbelief



speculation and old insinuations... but Mani left Prince because he left her. If your husband has abandoned your marriage (even if he has not filed for divorce) and refuses to have contact with you.. how long are you going to remain entangled in that marriage? After months of no progress... it is time to move on with your life. Mani is young, beautiful.. she could get divorced, get paid and meet a new man, eventually get married and have those children you obviously was not going to get in your current circumstances.

This is what I believe happened. I remember a Mani "supporter" who basically said that she "heard" that Prince had Mani's locked out of the house... she was kicked to the curb. Yet, it was Mani filed for divorce. I would have filed as well.

I DON'T BELIEVE THAT ANY WOMAN (except Vanity) EVER LEFT PRINCE UNLESS PRINCE WAS THROUGH WITH THE RELATIONSHIP AND HAD ALREADY MOVED ON. Even Nona thought she was still dating prince and he was engaged. Now if she went to the media and said she broke up with Prince, did SHE do the breaking up or did Prince break it off?
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Reply #201 posted 03/28/09 9:49pm

ThreadBare

TheStar.com

said:

Being green is a way of life for Testolini. Speaking to me from her second home in West Hollywood, she lists its eco-credentials.

Her living room features non-toxic carpet and couches fashioned from organic cotton and reclaimed wood. And in Toronto, she's the proud owner of a home with a green roof and a hybrid Lexus SUV.


It's an odd article, I agree. Someone could read those two paragraphs at their environmental face value or look at it from the perspective of "divorce settlement money."

Still, what one comes away with is that Manuela was far different from any of the other women Prince has been associated with. "This one," has he apparently referred to her in a song off TRC, had a whole lot of business sense. How many other woman associated with P have ever had the phrase "... on a business trip to Mumbai..." mentioned with their names?

She might have been a stalker; she might have been a gold-digger. She might have been wronged by him, for all we know. Still, it's refreshing to see a non-protegé, former Prince flame standing on her own two feet and doing her thing.

May we all find a similar degree of hustle.
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Reply #202 posted 03/29/09 2:19pm

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I never believe in her ... she loves money at all...
Forever in my life...
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Reply #203 posted 03/30/09 12:36pm

DesireeNevermi
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prodigalfan said:

DesireeNevermind said:



So in other words, Eric getting some free poon tang on the side while he publicly dates Mani and tells the press she's his woman. Shit with that kind of arrangement what the hell she leave Prince for?
confused disbelief



speculation and old insinuations... but Mani left Prince because he left her. If your husband has abandoned your marriage (even if he has not filed for divorce) and refuses to have contact with you.. how long are you going to remain entangled in that marriage? After months of no progress... it is time to move on with your life. Mani is young, beautiful.. she could get divorced, get paid and meet a new man, eventually get married and have those children you obviously was not going to get in your current circumstances.

This is what I believe happened. I remember a Mani "supporter" who basically said that she "heard" that Prince had Mani's locked out of the house... she was kicked to the curb. Yet, it was Mani filed for divorce. I would have filed as well.

I DON'T BELIEVE THAT ANY WOMAN (except Vanity) EVER LEFT PRINCE UNLESS PRINCE WAS THROUGH WITH THE RELATIONSHIP AND HAD ALREADY MOVED ON. Even Nona thought she was still dating prince and he was engaged. Now if she went to the media and said she broke up with Prince, did SHE do the breaking up or did Prince break it off?


i believe that was Mayte he locked out the house not Mani. there's truth in speculation and insinuations, you never know what someone knows or who they know. in any case, the whole alienation of affection was temporary, they were going thru a bad spell and I honestly don't believe she loved prince the person but prince the artist - didn't love him enuf to weather the "for worse" part of the marriage vows. He can be very difficult, as evidenced by his never ending failed relationships and need to control the women in his life. I still believe that if Eric has a side piece then Mani should have tolerated Prince having a side piece. But then again, Eric is younger and probably more suitable to her. confused
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Reply #204 posted 03/30/09 12:41pm

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If even a fangirl like Mani could not stand to live with him - who will? eek
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Reply #205 posted 03/31/09 9:05pm

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DesireeNevermind said:

prodigalfan said:




speculation and old insinuations... but Mani left Prince because he left her. If your husband has abandoned your marriage (even if he has not filed for divorce) and refuses to have contact with you.. how long are you going to remain entangled in that marriage? After months of no progress... it is time to move on with your life. Mani is young, beautiful.. she could get divorced, get paid and meet a new man, eventually get married and have those children you obviously was not going to get in your current circumstances.

This is what I believe happened. I remember a Mani "supporter" who basically said that she "heard" that Prince had Mani's locked out of the house... she was kicked to the curb. Yet, it was Mani filed for divorce. I would have filed as well.

I DON'T BELIEVE THAT ANY WOMAN (except Vanity) EVER LEFT PRINCE UNLESS PRINCE WAS THROUGH WITH THE RELATIONSHIP AND HAD ALREADY MOVED ON. Even Nona thought she was still dating prince and he was engaged. Now if she went to the media and said she broke up with Prince, did SHE do the breaking up or did Prince break it off?


i believe that was Mayte he locked out the house not Mani. there's truth in speculation and insinuations, you never know what someone knows or who they know. in any case, the whole alienation of affection was temporary, they were going thru a bad spell and I honestly don't believe she loved prince the person but prince the artist - didn't love him enuf to weather the "for worse" part of the marriage vows. He can be very difficult, as evidenced by his never ending failed relationships and need to control the women in his life. I still believe that if Eric has a side piece then Mani should have tolerated Prince having a side piece. But then again, Eric is younger and probably more suitable to her. confused



I just find it hard to believe that after all it took Mani to get Prince from Mayte... you know she had to compete for attention and try to "one up" Mayte when competing for his love... that after she "won" the man, that she would not just walk away because another chick is on the scene. Now I could see her getting bored with him etc. But the way it seems she likes going to red carpet events etc... Prince and Mani were really hitting all the big events, and after the split Prince goes to Hollywood and throws exclusive celebrity filled parties... I would think Mani would want to be right there.

No way would a chick mess up all that hard work she did. She left her family and country FOR GOD'S SAKE. Do you think she would pick up her ball and go home that easily? Nah... I think she picked up her ball and went home because she was the only one left on the court... Prince had left a long time ago and he wasn't coming back.
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Reply #206 posted 04/08/09 11:58am

SomewhereHereO
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langebleu said:

wildgoldenhoney said:


I'm a very curios person.

lol

What was her username?

Manuela Testolini

In 1997-8 she posted at least 12 times in newsgroups alt.music.prince and once in alt.astrology

wow...interesting
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