I met some women that didn't like to be licked too. BUt I never thought it was a genuine "dislike" of cunnilingus. And I was right, 'cause at the end of the day, ALL of them ended up enjoying being licked from time to time. The issue was lack of confidence.

The statndard situtaion was the one as given by Dave1992 : The girl loves being penetrated, fingered, she even enjoys giving oral sex to me, but for some reason would hold back my head whenever I tried to go down. Some reasons they gave me :

- "That one guy once did it to me. I didn't like" (I understand it as "he didn't do it right")

- "I'm not shaved" (I'm not actually a big fan of bald pussy. I do not want to see no bush either. Just trimmed is fine. I love some hair down there).

- "I don't think it's clean" (meaning : "I'm afraid some smell might turn you off"... Even if she just took a shower).

This last one being the main reason most of the time. Many women lacks confidence, I'm sure they'd enjoy it but they are afraid the guy turns out to be disgusted, revelsed by a dfirty smelly vagina.

So what I do? Simple. Since most won't say no to being fingered, I do finger them. And then lookoing into their eyes, I lick my finger (a la Prince LOL), basically saying : "this taste good. I want more".

Oh another tip : Never go straight to licking the pussay. Kiss the belly first, the button belly, the inner thighs, the feet, the butt. She needs to get used to 'have' your mouth isthose area first.

Please unless it smells like rotten salmon, NEVER smell your finger (or at least try to do it discreetly).

Of course this is not science, I won't say EVERY woman will enjoy it that way, but most will...

EvilAngel said:

Shorty said:

geeeze! I read almost this whole thread and NO one mentioned FRICTION!

I DON'T LIKE BEING LICKED EITHER! there...I said it. I just don't...mainly because it's too wet. I like a little friction down there and licking and sucking doesn't provide that.

dang...it ain't that complicated folx.

My tongue is like sandpaper.

paintedlady said:

I learned a few things regarding logistics...

1. Most people with fake teeth generally do not like to kiss or engage in oral sex. I know this because ALL of my girlfriends with fake teeth that are removeable will not kiss their partners. Crazy.

2. A frustrated person will just pound the hell outta you in because they are using sex as a release of their own tension.... your orgasm be damned.

3. Different twats got different spots that need attention. Vulvas vary in shape and so must the nerve endings have so you men have added work of finding all her erogenous zones and all women are different.

Some women like how it feels when they are hairy, others like sex better when they are bald.

Some women like doggy style, other women hate it.

Some women love anal... some you better not even try it.

So women like to be stirred and stroked slowly, some prefer a good hard pounding.

Some like big dicks, others run from big dicks.

This you must remember when dealing with women, WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT. Women are really "individual creatures" so no one "recipe" for sex is universal. Especially since women tend to change their likes/tastes with each different partner.

She may like oral sex with one guy and not the other....

so if she doesn't like cunnilingus with you, maybe its "you" and not "her". Sowwy.

Different strokes for different folks

PANDURITO said:

Obviously she's had a bad experience.

Someone must have told her something nasty bout her coochie's odour or something and now she's traumatized.

I wouldn't say obviously, but possibly. We don't know for sure.