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yeah thats EXACTLY what i said and meant in my initial response. DERP
concerning egos in parental and all other relationships.... i can only suggest that you talk with wiser people or read basic psysch books. and yes i totally agree and understand what youre saying about the happiness of people you love- but that in no way negates the ego issues otherwise we'd all have conflict-free,happy relationships w/ everyone in our lives and that don't happen does it.
why are you makingit aq big deal? if she doesnt want you to go down on her then don't. THE END it never had to big deal. you asked her why, she anwserd you. you appear to not like the anwser you got.
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when I'm having sex with somebody, and that somebody just keeps looking at "me" I assume something's "wrong"; perhaps it's paranoia, yes...
I think to myself "I'm doing it "right"" when the sex partner just keeps screaming and closing the eyes due to the "extreme" pleasure, etc; but those wordless/long looks into the eyes are just CREEPY/WORRYING...
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Who said that there is no screaming, moaning and sexy talk involved and it is just about looking you in the eyes. Ain't nothing worse for me than silent sex . And I guess that is one of the reasons why I love giving blowjobs so much because it is easier for me to focus on his lust and reactions than with everything else we might do. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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oh, ok then | |
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You willing to take that chance & and be on the list of guys who "haven't done it right"? | |
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dang!!! all of em'?? | |
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I was generalizing as far as logistics are concerned during sex... not specifying your unique situation. Again..I was speaking in general to illustrate why people tend to not like oral sex/kissing/yadda yadda.
Some of us do not consider oral sex to be "passive"... I read that and that's besides the point.
BTW I can read so just fine.... your insults really do not help you or your situation. Hey, if it makes you feel better to talk shit then whatever. I don't have these problems.
Oh well, maybe she just doesn't want you sucking on her pussy... just live with that. No biggie. No need to try to pick the girl apart over it.
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I am over 40 so are most of my friends.
The women who do have fake teeth/partials do NOT like to kiss let alone engage in oral sex of any kind (this is not an issue for my frineds who have their teeth intact). I think it may really be an age gap sorta thing due to their own Puritanical upbringing...
who knows really? they just do not do that stuff.
My friends that do engage in oral sex like it VERY much, and so do I.
I can not imagine not kissing!
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I am realizing I am just like you. I never really thought about it before, but yeah... someone staring at me while I give them head would creep me the fuck out or make me worry.
Glancing is OK... but staring at me the entire time?
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Reminds me of Bernie Mac's stand-up discussing this very topic (I think from Kings of Comedy?),
"what the f*** you lookin' at me for ???"
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Bernie was always on point with his skits. I loved his perenting skits they always had me in tears from laughing so hard!
RIP Bernie, you are missed. | |
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Did you ask her if somebody had ever told her she was riding the stink train? Seriously, I've known more than one woman who was VERY self-conscious about that because someone had told them they smelled at one time or another. Maybe she does smell. | |
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Maybe some stud squirted his sperm into her pussy before you wanted to lick her and she felt a bit uncomfortable because you might have noticed it and she was too embarrassed to tell you about it or simply didn´t feel like telling you? It´s not necessarily your fault and maybe she doesn´t have a problem with getting her pussy licked in a serious relationship but you said:" She's extremely sexual, gets horny VERY quickly and once she is horny it's VERY difficult to make her stop (she'd even do it in a restaurant). There's certainly no sexual energy missing."
With her being "so sexual" I´d never rule out the possibility that she´s been giving it to all them graffiti dudes just like Rose, if you catch my drift.
So maybe having some remaining cum in her pussy is what makes her feel a bit uncomfortable when you want to go downtown? Then again, you said you fingerfucked her....so you would have noticed if she had a load in her but then again, things can be a bit tricky when the juices of passion blend inside. She was probably too worried about you noticing that she´d sex with someone else before. If I were you, I´d straight up ask her whether THAT is the real problem.
Then again, maybe she just doesn´t like cunnilingus. Oral sex is a bit overrated anyway.
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That sounds as if you rely your judgement from what you've seen in porn movies.
Girls and boys copy behavior if they think 'that's the way I should behave'. So, girls will give you the whole show with screams, moans and other Hollywood worthy moves.
If you interpret that as prove that you are pleasing her, you might want to watch this scene again:
http://www.youtube.com/wa...FpnPZpFTEk
I was like that when I was younger. Or when I'm wasn't really into it and I want the guy just to come, so at least I got over with it fast so I could leave.
Now I'm more in touch with my body. So, I sometimes can be wild, if that suits my mood. Or can be calm and wordless, because I'm enjoying myself, the moment, the atmosphere etc.
I've been very quite whilst having a great time and have been screaming and moaning while being very bored.
So, you might want to reconsider your conclusions about different behaviours.........
[How on earth do I embed youtube clips nowadays? edit]
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Hmm that thought would have never crossed my mind . I know that you did not mean to generalize it and that it was not your intention to say that women who are like that fuck around, but I just wanted to point out that someone being a sexual person does not mean at all that that person is having sex with many partners. I have a lot of sexual energy, but I am totally not interested in sleeping around. I just cannot get enough of the partner I am with when I am in a relationship. I know that many people have that impression of somebody who loves sex or dresses sexy and that can be frustrating at times . But I guess that the woman Dave is talking about probably is interested in having fun with many men, so you could be right with what you are saying.... With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Could be and yes that happens, but in most cases I don't think that women just fake their lust that often when they are loud and show how much they enjoy themselves. [Edited 7/7/12 15:15pm] With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Wait...
Maybe her pussy smells? Maybe they figured it's best if a man don't go down because they may come up, like Martin Lawrence said, with a yeast infection.
That's why folks gotta talk to each other before sucking dick or pussy. Ladies, check the dick, men, check the clit.
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And when a girl is quiet that doesn't necessarily mean she is not enjoying herself.
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I actually think porn doesn't help in sex. You're so focused on what you see someone do that if they don't do it like they do in that porno, they ain't shit. | |
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very true
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I agree With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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I´m not judging anybody, least of all women who fuck a lot with many different partners. I don´t care whether they "sleep" with one man or a dozen, it´s none of my business, and if they have a lot of sexual energy and fuck with many men, then so be it. And if they focus that energy on ONE partner only, it´s all good too. With this humid summer heat, I shouldn´t be on the org anyway. But I was watching the Klitchko fight. Now I have to go out and get my freak on. Because you know, it´s summertime. Folks are in HEAT.
This weather makes me horny. Sweet, sweet sticky thing. " I´d rather be a stank ass hoe because I´m not stupid. Oh my goodness! I got more drugs! I´m always funny dude...I´m hilarious! Are we gonna smoke?" | |
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Agreed. Kids of very young ages have acces to porn by internet. They just look up daddy's cookies .
I worry children/young teens only can get educated about their bodies, their sensations and the experience of sex by porn movies.
The porn industry is setting the standard for how to behave when having sex. That idea worries me. A lot.
It's as if the Paris-Hilton-looking-for-bff-show is the general assumed standard for friendships.
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Cool, I can dig that. I just don't like it when some people make false assumptions and that happens quite often. Some people assume that you necessarily sleep around when you act like this or dress like that and that is just not true and annoying. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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if you were like that when you were younger, then I'm sorry that you had to fake it to get through it as soon as possible...perhaps having sex that night with that somebody was a bad/rushed idea to begin with...and it's kinda sad that you think girls (and boys) copy the cliches they see in a porn movie, because I seriously think porn copied REAL life sex to begin with, not the other way around: people already screamed and said/did nasty things and similar stuff during sex since the caveman days...
my first post was about people staring at each other WITHOUT sayin' a word during the coitus/oral sex; as I've said before, that just creeps the fuck out of me to the point I lost all the excitement...
by screaming I didn't mean FAKE "wild" screams to encourage the male; more like what Serious said: screaming, moaning and sexy talk...
if I was making love and the sex partner was just there, semi-still, glancing at me and just being passive, I would automatically think that something's wrong...call me paranoid
cold/wordless sex is something that doesn't exist in my universe, or sex without an oral foreplay (what this thread is about, anyway)
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fair enough
but that doesn't mean it has to be sexy or entertaining
c'mon, not even some warm, heartfelt, uncontrollable moaning?
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preach it man, preach it
July is, indeed, the month of love (Julius Caesar, horniest Roman general of all time, God bless him)
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