slimhustle said:

Vendetta1 said:

I so want to make love to you down my the fire.

Love you, beautiful. Miss you.

It's not like this feeling of insanity hits me everyday. Most guys I just ignore and keep going. Very few interest me longer than just a quick hello. Of the ones that I actually give a chance, 9 out of 10 of them I lost interet in very quickly. With this guy, he is/was totally under my skin and I haven't even as much kissed, hugged or shagged the guy. It's the scariest and most neurotic I've ever felt about a guy in my entire life (I'm in my early 30s). It goes beyond physical attraction and it's scary. The fact that he was trying to make me jealous the other day with all that nonsense made it even worse. The look on his face showed me that his feelings were hurt and I never want to see him hurt like that again....I've made other guys jealous before with my antics and never gave a damn beyond the moment and was quite entertained by it, however, it wasn't the same as with this guy. I damn near cried on the subway back home afterwards, it was horrible.

it's hard to describe folks, just a Haley's comet of the heart (Please spare me the snarky comments, I am feeling a bit depressed even though I am ignoring him).

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[Edited 11/30/11 21:23pm]

PurpleJedi said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Yeah agreed, I just got another email from him with all this nonsense in it....he's like, "You think what you've done is so important. You're an empress, goddess and have superior intellect"...this is the type of stuff he says to insult me...geez, LOL.

I think if I had the money right now, I'd just get my tubes tied and get it over with, seriously

YEAH...it's about time to block his email, no?

Where's Paintedlady and JustErin?...back me up on this...

Hurray!!!

This is the truth right here!

The big

This guy should not get another milisecond of this womans time!

Deadflow3r said:

PurpleJedi said:

YEAH...it's about time to block his email, no?

Where's Paintedlady and JustErin?...back me up on this...

Hurray!!!

This is the truth right here!

The big

This guy should not get another milisecond of this womans time!

He's still holding a grudge against me and now he sends out emails to our entire listserv trying to make me look bad.....this guy seems to be really affected by me because he is acting like a bitch about the whole thing. Oh well....

SeventeenDayze said:

slimhustle said:

Love you, beautiful. Miss you.

It's not like this feeling of insanity hits me everyday. Most guys I just ignore and keep going. Very few interest me longer than just a quick hello. Of the ones that I actually give a chance, 9 out of 10 of them I lost interet in very quickly. With this guy, he is/was totally under my skin and I haven't even as much kissed, hugged or shagged the guy. It's the scariest and most neurotic I've ever felt about a guy in my entire life (I'm in my early 30s). It goes beyond physical attraction and it's scary. The fact that he was trying to make me jealous the other day with all that nonsense made it even worse. The look on his face showed me that his feelings were hurt and I never want to see him hurt like that again....I've made other guys jealous before with my antics and never gave a damn beyond the moment and was quite entertained by it, however, it wasn't the same as with this guy. I damn near cried on the subway back home afterwards, it was horrible.

it's hard to describe folks, just a Haley's comet of the heart (Please spare me the snarky comments, I am feeling a bit depressed even though I am ignoring him).

[Edited 11/30/11 21:22pm]

[Edited 11/30/11 21:23pm]

Making you jalous, getting angry, doing the hurt thing, he probably did the "I've never opened up so much to anyone" or "you understand me, the others don't", and the making you feel bad/guilty for not giving him attention is all part of HIM PLAYING YOU.

I know I'm harsh. However, all that you have described so far, and now again, fits a certain pattern. The pattern of a narcistic guy that isn't interested in you as a person, however only interested in getting you to adore him. And all the other girls.

Please, keep running and look for a guy who actually treats you right. And makes you feel good about yourself. And not somebody who is playing you by purposely eliciting all kind of strong emotions out of you.

dJJ said:

SeventeenDayze said:

It's not like this feeling of insanity hits me everyday. Most guys I just ignore and keep going. Very few interest me longer than just a quick hello. Of the ones that I actually give a chance, 9 out of 10 of them I lost interet in very quickly. With this guy, he is/was totally under my skin and I haven't even as much kissed, hugged or shagged the guy. It's the scariest and most neurotic I've ever felt about a guy in my entire life (I'm in my early 30s). It goes beyond physical attraction and it's scary. The fact that he was trying to make me jealous the other day with all that nonsense made it even worse. The look on his face showed me that his feelings were hurt and I never want to see him hurt like that again....I've made other guys jealous before with my antics and never gave a damn beyond the moment and was quite entertained by it, however, it wasn't the same as with this guy. I damn near cried on the subway back home afterwards, it was horrible.

it's hard to describe folks, just a Haley's comet of the heart (Please spare me the snarky comments, I am feeling a bit depressed even though I am ignoring him).

[Edited 11/30/11 21:22pm]

[Edited 11/30/11 21:23pm]

Making you jalous, getting angry, doing the hurt thing, he probably did the "I've never opened up so much to anyone" or "you understand me, the others don't", and the making you feel bad/guilty for not giving him attention is all part of HIM PLAYING YOU.

I know I'm harsh. However, all that you have described so far, and now again, fits a certain pattern. The pattern of a narcistic guy that isn't interested in you as a person, however only interested in getting you to adore him. And all the other girls.

Please, keep running and look for a guy who actually treats you right. And makes you feel good about yourself. And not somebody who is playing you by purposely eliciting all kind of strong emotions out of you.

Yeah, we settled our differences in an email today and I haven't seen him around lately. It will take me about a week I guess to get him (and my ideas of him) out of my mind for good. It's just weird that someone that you've never kissed, hugged or had anything physical with can get under your skin in such a strong way. I feel a bit stupid in a way because this isn't a feeling that I am used to. In fact, it's never been this bad for me before....guess things aren't always as they seem...

I've learned with experience that if I'm feeling at my most vulnerable, I'm drawn to that BS from guys though at times when I'm feeling so sure of myself, I know how to get out of it. Do you find the same with yourself?

SeventeenDayze said:

slimhustle said:

Love you, beautiful. Miss you.

It's not like this feeling of insanity hits me everyday. Most guys I just ignore and keep going. Very few interest me longer than just a quick hello. Of the ones that I actually give a chance, 9 out of 10 of them I lost interet in very quickly. With this guy, he is/was totally under my skin and I haven't even as much kissed, hugged or shagged the guy. It's the scariest and most neurotic I've ever felt about a guy in my entire life (I'm in my early 30s). It goes beyond physical attraction and it's scary. The fact that he was trying to make me jealous the other day with all that nonsense made it even worse. The look on his face showed me that his feelings were hurt and I never want to see him hurt like that again....I've made other guys jealous before with my antics and never gave a damn beyond the moment and was quite entertained by it, however, it wasn't the same as with this guy. I damn near cried on the subway back home afterwards, it was horrible.

it's hard to describe folks, just a Haley's comet of the heart (Please spare me the snarky comments, I am feeling a bit depressed even though I am ignoring him).

[Edited 11/30/11 21:22pm]

[Edited 11/30/11 21:23pm]

Maybe karma is paying you a visit?

angel345 said:

SeventeenDayze said:

It's not like this feeling of insanity hits me everyday. Most guys I just ignore and keep going. Very few interest me longer than just a quick hello. Of the ones that I actually give a chance, 9 out of 10 of them I lost interet in very quickly. With this guy, he is/was totally under my skin and I haven't even as much kissed, hugged or shagged the guy. It's the scariest and most neurotic I've ever felt about a guy in my entire life (I'm in my early 30s). It goes beyond physical attraction and it's scary. The fact that he was trying to make me jealous the other day with all that nonsense made it even worse. The look on his face showed me that his feelings were hurt and I never want to see him hurt like that again....I've made other guys jealous before with my antics and never gave a damn beyond the moment and was quite entertained by it, however, it wasn't the same as with this guy. I damn near cried on the subway back home afterwards, it was horrible.

it's hard to describe folks, just a Haley's comet of the heart (Please spare me the snarky comments, I am feeling a bit depressed even though I am ignoring him).

[Edited 11/30/11 21:22pm]

[Edited 11/30/11 21:23pm]

Maybe karma is paying you a visit?

Seriously? Who hasn't tried to make someone jealous in the past, it's not like I did this every single day of my life, I just didn't make it clear that it's happened before. Whatever, I knew what I meant....it's just not an easy thing to get through right now, sorry

SeventeenDayze said:

angel345 said:

Maybe karma is paying you a visit?

Seriously? Who hasn't tried to make someone jealous in the past, it's not like I did this every single day of my life, I just didn't make it clear that it's happened before. Whatever, I knew what I meant....it's just not an easy thing to get through right now, sorry

Perhaps, some guy in the past you have made jealous, and didn't care has taken it the same way you're taking it now.

retina said:

I wouldn't want a needy, clingy woman but I can't say I've ever been in that kind of a relationship anyway. For me it's usually the opposite that is the problem; since I generally get attracted to opinionated, smart, strong women they're usually fiercly independent too, sometimes a bit too much so. I think all men want to feel needed on some level. We have that protective instinct, and to be together with a woman who never needs protection or consolation or support feels emasculating in some weird way. I guess as always, too much of anything is not a good thing.

I like your answer here. It can be hard in the days we live in to see the true God given differences and needs of a man and woman.

Yes i believe we all have a running cord within us to be loved and cared for but how this looks in male and female can be manifested so differently. Your need as a man to feel needed and for u to want your woman to feel protected;consoled; supported; loved by u and u only....i believe was how God made it to be. As well as the different ways a woman wants her man to feel and be towards her. When it is off to much one way or the other disfunction takes root and your relationship wont last because, more often than not, is was there before u ever came into the picture. unless u both recognize it and want to work through the change and growth together.....most importantly with God on ur side!

I know i may offend some by saying this ................but although im open in some ways when it comes to relationships and the sacred union of husband and wife. I do believe in a devine order of things and the ''roles" set forth for husband and wife. Or maybe a better word is God given "needs" to be filled.

I love these seemingly simple questions............they call for a indepth opinionated answer.

These needs are full of what society tells you a man should do and what a female should do, and then if a female does something "abnormal" she always gets the blame while the male gets off. So I don't buy anything traditional anymore, sorry. I used to think I want a relationship, but I really don't anymore and it makes me sad cause there is no one to trust out there or who doesn't want it for just one thing.

alphastreet said:

and then if a female does something "abnormal" she always gets the blame while the male gets off.

I'd like to spend some time in that world.

Cerebus said:

alphastreet said:

and then if a female does something "abnormal" she always gets the blame while the male gets off.

I'd like to spend some time in that world.

Uh, if you're on this planet, then you're already in "that world"

I've also caught word that he's going through some personal stuff as well now, so I'll just keep that in mind and hope for the best for him....albeit at a distance for now. Meanwhile, the one of the other girls this past week has become even more vicious than before. I don't know what happened but she's now resorted to sending out emails trying to embarass me on the listserv and she's always talking about me behind my back. Something escalated all of this recently and I'm guessing this whole thing last week with running into them with this guy I was hanging out with had a bit to do with it....it's becoming really stressful trying to maintain a professional relationship with this female because she's bent on holding a grudge....

SeventeenDayze said:

Cerebus said:

I'd like to spend some time in that world.

Uh, if you're on this planet, then you're already in "that world"

I've also caught word that he's going through some personal stuff as well now, so I'll just keep that in mind and hope for the best for him....albeit at a distance for now. Meanwhile, the one of the other girls this past week has become even more vicious than before. I don't know what happened but she's now resorted to sending out emails trying to embarass me on the listserv and she's always talking about me behind my back. Something escalated all of this recently and I'm guessing this whole thing last week with running into them with this guy I was hanging out with had a bit to do with it....it's becoming really stressful trying to maintain a professional relationship with this female because she's bent on holding a grudge....

Riiiiiight. Read what you just posted. And I haven't even read the rest of the thread. On second thought, never mind.

Cerebus said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Uh, if you're on this planet, then you're already in "that world"

I've also caught word that he's going through some personal stuff as well now, so I'll just keep that in mind and hope for the best for him....albeit at a distance for now. Meanwhile, the one of the other girls this past week has become even more vicious than before. I don't know what happened but she's now resorted to sending out emails trying to embarass me on the listserv and she's always talking about me behind my back. Something escalated all of this recently and I'm guessing this whole thing last week with running into them with this guy I was hanging out with had a bit to do with it....it's becoming really stressful trying to maintain a professional relationship with this female because she's bent on holding a grudge....

Riiiiiight. Read what you just posted. And I haven't even read the rest of the thread. On second thought, never mind.

What's wrong with what I posted?

I was raised by a Strong Woman who did the Damn thang....A "Needy & Desperate" Chick is not attractive to me at all..She can have my friendship but not my heart...

JustErin said:

It's funny how it always seems that those that shit on me for my initial comments eventually come to the same conclusion I had.

That happens to me ALL THE TIME.

SeventeenDayze said:

Cerebus said:

I'd like to spend some time in that world.

Uh, if you're on this planet, then you're already in "that world"

I've also caught word that he's going through some personal stuff as well now, so I'll just keep that in mind and hope for the best for him....albeit at a distance for now. Meanwhile, the one of the other girls this past week has become even more vicious than before. I don't know what happened but she's now resorted to sending out emails trying to embarass me on the listserv and she's always talking about me behind my back. Something escalated all of this recently and I'm guessing this whole thing last week with running into them with this guy I was hanging out with had a bit to do with it....it's becoming really stressful trying to maintain a professional relationship with this female because she's bent on holding a grudge....

Let me guess; your object of affection badmouthed about you to her. Telling all kind of stories to her how horrible you treated him. She believes him, because she doesn't understand why she should run as fast as she can from this guy. So, she is doing exactly what he wants her to do;

believe him and think you are a horrible person and telling others that you are.

So, he has everybody acting the way he wants them to and look all innocent and being the victim himself.

Get your pink glasses of and start to look at this guy for who he really is. And try not to fall for his manipulative ways, as I remember he was actively setting you up against the girls wasn't he?

And doing the reverse about you when talking to the other girls.

Are you slowly getting it?

Do you understand that he's a very manipulative person? And all about himself?

Not about your well being at all?

I truly hope you will see the light one day.

dJJ said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Uh, if you're on this planet, then you're already in "that world"

I've also caught word that he's going through some personal stuff as well now, so I'll just keep that in mind and hope for the best for him....albeit at a distance for now. Meanwhile, the one of the other girls this past week has become even more vicious than before. I don't know what happened but she's now resorted to sending out emails trying to embarass me on the listserv and she's always talking about me behind my back. Something escalated all of this recently and I'm guessing this whole thing last week with running into them with this guy I was hanging out with had a bit to do with it....it's becoming really stressful trying to maintain a professional relationship with this female because she's bent on holding a grudge....

Let me guess; your object of affection badmouthed about you to her. Telling all kind of stories to her how horrible you treated him. She believes him, because she doesn't understand why she should run as fast as she can from this guy. So, she is doing exactly what he wants her to do;

believe him and think you are a horrible person and telling others that you are.

So, he has everybody acting the way he wants them to and look all innocent and being the victim himself.

Get your pink glasses of and start to look at this guy for who he really is. And try not to fall for his manipulative ways, as I remember he was actively setting you up against the girls wasn't he?

And doing the reverse about you when talking to the other girls.

Are you slowly getting it?

Do you understand that he's a very manipulative person? And all about himself?

Not about your well being at all?

I truly hope you will see the light one day.

I think she gets that he's a bad guy and she is distancing herself, but at this point this other woman won't leave her alone and she can't figure out why.

PurpleRighteous1 said:

dJJ said:

Let me guess; your object of affection badmouthed about you to her. Telling all kind of stories to her how horrible you treated him. She believes him, because she doesn't understand why she should run as fast as she can from this guy. So, she is doing exactly what he wants her to do;

believe him and think you are a horrible person and telling others that you are.

So, he has everybody acting the way he wants them to and look all innocent and being the victim himself.

Get your pink glasses of and start to look at this guy for who he really is. And try not to fall for his manipulative ways, as I remember he was actively setting you up against the girls wasn't he?

And doing the reverse about you when talking to the other girls.

Are you slowly getting it?

Do you understand that he's a very manipulative person? And all about himself?

Not about your well being at all?

I truly hope you will see the light one day.

I think she gets that he's a bad guy and she is distancing herself, but at this point this other woman won't leave her alone and she can't figure out why.

Yeah and the easy way is to believe him and assume the other girls are just jalous. He probably told her that they are probably in love with him and can't stand the 'special' friendship he has with her.

You know, same story he told to the other girl. Better to have them not like eachother, because when they start comparing notes, he'll get busted.

dJJ said:

PurpleRighteous1 said:

I think she gets that he's a bad guy and she is distancing herself, but at this point this other woman won't leave her alone and she can't figure out why.

Yeah and the easy way is to believe him and assume the other girls are just jalous. He probably told her that they are probably in love with him and can't stand the 'special' friendship he has with her.

You know, same story he told to the other girl. Better to have them not like eachother, because when they start comparing notes, he'll get busted.

DJJ:

Yes, I agree that he's the one stoking the flame and getting her to basically discredit me every single chance she gets. It's gotten a lot worse here lately to the point that even when I say stuff during meetings or whatever, she makes these faces like she's disgusted and starts whispering to people around her when I speak.Also yes, he made one comment about the other two girls getting along with him and I quickly gave him a piece of my mind about that and he never repeated that again...Yes, I've been an idiot and yes he's manipulative. Aside from like one or two emails we haven't talked much at all this past week since he saw me with the other guy.

As PurpleRighteous said, I get that he's like this but the other girl CONTINUES to talk so much nonsense and it's getting worse. If I've distanced myself from this guy and he's not being bothered by me as much, why is he still making this other girl do his bidding when it comes to trying to making me look bad. What's so messed up about this whole thing is that he's never said anything bad about the other two girls to me but seems to spend a lot of his energy in trying to make me look bad to them, now the other two girls hate me!

I also reminded him of how I've "had his back" in the past when other stuff went down and told him that I would sincerely hope he did the same if someone else ever did that to me...*crickets chirping*

[Edited 12/4/11 19:24pm]

SeventeenDayze said:

angel345 said:

Maybe karma is paying you a visit?

Seriously? Who hasn't tried to make someone jealous in the past, it's not like I did this every single day of my life, I just didn't make it clear that it's happened before. Whatever, I knew what I meant....it's just not an easy thing to get through right now, sorry

I think you can find plenty of people who haven't tried to make others jealous in their pasts. It's self-serving and reeks of a person having control/security issues, because they are unwilling to accept that the object of their affection isn't feeling the way they want or expect them to feel about them. You should never try to force something that isn't there in relationships...and conversely you should always do onto others in your life as you would have them do onto you.

He's a loser and those girls are so naive and gullible. I got caught in a very similar situation earlier this year and it took me months to recover, especially cause it hurt that some people did not want to hear both sides of the story and thought he's such a good guy cause he knew how to manipulate everyone.

SeventeenDayze said:

dJJ said:

Yeah and the easy way is to believe him and assume the other girls are just jalous. He probably told her that they are probably in love with him and can't stand the 'special' friendship he has with her.

You know, same story he told to the other girl. Better to have them not like eachother, because when they start comparing notes, he'll get busted.

DJJ:

Yes, I agree that he's the one stoking the flame and getting her to basically discredit me every single chance she gets. It's gotten a lot worse here lately to the point that even when I say stuff during meetings or whatever, she makes these faces like she's disgusted and starts whispering to people around her when I speak.Also yes, he made one comment about the other two girls getting along with him and I quickly gave him a piece of my mind about that and he never repeated that again...Yes, I've been an idiot and yes he's manipulative. Aside from like one or two emails we haven't talked much at all this past week since he saw me with the other guy.

As PurpleRighteous said, I get that he's like this but the other girl CONTINUES to talk so much nonsense and it's getting worse. If I've distanced myself from this guy and he's not being bothered by me as much, why is he still making this other girl do his bidding when it comes to trying to making me look bad. What's so messed up about this whole thing is that he's never said anything bad about the other two girls to me but seems to spend a lot of his energy in trying to make me look bad to them, now the other two girls hate me!

I also reminded him of how I've "had his back" in the past when other stuff went down and told him that I would sincerely hope he did the same if someone else ever did that to me...*crickets chirping*

[Edited 12/4/11 19:24pm]

I'm sorry for the dissapointed you had to endure. It's wonderful to get into someone and when yo find out that in reality he's not at all what he displayed, it's tough.

I know I've been fierce about it, however, better be save then sorry.

This girl is not going to stop without an incentive to. And nobody but you will offer her that incentive.

I would talk to her. Invite her over for a coffee. Over coffee describe a few of these instances and how they affect you. Ask her if she realizes that she is doing it and if so, just listen to her about what she is saying about it.

Then tell her to stop that kind of behavior. Not in a dramatic way. Just in a neutral tone. Don't pose it as a question. Because you don't mean it as a question. Because, there is no room for different options. "I want you to stop influencing other people to judge me in a negative way" or something like that.

If you don't stop her yourself, nobody will.

Wish you the best adn succes with dealing with her!

Ottensen said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Seriously? Who hasn't tried to make someone jealous in the past, it's not like I did this every single day of my life, I just didn't make it clear that it's happened before. Whatever, I knew what I meant....it's just not an easy thing to get through right now, sorry

I think you can find plenty of people who haven't tried to make others jealous in their pasts. It's self-serving and reeks of a person having control/security issues, because they are unwilling to accept that the object of their affection isn't feeling the way they want or expect them to feel about them. You should never try to force something that isn't there in relationships...and conversely you should always do onto others in your life as you would have them do onto you.

Have never, ever done something to try and make someone else jealous.

It's an unintelligent thing to do. If you're not noticing me now, PEACE AND HAIR GREASE TO YOU!

And God help me understand why you're trying to figure out anything about these other silly women and their attachment to him. You need to put your energy into NOT CARING. Easier said than done, but behave as if you don't care, and eventually you won't. Fake it til you make it honey, and stop being one of his harem that's giving a shit about his moves and motivations. He's going through some stuff right now? Boo hoo, who isn't? Forget him, PLEASE. Leave the listserv. Amputate it, all of it, before it makes you rotten.

PunkMistress said:

Ottensen said:

I think you can find plenty of people who haven't tried to make others jealous in their pasts. It's self-serving and reeks of a person having control/security issues, because they are unwilling to accept that the object of their affection isn't feeling the way they want or expect them to feel about them. You should never try to force something that isn't there in relationships...and conversely you should always do onto others in your life as you would have them do onto you.

Have never, ever done something to try and make someone else jealous.

It's an unintelligent thing to do. If you're not noticing me now, PEACE AND HAIR GREASE TO YOU!

And God help me understand why you're trying to figure out anything about these other silly women and their attachment to him. You need to put your energy into NOT CARING. Easier said than done, but behave as if you don't care, and eventually you won't. Fake it til you make it honey, and stop being one of his harem that's giving a shit about his moves and motivations. He's going through some stuff right now? Boo hoo, who isn't? Forget him, PLEASE. Leave the listserv. Amputate it, all of it, before it makes you rotten.

Amputate it? Man, I love the Org

SeventeenDayze said:

PunkMistress said:

Have never, ever done something to try and make someone else jealous.

It's an unintelligent thing to do. If you're not noticing me now, PEACE AND HAIR GREASE TO YOU!

And God help me understand why you're trying to figure out anything about these other silly women and their attachment to him. You need to put your energy into NOT CARING. Easier said than done, but behave as if you don't care, and eventually you won't. Fake it til you make it honey, and stop being one of his harem that's giving a shit about his moves and motivations. He's going through some stuff right now? Boo hoo, who isn't? Forget him, PLEASE. Leave the listserv. Amputate it, all of it, before it makes you rotten.

Amputate it? Man, I love the Org

PunkMistress said:

Ottensen said:

I think you can find plenty of people who haven't tried to make others jealous in their pasts. It's self-serving and reeks of a person having control/security issues, because they are unwilling to accept that the object of their affection isn't feeling the way they want or expect them to feel about them. You should never try to force something that isn't there in relationships...and conversely you should always do onto others in your life as you would have them do onto you.

Have never, ever done something to try and make someone else jealous.

It's an unintelligent thing to do. If you're not noticing me now, PEACE AND HAIR GREASE TO YOU!

And God help me understand why you're trying to figure out anything about these other silly women and their attachment to him. You need to put your energy into NOT CARING. Easier said than done, but behave as if you don't care, and eventually you won't. Fake it til you make it honey, and stop being one of his harem that's giving a shit about his moves and motivations. He's going through some stuff right now? Boo hoo, who isn't? Forget him, PLEASE. Leave the listserv. Amputate it, all of it, before it makes you rotten.

I love you

PunkMistress said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Amputate it? Man, I love the Org

Again, this picture proves why I love the Org sooooooooooooo much, there's just ain't no snark like the Org snark!

For now, I am just taking the high road in all this mess. Kill them with kindness and ask around to other friends who might have single friends....another co-worker says she wants to set me up with a lawyer friend of hers....she said he's a really nice guy.

Have any of you dated a lawyer before? Would I be going from the frying pan into the fire? LOL

SeventeenDayze said:

PunkMistress said:

Again, this picture proves why I love the Org sooooooooooooo much, there's just ain't no snark like the Org snark!

For now, I am just taking the high road in all this mess. Kill them with kindness and ask around to other friends who might have single friends....another co-worker says she wants to set me up with a lawyer friend of hers....she said he's a really nice guy.

Have any of you dated a lawyer before? Would I be going from the frying pan into the fire? LOL

Ugh.

You want someone sensitive and caring, and interested in your feelings, and you're considering a lawyer?

Most lawyers are required to be huge liars if they're to be successful at their profession, and if they are successful it also means they're married to their job.

Have I known lawyers who were fun, nice people to be around?

Yes.

Would I ever date one (assuming I wasn't already married to my soulmate)?

Hell no.