Thread started 10/18/10 8:12pmTonyVanDam |
What does a man really WANT from a woman? In no specific order.....
1. a companionship.
2. sex.
3. a homecook meal.
4. a "help meek" (a partner that also makes money).
5. the ability the have children for her man.
EDIT: #5 is optional for some.
[Edited 10/19/10 7:45am] |
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Reply #1 posted 10/18/10 9:04pm
KidaDynamite |
I could do all of those *cough*exceptforthelast*cough* but yes, all. surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
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Reply #2 posted 10/18/10 9:07pm
FauxReal |
Agreed with one and two. Three I'm willing to do 50/50 or more on my end if she sucks at cooking. Four is definitely a plus, I'm not trying to be someone's meal ticket. Five I wouldn't hold a woman to since I can no longer have any myself. In fact, I prefer she already came with kids believe it or not. |
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Reply #3 posted 10/18/10 9:12pm
ZombieKitten |
guys are homebodies, they LOVE "home"
they want to feel at home, they want a safe haven from the world
a woman CAN do it for them (a lot of guys can manage very well on their own)
(but I do think they rely a little bit too much on the woman to do it all FOR them
just like their mummies)
men are pretty insecure, about all sorts of stuff, a woman's feedback (verbal or non-verbal) can make everything all right. I guess you call that support.
someone to bounce ideas off when making a decision - someone to make the decisions with TOGETHER as a team |
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Reply #4 posted 10/18/10 9:13pm
Reply #5 posted 10/18/10 9:14pm
TonyVanDam |
FauxReal said:
Agreed with one and two. Three I'm willing to do 50/50 or more on my end if she sucks at cooking. Four is definitely a plus, I'm not trying to be someone's meal ticket. Five I wouldn't hold a woman to since I can no longer have any myself. In fact, I prefer she already came with kids believe it or not.
You're brave. Not all men are interested in becoming instant stepfathers right away. |
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Reply #6 posted 10/18/10 9:17pm
FauxReal |
ZombieKitten said:
guys are homebodies, they LOVE "home"
they want to feel at home, they want a safe haven from the world
a woman CAN do it for them (a lot of guys can manage very well on their own)
(but I do think they rely a little bit too much on the woman to do it all FOR them
just like their mummies)
men are pretty insecure, about all sorts of stuff, a woman's feedback (verbal or non-verbal) can make everything all right. I guess you call that support.
someone to bounce ideas off when making a decision - someone to make the decisions with TOGETHER as a team
I love home when I am single, not so much when I am not. That's probably backwards of me. |
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Reply #7 posted 10/18/10 9:18pm
FauxReal |
TonyVanDam said:
FauxReal said:
Agreed with one and two. Three I'm willing to do 50/50 or more on my end if she sucks at cooking. Four is definitely a plus, I'm not trying to be someone's meal ticket. Five I wouldn't hold a woman to since I can no longer have any myself. In fact, I prefer she already came with kids believe it or not.
You're brave. Not all men are interested in becoming instant stepfathers right away.
Thanks. But I rather her not resent me later when she decides she wants children and I can't give them to her. |
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Reply #8 posted 10/18/10 9:18pm
ZombieKitten |
FauxReal said:
ZombieKitten said:
guys are homebodies, they LOVE "home"
they want to feel at home, they want a safe haven from the world
a woman CAN do it for them (a lot of guys can manage very well on their own)
(but I do think they rely a little bit too much on the woman to do it all FOR them
just like their mummies)
men are pretty insecure, about all sorts of stuff, a woman's feedback (verbal or non-verbal) can make everything all right. I guess you call that support.
someone to bounce ideas off when making a decision - someone to make the decisions with TOGETHER as a team
I love home when I am single, not so much when I am not. That's probably backwards of me.
I think that if a man leaves it all to the woman, it ceases to be his OWN home, it's like he is a visitor never doing anything right. |
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Reply #9 posted 10/18/10 9:19pm
TonyVanDam |
ZombieKitten said:
guys are homebodies, they LOVE "home"
they want to feel at home, they want a safe haven from the world
a woman CAN do it for them (a lot of guys can manage very well on their own)
(but I do think they rely a little bit too much on the woman to do it all FOR them
just like their mummies grandmummies)
men are pretty insecure, about all sorts of stuff, a woman's feedback (verbal or non-verbal) can make everything all right. I guess you call that support.
someone to bounce ideas off when making a decision - someone to make the decisions with TOGETHER as a team
There, THAT^ more correct! |
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Reply #10 posted 10/18/10 9:20pm
ZombieKitten |
TonyVanDam said:
ZombieKitten said:
guys are homebodies, they LOVE "home"
they want to feel at home, they want a safe haven from the world
a woman CAN do it for them (a lot of guys can manage very well on their own)
(but I do think they rely a little bit too much on the woman to do it all FOR them
just like their mummies grandmummies)
men are pretty insecure, about all sorts of stuff, a woman's feedback (verbal or non-verbal) can make everything all right. I guess you call that support.
someone to bounce ideas off when making a decision - someone to make the decisions with TOGETHER as a team
There, THAT^ more correct!
I'm just speaking with my mother in law in mind
my husband still gets HER to iron his shirts |
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Reply #11 posted 10/18/10 9:22pm
TonyVanDam |
ZombieKitten said:
TonyVanDam said:
There, THAT^ more correct!
I'm just speaking with my mother in law in mind
my husband still gets HER to iron his shirts
Oops! |
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Reply #12 posted 10/18/10 9:24pm
Reply #13 posted 10/18/10 10:18pm
ZombieKitten |
TonyVanDam said:
ZombieKitten said:
I'm just speaking with my mother in law in mind
my husband still gets HER to iron his shirts
Oops!
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Reply #14 posted 10/19/10 1:21am
novabrkr |
I don't really have the body for a nice dress. |
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Reply #17 posted 10/19/10 5:08am
Evvy |
TonyVanDam said:
In no specific order.....
1. a companionship.
2. sex.
3. a homecook meal.
4. a "help meek" (a partner that also makes money).
5. the ability the have children for her man.
[Edited 10/18/10 20:13pm]
swicth # one with #two. LOVE HARD. |
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Reply #18 posted 10/19/10 5:21am
chocolate1 |
TonyVanDam said:
In no specific order.....
1. a companionship.
2. sex.
3. a homecook meal.
4. a "help meek" (a partner that also makes money).
5. the ability the have children for her man.
[Edited 10/18/10 20:13pm]
Well damn.
I am a beast in the sheets, make a decent salary, and can cook my ass off, but #5... about that.
If that's a deal breaker, then the man you speak of is missing out on a good woman.
"Love Hurts.
Your lies, they cut me.
Now your words don't mean a thing.
I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..."
-Cher, "Woman's World" |
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Reply #19 posted 10/19/10 6:48am
Shoewhore |
ZombieKitten said:
guys are homebodies, they LOVE "home"
they want to feel at home, they want a safe haven from the world
a woman CAN do it for them (a lot of guys can manage very well on their own)
(but I do think they rely a little bit too much on the woman to do it all FOR them
just like their mummies)
men are pretty insecure, about all sorts of stuff, a woman's feedback (verbal or non-verbal) can make everything all right. I guess you call that support.
someone to bounce ideas off when making a decision - someone to make the decisions with TOGETHER as a team
and sex. Proud Succubi Bitch! |
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Reply #20 posted 10/19/10 6:52am
uPtoWnNY |
TonyVanDam said:
In no specific order.....
1. a companionship.
2. sex.
3. a homecook meal.
4. a "help meek" (a partner that also makes money).
5. the ability the have children for her man.
[Edited 10/18/10 20:13pm]
1. & 2. |
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Reply #21 posted 10/19/10 7:00am
DaveT |
I think you can scrap the one about having kids....that's only for some men, not all.
I can't stand kids, and I only see them as a drain on your time and finances. Might sound a bit cold, but that's how I see it. I'm not paternal. Fortunately, my wife feels the same way so we're happy just focusing on ourselves.
Other than that, fairly spot on. Think you could add "shared vision" to that, someone who shares your outlook on life, including similar goals, similar sense of right and wrong, etc |
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Reply #22 posted 10/19/10 7:14am
uPtoWnNY |
DaveT said:
I can't stand kids, and I only see them as a drain on your time and finances. Might sound a bit cold, but that's how I see it. I'm not paternal. Fortunately, my wife feels the same way so we're happy just focusing on ourselves.
At least you're honest. Absolutely nothing wrong with that. IMO, there are too many folks having kids that shouldn't. |
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Reply #23 posted 10/19/10 7:43am
TonyVanDam |
chocolate1 said:
TonyVanDam said:
In no specific order.....
1. a companionship.
2. sex.
3. a homecook meal.
4. a "help meek" (a partner that also makes money).
5. the ability the have children for her man.
[Edited 10/18/10 20:13pm]
Well damn.
I am a beast in the sheets, make a decent salary, and can cook my ass off, but #5... about that.
If that's a deal breaker, then the man you speak of is missing out on a good woman.
Don't get it twisted. A man in general wants to have a son and/or a daughter. |
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Reply #24 posted 10/19/10 7:51am
TotalANXiousNE SS |
Why is a woman having an income such a top priority?
Make sme kinda sad. What happened to the days where the woman takes care of the household and the man brings home the bacon????
Fuck this working shit. I'm glad I'm done in December. It's for the birds.
To each his own, but I MYSELF feel like less of a woman now that I'm working. I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies
Whats it all worth only the heart can measure
It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside |
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Reply #25 posted 10/19/10 7:55am
Shoewhore |
TotalANXiousNESS said:
Why is a woman having an income such a top priority?
Make sme kinda sad. What happened to the days where the woman takes care of the household and the man brings home the bacon????
Fuck this working shit. I'm glad I'm done in December. It's for the birds.
To each his own, but I MYSELF feel like less of a woman now that I'm working.
That statement just blew my mind. To each his own indeed.
Proud Succubi Bitch! |
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Reply #26 posted 10/19/10 7:58am
TotalANXiousNE SS |
Shoewhore said:
TotalANXiousNESS said:
Why is a woman having an income such a top priority?
Make sme kinda sad. What happened to the days where the woman takes care of the household and the man brings home the bacon????
Fuck this working shit. I'm glad I'm done in December. It's for the birds.
To each his own, but I MYSELF feel like less of a woman now that I'm working.
That statement just blew my mind. To each his own indeed.
I knew it would get peoples panties in a bunch.
I admire women who work hard and take care of themselves and pay their own bills. I really do.
It's just not for me.
I'd rather be at home in the kitchen. I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies
Whats it all worth only the heart can measure
It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside |
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Reply #27 posted 10/19/10 7:59am
CarrieMpls Ex-Moderator |
TotalANXiousNESS said:
Why is a woman having an income such a top priority?
Make sme kinda sad. What happened to the days where the woman takes care of the household and the man brings home the bacon????
Fuck this working shit. I'm glad I'm done in December. It's for the birds.
To each his own, but I MYSELF feel like less of a woman now that I'm working.
I don't believe that. You might be frustrated with a situation or circumstances right now, but I don't believe that working makes you feel less of a woman for one second. Think of the self-esteem working has given you, being able to provide for your children, etc. I can't think of anything more womanly than being a good mother, which means taking care of your kids in every way you can providing an income to do so as needed. |
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Reply #28 posted 10/19/10 8:01am
CarrieMpls Ex-Moderator |
TotalANXiousNESS said:
Shoewhore said:
That statement just blew my mind. To each his own indeed.
I knew it would get peoples panties in a bunch.
I admire women who work hard and take care of themselves and pay their own bills. I really do.
It's just not for me.
I'd rather be at home in the kitchen.
As a preference and life choice that's fine. There are all kinds of people who would choose that for themselves and there's nothing wrong with that.
But making you less of a woman? Don't think so. |
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Reply #29 posted 10/19/10 8:01am
orger |
TotalANXiousNESS said:
To each his own, but I MYSELF feel like less of a woman now that I'm working.
you're totally gonna catch shit for that
but I've known women that felt the same
maybe feeling like less of a woman is a bit strong
but they were certainly happier
and felt more fulfilled at home How is it you feel? |
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