ZombieKitten said:

Tremolina said:

That's hard. Luckily no unwanted children for me. Once however I was confronted with a woman who lied that she couldnt conceive because of illness, but also wouldnt want to conceive because she wouldn't want to put a child in this cruel, cruel world...

and then? she became pregnant to "trap" you?

No fortunately she didn't succeed in doing that.

In the real world, they want someone to cook for them, keep them clean, nurture them, so in essence a mother.

It take a highly evolved man to step away from the role and allow for interdependence, and freedom.

I hate this thread so much.

ZombieKitten said:

chocolate1 said:

A lot of you have read on other threads about how I can't have children.

All I ever wanted was to have a family, so it was really hard when I found out I couldn't. I felt like no guy would want me...

I met a guy last year who was very clear about "wanting at least two kids" before we went on a first date. He kept pressing the issue, and asked me point-blank: "Can you even conceive?" When I told him I felt that it was an awkward question, he say, "Sorry. But I'll still take you out."

Wow.

I can definitely fulfill the other "requirements" on the OP list, tho...

I have a friend who would have LOVED more than anything to have children, but her odds of passing on cystic fibrosis were so high, she got her tubes tied. She met a guy who didn't want kids, and they have made a life for themselves based on other passions. Those guys ARE out there.

I'm one of those guys. Some folks think I'm odd for thinking that way, but I don't give a fuck. I live my life the way I want to.

sag10 said:

In the real world, they want someone to cook for them, keep them clean, nurture them, so in essence a mother.

I can and like to cook myself and to be honest prefer it too, since most women, that I've met anyway, weren't great cooks. I always keep myself clean. Not saying I wouldn't like it, because I hate doing it, but I really do not expect a woman to do my laundry. I already have a mother and sometimes she still wants to act like one, giving all kinds of UNWANTED advice and comments on what to do with my house, what I should eat etc. If I don't watch out she would change everything to her liking. If a woman wants to live with me, but is like that then she is / I'm out of there.

HEAD, HEAD & MORE HEAD!!!

Tremolina said:

ZombieKitten said:

and then? she became pregnant to "trap" you?

No fortunately she didn't succeed in doing that.

HonestMan13 said:

HEAD, HEAD & MORE HEAD!!!

If I had a man like you, my life would be THAT much simpler

uPtoWnNY said:

DaveT said:

I can't stand kids, and I only see them as a drain on your time and finances. Might sound a bit cold, but that's how I see it. I'm not paternal. Fortunately, my wife feels the same way so we're happy just focusing on ourselves.

At least you're honest. Absolutely nothing wrong with that. IMO, there are too many folks having kids that shouldn't.

Totally agree.

ZombieKitten said:

Tremolina said:

No fortunately she didn't succeed in doing that.

for sure, but also:

HonestMan13 said: