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Gay men who are EXCLUSIVELY tops!!!!! WTF??? I'm pissed now. I'm SO sick of this shit. Where the HELL are all the versatile men at? Why and How do I keep finding these men that are either exclusive tops or bottoms? I wanna eat too!!! What is this shit all about? I don't understand. Does it have something to do with not wanting to be "the bitch" or something? Because I tell ya...If you can take a dick up the ass, ain't nothing bitch about you. I need some input on this pandemic, because I am genuinely concerned. [Edited 4/24/10 13:19pm] | |
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I'm versatile but mostly top.
Only sayin'.... MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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Its a weird thing bout the gays, Tops want them but they love to go out of there way to put them down. Being called a bottom is worse than being called a whore. The Most Important Thing In Life Is Sincerity....Once You Can Fake That, You Can Fake Anything. |
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I do suspect there's an implicit misogyny in some gay men not wanting to be identified as bottoms and, thus, taking the "female" sexual role. (Even if they know full well they LOVE it!  ) But for some exclusive tops, I give them the benefit of the doubt that it's earnestly a matter of what they enjoy in bed.
I'll add, though, that most gay guys I know complain that even though men like to pass themselves off as tops or top/vers, there are actually an overabundance of bottoms when the occasion springs. If this is true, either men are misidentifying themselves, Scarlet, or you have a rather unusual dilemma where you are. [Edited 4/24/10 15:26pm] Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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ScarletScandal said: I'm pissed now. I'm SO sick of this shit. Where the HELL are all the versatile men at? Why and How do I keep finding these men that are either exclusive tops or bottoms? I wanna eat too!!! What is this shit all about? I don't understand. Does it have something to do with not wanting to be "the bitch" or something? Because I tell ya...If you can take a dick up the ass, ain't nothing bitch about you. I need some input on this pandemic, because I am genuinely concerned.
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Lammastide said: I do suspect there's an implicit misogyny in some gay men not wanting to be identified as bottoms and, thus, taking the "female" sexual role. (Even if they know full well they LOVE it!
) But for some exclusive tops, I give them the benefit of the doubt that it's earnestly a matter of what they enjoy in bed.
I'll add, though, that most gay guys I know complain that even though men like to pass themselves off as tops or top/vers, there are actually an overabundance of bottoms when the occasion springs. If this is true, either men are misidentifying themselves, Scarlet, or you have a rather unusual dilemma where you are. [Edited 4/24/10 15:26pm] I don't understand why anybody would want to bottom 
I mean, doesn't it feel like taking a continuos shit?  | |
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Whatever happened to give and take  ~~~~~ Oh that voice...incredible....there should be a musical instrument called George Michael... ~~~~~ | |
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AMEN! 
I'm tired of always being a bottom [Edited 4/24/10 19:04pm] 12/05/2011 
P*$$y so bad, if u throw it into da air, it would turn into sunshine!!!  | |
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I'm a top and no one has ever penetrated me, I would break their dick off in my ass. But I will fellate and thats where I got points
(I know way too much information) But I am a TOP All the men I know are bottoms, tend to be the more effeminate, camp ones and the ones who do drag, listen to Judy Garland and shriek and say Honey, sweetie, darling and fabulous in most of their sentences. They are fashion horses and will wear any camp and outrageous outfit, put on make up (One guy I know gets manicures) and walk around like they have a carrot up their ass. Whereas all the tops like me, are vaguely resembling men, who speak and act normally, don't mince and don't have pink handbags and willingly wear clothes that are 10 years out of date, and do not give a fuck. (Then again I am a bear) [Edited 4/24/10 19:19pm] So what are u going 2 do? R u just gonna sit there and watch? I'm not gonna stop until the war is over. Its gonna take a long time | |
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Huggiebear said: I'm a top and no one has ever penetrated me, I would break their dick off in my ass. But I will fellate and thats where I got points
(I know way too much information) But I am a TOP All the men I know are bottoms, tend to be the more effeminate, camp ones and the ones who do drag, listen to Judy Garland and shriek and say Honey, sweetie, darling and fabulous in most of their sentences. They are fashion horses and will wear any camp and outrageous outfit, put on make up (One guy I know gets manicures) and walk around like they have a carrot up their ass. Whereas all the tops like me, are vaguely resembling men, who speak and act normally, don't mince and don't have pink handbags and willingly wear clothes that are 10 years out of date, and do not give a fuck. (Then again I am a bear) [Edited 4/24/10 19:19pm] So you mean to tell us that if you are in a relationship you basically get to have all the fun? Thats not very fair now is it.. 
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tinaz said: Huggiebear said: I'm a top and no one has ever penetrated me, I would break their dick off in my ass. But I will fellate and thats where I got points
(I know way too much information) But I am a TOP All the men I know are bottoms, tend to be the more effeminate, camp ones and the ones who do drag, listen to Judy Garland and shriek and say Honey, sweetie, darling and fabulous in most of their sentences. They are fashion horses and will wear any camp and outrageous outfit, put on make up (One guy I know gets manicures) and walk around like they have a carrot up their ass. Whereas all the tops like me, are vaguely resembling men, who speak and act normally, don't mince and don't have pink handbags and willingly wear clothes that are 10 years out of date, and do not give a fuck. (Then again I am a bear) [Edited 4/24/10 19:19pm] So you mean to tell us that if you are in a relationship you basically get to have all the fun? Thats not very fair now is it.. Hes a top too, we are strictly vanilla. He has a lot of fun, I can assure you, we've been together for three years, and are thinking of having a civil union. Sex is just one part of a good relationship. So what are u going 2 do? R u just gonna sit there and watch? I'm not gonna stop until the war is over. Its gonna take a long time | |
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Huggiebear said: tinaz said: So you mean to tell us that if you are in a relationship you basically get to have all the fun? Thats not very fair now is it.. Hes a top too, we are strictly vanilla. He has a lot of fun, I can assure you, we've been together for three years, and are thinking of having a civil union. Sex is just one part of a good relationship. What does vanilla mean?
Wait... I think I just thought of the answer... Hershey hiway?? [Edited 4/24/10 19:46pm] ~~~~~ Oh that voice...incredible....there should be a musical instrument called George Michael... ~~~~~ | |
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tinaz said: Huggiebear said: Hes a top too, we are strictly vanilla. He has a lot of fun, I can assure you, we've been together for three years, and are thinking of having a civil union. Sex is just one part of a good relationship. What does vanilla mean?
Wait... I think I just thought of the answer... Hershey hiway?? [Edited 4/24/10 19:46pm] No it means guys who don't have anal sex, vanilla as in plain. We are not into scat, urine, pain, torture and bizarre fetish routines, sex is an expression of love not pain. Some of the hardcore people would actually label us as asexual rather than gay, as they feel anal sex is the only gay sex. [Edited 4/24/10 20:00pm] So what are u going 2 do? R u just gonna sit there and watch? I'm not gonna stop until the war is over. Its gonna take a long time | |
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Huggiebear said: tinaz said: What does vanilla mean?
Wait... I think I just thought of the answer... Hershey hiway?? [Edited 4/24/10 19:46pm] No it means guys who don't have anal sex, vanilla as in plain. We are not into scat, urine, pain, torture and bizarre fetish routines, sex is an expression of love not pain. Some of the hardcore people would actually label us as asexual rather than gay, as they feel anal sex is the only gay sex. [Edited 4/24/10 20:00pm] Ohh ok... Thank you! ~~~~~ Oh that voice...incredible....there should be a musical instrument called George Michael... ~~~~~ | |
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Huggiebear said: I'm a top and no one has ever penetrated me, I would break their dick off in my ass. But I will fellate and thats where I got points
(I know way too much information) But I am a TOP All the men I know are bottoms, tend to be the more effeminate, camp ones and the ones who do drag, listen to Judy Garland and shriek and say Honey, sweetie, darling and fabulous in most of their sentences. They are fashion horses and will wear any camp and outrageous outfit, put on make up (One guy I know gets manicures) and walk around like they have a carrot up their ass. Whereas all the tops like me, are vaguely resembling men, who speak and act normally, don't mince and don't have pink handbags and willingly wear clothes that are 10 years out of date, and do not give a fuck. (Then again I am a bear) [Edited 4/24/10 19:19pm] You're not serious are you? you're bashing your own kind here...being a top or bottom has nothing to do with being femine or not. I don't know where you meet your men, but apparently not in the right place. There are lots of masculine guys who like to be a bottom, including me. Of course there are "butch" guys, who think they are so butch, they can't be a bottom, but apperently they have a problem with their own masculanity. If you're masculanity depends on being a bottom or top, there is not much masculanity in the first place. | |
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Huggiebear said: All the men I know are bottoms, tend to be the more effeminate, camp ones and the ones who do drag, listen to Judy Garland and shriek and say Honey, sweetie, darling and fabulous in most of their sentences. They are fashion horses and will wear any camp and outrageous outfit, put on make up (One guy I know gets manicures) and walk around like they have a carrot up their ass. Wow, that's a load of crap. I hope you're being funny here. I'm versatile myself, and I never tend to prance around like a pony after I've taken it up the ass. | |
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robertlove said: Huggiebear said: I'm a top and no one has ever penetrated me, I would break their dick off in my ass. But I will fellate and thats where I got points
(I know way too much information) But I am a TOP All the men I know are bottoms, tend to be the more effeminate, camp ones and the ones who do drag, listen to Judy Garland and shriek and say Honey, sweetie, darling and fabulous in most of their sentences. They are fashion horses and will wear any camp and outrageous outfit, put on make up (One guy I know gets manicures) and walk around like they have a carrot up their ass. Whereas all the tops like me, are vaguely resembling men, who speak and act normally, don't mince and don't have pink handbags and willingly wear clothes that are 10 years out of date, and do not give a fuck. (Then again I am a bear) [Edited 4/24/10 19:19pm] You're not serious are you? you're bashing your own kind here...being a top or bottom has nothing to do with being femine or not. I don't know where you meet your men, but apparently not in the right place. There are lots of masculine guys who like to be a bottom, including me. Of course there are "butch" guys, who think they are so butch, they can't be a bottom, but apperently they have a problem with their own masculanity. If you're masculanity depends on being a bottom or top, there is not much masculanity in the first place. Whats masculanity? Don't you mean Masculinity. I meant also exclusive bottoms, not versatile. Some men never want to top and love being a bottom only. I said all the bottoms I know, not all the bottoms. I know about 20 guys who are bottoms, there are millions I don't know, some of these men could be like Barry White for all I know. And yes the carrot stuff was humour. I got it from watching the Homosexual promenade along Oxford Street in Sydney last year. Theres some fierce little fire crackers there, real bombazine types. So what are u going 2 do? R u just gonna sit there and watch? I'm not gonna stop until the war is over. Its gonna take a long time | |
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MacDaddy said: I never tend to prance around like a pony after I've taken it up the ass.
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HamsterHuey said: MacDaddy said: I never tend to prance around like a pony after I've taken it up the ass.
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TheVoid said: I don't understand why anybody would want to bottom
I mean, doesn't it feel like taking a continuos shit? Oh Dan, Puhlease... | |
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MacDaddy said: TheVoid said: I don't understand why anybody would want to bottom
I mean, doesn't it feel like taking a continuos shit? Oh Dan, Puhlease... He's just posing. He's Bottom Dan. >> | |
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MacDaddy said: TheVoid said: I don't understand why anybody would want to bottom
I mean, doesn't it feel like taking a continuos shit? Oh Dan, Puhlease... | |
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Huggiebear said: robertlove said: You're not serious are you? you're bashing your own kind here...being a top or bottom has nothing to do with being femine or not. I don't know where you meet your men, but apparently not in the right place. There are lots of masculine guys who like to be a bottom, including me. Of course there are "butch" guys, who think they are so butch, they can't be a bottom, but apperently they have a problem with their own masculanity. If you're masculanity depends on being a bottom or top, there is not much masculanity in the first place. Whats masculanity? Don't you mean Masculinity. I meant also exclusive bottoms, not versatile. Some men never want to top and love being a bottom only. I said all the bottoms I know, not all the bottoms. I know about 20 guys who are bottoms, there are millions I don't know, some of these men could be like Barry White for all I know. And yes the carrot stuff was humour. I got it from watching the Homosexual promenade along Oxford Street in Sydney last year. Theres some fierce little fire crackers there, real bombazine types. yeah, i mean masculinity...english is not my mother language. i know guys too who are striclty bottoms, but that has nothing to do with masculinity. On the other, i never got, because i think you're missing a great deal of fun...but thats another subject...be versatile people!!!  | |
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I'm 100% versatile. A RARE thing in my city. lol or so I've been told. It's helpful 2 b verse, cuz a lot of guys will false advertise. They'll claim they're tops and then as soon as U get 'em home their feet go in2 the air. I can imagine that would b frustrating to a strictly bottom. Listen to me on The House of Pop Culture podcast on itunes http://itunes.apple.com/u...d438631917 | |
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TheVoid said: Lammastide said: I do suspect there's an implicit misogyny in some gay men not wanting to be identified as bottoms and, thus, taking the "female" sexual role. (Even if they know full well they LOVE it!
) But for some exclusive tops, I give them the benefit of the doubt that it's earnestly a matter of what they enjoy in bed.
I'll add, though, that most gay guys I know complain that even though men like to pass themselves off as tops or top/vers, there are actually an overabundance of bottoms when the occasion springs. If this is true, either men are misidentifying themselves, Scarlet, or you have a rather unusual dilemma where you are. [Edited 4/24/10 15:26pm] I don't understand why anybody would want to bottom
I mean, doesn't it feel like taking a continuos shit? only taking a shit feels like taking a shit. I'm a proud bottom  I'll still go to bat once in a while though The chemistry has to be right for it. It makes me feel weird if it looks like a Chihuaha tryin to tap some saint bernard tail 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Huggiebear said: I'm a top and no one has ever penetrated me, I would break their dick off in my ass. But I will fellate and thats where I got points
(I know way too much information) But I am a TOP All the men I know are bottoms, tend to be the more effeminate, camp ones and the ones who do drag, listen to Judy Garland and shriek and say Honey, sweetie, darling and fabulous in most of their sentences. They are fashion horses and will wear any camp and outrageous outfit, put on make up (One guy I know gets manicures) and walk around like they have a carrot up their ass. Whereas all the tops like me, are vaguely resembling men, who speak and act normally, don't mince and don't have pink handbags and willingly wear clothes that are 10 years out of date, and do not give a fuck. (Then again I am a bear) [Edited 4/24/10 19:19pm] I know some drag queens that will fuck like racehorses 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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tinaz said: Huggiebear said: Hes a top too, we are strictly vanilla. He has a lot of fun, I can assure you, we've been together for three years, and are thinking of having a civil union. Sex is just one part of a good relationship. What does vanilla mean?
Wait... I think I just thought of the answer... Hershey hiway?? [Edited 4/24/10 19:46pm]
you are so cute tina 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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TheVoid said: I don't understand why anybody would want to bottom
I mean, doesn't it feel like taking a continuos shit? From the guy who all but patented the  emoticon | |
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Huggiebear said: tinaz said: What does vanilla mean?
Wait... I think I just thought of the answer... Hershey hiway?? [Edited 4/24/10 19:46pm] No it means guys who don't have anal sex, vanilla as in plain. We are not into scat, urine, pain, torture and bizarre fetish routines, sex is an expression of love not pain. Some of the hardcore people would actually label us as asexual rather than gay, as they feel anal sex is the only gay sex. [Edited 4/24/10 20:00pm] anal sex = pain = S&M/fetish. You have it all wrong! 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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npgmaverick said: I'm 100% versatile. A RARE thing in my city. lol or so I've been told. It's helpful 2 b verse, cuz a lot of guys will false advertise. They'll claim they're tops and then as soon as U get 'em home their feet go in2 the air. I can imagine that would b frustrating to a strictly bottom.
When I'm in the mood to have a baby, I don't want to be the dad!  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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