Gay men who are EXCLUSIVELY tops!!!!! WTF???

Reply #31 posted 04/25/10 12:21pm

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TheVoid said:

Lammastide said:

I do suspect there's an implicit misogyny in some gay men not wanting to be identified as bottoms and, thus, taking the "female" sexual role. (Even if they know full well they LOVE it! lol

) But for some exclusive tops, I give them the benefit of the doubt that it's earnestly a matter of what they enjoy in bed.

I'll add, though, that most gay guys I know complain that even though men like to pass themselves off as tops or top/vers, there are actually an overabundance of bottoms when the occasion springs. If this is true, either men are misidentifying themselves, Scarlet, or you have a rather unusual dilemma where you are.
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I don't understand why anybody would want to bottom boxed

I mean, doesn't it feel like taking a continuos shit? confuse

Do you shit backwards?

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Reply #32 posted 04/25/10 7:52pm

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omg...some of ya'll in here are messy as fuck. So to the guys that don't bottom...why not? What's the deal? Really?

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Reply #33 posted 04/25/10 9:24pm

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Damn, if you're gay and you like dick what's the damn difference? I love dick, and thank God that I have a pussy because getting fucked up the ass is not something worth doing on a regular if you want to be able to hold in a fart and act like a lady in public (a loose ass can be embarrassing, for a girl).

But if you're a gay man, why would it bother you to get some dick in your ass? Heck women have anal sex and many men expect that of them, so why would men be afraid to do something they ask women to do? What? Are grown ass men afraid of farting in public? Hell if you can swallow cum and swallow a dick might as well enjoy a little fuck in the ass too. Why not?

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Reply #34 posted 04/25/10 9:37pm

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TheVoid said:

ScarletScandal said:

I'm pissed now. I'm SO sick of this shit. Where the HELL are all the versatile men at? Why and How do I keep finding these men that are either exclusive tops or bottoms? I wanna eat too!!! What is this shit all about? I don't understand. Does it have something to do with not wanting to be "the bitch" or something? Because I tell ya...If you can take a dick up the ass, ain't nothing bitch about you. I need some input on this pandemic, because I am genuinely concerned.
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Reply #35 posted 04/25/10 11:13pm

Tom

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Reply #36 posted 04/26/10 12:20am

Ottensen

TheVoid said:

ScarletScandal said:

If the folks from Music & More see this their going to want to burn you at the stake falloff

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Reply #37 posted 04/26/10 6:04am

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we finally have a challenger to the Anal Douche thread... let's see where this goes... lol

ScarletScandal you certainly have a way with words...

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Reply #38 posted 04/26/10 6:09am

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Tom said:

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Hey, are you a new guy? hmm

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Reply #39 posted 04/26/10 6:40am

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

tinaz said:

What does vanilla mean? boxed

Wait... I think I just thought of the answer... Hershey hiway??
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you are so cute tina lol

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Reply #40 posted 04/26/10 7:47am

MIGUELGOMEZ

TheVoid said:

Lammastide said:

I do suspect there's an implicit misogyny in some gay men not wanting to be identified as bottoms and, thus, taking the "female" sexual role. (Even if they know full well they LOVE it! lol

I don't understand why anybody would want to bottom boxed

I mean, doesn't it feel like taking a continuos shit? confuse

Eww!

Yeah but once you take one doesn't it feel good? Imagine that feeling over and over and over.....

MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits"

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Reply #41 posted 04/26/10 7:49am

MIGUELGOMEZ

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Huggiebear said:

Hes a top too, we are strictly vanilla. He has a lot of fun, I can assure you, we've been together for three years, and are thinking of having a civil union. Sex is just one part of a good relationship.

What does vanilla mean? boxed

Wait... I think I just thought of the answer... Hershey hiway??
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Vanilla sex also just basically means, plain sex. Missionary and such.

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Reply #42 posted 04/26/10 8:08am

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RenHoek said:

we finally have a challenger to the Anal Douche thread... let's see where this goes... lol

ScarletScandal you certainly have a way with words...

Naturally. I'm a Gemini lol
I'm just stuck on stupid about this shit. I need some versatility in my men. A challenger to my douche thread? falloff

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Reply #43 posted 04/26/10 8:09am

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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

TheVoid said:

I don't understand why anybody would want to bottom boxed

I mean, doesn't it feel like taking a continuos shit? confuse

Eww!

Yeah but once you take one doesn't it feel good? Imagine that feeling over and over and over.....

STOP IT Loca! It does NOT feel like you're takin a shit. falloff

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Reply #44 posted 04/26/10 8:10am

TheVoid	SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Cinnie said: From the guy who all but patented the emoticon yeah, please. He aint foolin nobody with his hyper topness I don't know anything about that gay lingo. I just no know an asshole is a one way tunnel! Well, at least mine is. :masculineresponsePWNAGE!:
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Reply #45 posted 04/26/10 8:12am

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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

I'm versatile but mostly top.

Only sayin'....

And I'm the reverse of that. I wouldn't necessarily go as far as calling myself vers. More like 95% bottom. lol

But am not opposed to flippin things up now and then.

I can't speak for the "strictly tops". For me it's just a preference and what turns me on.

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Reply #46 posted 04/26/10 8:13am

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TheVoid said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

yeah, please. He aint foolin nobody with his hyper topness lol

I don't know anything about that gay lingo. I just no know an asshole is a one way tunnel! Well, at least mine is.

:masculineresponsePWNAGE!:

When will the lies stop

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Reply #47 posted 04/26/10 8:14am

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TheVoid said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

yeah, please. He aint foolin nobody with his hyper topness lol

I don't know anything about that gay lingo. I just no know an asshole is a one way tunnel! Well, at least mine is.

:masculineresponsePWNAGE!:

Someone just needs to take their time with you.
I'm sure that ass could be coaxed into relaxing it's resistant pucker a bit.
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Reply #48 posted 04/26/10 8:37am

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johnart said:

TheVoid said:

I don't know anything about that gay lingo. I just no know an asshole is a one way tunnel! Well, at least mine is.

:masculineresponsePWNAGE!:

Someone just needs to take their time with you.
I'm sure that ass could be coaxed into relaxing it's resistant pucker a bit.
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Reply #49 posted 04/26/10 8:38am

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johnart said:

TheVoid said:

I don't know anything about that gay lingo. I just no know an asshole is a one way tunnel! Well, at least mine is.

:masculineresponsePWNAGE!:

Someone just needs to take their time with you.
I'm sure that ass could be coaxed into relaxing it's resistant pucker a bit.
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Reply #50 posted 04/26/10 8:39am

TheVoid	Yall, my asshole is like a western woman's vagina in Thailand...unused!
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Reply #51 posted 04/26/10 8:46am

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TheVoid said:

Yall, my asshole is like a western woman's vagina in Thailand...unused!

I suspect a good number of those women return west eventually.
Go West, Dan.

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Reply #52 posted 04/26/10 8:50am

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johnart said:

TheVoid said:

Yall, my asshole is like a western woman's vagina in Thailand...unused!

I suspect a good number of those women return west eventually.
Go West, Dan.

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Reply #53 posted 04/26/10 8:53am

TheVoid	Yall my asshole is like Sarah Palin, and penises are like logic.... We ain't EVEN close to merging!
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Reply #54 posted 04/26/10 8:54am

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TheVoid said:

Yall my asshole is like Sarah Palin, and penises are like logic.... We ain't EVEN close to merging!

This world is full of Republican dick.

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Reply #55 posted 04/26/10 11:14am

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I think there are men that are not straight or gay but just like anal sex and only when they are the top, period. There should be a name for them so that drag queens everywhere can find them. I know that some women are OK with anal sex, but when you don't have a prostate...well some of the enjoyment just isn't there.
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Reply #56 posted 04/26/10 11:28am

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I'm totally not being obnoxious, but I never understood what top or bottom meant.....so what is it?

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Reply #57 posted 04/26/10 11:34am

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I'm a top and no one has ever penetrated me, I would break their dick off in my ass. But I will fellate and thats where I got points

(I know way too much information)

But I am a TOP

All the men I know are bottoms, tend to be the more effeminate, camp ones and the ones who do drag, listen to Judy Garland and shriek and say Honey, sweetie, darling and fabulous in most of their sentences. They are fashion horses and will wear any camp and outrageous outfit, put on make up (One guy I know gets manicures) and walk around like they have a carrot up their ass.

Whereas all the tops like me, are vaguely resembling men, who speak and act normally, don't mince and don't have pink handbags and willingly wear clothes that are 10 years out of date, and do not give a fuck. (Then again I am a bear)
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Reply #58 posted 04/26/10 12:43pm

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Lammastide said:

I do suspect there's an implicit misogyny in some gay men not wanting to be identified as bottoms and, thus, taking the "female" sexual role. (Even if they know full well they LOVE it! lol

Suspect? Some of the most sexist, misogynistic men I've ever met were gay.

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