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Reply #60 posted 04/26/10 12:56pm

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paintedlady said:

Damn, if you're gay and you like dick what's the damn difference? I love dick, and thank God that I have a pussy because getting fucked up the ass is not something worth doing on a regular if you want to be able to hold in a fart and act like a lady in public (a loose ass can be embarrassing, for a girl).

But if you're a gay man, why would it bother you to get some dick in your ass? Heck women have anal sex and many men expect that of them, so why would men be afraid to do something they ask women to do? What? Are grown ass men afraid of farting in public? Hell if you can swallow cum and swallow a dick might as well enjoy a little fuck in the ass too. Why not?

Dang, I thought all gay men did it all. Learn something new everyday. disbelief


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That's probably an aside for this thread, but that's a god damned good question!

I can't even count the number of times some fella's suggested I let him fuck my ass, but then when asked if turnabout is fair play he gets grossed out. So I don't let him.

Sexually, I have a very strict tit-for-tat policy. Do not ask me to do something you wouldn't do yourself.
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Reply #61 posted 04/26/10 1:07pm

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MacDaddy said:

TotalANXiousNESS said:

I'm totally not being obnoxious, but I never understood what top or bottom meant.....so what is it?



lol
Top: the one who fucks
Bottom: the one who get's fucked



When does the bottom get to cum then? Like do you switch then, or does he get a hummer or wat?
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Reply #62 posted 04/26/10 1:10pm

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TotalANXiousNESS said:

MacDaddy said:




lol
Top: the one who fucks
Bottom: the one who get's fucked



When does the bottom get to cum then? Like do you switch then, or does he get a hummer or wat?


Okay, now I'M lost. What the heck is a hummer???
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Reply #63 posted 04/26/10 1:11pm

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I'm not considered a top but my asshole has never been penetrated and never will. Why should I go through pain so someone else can have pleasure? Hell naw! I don't fuck no assholes either because I'm not sticking my dick anywhere that shit comes out of. I'm strictly oral, both giving and receiving, and will always remain that way.
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Reply #64 posted 04/26/10 1:17pm

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TotalANXiousNESS said:

MacDaddy said:




lol
Top: the one who fucks
Bottom: the one who get's fucked



When does the bottom get to cum then? Like do you switch then, or does he get a hummer or wat?

The bottom cums from the stimulation of the prostate.
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Reply #65 posted 04/26/10 1:25pm

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PurpleRighteous1 said:

TotalANXiousNESS said:




When does the bottom get to cum then? Like do you switch then, or does he get a hummer or wat?

The bottom cums from the stimulation of the prostate.



Ohhhh. I'm def no anal sex pro, so I dunno.

A hummer. Getting head.
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Reply #66 posted 04/26/10 2:10pm

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vainandy said:

I'm not considered a top but my asshole has never been penetrated and never will. Why should I go through pain so someone else can have pleasure? Hell naw! I don't fuck no assholes either because I'm not sticking my dick anywhere that shit comes out of. I'm strictly oral, both giving and receiving, and will always remain that way.

are you SURE you're gay???
Really Andy? Really? I've heard one gay say "I want gay friends, but not the ones that suck dick, like dick, like other guys, or fuck guys." I don't know where he's gonna find that mythical creature at...
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Reply #67 posted 04/26/10 2:20pm

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ScarletScandal said:

vainandy said:

I'm not considered a top but my asshole has never been penetrated and never will. Why should I go through pain so someone else can have pleasure? Hell naw! I don't fuck no assholes either because I'm not sticking my dick anywhere that shit comes out of. I'm strictly oral, both giving and receiving, and will always remain that way.

are you SURE you're gay???
Really Andy? Really? I've heard one gay say "I want gay friends, but not the ones that suck dick, like dick, like other guys, or fuck guys." I don't know where he's gonna find that mythical creature at...

lol lol lol

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Reply #68 posted 04/26/10 2:42pm

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vainandy said:

I'm not considered a top but my asshole has never been penetrated and never will. Why should I go through pain so someone else can have pleasure? Hell naw! I don't fuck no assholes either because I'm not sticking my dick anywhere that shit comes out of. I'm strictly oral, both giving and receiving, and will always remain that way.


To each his own of course, but surely you know that you can rinse the Hershey Highway before you stick it.

As far as fucking/getting fucked goes; I seriously can not say which one I enjoy more.
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Reply #69 posted 04/26/10 2:51pm

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ScarletScandal said:

vainandy said:

I'm not considered a top but my asshole has never been penetrated and never will. Why should I go through pain so someone else can have pleasure? Hell naw! I don't fuck no assholes either because I'm not sticking my dick anywhere that shit comes out of. I'm strictly oral, both giving and receiving, and will always remain that way.

are you SURE you're gay???
Really Andy? Really? I've heard one gay say "I want gay friends, but not the ones that suck dick, like dick, like other guys, or fuck guys." I don't know where he's gonna find that mythical creature at...


Oh, I'm definately gay. I have no attraction to pussy whatsoever. As far as men go, my attraction is to dick, not ass, and my attraction to dick is very strong. I just find it useless to go through the pain of having something up my ass just so someone else can feel good. I won't even let the doctor stick her finger up my ass to examine it. I can't stand pain.
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Reply #70 posted 04/26/10 3:00pm

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ScarletScandal said:

I've heard one gay say "I want gay friends, but not the ones that suck dick, like dick, like other guys, or fuck guys." I don't know where he's gonna find that mythical creature at...


At Paisley Park?
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Reply #71 posted 04/26/10 3:10pm

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vainandy said:



Oh, I'm definately gay. I have no attraction to pussy whatsoever. As far as men go, my attraction is to dick, not ass, and my attraction to dick is very strong. I just find it useless to go through the pain of having something up my ass just so someone else can feel good. I won't even let the doctor stick her finger up my ass to examine it. I can't stand pain.

you aint doin it right if you are in pain! lol
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Reply #72 posted 04/26/10 3:11pm

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vainandy said:



Oh, I'm definately gay. I have no attraction to pussy whatsoever. As far as men go, my attraction is to dick, not ass, and my attraction to dick is very strong. I just find it useless to go through the pain of having something up my ass just so someone else can feel good. I won't even let the doctor stick her finger up my ass to examine it. I can't stand pain.

It hardly hurts. You have to try it. I can help batting eyes
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Reply #73 posted 04/26/10 3:43pm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

vainandy said:



Oh, I'm definately gay. I have no attraction to pussy whatsoever. As far as men go, my attraction is to dick, not ass, and my attraction to dick is very strong. I just find it useless to go through the pain of having something up my ass just so someone else can feel good. I won't even let the doctor stick her finger up my ass to examine it. I can't stand pain.

you aint doin it right if you are in pain! lol


Poor vain's butt-hymen is extra thick. pout
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Reply #74 posted 04/26/10 3:45pm

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johnart said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:


you aint doin it right if you are in pain! lol


Poor vain's butt-hymen is extra thick. pout

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Reply #75 posted 04/26/10 3:57pm

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johnart said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:


you aint doin it right if you are in pain! lol


Poor vain's butt-hymen is extra thick. pout

Please, that shit broke when he rode that stallion! lol wink
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Reply #76 posted 04/26/10 5:47pm

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ScarletScandal said:

vainandy said:



Oh, I'm definately gay. I have no attraction to pussy whatsoever. As far as men go, my attraction is to dick, not ass, and my attraction to dick is very strong. I just find it useless to go through the pain of having something up my ass just so someone else can feel good. I won't even let the doctor stick her finger up my ass to examine it. I can't stand pain.

It hardly hurts. You have to try it. I can help batting eyes

Are you kidding me?
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Reply #77 posted 04/26/10 5:50pm

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Cinnie said:

ScarletScandal said:


It hardly hurts. You have to try it. I can help batting eyes

Are you kidding me?

When you figure out what you're doing and working it in first it really doesn't. innocent
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Reply #78 posted 04/26/10 5:58pm

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ScarletScandal said:

vainandy said:



Oh, I'm definately gay. I have no attraction to pussy whatsoever. As far as men go, my attraction is to dick, not ass, and my attraction to dick is very strong. I just find it useless to go through the pain of having something up my ass just so someone else can feel good. I won't even let the doctor stick her finger up my ass to examine it. I can't stand pain.

It hardly hurts. You have to try it. I can help batting eyes



a female comedian told this joke once...


My husband and I were out driving and got carjacked by two black men. They forced us from the car and then they raped us. One of the guys was fucking me and the other was fucking my husband up the ass and he was flipping out and crying. I told him, "What's wrong? I thought that it didn't hurt? Relax your muscles and breathe ain't that what you told me!"
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Reply #79 posted 04/26/10 5:58pm

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I have yet to meet a gay man who isn't a bottom. That's why I've only dealt with straight men because I've never been able to find a gay top.
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Reply #80 posted 04/26/10 5:58pm

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kitbradley said:

I have yet to meet a gay man who isn't a bottom. That's why I've only dealt with straight men because I've never been able to find a gay top.

Where do you live, Antarctica? lol
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Reply #81 posted 04/26/10 6:00pm

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HonestMan13 said:

ScarletScandal said:


It hardly hurts. You have to try it. I can help batting eyes



a female comedian told this joke once...


My husband and I were out driving and got carjacked by two black men. They forced us from the car and then they raped us. One of the guys was fucking me and the other was fucking my husband up the ass and he was flipping out and crying. I told him, "What's wrong? I thought that it didn't hurt? Relax your muscles and breathe ain't that what you told me!"
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Reply #82 posted 04/26/10 6:09pm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Cinnie said:


Are you kidding me?

When you figure out what you're doing and working it in first it really doesn't. innocent

hmm
Anyway..
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Reply #83 posted 04/26/10 6:18pm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

kitbradley said:

I have yet to meet a gay man who isn't a bottom. That's why I've only dealt with straight men because I've never been able to find a gay top.

Where do you live, Antarctica? lol


I live in Michigan. 95% of the gay men in Michigan are bottoms. mad
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Reply #84 posted 04/26/10 6:35pm

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meow85 said:

Lammastide said:

I do suspect there's an implicit misogyny in some gay men not wanting to be identified as bottoms and, thus, taking the "female" sexual role. (Even if they know full well they LOVE it! lol) But for some exclusive tops, I give them the benefit of the doubt that it's earnestly a matter of what they enjoy in bed.

I'll add, though, that most gay guys I know complain that even though men like to pass themselves off as tops or top/vers, there are actually an overabundance of bottoms when the occasion springs. If this is true, either men are misidentifying themselves, Scarlet, or you have a rather unusual dilemma where you are.
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Suspect? Some of the most sexist, misogynistic men I've ever met were gay.

Yeah, you and I have covered that territory, as I recall. smile

My suspicion isn't about misogyny in some gay men. That's an incontrovertible truth. The suspicion I'm talking about here is whether the misogyny actually pans out to bedroom politics even when there are no women to be found. (Crazy, eh?) That's something we can't quite prove... but I absolutely think it happens.
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Reply #85 posted 04/26/10 11:08pm

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Cinnie said:

ScarletScandal said:


It hardly hurts. You have to try it. I can help batting eyes

Are you kidding me?

Once you get pass the initial sting...it's all good.
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Reply #86 posted 04/26/10 11:26pm

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TheVoid said:

Lammastide said:

I do suspect there's an implicit misogyny in some gay men not wanting to be identified as bottoms and, thus, taking the "female" sexual role. (Even if they know full well they LOVE it! lol) But for some exclusive tops, I give them the benefit of the doubt that it's earnestly a matter of what they enjoy in bed.

I'll add, though, that most gay guys I know complain that even though men like to pass themselves off as tops or top/vers, there are actually an overabundance of bottoms when the occasion springs. If this is true, either men are misidentifying themselves, Scarlet, or you have a rather unusual dilemma where you are.
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I don't understand why anybody would want to bottom boxed

I mean, doesn't it feel like taking a continuos shit
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Reply #87 posted 04/26/10 11:30pm

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I'm a top and no one has ever penetrated me, I would break their dick off in my ass. But I will fellate and thats where I got points

(I know way too much information)

But I am a TOP

All the men I know are bottoms, tend to be the more effeminate, camp ones and the ones who do drag, listen to Judy Garland and shriek and say Honey, sweetie, darling and fabulous in most of their sentences. They are fashion horses and will wear any camp and outrageous outfit, put on make up (One guy I know gets manicures) and walk around like they have a carrot up their ass.

Whereas all the tops like me, are vaguely resembling men, who speak and act normally, don't mince and don't have pink handbags and willingly wear clothes that are 10 years out of date, and do not give a fuck. (Then again I am a bear)
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Generalizations aside . . . . You should get out more.
I definitely know effeminate tops and masculine bottoms who don't identify as gay at all.
I also know transvestites and cross-dressing gay men who are tops and there are plenty of straight acting masculine men for them to go up in.
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Reply #88 posted 04/26/10 11:33pm

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Huggiebear said:

tinaz said:




What does vanilla mean? boxed


Wait... I think I just thought of the answer... Hershey hiway??
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No it means guys who don't have anal sex, vanilla as in plain. We are not into scat, urine, pain, torture and bizarre fetish routines, sex is an expression of love not pain. Some of the hardcore people would actually label us as asexual rather than gay, as they feel anal sex is the only gay sex.
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Vanilla as in plain means no anal sex? That's news to me. (Vanilla sex = no penetration. Not what heterosexuals would call vanilla . . . . )
It seems you are suggesting gay men are routinely into scat, urine, pain, torture and bizarre fetish routines more than heterosexuals are.


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Reply #89 posted 04/26/10 11:36pm

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paintedlady said:

Damn, if you're gay and you like dick what's the damn difference? I love dick, and thank God that I have a pussy because getting fucked up the ass is not something worth doing on a regular if you want to be able to hold in a fart and act like a lady in public (a loose ass can be embarrassing, for a girl).

But if you're a gay man, why would it bother you to get some dick in your ass? Heck women have anal sex and many men expect that of them, so why would men be afraid to do something they ask women to do? What? Are grown ass men afraid of farting in public? Hell if you can swallow cum and swallow a dick might as well enjoy a little fuck in the ass too. Why not?

Dang, I thought all gay men did it all. Learn something new everyday. disbelief


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What's this with anal sex and not being able to hold a fart? That's a new one . . .
Never been a problem that I've heard of. For someone who's into fisting on the regular however, that might be the case.
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