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Reply #240 posted 06/16/09 11:29am

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hey, i learned a new phrase.....







..pure fuckery.
THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]

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Reply #241 posted 06/16/09 11:45am

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myfavorite said:

hey, i learned a new phrase.....

...pure fuckery.


So did I. "Extraness" clapping
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Reply #242 posted 06/16/09 11:52am

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

myfavorite said:

hey, i learned a new phrase.....

...pure fuckery.


So did I. "Extraness" clapping


I did enjoy "extraness" nod
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Reply #243 posted 06/16/09 11:59am

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johnart said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:



So did I. "Extraness" clapping


I did enjoy "extraness" nod

I give her an A+ for diplomacy lol
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Reply #244 posted 06/16/09 12:00pm

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johnart said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:



So did I. "Extraness" clapping


I did enjoy "extraness" nod



Anyone who thinks getting their dick sucked by another man doesn't make them gay needs to get hose down and get their ass beat because it's hypocritical and retarded. These fake gangsters and thugs are one of the reasons why we have high rates of HIV and other STDs, because they want go fucking both ways with it. I'm not trying to offend bisexuality but still, those muthfackas better not think having thugging love does not make them gay.
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Reply #245 posted 06/16/09 12:02pm

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NastradumasKid said:

johnart said:



I did enjoy "extraness" nod



Anyone who thinks getting their dick sucked by another man doesn't make them gay needs to get hose down and get their ass beat because it's hypocritical and retarded. These fake gangsters and thugs are one of the reasons why we have high rates of HIV and other STDs, because they want go fucking both ways with it. I'm not trying to offend bisexuality but still, those muthfackas better not thing having thugging love does not make them gay.



falloff you better coin that term quick. or maybe bromance qualifies? hmmm
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Reply #246 posted 06/16/09 12:09pm

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NastradumasKid said:

johnart said:



I did enjoy "extraness" nod



Anyone who thinks getting their dick sucked by another man doesn't make them gay needs to get hose down and get their ass beat because it's hypocritical and retarded. These fake gangsters and thugs are one of the reasons why we have high rates of HIV and other STDs, because they want go fucking both ways with it. I'm not trying to offend bisexuality but still, those muthfackas better not thing having thugging love does not make them gay.


The question was one time. Does a one time experience define one's sexuality for the rest of their life? Everyone keeps goin off on these DL rants.

The only thing that can be blamed with any amount of certainty for rates of HIV and STDS is unprotected sex. It's got nothing to do with sleeping with one gender or both.
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Reply #247 posted 06/16/09 12:12pm

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johnart said:

NastradumasKid said:




Anyone who thinks getting their dick sucked by another man doesn't make them gay needs to get hose down and get their ass beat because it's hypocritical and retarded. These fake gangsters and thugs are one of the reasons why we have high rates of HIV and other STDs, because they want go fucking both ways with it. I'm not trying to offend bisexuality but still, those muthfackas better not thing having thugging love does not make them gay.


The question was one time. A one time experience define one's sexuality for the rest of their life? Everyone keeps goin off on these DL rants.
While I do get where you're going with the whole DL thing ...
The only thing that can be blamed with any amount of certainty for rates of HIV and STDS is unprotected sex. It's got nothing to do with sleeping with one gender or both.


And thus we come back to the propagation of lies and falsehoods. Every community has homophobia but this whole downlow thing and black men's "masculinity" being questioned by themselves and their community only lends people to push the lies even harder and for people to accept them going deeper into denial.
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Reply #248 posted 06/16/09 12:15pm

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We've all managed to complicate a fairly simple and straight forward question/thread subject but good.

It's pretty awesome. lol
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Reply #249 posted 06/16/09 12:17pm

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johnart said:

We've all managed to complicate a fairly simple and straight forward question/thread subject but good.

It's pretty awesome. lol

at least it's related to the topic! lol Threads have gone epicly off topic before lol
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Reply #250 posted 06/16/09 12:18pm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

johnart said:



The question was one time. A one time experience define one's sexuality for the rest of their life? Everyone keeps goin off on these DL rants.
While I do get where you're going with the whole DL thing ...
The only thing that can be blamed with any amount of certainty for rates of HIV and STDS is unprotected sex. It's got nothing to do with sleeping with one gender or both.


And thus we come back to the propagation of lies and falsehoods. Every community has homophobia but this whole downlow thing and black men's "masculinity" being questioned by themselves and their community only lends people to push the lies even harder and for people to accept them going deeper into denial.


That's what I mean thank you. biggrin
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Reply #251 posted 06/16/09 12:24pm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

johnart said:

We've all managed to complicate a fairly simple and straight forward question/thread subject but good.

It's pretty awesome. lol

at least it's related to the topic! lol Threads have gone epicly off topic before lol


That can sometimes be even awesome-er. boxed
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Reply #252 posted 06/16/09 12:44pm

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How so?

I'm just trying to figure out where you're coming form on this, because I don't get it. What's so different about a bi guy that sets him apart from a purely hetero guy that makes him unsuitable?





Are you seriously gonna ask me that after reading my previous comments? confused

I like straight guys (obviously) neutral Why would I want a man that either wants to put his dick in another man's ass, has had a dick in his ass or wants a dick in his ass? He would be unsuitable to me. There is no way I could be intimate with him shrug Saying that it would be a turnoff is a HUGE understatement

If it doesn't matter to you, then more power to you. It matters to me.

Smooches;)


i get what you're saying, and i don't think you should have to feel that you need to explain yourself more than you already have. everyone has their own feelings, and you have every right to feel this way! if others feel otherwise, great for them. i think there are alot of people that feel the same as you.
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Reply #253 posted 06/16/09 12:46pm

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Sorry that was rude of me. I was baiting you to come back to post and finish answering.


This shouldn't be a question and answer for MsMisha neutral I answered the question asked, as did many. I don't apologize for the fact that I seem to be the only one who feels this way.


Smooches;)


i feel the same way.
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Reply #254 posted 06/16/09 12:46pm

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kimrachell said:

MsMisha319 said:






Are you seriously gonna ask me that after reading my previous comments? confused

I like straight guys (obviously) neutral Why would I want a man that either wants to put his dick in another man's ass, has had a dick in his ass or wants a dick in his ass? He would be unsuitable to me. There is no way I could be intimate with him shrug Saying that it would be a turnoff is a HUGE understatement

If it doesn't matter to you, then more power to you. It matters to me.

Smooches;)


i get what you're saying, and i don't think you should have to feel that you need to explain yourself more than you already have. everyone has their own feelings, and you have every right to feel this way! if others feel otherwise, great for them. i think there are alot of people that feel the same as you.


That part she absoultely doesn't need to explain. I don't want a boyfriend that's into punany! lol
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Reply #255 posted 06/16/09 1:58pm

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My best friend is straight as an arrow but gets hit on all the time. He doesn't get upset or offended by it.


Same as my brother, and some people even think he's gay but he really couldn't possibly care any less. It would be really weird if he suddenly started freaking out about it.
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Reply #256 posted 06/16/09 2:00pm

Cinnie

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Vendetta1 said:

My best friend is straight as an arrow but gets hit on all the time. He doesn't get upset or offended by it.


Same as my brother, and some people even think he's gay but he really couldn't possibly care any less. It would be really weird if he suddenly started freaking out about it.


Wow, that's some bad gaydar (I never thought that)
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Reply #257 posted 06/16/09 2:05pm

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Cinnie said:

JustErin said:



Same as my brother, and some people even think he's gay but he really couldn't possibly care any less. It would be really weird if he suddenly started freaking out about it.


Wow, that's some bad gaydar (I never thought that)


I don't get it either, but he's heard it for years and years. And most of my female friends ask me if he is, then once they find out he isn't...they suddenly love him.

It's odd. lol
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Reply #258 posted 06/16/09 2:10pm

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funny how the tattoed guy in the drawing (the one on top) has a big feminine round ass. oh yeah and he's sitting in the queen B position. interesting.
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Reply #259 posted 06/16/09 2:11pm

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funny how the tattoed guy in the drawing (the one on top) has a big feminine round ass. oh yeah and he's sitting in the queen B position. interesting.


Men on the downlow rolleyes
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Reply #260 posted 06/16/09 2:11pm

Cinnie

JustErin said:

Cinnie said:



Wow, that's some bad gaydar (I never thought that)


I don't get it either, but he's heard it for years and years. And most of my female friends ask me if he is, then once they find out he isn't...they suddenly love him.

It's odd. lol

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Reply #261 posted 06/16/09 2:12pm

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Cinnie said:

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1.I'm not comparing gays to pedophiles, but I'm pointing out the fact that someone stated that a "one-time" sexual encounter doesn't make a person gay or straight....but a "one-time" sexual encounter between a man and a child makes that man a sex offender neutral The "one-time" rule doesn't apply here, huh? Interesting neutral


As wack as your comparison to a sex offender is... you yourself said a "one-time" encounter would not count if it were girl-on-girl. shrug

And I'm sure this was a really open topic to get honest opinions about AT WORK rolleyes You got the answer you were looking for because you were AT WORK.




What does that have to do with anything? confuse They were honest, just like me lol


And yes, the double standard lol I don't think a girl is gay for having a one time encounter, but I definitely would think that the man was a sex offender wink
The double standard is alive and well lol


Smooches;)
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Reply #262 posted 06/16/09 2:14pm

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Cinnie said:



As wack as your comparison to a sex offender is... you yourself said a "one-time" encounter would not count if it were girl-on-girl. shrug

And I'm sure this was a really open topic to get honest opinions about AT WORK rolleyes You got the answer you were looking for because you were AT WORK.




What does that have to do with anything? confuse They were honest, just like me lol


And yes, the double standard lol I don't think a girl is gay for having a one time encounter, but I definitely would think that the man was a sex offender wink
The double standard is alive and well lol


Smooches;)


Lesbians can't penetrate each other other than fake penis toys.
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Reply #263 posted 06/16/09 2:16pm

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MsMisha319 said:

Cinnie said:



As wack as your comparison to a sex offender is... you yourself said a "one-time" encounter would not count if it were girl-on-girl. shrug

And I'm sure this was a really open topic to get honest opinions about AT WORK rolleyes You got the answer you were looking for because you were AT WORK.




What does that have to do with anything? confuse They were honest, just like me lol


And yes, the double standard lol I don't think a girl is gay for having a one time encounter, but I definitely would think that the man was a sex offender wink
The double standard is alive and well lol


Smooches;)



Why would he be a sex offender? I mean if it's consentual and all.
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Reply #264 posted 06/16/09 2:19pm

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DesireeNevermind said:

MsMisha319 said:





What does that have to do with anything? confuse They were honest, just like me lol


And yes, the double standard lol I don't think a girl is gay for having a one time encounter, but I definitely would think that the man was a sex offender wink
The double standard is alive and well lol


Smooches;)



Why would he be a sex offender? I mean if it's consentual and all.




Maybe you should read up before you respond hmmm I was referring to the grown man having sex with a 5 year old



Smooches;)
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Reply #265 posted 06/16/09 2:26pm

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MsMisha319 said:

Cinnie said:



As wack as your comparison to a sex offender is... you yourself said a "one-time" encounter would not count if it were girl-on-girl. shrug

And I'm sure this was a really open topic to get honest opinions about AT WORK rolleyes You got the answer you were looking for because you were AT WORK.




What does that have to do with anything? confuse They were honest, just like me lol


And yes, the double standard lol I don't think a girl is gay for having a one time encounter, but I definitely would think that the man was a sex offender wink
The double standard is alive and well lol


Smooches;)


Well that is how I think too! One time experience for a woman = not necessarily gay. One time experience for a man = all the way gay lol
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Reply #266 posted 06/16/09 2:34pm

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MsMisha319 said:

DesireeNevermind said:




Why would he be a sex offender? I mean if it's consentual and all.




Maybe you should read up before you respond hmmm I was referring to the grown man having sex with a 5 year old




Smooches;)



Nope. I dont' have the time or patience to re-read page after page for catch up - exhausting. I'd rather people just clarify each and every time. Like you're doing now.

So what does a man having sex with a five year old have to do with one time same sex relations between adults now?

eh fughetaboutit.

faint

the org be one big wild and crazy guy. i dig it.
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Reply #267 posted 06/16/09 2:37pm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

MsMisha319 said:





What does that have to do with anything? confuse They were honest, just like me lol


And yes, the double standard lol I don't think a girl is gay for having a one time encounter, but I definitely would think that the man was a sex offender wink
The double standard is alive and well lol


Smooches;)


Well that is how I think too! One time experience for a woman = not necessarily gay. One time experience for a man = all the way gay lol


And let me clarify on the point where people have stated that gay men having sex with women does not make them straight. That is rarely out of sexual curiosity and mostly out of doing the "right thing" and bowing to societal pressures not to act out on their nature. A straight man doesn't have that same pressure, therefore if he is trying a sex act with a man it's because he really wants it not because his family expects him to not have the white picket fence.
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Reply #268 posted 06/16/09 2:41pm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:



Well that is how I think too! One time experience for a woman = not necessarily gay. One time experience for a man = all the way gay lol


And let me clarify on the point where people have stated that gay men having sex with women does not make them straight. That is rarely out of sexual curiosity and mostly out of doing the "right thing" and bowing to societal pressures not to act out on their nature. A straight man doesn't have that same pressure, therefore if he is trying a sex act with a man it's because he really wants it not because his family expects him to not have the white picket fence.



some gay guys have sex with women when they are drunk, horny and no hot guy around. I've seen this. Can't say I understand it or approve but wutevs. Grown folk!
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Reply #269 posted 06/16/09 2:46pm

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Once again, the org disappoints doh! SOME of you people...and I'm sure you know who you are...act as though people cannot have an opinion that differs from yours confused RESPECT others opinions! Even if you don't agree. All I did was answer a fucking question! I NEVER ONCE ACTED AS IF I WAS AN AUTHORITY ON THE TOPIC! I HAVE A FUCKING OPINION!! So do you, but did I bash your opinion? Nope, I just stated that I don't agree. You all turned this into a "Ask Misha" thread, as if I were some homophobic guru neutral If you don't like my opinion, fine, but is it necessary to make this thread about everything that I typed? You all are ridiculous. I'm not the only person who feels the way that I do, so get over it and find something else to be angry with.

I'm done responding to you people (for lack of a better word) who act as though a straight person can't have an opinion on gay culture and lifestyle. Grow up, find a hobby and find God wink


I won't lose sleep over some orgers anyway lol


Smooches;)
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