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PrintableNMuzakNSoul said: MsMisha319 said: Yes, there is a double standard and I'm ok with that
Though I have never had this experience, I wouldn't consider a female who has a sexual encounter with another female a lesbian. I just wouldn't. Now, if she continuously had sexual encounters with women and began to prefer it, then yes, but just one...no.... If a dude has a voluntary sexual encounter with another dude, he is GAY. Period. End of story. There is no going back from it, in my opinion. If I was involved with a guy and he admitted to me that he had a sexual encounter with a another guy, I would dump him ASAP!!! ASAP!!!!! Smooches;) So if a woman does it once, she's not a Lesbian but if a dude does it once he's Gay? Interesting logic. Sure, if you want to call it that. It's my logic 
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Cinnie said: MsMisha319 said: Yes, there is a double standard and I'm ok with that
Though I have never had this experience, I wouldn't consider a female who has a sexual encounter with another female a lesbian. I just wouldn't. Now, if she continuously had sexual encounters with women and began to prefer it, then yes, but just one...no.... If a dude has a voluntary sexual encounter with another dude, he is GAY. Period. End of story. There is no going back from it, in my opinion. If I was involved with a guy and he admitted to me that he had a sexual encounter with a another guy, I would dump him ASAP!!! ASAP!!!!! Smooches;) You sound gay. Not even close  It's just what I believe. There is no way I would touch a man that's had a sexual encounter with another man  Period. Even if he was just "experimenting".
Doesn't mean I wouldn't be his friend or anything like that, but we would definitely not have an intimate relationship. Smooches;) | |
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MsMisha319 said: Cinnie said: You sound gay. Not even close It's just what I believe. There is no way I would touch a man that's had a sexual encounter with another man Period. Even if he was just "experimenting".
Doesn't mean I wouldn't be his friend or anything like that, but we would definitely not have an intimate relationship. Would YOU "experiment"... with... a man that's had a sexual encounter with another man... or just with a woman?  | |
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Imago said: endymion said: I don't know about the gay straight label but if you have had some sort of penis play (nice alliteration
 ) then you obviously care for cock (see i did it again ) in some way
Now if that makes you gay i have no idea but at least be honest with yourself and admit your occasional desire for dick  you're gay Hell it was just that one time with Supa What you don't remember never happened | |
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BlackAdder7 said: I don't think anyone can answer that question for YOU Jai....only you can decide that for yourself.
It's a discussion question...not about moi. I swear the words "HATER" is wayyy over-rated...smh | |
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Cinnie said: MsMisha319 said: Not even close It's just what I believe. There is no way I would touch a man that's had a sexual encounter with another man Period. Even if he was just "experimenting".
Doesn't mean I wouldn't be his friend or anything like that, but we would definitely not have an intimate relationship. Would YOU "experiment"... with... a man that's had a sexual encounter with another man... or just with a woman? I definitely would not "experiment" with a man that's had a sexual encounter with another man.....I thought my previous statements were pretty clear 
I wouldn't "experiment" with another woman either, because I'm not a lesbian, bi or bi-curious. Would I "experiment" with a man that's had a sexual encounter with a woman? Umm, yeah....as long as he has ONLY been with women...and has no desire to be with a man...that would make him straight, correct?
Let's not try to make this into more than it is. I answered a question; I answered it TRUTHFULLY and I don't really have to justify it. I have gay friends and a few gay family members and I love them all the same. I'm not a homophobe, I just would never be with a man that's been with another man. He would be gay in MY eyes...maybe not in his own  Like it or not, it's how I feel.
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No, not necessarily. It all depends on why the situation happened. Were the people involved drunk or using drugs? Was it mere curiosity? Or was it an actual same-sex attraction? "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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CarrieMpls said: No way.
If a gay man gets married to a woman and has children does that make him straight? Nope. A man can be gay or straight even if they've never had sex with anyone. Having sex with someone doesn't determine your sexuality. It’s about who you’re sexually attracted to. It’s about your insides, your emotions and who you fall in love with. It’s not about who you have sex with once. Or twice. 
THANK YOU! If sexual behaviour determined sexual orientation, virgins wouldn't be into anything. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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MsMisha319 said: Yes, there is a double standard and I'm ok with that
Though I have never had this experience, I wouldn't consider a female who has a sexual encounter with another female a lesbian. I just wouldn't. Now, if she continuously had sexual encounters with women and began to prefer it, then yes, but just one...no.... If a dude has a voluntary sexual encounter with another dude, he is GAY. Period. End of story. There is no going back from it, in my opinion. If I was involved with a guy and he admitted to me that he had a sexual encounter with a another guy, I would dump him ASAP!!! ASAP!!!!! Smooches;) Why do you think that way? You admit yourself that it's a double standard. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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MsMisha319 said: Cinnie said: You sound gay. Not even close It's just what I believe. There is no way I would touch a man that's had a sexual encounter with another man Period. Even if he was just "experimenting".
Doesn't mean I wouldn't be his friend or anything like that, but we would definitely not have an intimate relationship. Smooches;) Why not, if you don't mind ym asking? Bi men are so much hotter in bed than straight men.  "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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To all the people that say yes, if a person likes x a lot more than y and has had x numerous times, but has tried y once, maybe twice, that automatically means that person prefers y? Ridiculous. | |
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sextonseven said: To all the people that say yes, if a person likes x a lot more than y and has had x numerous times, but has tried y once, maybe twice, that automatically means that person prefers y? Ridiculous.
Don't forget it's only that way if that person is a man  . If it's a woman the rules are different  .With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Serious said: sextonseven said: To all the people that say yes, if a person likes x a lot more than y and has had x numerous times, but has tried y once, maybe twice, that automatically means that person prefers y? Ridiculous.
Don't forget it's only that way if that person is a man . If it's a woman the rules are different .Doubly ridiculous. | |
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Bi men are so much hotter in bed than straight men.
But so that would be a generalization right? Even if you have slept with ten bisexual men, there's millions of men around the world. | |
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NMuzakNSoul said: Bi men are so much hotter in bed than straight men.
But so that would be a generalization right? Even if you have slept with ten bisexual men, there's millions of men around the world.  With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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meow85 said: MsMisha319 said: Not even close It's just what I believe. There is no way I would touch a man that's had a sexual encounter with another man Period. Even if he was just "experimenting".
Doesn't mean I wouldn't be his friend or anything like that, but we would definitely not have an intimate relationship. Smooches;) Why not, if you don't mind ym asking? Bi men are so much hotter in bed than straight men. That's your opinion. My opinion is that I don't want a man in my bed who has a desire to have a dick in his ass
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MsMisha319 said: meow85 said: Why not, if you don't mind ym asking? Bi men are so much hotter in bed than straight men. That's your opinion. My opinion is that I don't want a man in my bed who has a desire to have a dick in his ass
Smooches;) Some gay men don't have that desire. Would you experiment with a gay man if he was a "top"? | |
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NMuzakNSoul said: Bi men are so much hotter in bed than straight men.
But so that would be a generalization right? Even if you have slept with ten bisexual men, there's millions of men around the world. Oh, I know it's one hell of a generalization, but that has been my experience. Also, being bisexual myself, being with bi men avoids the bulk of the dipshit comments and requests some straight guys bring up. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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meow85 said: MsMisha319 said: Yes, there is a double standard and I'm ok with that
Though I have never had this experience, I wouldn't consider a female who has a sexual encounter with another female a lesbian. I just wouldn't. Now, if she continuously had sexual encounters with women and began to prefer it, then yes, but just one...no.... If a dude has a voluntary sexual encounter with another dude, he is GAY. Period. End of story. There is no going back from it, in my opinion. If I was involved with a guy and he admitted to me that he had a sexual encounter with a another guy, I would dump him ASAP!!! ASAP!!!!! Smooches;) Why do you think that way? You admit yourself that it's a double standard. Of course it's a double standard I didn't make it up and I didn't say it was right.
I applaud all those who are saying "it's the inside and emotional stuff that count"...I just don't agree. I wonder how many single straight women would be willing to overlook a man's "one-time" sexual encounter with another dude It's appaudable to say that you would, but I seriously doubt that many would be ok with that. If so, than good for you, but I would show him the door...
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Cinnie said: MsMisha319 said: That's your opinion. My opinion is that I don't want a man in my bed who has a desire to have a dick in his ass
Smooches;) Some gay men don't have that desire. Would you experiment with a gay man if he was a "top"? (I'm guessing not) | |
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MsMisha319 said: meow85 said: Why do you think that way? You admit yourself that it's a double standard. Of course it's a double standard I didn't make it up and I didn't say it was right.
I applaud all those who are saying "it's the inside and emotional stuff that count"...I just don't agree. I wonder how many single straight women would be willing to overlook a man's "one-time" sexual encounter with another dude It's appaudable to say that you would, but I seriously doubt that many would be ok with that. If so, than good for you, but I would show him the door...
Smooches;) But why? It's not like gay sex "taints" the guy in some way. Do you think it makes him less of a man? "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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Cinnie said: Cinnie said: Some gay men don't have that desire. Would you experiment with a gay man if he was a "top"? (I'm guessing not) I wouldn't "experiment" with a gay man, Period Or woman, for that matter
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meow85 said: MsMisha319 said: Of course it's a double standard I didn't make it up and I didn't say it was right.
I applaud all those who are saying "it's the inside and emotional stuff that count"...I just don't agree. I wonder how many single straight women would be willing to overlook a man's "one-time" sexual encounter with another dude It's appaudable to say that you would, but I seriously doubt that many would be ok with that. If so, than good for you, but I would show him the door...
Smooches;) But why? It's not like gay sex "taints" the guy in some way. Do you think it makes him less of a man? Now let's answer this one. Straight man with one "gay" experience... GO! | |
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MsMisha319 said: Cinnie said: (I'm guessing not) I wouldn't "experiment" with a gay man, Period Or woman, for that matter
Smooches;) According to your logic, if you DID experiment with another woman you wouldn't be gay even if it happened more than once, but if your man even once gave a handjob he'd be fully homo. That doesn't make any sense. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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meow85 said: MsMisha319 said: Of course it's a double standard I didn't make it up and I didn't say it was right.
I applaud all those who are saying "it's the inside and emotional stuff that count"...I just don't agree. I wonder how many single straight women would be willing to overlook a man's "one-time" sexual encounter with another dude It's appaudable to say that you would, but I seriously doubt that many would be ok with that. If so, than good for you, but I would show him the door...
Smooches;) But why? It's not like gay sex "taints" the guy in some way. Do you think it makes him less of a man?
I definitely would look at a man differently if I knew this about him, even if it was one time. Smooches;) | |
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Cinnie said: meow85 said: But why? It's not like gay sex "taints" the guy in some way. Do you think it makes him less of a man? Now let's answer this one. Straight man with one "gay" experience... GO! I guess you already answered this one. Let's lez out already. | |
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MsMisha319 said: meow85 said: But why? It's not like gay sex "taints" the guy in some way. Do you think it makes him less of a man?
I definitely would look at a man differently if I knew this about him, even if it was one time. Smooches;) How so? I'm just trying to figure out where you're coming form on this, because I don't get it. What's so different about a bi guy that sets him apart from a purely hetero guy that makes him unsuitable? "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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Cinnie said: (MsMisha busy gettin' it missionary style somewhere)
I'll ignore your comment, because we should all be adults here....
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MsMisha319 said: Cinnie said: (MsMisha busy gettin' it missionary style somewhere)
I'll ignore your comment, because we should all be adults here....
Smooches;) Sorry that was rude of me. I was baiting you to come back to post and finish answering. | |
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