vainandy said: And it most importantly takes pride in the openly gay men that are sleeping with these type of men. Why would any self respecting gay man sleep with and put up with the type of man that says "I ain't no fag but I do like getting my dick sucked" or "a mouth is mouth no matter who's mouth it is, a man or a woman's, it all feels the same but that don't mean that I'm a fag just because I let a fucking faggot suck my dick". And why do we give a man the type of day when we have previously seen that man with a group of other men bashing gay men in public but then we later see him circling the club in his car looking for one of us to suck his dick. Why do we put up with this shit but many of us do and it's not right at all. Yeah, wouldn't we all just love to engage in any pleasure we want and never have to feel the pain of prejudice and discrimination that goes along with it. I'd be fine with the motherfuckers if they were just strictly in the closet but I be damned if I'm going to put up with the type of motherfucker that will bash us and we, like damn fools, are giving him pleasure. I be damn! If anything, I'd like to give the son of a bitch some pain for his actions, not some damn pleasure. For those men who's attitude is...."Just because I let a damn faggot suck my dick don't mean that I'm a fag myself. I love me some pussy"....I ask them this question all the damn time..... "I notice that you brag about all the women you sleep with to all your so-called straight male friends. If getting your dick sucked by another guy doesn't make you gay just because you like some pussy, then why aren't you bragging on all your male conquests also? Why? Because you know that those men will call you a faggot just like they call me one but the difference is, I'm strong enough to handle it and you aren't." That usually shuts their mouth real quick plus I used to let them know that if I ever see them somewhere in public, I'll bust their ass out quicker than a heartbeat and we'll just see if the straight world thinks they are straight after I get through telling about them getting their dick sucked. It's all about pride and not letting anyone think they are better than you because a gay man is equal and isn't beneath no one. . . . [Edited 6/11/09 12:41pm] I can't stand men like this. I'm not a fan of "old Prince". I'm not a fan of "new Prince". I'm just a fan of Prince. Simple as that | |
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purplecam said: vainandy said: And it most importantly takes pride in the openly gay men that are sleeping with these type of men. Why would any self respecting gay man sleep with and put up with the type of man that says "I ain't no fag but I do like getting my dick sucked" or "a mouth is mouth no matter who's mouth it is, a man or a woman's, it all feels the same but that don't mean that I'm a fag just because I let a fucking faggot suck my dick". And why do we give a man the type of day when we have previously seen that man with a group of other men bashing gay men in public but then we later see him circling the club in his car looking for one of us to suck his dick. Why do we put up with this shit but many of us do and it's not right at all. Yeah, wouldn't we all just love to engage in any pleasure we want and never have to feel the pain of prejudice and discrimination that goes along with it. I'd be fine with the motherfuckers if they were just strictly in the closet but I be damned if I'm going to put up with the type of motherfucker that will bash us and we, like damn fools, are giving him pleasure. I be damn! If anything, I'd like to give the son of a bitch some pain for his actions, not some damn pleasure. For those men who's attitude is...."Just because I let a damn faggot suck my dick don't mean that I'm a fag myself. I love me some pussy"....I ask them this question all the damn time..... "I notice that you brag about all the women you sleep with to all your so-called straight male friends. If getting your dick sucked by another guy doesn't make you gay just because you like some pussy, then why aren't you bragging on all your male conquests also? Why? Because you know that those men will call you a faggot just like they call me one but the difference is, I'm strong enough to handle it and you aren't." That usually shuts their mouth real quick plus I used to let them know that if I ever see them somewhere in public, I'll bust their ass out quicker than a heartbeat and we'll just see if the straight world thinks they are straight after I get through telling about them getting their dick sucked. It's all about pride and not letting anyone think they are better than you because a gay man is equal and isn't beneath no one. . . . [Edited 6/11/09 12:41pm] I can't stand men like this. Honey, men like that get my blood pressure up more than shit hop and Shitney Houston combined. Andy is a four letter word. | |
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amorbella said: I love looking at other women.Women have curves, soft skin, and features that a man just can't have,not matter what they do. Yes, I have been with another women before.
But I prefer sex with a man. A man can give me what a woman can't. A certain stimulation and climax that is mind blowing. If this makes me gay, well that's cool with me naw it makes you bi-sexual! which is cool as well! | |
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vainandy said: Honey, men like that get my blood pressure up more than shit hop and Shitney Houston combined. And that takes a lot. | |
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vainandy said: Honey, men like that get my blood pressure up more than shit hop and Shitney Houston combined. I used to deal with men like that till I realized that I deserved better than that. All those men are disgusting. I'm not a fan of "old Prince". I'm not a fan of "new Prince". I'm just a fan of Prince. Simple as that | |
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purplecam said: vainandy said: Honey, men like that get my blood pressure up more than shit hop and Shitney Houston combined. I used to deal with men like that till I realized that I deserved better than that. All those men are disgusting. Yeah they take total advantage of you and treat you as dirt and lie to themselves and others. Really messy. | |
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Ask yourself these questions
1. Where you drunk or under the influence when it happened. 2. Can you remember it. 3. Did it go beyond a tongue kiss 4. Did you really love it? 5. Has it lead to more with same girl/guy? If you answered no, to 1 or 2 or yes to the others, you may have same sex desires, more than 3 you are almost certainly gay So what are u going 2 do? R u just gonna sit there and watch? I'm not gonna stop until the war is over. Its gonna take a long time | |
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I don't know about the gay straight label but if you have had some sort of penis play (nice alliteration ) then you obviously care for cock (see i did it again ) in some way
Now if that makes you gay i have no idea but at least be honest with yourself and admit your occasional desire for dick What you don't remember never happened | |
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I think in most people there is an element of curiosity. For women this is much less taboo than it is for men, so men tend to not talk about such things.
Also, I imagine the whole coming out thing is a big big deal for gay people. I understand there is a certain element of having to come out to yourself first before you even think about admitting it to anyone else. A lot of people fight against it, for all kinds of religious or societal reasons. Some people, I guess, try not to be gay - as if there is any choice in the matter of sexuality for any of us, straight, gay, bi, whatever. But if you try to opress or supress a natural urge or natural feeling - whether it be sexual or emotional - don't be surprised if it fights to get out all the same. This is not an exit | |
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Imago said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Yes. I've never had a one time sexual encounter with a woman. NEVER
I think you should try it. I guarantee you'd have more fun than you think. I wouldn't guarantee something like that. Some of us are not meant to go certain places. I can dyke out with a chick and get with the makeout and titties part, but the pannies (hers, I don't wear pannies anymore ) stay ON! And no, a one time experience (or a few times) does not make anyone any particular label. Every now and then I have a veggie burger...it doesn't make me a vegan. | |
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johnart said: Imago said: I think you should try it. I guarantee you'd have more fun than you think. I wouldn't guarantee something like that. Some of us are not meant to go certain places. I can dyke out with a chick and get with the makeout and titties part, but the pannies (hers, I don't wear pannies anymore ) stay ON! And no, a one time experience (or a few times) does not make anyone any particular label. Every now and then I have a veggie burger...it doesn't make me a vegan. Everyone loves breasts What you don't remember never happened | |
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endymion said: johnart said: I wouldn't guarantee something like that. Some of us are not meant to go certain places. I can dyke out with a chick and get with the makeout and titties part, but the pannies (hers, I don't wear pannies anymore ) stay ON! And no, a one time experience (or a few times) does not make anyone any particular label. Every now and then I have a veggie burger...it doesn't make me a vegan. Everyone loves breasts Not my hubby. He will run from a pair if they get too close. Oddly enough he's the butch one. [Edited 6/12/09 7:15am] | |
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Imago said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Yes. I've never had a one time sexual encounter with a woman. NEVER
I think you should try it. I guarantee you'd have more fun than you think. That's the same line I used to bag Erin. | |
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johnart said: endymion said: Everyone loves breasts Not my hubby. He will run from a pair if they get too close. Oddly enough he's the butch one. [Edited 6/12/09 7:15am] You have to reassure him John a bit of titty play doesn't make him straight okay I have just had this vision of me running towards the breasts and him running away from them and the two of us crashing together in the middle I think i am in danger of breast fixation What you don't remember never happened | |
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endymion said: johnart said: Not my hubby. He will run from a pair if they get too close. Oddly enough he's the butch one. [Edited 6/12/09 7:15am] You have to reassure him John a bit of titty play doesn't make him straight okay I have just had this vision of me running towards the breasts and him running away from them and the two of us crashing together in the middle I think i am in danger of breast fixation | |
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A one time experimentation doesn't make a straight man gay. | |
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endymion said: I don't know about the gay straight label but if you have had some sort of penis play (nice alliteration ) then you obviously care for cock (see i did it again ) in some way
Now if that makes you gay i have no idea but at least be honest with yourself and admit your occasional desire for dick you're gay | |
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I'm willing to bet my life that all men have had a sexual experience with another man. | |
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Yes, there is a double standard and I'm ok with that
Though I have never had this experience, I wouldn't consider a female who has a sexual encounter with another female a lesbian. I just wouldn't. Now, if she continuously had sexual encounters with women and began to prefer it, then yes, but just one...no.... If a dude has a voluntary sexual encounter with another dude, he is GAY. Period. End of story. There is no going back from it, in my opinion. If I was involved with a guy and he admitted to me that he had a sexual encounter with a another guy, I would dump him ASAP!!! ASAP!!!!! Smooches;) | |
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JayJai said: http://livesteez.com/livestyle/read/98/Does-a-One-Time-Sexual-Encounter-With-The-Same-Sex-Make-You-Gay
Double standards. When do they and when don’t they apply? Many females go through an experimentation stage in college and go through an oral fixation with members of their same sex. Ya know. Just to try it out. Once they go through their phase and are back looking for "Big Rod", the "temporary lapse" in judgment is put behind her forever but that doesn’t make her a lesbian. Hell even women being bi-sexual isn’t even taboo anymore and most men love freaks in the bedroom. But what happens when the situation is reversed. Say what? Yeah, we’re going there. If a man has a one time voluntary homosexual encounter is he forever gay or can he chalk that up to youthful experimentation and move on. See. Double standard..... Fellow orgers...what do u think? Well according to the opinions of those where this little piece came from, I guess the answer is yes. Personally, I guess it's up to the individual themselves and how they felt about the whole ordeal. I just love it when I do stuff like that. [Edited 6/13/09 19:48pm] | |
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One time? I guess that would be experimental. | |
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I don't think anyone can answer that question for YOU Jai....only you can decide that for yourself. | |
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it definitely means you're Bootylicious [Edited 6/13/09 19:58pm] | |
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no it doesnt.could be a one off thing...and also can be cuz you know what you like already and steppin out gettin ur geigh on. | |
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GirlBrother said: I'm willing to bet my life that all men have had a sexual experience with another man.
I'll take that bet. How much u have 2 lose? | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: amorbella said: I've kissed a few though and you liked ii-i-it The taste of her cherry chapstick | |
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JerseyKRS said: Imago said: I think you should try it. I guarantee you'd have more fun than you think. That's the same line I used to bag Erin. | |
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MsMisha319 said: Yes, there is a double standard and I'm ok with that
Though I have never had this experience, I wouldn't consider a female who has a sexual encounter with another female a lesbian. I just wouldn't. Now, if she continuously had sexual encounters with women and began to prefer it, then yes, but just one...no.... If a dude has a voluntary sexual encounter with another dude, he is GAY. Period. End of story. There is no going back from it, in my opinion. If I was involved with a guy and he admitted to me that he had a sexual encounter with a another guy, I would dump him ASAP!!! ASAP!!!!! Smooches;) So if a woman does it once, she's not a Lesbian but if a dude does it once he's Gay? Interesting logic. | |
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Graycap23 said:[quote] GirlBrother said: I'm willing to bet my life that all men have had a sexual experience with another man.
Absolute Bullshit [Edited 6/14/09 8:57am] | |
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MsMisha319 said: Yes, there is a double standard and I'm ok with that
Though I have never had this experience, I wouldn't consider a female who has a sexual encounter with another female a lesbian. I just wouldn't. Now, if she continuously had sexual encounters with women and began to prefer it, then yes, but just one...no.... If a dude has a voluntary sexual encounter with another dude, he is GAY. Period. End of story. There is no going back from it, in my opinion. If I was involved with a guy and he admitted to me that he had a sexual encounter with a another guy, I would dump him ASAP!!! ASAP!!!!! Smooches;) You sound gay. | |
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