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Fellow orgers...what do u think?

hecks yeah u gay al da way no shame n their game dats NASTY!!!!!

i don't think so. we label folks by their sexual preference--a one-time experiment doesn't say anything about what you 'prefer' sexually.

whistle said:

Good point with the word "preference".

Yes.....

To me it does, I never think about it, so it wouldn't even get close to going there. It's all cool and about preference but only kitty for me.

No way.
If a gay man gets married to a woman and has children does that make him straight? Nope.
A man can be gay or straight even if they've never had sex with anyone. Having sex with someone doesn't determine your sexuality.
It’s about who you’re sexually attracted to. It’s about your insides, your emotions and who you fall in love with. It’s not about who you have sex with once. Or twice.

CarrieMpls said:

Well said.


I never understood the old "don't knock it til you've tried it" line - I knew which way I was inclined before I slept with anyone. It's about what's inside.

For some people of course, what's inside can be more confusing for them than it is for others, which is why sometimes people have experiences which are outside of what their orientation is in general terms, but hey, live and let live I say.

rocknrolldave said:

True that...

CarrieMpls said:

It's not the same thing. A lot of dudes that do marry and have children but prefer men, 9 out of 10 they try to hide it at first they're pushed by society to be straight.

Also, shouldn't there be a attraction of some level in order to sleep with a person. I have no problem with preference at all I''m just saying. Personally I don't even think about kissing a dude let alone taking it steps further.

I think it's different for some men and women.

NMuzakNSoul said:

People can absolutely sleep with people they aren't (or wouldn't normally be) attracted to, especially men, especialy after a few drinks. Happens all the time. One fling does not a sexuality make.

Well it''s true for everyone it''s different. Then again at the same time, you can give me 20 beers and I STILL wouldn't have sex with a guy, it would amplify everything else and make me want women more, but it wouldn't make me look at dudes like that.

Suck one dick and your labeled a dicksucker...

Sexual preferences aren't that easy to define.

CarrieMpls said:

Thank you.

In the reverse, I've had monogamous sex with a woman for 16 years, even enjoying it -- with her -- but to the extent I'd be pressed to label myself, I in no way identify as hetero or even bi.

I may only slightly differ with you in that I have earnestly fallen in love with my wife. It's just that barring her, my sexual ... ... "standard" would likely be near 100-percent male.

I think any aberration can happen, both physically and/or emotionally, but I think one's orientation speaks more to one's aggregate or baseline with these things.
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Unless you are raped, it doesn't make you gay but it does at least make you bisexual. A gay man can't be gay all by himself because it takes two to tango. And it's impossible for a gay man to sleep with a 100% straight man because a 100% straight man would never let another man (unless it's the doctor) so much as touch his dick, let alone suck it.

Until we let these men that fool with us know that they are at least bisexual and refuse to have any sexual contact with them whatsoever unless they admit it to themselves, we will never have equal rights and will always be bashed because these type of hypocritical men are the main ones bashing us much moreso than straight men.

That depends.
Was he also a Prince fan?

people are sexual.. people will always be sexual.. its pure sexuality..not a game of labels.

I have had several good male friends in their 20's develop crushes on me. And I don't consider them gay or bi.

There truly is a 'curious' streak in some guys at certain points in their life, but they emotionally and physically want women in the end. I totally understand the "curious" title that gets tacked on the bi-curious, because I've seen it in action. It's not even something I find odd.

As a matter of fact, I find gay men more odd than bi or bi-curious men. They fascinate me at times, being so much like women in many ways, except most don't have the ability to nurture like women. Yes, it's a generalization that can land me in hot water, but I've witnessed this too. I find it odd that many gay men have not at least tried to have a sexual encounter with a woman considering they're so much alike. The whole myth that gay men know more about how to pleasure you is a lie ... They could probably find a woman that could rock their shit good
Hell, I'm convinced some of the lesbians here on the org could probably show a gay man a pretty good time.

Sexuality is fluid for many folks.

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I love looking at other women.Women have curves, soft skin, and features that a man just can't have,not matter what they do. Yes, I have been with another women before.
But I prefer sex with a man. A man can give me what a woman can't. A certain stimulation and climax that is mind blowing.

If this makes me gay, well that's cool with me

Yeah.

vainandy said:

Good points, you won't have any bashing from me I know how I feel and at the same time have respect for everyone. A lot of dudes or women confused or I should say not sure usually tend to bash.

Yes. I've never had a one time sexual encounter with a woman. NEVER

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I think you should try it.
I guarantee you'd have more fun than you think.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

You can try it with me. You said I made you not gay for like 2 seconds once.

hokie said:

I think it was your hair or your shoes or something!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

So, I'll fix my hair and wear hot shoes.

And I'll suck your dick like a champ. Just close your eyes jack ass.

hokie said:

Yes Sir!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Oh, I forgot you have a man now. I've been away from here for so long....

I guess I need not be barking orders.