is it like dogs submit to who they believe is an alpha dog? so if you think someone you meet is more than your match, you go limp to show you're no threat?

No. Limpies are limpies and crushers are crushers.

firm is the way to go, extremes just point out there is something wrong with you, or you are overcompensating for having something wrong with you

It has to be little man syndrome Now I'm gonna know who has a little willy

me too

i hate to get somewhere and see acqcuaintances and have to shake all their hands

what's the purpose ?

I'm trying to get out of the handshake game. I still do it occasionally, in my professional life, but I'm phasing it out of the personal.

I've always refused for reasons I don't fully understand. I guess I just find it silly and awkward. But how can you not shake a hand without offending someone?

I'm trying to get out of the handshake game. I still do it occasionally, in my professional life, but I'm phasing it out of the personal.

I've always refused for reasons I don't fully understand. I guess I just find it silly and awkward. But how can you not shake a hand without offending someone?

Two options:


1. When they offer their hand, put your hand in fist-bump position.

2. Say, "I have a thing with shaking hands."

I've always refused for reasons I don't fully understand. I guess I just find it silly and awkward. But how can you not shake a hand without offending someone? I've tried to figure that out for so long now. I can always see their reaction is shock and hurt, which I understand, but I just don't like to shake hands.

Two options:


1. When they offer their hand, put your hand in fist-bump position.

2. Say, "I have a thing with shaking hands."

still, there's that uncomfortable moment where everything comes to a stop instead of just shaking hands. But I have avoided handshaking at that risk before.

Oh, I suppose so (if you wanna get all literal about it ).

As for throat fucking, I can't say I totally understand the attraction of having pre-vomit drool and/or vomit running down your cock while a woman in tears gags. I mean, don't get me wrong - I enjoy sadistic humiliation as much as the next guy, but couldn't we do that via your anus, vagina and/or a few nice, belittling verbal screeds? I will grab your ears and pump if you insist upon it, but can't we just nut on your face while pulling your hair and call it a day?

He could never give me the kinda throat fucking I need.

totally crap to think you can tell someone's personality by a handshake

totally crap to think you can tell someone's personality by a handshake