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PrintableMoniGram said: I have seen many threads on this same subject on another site I post on, and things have gotten pretty nasty over there. In the end, men are going to like what they want, but on that same note, if you judge someone by first look, you could possibly miss out on something great.
On another note, it's pretty sad that society has made it this way. It's sad when a man meets a great lady, but she happens to be a bit plump and because society would look down upon him, he decides to go with the norm. He, himself has missed out on something great. So in my eyes, it take a real man to accept everyone for who they are, and what is inside, not just looking at the outside of it all. But of course as I always state, this is my own opinion, and everyone here has a right to have theirs.  See I just don't understand why people say this. I see "plump" chicks with dudes all the time. In fact, most people are overweight and I certainly don't see a lack of couples when I look around. So if guys are rejecting women that are heavy because of society looking down on them....why do I keep seeing guys in relationships with heavy women??? | |
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toots said: JustErin said: I'm being negative?? I'm chastising you??? 
And it doesn't have anything to do with it...but ok....cool. Whatever you say. Um.. yeah you are rather you realize it or not 
Seems like you like to judge things on face value, like my post. And my point was and does have someting to do with it, you failed to see it. As the saying goes you judge a book by its cover not the inside WAS my point and had plenty to do with it. I find the opposite of what you see,I look at the inner being on attractiveness not the cover.I find it funny you never saw or figured that one out. As I said you choose NOT to see it 
Open your heart and mind, not just your eyes on judgement.So yeah it WAS about preference and you still failed to see it 
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JustErin said: See I just don't understand why people say this. I see "plump" chicks with dudes all the time.
I see that also.. some men don't care and pretty much go after what they want... I think us women worry more about standards, we shouldn't, but we do.. | |
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Flowers2 said: JustErin said: See I just don't understand why people say this. I see "plump" chicks with dudes all the time.
I see that also.. some men don't care and pretty much go after what they want... I think us women worry more about standards, we shouldn't, but we do.. I think you're right. Women are way harder on other women in general. | |
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This isn't my preference cause I don't do girls, but my dad has always and still says that he likes a woman that is bigger. He will comment about women and they're always big. He likes it.
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Mach said: JustErin said: It was about preference and everyone is entitled to their preference without being chastised. A FUCKING MEN 
You should be a P&R Mod - they need some help over there  for me it's all about inside regardless of size. your inside beauty speaks more volumes than outside. And before you say im evading the question. What I am saying is Outside is nothing. size etc etc. | |
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JustErin said: Flowers2 said: I see that also.. some men don't care and pretty much go after what they want... I think us women worry more about standards, we shouldn't, but we do.. I think you're right. Women are way harder on other women in general. Now THAT'S a fact. nWo: bboy87 - Timmy84 - LittleBlueCorvette - MuthaFunka - phunkdaddy - Christopher
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As I look back on my single days (because my wife is a fine New Orleans woman) I never really had a specific preference...as long as she wasn't busting her seams, or ugly enough to make Bigfoot haul ass.....my biggest concern then was more about a certain lack of stringent morals and the ability to hold an intelligent conversation during those few moments that we were either clothed or recovering from nekkid activities..... He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
(George Eliot) the video for the above... 
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reneGade20 said: As I look back on my single days (because my wife is a fine New Orleans woman) I never really had a specific preference...as long as she wasn't busting her seams, or ugly enough to make Bigfoot haul ass.....my biggest concern then was more about a certain lack of stringent morals and the ability to hold an intelligent conversation during those few moments that we were either clothed or recovering from nekkid activities.....
Messin wit them creole women... bury ya draws in the yard and you cant leave the house -Redd Foxx | |
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IAintTheOne said: reneGade20 said: As I look back on my single days (because my wife is a fine New Orleans woman) I never really had a specific preference...as long as she wasn't busting her seams, or ugly enough to make Bigfoot haul ass.....my biggest concern then was more about a certain lack of stringent morals and the ability to hold an intelligent conversation during those few moments that we were either clothed or recovering from nekkid activities.....
Messin wit them creole women... bury ya draws in the yard and you cant leave the house -Redd Foxx actually, in my case, she has a lock of my hair and a picture in a shoe that she buried in the yard....
 He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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reneGade20 said: IAintTheOne said: Messin wit them creole women... bury ya draws in the yard and you cant leave the house -Redd Foxx actually, in my case, she has a lock of my hair and a picture in a shoe that she buried in the yard....
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IAintTheOne said: reneGade20 said: actually, in my case, she has a lock of my hair and a picture in a shoe that she buried in the yard....
Mojo Hannah   He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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JustErin said: MoniGram said: I have seen many threads on this same subject on another site I post on, and things have gotten pretty nasty over there. In the end, men are going to like what they want, but on that same note, if you judge someone by first look, you could possibly miss out on something great.
On another note, it's pretty sad that society has made it this way. It's sad when a man meets a great lady, but she happens to be a bit plump and because society would look down upon him, he decides to go with the norm. He, himself has missed out on something great. So in my eyes, it take a real man to accept everyone for who they are, and what is inside, not just looking at the outside of it all. But of course as I always state, this is my own opinion, and everyone here has a right to have theirs. See I just don't understand why people say this. I see "plump" chicks with dudes all the time. In fact, most people are overweight and I certainly don't see a lack of couples when I look around. So if guys are rejecting women that are heavy because of society looking down on them....why do I keep seeing guys in relationships with heavy women??? It is out there...and I am not saying plump girls don't have men, just sadly some men are shallow. It's life! I figure, if you don't like me,so be it. I am a plump girl, and I have a man who likes them that way. Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian  | |
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MoniGram said: JustErin said: See I just don't understand why people say this. I see "plump" chicks with dudes all the time. In fact, most people are overweight and I certainly don't see a lack of couples when I look around. So if guys are rejecting women that are heavy because of society looking down on them....why do I keep seeing guys in relationships with heavy women??? It is out there...and I am not saying plump girls don't have men, just sadly some men are shallow. It's life! I figure, if you don't like me,so be it. I am a plump girl, and I have a man who likes them that way. 
Good for you Moni! I'm glad you're happy.  | |
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MoniGram said: JustErin said: See I just don't understand why people say this. I see "plump" chicks with dudes all the time. In fact, most people are overweight and I certainly don't see a lack of couples when I look around. So if guys are rejecting women that are heavy because of society looking down on them....why do I keep seeing guys in relationships with heavy women??? It is out there...and I am not saying plump girls don't have men, just sadly some men are shallow. It's life! I figure, if you don't like me,so be it. I am a plump girl, and I have a man who likes them that way. Dearest, you are a beautiful woman....and I'm inclined to believe that your man likes that whole package that we all know and love called Moni.... just my lil ol' two cents..... He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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MoniGram said: JustErin said: See I just don't understand why people say this. I see "plump" chicks with dudes all the time. In fact, most people are overweight and I certainly don't see a lack of couples when I look around. So if guys are rejecting women that are heavy because of society looking down on them....why do I keep seeing guys in relationships with heavy women??? It is out there...and I am not saying plump girls don't have men, just sadly some men are shallow. It's life! I figure, if you don't like me,so be it. I am a plump girl, and I have a man who likes them that way. But that's my point, it's not about 'some men'...it's about 'some people' because women are really not that different. Anyway, I don't personally think it's shallow to have preferences in looks when it comes to physical attraction. | |
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JustErin said: MoniGram said: It is out there...and I am not saying plump girls don't have men, just sadly some men are shallow. It's life! I figure, if you don't like me,so be it. I am a plump girl, and I have a man who likes them that way. But that's my point, it's not about 'some men'...it's about 'some people' because women are really not that different. Anyway, I don't personally think it's shallow to have preferences in looks when it comes to physical attraction. Or, if it is shallow, people can't help it. It's just reality. I guess I just wish that people were allowed their preferences, even if unconventional. It's too bad that so many women are ashamed of their bodies, and so many men are ashamed of LIKING those bodies. It's kinda fucked up. I agree that women are harder on each other than men are. And I agree that even many people who do have very strong, specific preferences learn to relax about this stuff with age. Once you start seeing your own wrinkles or gray hairs start to come in, and have had your heart broken a couple of times, it's easy to see that beauty fades, and to start to think that a wonderful human being is hotter than a wonderful body. "What's 'non-sequitur' mean? Do I look it up in a Fag-to-English dictionary?" | |
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As far as stigma's go, I think it is the same for small breasted chicks. No guy says to his mates, "Wow, look at the small breast on her, god I would love to bang her". Thankfully, truth be told, there are men that genuinely like smaller breasted women (like the firm perky type). Also, luckily for me there are ass men out there that can appreciate a nice ass when they see one. So, it takes all types, sizes, shapes and personalities.
I have learned as I have gotten older that I do not have a certain "type". For me it is a combination of looks, personality and what is inside. Gotta go with the chemistry. There have been ppl that fit what my "type" was and there was no chemistry. I agree with the statement that some one made that women are harder on other women (and themselves) than men are. They do not see all of the flaws that we see, thank fuck. | |
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shanti0608 said: As far as stigma's go, I think it is the same for small breasted chicks. No guy says to his mates, "Wow, look at the small breast on her, god I would love to bang her". Thankfully, truth be told, there are men that genuinely like smaller breasted women (like the firm perky type). Also, luckily for me there are ass men out there that can appreciate a nice ass when they see one. So, it takes all types, sizes, shapes and personalities.
I have learned as I have gotten older that I do not have a certain "type". For me it is a combination of looks, personality and what is inside. Gotta go with the chemistry. There have been ppl that fit what my "type" was and there was no chemistry. I agree with the statement that some one made that women are harder on other women (and themselves) than men are. They do not see all of the flaws that we see, thank fuck. Small perky breasts  x a million | |
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mdiver said: shanti0608 said: As far as stigma's go, I think it is the same for small breasted chicks. No guy says to his mates, "Wow, look at the small breast on her, god I would love to bang her". Thankfully, truth be told, there are men that genuinely like smaller breasted women (like the firm perky type). Also, luckily for me there are ass men out there that can appreciate a nice ass when they see one. So, it takes all types, sizes, shapes and personalities.
I have learned as I have gotten older that I do not have a certain "type". For me it is a combination of looks, personality and what is inside. Gotta go with the chemistry. There have been ppl that fit what my "type" was and there was no chemistry. I agree with the statement that some one made that women are harder on other women (and themselves) than men are. They do not see all of the flaws that we see, thank fuck. Small perky breasts x a millionThe word small sounds bad. Actually I have average sized breasts. 
Damn near a C cup these days thanks to the winter padding I have gained. Ahhh well, luckily I am a great person inside.  | |
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shanti0608 said: mdiver said: Small perky breasts x a millionThe word small sounds bad. Actually I have average sized breasts.
Damn near a C cup these days thanks to the winter padding I have gained. Ahhh well, luckily I am a great person inside. That....and you have perfect tits | |
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mdiver said: shanti0608 said: The word small sounds bad. Actually I have average sized breasts.
Damn near a C cup these days thanks to the winter padding I have gained. Ahhh well, luckily I am a great person inside. That....and you have perfect tits Oh well.... looks fade, the grays and wrinkles take over. Then what are you left with? Gotta make sure that your chemistry and connection is there not just looks. just my  | |
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thekidsgirl said: kpowers said: I know your 6ft,do you have cut off height for dating a guy???? unless its Prince or Wolverine, I generally wouldn't go lower than 5'6" but then again, I'd never say 'never' I knew you would pick Prince (by the way wolverine has an attitude problem, and thats coming from me  ) |
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reneGade20 said: MoniGram said: It is out there...and I am not saying plump girls don't have men, just sadly some men are shallow. It's life! I figure, if you don't like me,so be it. I am a plump girl, and I have a man who likes them that way. Dearest, you are a beautiful woman....and I'm inclined to believe that your man likes that whole package that we all know and love called Moni.... just my lil ol' two cents..... Awww  You are the sweetest! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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hokie said: MoniGram said: It is out there...and I am not saying plump girls don't have men, just sadly some men are shallow. It's life! I figure, if you don't like me,so be it. I am a plump girl, and I have a man who likes them that way.
Good for you Moni! I'm glad you're happy. Thanks Jill, it's one day at a time.  Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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JustErin said: MoniGram said: It is out there...and I am not saying plump girls don't have men, just sadly some men are shallow. It's life! I figure, if you don't like me,so be it. I am a plump girl, and I have a man who likes them that way. But that's my point, it's not about 'some men'...it's about 'some people' because women are really not that different. Anyway, I don't personally think it's shallow to have preferences in looks when it comes to physical attraction. It's not shallow because it's what they like, I am saying it shallow when they care more about society's opinion, then follow what's inside them. Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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shanti0608 said: mdiver said: That....and you have perfect tits Oh well.... looks fade, the grays and wrinkles take over. Then what are you left with? Gotta make sure that your chemistry and connection is there not just looks. just my Val, that is sooo very true! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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MoniGram said: JustErin said: See I just don't understand why people say this. I see "plump" chicks with dudes all the time. In fact, most people are overweight and I certainly don't see a lack of couples when I look around. So if guys are rejecting women that are heavy because of society looking down on them....why do I keep seeing guys in relationships with heavy women??? It is out there...and I am not saying plump girls don't have men, just sadly some men are shallow. It's life! I figure, if you don't like me,so be it. I am a plump girl, and I have a man who likes them that way. Well youre better off without him if he doesn't like plump girls. I've seen plenty of plump girls with partners, loads. In fact I hardly see skinny women anymore, believe it or not. I know they are in the magazines and on T.V but in real life, the majority of women are not skinny, and lots of these women have got men and kids to boot. | |
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MoniGram said: shanti0608 said: Oh well.... looks fade, the grays and wrinkles take over. Then what are you left with? Gotta make sure that your chemistry and connection is there not just looks. just my Val, that is sooo very true! Though we do not have much experience with the aging thing yet, in June, we will be 38 and still fine as hell.  | |
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shanti0608 said: MoniGram said: Val, that is sooo very true! Though we do not have much experience with the aging thing yet, in June, we will be 38 and still fine as hell. Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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