...If he's married (for 7 years to a woman 9yrs his senior, no kids involved, and they're not exactly 'in love' anymore, but just going through the motions?)

Somethings up for me.

this girl @ work looks about 20, she's 3inches taller than me (I'm 5,9") has told me she wants me big time, and is currently sending me dirty emails.Infact she's just sent me a picture of her tits via her mobile.

Excellent they are too.

Staff nite out tomorrow, what should i do .Orgers?

um

wheres camille when you need him

Marrk said:

what the hell...

go get her...

wait a minute...
are you married ???

justkelley said:

Yes. Horribly and unhappily.

does that change your answer?

Two problems. Married and she's is seventeen and not legal.

stymie said:

I'm in England, age of consent is 16 here.

16 ta 17

will get ya

10 ta 20

Marrk said:

One problem, then. You're married.

stymie said:

even horribly and unhappily does not excuse this. It is not fair to either woman, regardless.

DrFrankenfurter said:

I can see it being unfair to my wife (maybe), but this friendship with this girl has developed over four months, it's not like se joined the company yesterday!

like i said she's mature for her age and knows what she's doing.

P.S for that have just tuned in, Age of consent in England is 16!!!

DrFrankenfurter said:

marraige is marraige , u still have 2 respect it

Marrk said:

Not to harp on the age thing here, but, in the title of your thread, you say it best: 33 yr. old man, 17 year old girl.

Marrk said:

to be honest, the age thing does not really bother me if she is truly mature enough to know what is going on, and you have been honest with her. HOWEVER- it is not fair to your wife, that goes almost without saying, but it is not fair to the girl either who is ognna have to sneak around, hide things, lie, and have a relationship crippled by the marriage of the other person.

Not gonna tell you what to do with oyur life, but it is a ver bad situation to get into.

DrFrankenfurter said:

i'm with the dr. on this one. actually, its not fair to anyone involved. 17 year old girls might seem to be mature but in essence they are just starting to explore their world. give the girl a break and allow her to do so with people her own age and without the added dramatics of you having a wife. why set everybody up for this? be the mature one and either work on your marriage or get out of the marriage. i wish you well.

iridescence said:

Yeah cuz otherwise you'd be taking advantage of her

For goodness sakes, she is still a little girl...

Don't do it!

iridescence said:

Thank you both,:Hmm2: My conscience is killing me.

why dont you just get a divorce then ?

i mean...why try and cheat...

just leave the situation...


its easier that way


thats if you are truely unhappy...




i am talking from experience...i feel hard for a man...who failed to mention in the beginning that he was married...

i thought we would be together forever...until...

he got careless (called me 127 times in one month on his cell phone ...his wife got the bill...and that was that...)

but...he was right...he was unhappy...

he is now totally in love with another girl...has a small baby...and is living quite nicely...

the thing is...it hurt his wife, me and him .
if he had just been honest in the beginning...with both of us...this wouldnt have happened...

see ?



good luck man...

Your conscience doesn't lie. Follow it! I agree with what has been already posted.

justkelley said:

backatcha.Bless you!

Marrk said:

I'd shag her!

Marrk said:

i am sure it is difficult to be unhappily married, and i do sympathize with you, but work on the problem at hand, your marriage. (i'm not saying to stay in the marriage, just address the problem and make a clear decision on how to proceed)

dont use this girl as a distraction to stop you from addressing the real issues and remember that this will say a lot about both of you later down the road. karma can be bitch. choose the positive way and dont let the residual negative energy come back on you.

wishing you lots of clarity and wisdom as you walk your path.

Marrk said:

well I think, if u feel it's wrong and u finding urself fighting urself, then maybe it's wrong, if ur in2 someone you shouldn't have 2 fight urself, it's should always be a willing situation or else nine times out of ten, it's lustful situation. "A wise person once told me, we really know the answers 2 all our problems, we only ask 4 adivce 2 okay something we know maybe wrong ."

just my cent

mcmeekle said:

the devil on my shoulder digs that!

NOT IN MY OPINION. THIS WAS MY SITUATION AND THEN HE DIVORCED HIS WIFE FOR ME. I WOULD SAY WAIT A YEAR FOR THE SEX THOUGH. IF MISERABLY UNHAPPY I,D GET DIVORCED.

Muffy said:

a year!!! i aint getting any younger y'know.

We need to see all pics to give a better opinion...ALL PICS!

DJ506 said:

No way!

i'm gonna show her this thread tomorrow at work, might put her off any ideas tomorrow.It's certainly making me think straighter.

You've all been a great help BTW. Thanks.

Divorce your wife and then go out and fuck all of the full-grown WOMEN you want this 17-year-old is just a GIRL after all...she's only had boobs and pubic hair for about four years!