Hey all,

I've been Blonde my entire life. My natural color is a dark blonde simular to the color I'm sporting now. I've been every color blonde imaginable but I'm kind of bored with my hair right now. I'm thinking of going red,not a dramatic change just a red tinted type hue.

My Bf says "NO!",he dont want me to change and an old boyfriend once told me "The best thing in the world,is when a girl is going down on you and you look down and all you see is this mass of blonde everywhere." Yeah,I know he was a bit of a pig,we all make mistakes.

But anyway, I was just wondering if it's true. Do men like blondes better? Do they "have more fun"?Why?

Please post no holds barred I want the truth!

A Blonde Edit
[This message was edited Mon Jun 9 14:28:24 PDT 2003 by Sweeny79]

Sweeny79 said:

MissCute said:

Why do men like blondes better though?

Sweeny79 said:

because we have more fun

MissCute said:

URRR...

No one ever had as much fun as me, and I'm not blonde.

I used to think blondes had more fun, then i colored my hair brown...the fun didnt stop. I have actually experienced that some guys are too bashful to walk up to a goodlookin blonde but they are more apt to walk up to a goodlookin brunette.

just a thought

'Do Blondes really have more fun?'

I once went out with a girl who had blonde hair. She was pretty good fun. Then I went out with another girl who also had blonde hair. She was fun too, but not as much fun as the first girl. Then I went out with a girl who had brown hair. Not blonde. She was more fun than the previous girl who was blonde, but not as much fun as the first girl, who, if you remember, was also blonde. Then I went out with another blonde girl, different from the blonde girls I had previously been with. She was no fun. Then finally a girl with brown hair again. She was almost as much fun as the first blonde girl, and therefore, more fun than the next two blondes, and the first brunette, or third girl regardless of hair colour.

I hope this in some way helps you find the answer to your question.

It's really funny, but I used to watch this LiveJournal community nonuglies, where you submitted photos of yourself and those who had already been accepted ('stamped') would vote yes or no on your acceptance.

And they never EVER allowed blondes in! I kid you not... I think at the end of the nonuglies life, there were like three blonde girls out of a few hundred.

The guys would immediately give the blonde girls the thumbs down.

It was great.

I'm only attracted to Brunettes.

Asian, Polish, Russian, African, there's no discrimination.


except no blondes and I'm blonde myself

Please change your hair color based on what YOU like the best, not what you think someone else will prefer. I'm all for experimenting and I've had nearly every color under the sun too, but it just bothers me when girls make certain choices (or limit their choices) based on a boy. In the end all, the more attractive you feel, the more attractive you'll be.

CarrieMpls said:

Thank you Carrie I bought the redish hair color already,I was just trying to figure out why men seem to be obsessed with blondes. Sorry if it didn't come across as I planed.

mcmeekle said:

Strangly enough I was able to follow that!

Sweeny79 said:

Everyone has their own preference I suppose!

I prefer girls with dark hair myself... although my missus currently has some crazy red streaks that look quite cool.

Anyway plenty of guys dig red-heads (why do you think red hair dye is so popular...!) - so go do it and I bet your BF won't complain when he sees it... he's just afraid of change

Ian

Sweeny79 said:

Blonde hair is fine, but I have no special preference for it. I say go ahead and experiment with the red tint. I used to have my hair dyed a purplish-red color.

mcmeekle said:

Are you drinking again?

Sweeny79 said:

In that case, I'll let you know I'm a bit biased as I'm a redhead. But I've had blonde, brown, jet black, dark auburn, orange and peach hair before. And I'd say I got the most male attention as a blonde, but not necessarily the right kind of attention.

ian said:

Well It's not really RED it's more of a strawberry blonde,If it looks ok I'll post a pic.

I think your right about my bf,he's a big pain in the butt sometimes.

Slave2daGroove said:

I hear ya,I don't really like blondes either!
Well except Craig Kilborn.
He's a hottie!

BabyGirl said:

Umm that's somehing to think about!

minneapolisgenius said:

I thought u were ignoring me!

Sweeny79 said:

Ah I was the same, I didn't want my missus to ruin her nice jet black hair but once I saw it after she got back from the hair salon, I thought it looked pretty cool for a change.

He'll like it when he sees it If not, ditch him and take your new redhead pizzazz to a nice bar and find a replacement

ian said:

CarrieMpls said:

I hear ya!

Well my natural hair color is brown and it's now red.I have been every color of the rainbow.I think a person is sexy in one way or another no matter what hair color.

Fun is a state of mind!
Blonde 80% of the time is just an additive.

Sweeny79 said:

I am.

I was blonde once...and it wasn't much fun at all. Had to do my damn roots every 3 weeks.

I put this cliche in the dumb blonde category...both of them aren't true.

I died my hair black for about 11 years...and I thought I was having fun...but then I shaved it all off and let it grow back it's natural color of dirty blonde...THAT WAS FUN!!

what I'm really hoping now, though, is that 'baldies' have more fun...cos in a few years I won't have a choice anymore...



so...did you color your hair yet???

do we get to see a picture when it's done???

where is Dora?