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mimi02 said:

Dren5 said:

*reads the above post and all the quotes inside it*

...Or, maybe Prince actually is a good lay and likes sex and so he likes to mention both of those in his music?

It seems odd to me that so many people here are so determined to believe that Prince can't fuck that they spend so much brainpower and energy thinking up all these theories and reasons why he simply has to be all talk.

Maybe it's because of jealousy to a certain extent - like, how dare he be attractive, smart, that talented and a good lay?

This stuff really isn't any different from a pack of catty women looking for a flaw on a hot girl.

There will never be a definitive answer to the question of Prince's sexual abilities.

Like I wrote earlier, it could go either way. Both of his exes (wives, that is) rebound with men who were known for the sexual exploits. Again, that could be interpret as Prince was a excellent lover and they were attempting to "stay in that lane" or he was an awful lover and they sought out men who could fill the void. Now, for the infamous Anna Stasia? article, maybe he was this tremendously romantic, gentle lover. Again, we don't know.

I don't think that people would want a man who is so associated with orgasms to be lackluster in bed.

Regardless, let's not make this topic, that is so clearly for entertainment purposes, into a debate.

No shit.

I meant that a lot of people seem really eager to dig their heels in and insist that he MUST be a crappy lay like they're emotionally invested in the idea and need it to be true. Which I think says more about the folks doing the insisting and where their heads are at, than it does about how good Prince is or isn't at fucking.

The rest of your post is purely gossip and speculation and no, I'm not gonna take that as fact. People spread dumb rumors all the time, so...

gossipgirl said:

Some of you guys are majorly ruining my fantasies here. Of course he'd be good!! All the signs point to him being amazing..if his songs are anything to go by. And come on all of you who are with me..how amazingly mind blowing would it be?? I can dream..

I think it's more that they feel jealous/threatened and are trying to validate themselves at Prince's expense because they feel insecure about their own sexual prowess.

And...about the dream thing, I can't even dream it. I had like two Prince dreams and both times we never did it; I actually turned him down. Then when I woke up my immediate thought was, "I should've hit it."

artist76 said:

mltijchr said:

artist76..

I am alternately very quiet or extremely verbose..!

this happened to be 1 time when I was.. "more verbose"!

(I type rather quickly, too..)

he might well have - as you mentioned - developed "some skills" in that area..

but all the while.. he was (& is) still "prince"..

eh.. I think if I were someone "famous" like Prince

it would be hard for me

(pun intended)

to make the effort to please a particular woman - even if I was really attracted to her - knowing that I could have basically any woman that I wanted..

I still believe that a person - most people - would perceive to be having a better intimate/sexual experience if they found themselves really attracted to the person they were with..

whether the partner was actually.. "proficient" or not..

OK, I'll waste a few more brain cells on this one, even tho' I've got a PTA luncheon to set up soon--

We both seem to agree that a man who thinks he can get anybody he wants tends not to make an effort. I said basically the same thing in my 1st response. But maybe we differ in our opinion of how much of a studmuffin he was in his earlier days. I don't think he's that attractive, physically (demeanor, swagger, talent, status -- these things make him "attractive" now, of course). And I'm highly suspect of all the people on here who'd say they would have done him in high school. Seriously? Nah... I think he was savvy about building himself up in other ways to compensate for his shortcomings, if you will. His songs indicate that he was observant (I'd like to watch, can I watch, etc.) and tried to be more in tune with the woman (we're assuming he's straight - some here will disagree), which would make him quite good. But yes, when he can get any woman he wants, and in his heyday and his 20s I'm sure it was about quantity, conquest and stress-reliever/way-to-wind-down-after-a-concert. That's why it doesn't matter if a prostitute or random groupie says he wasn't good - he didn't care about that piece of ass! But if he wanted to, I think he'd have skills. To answer the OP's question, who's come out and said Prince was good - There was an interview with Anna Fantastic in which she said he was really good and slow, they made love all night when she turned 18, and she also mentions a coat of pink cashmere and that he dropped her because she posed for Playboy. So despite his moves on film and on stage, I think Prince is probably a good lay.

And with that, I'm off to the PTA!

Thank for putting that, because it's something that probably needs a thread of its own.

Here's my response to that. No, Prince couldn't have "got it" for a number of reasons. First, being that I like my man to be at least 6ft. When I dance, I have to reach up when putting my arms around my partner's shoulders and I couldn't do that with him. Prince (in heels) and I are the same height and that's not cute when you're dancing. As for looks, Prince didn't become "cute" to me until the Purple Rain era. In fact, his looks have been rather hit and miss since then. Then, there's the whole shy thing. In every book that I've read about Prince-the youth, he was described as shy and really into music. Whereas, I like someone who is more outgoing. Rant over.

Only thing is now I feel a need to defend my opinion. Of course, this is all based on whether he would be attracted to me or not. So, let's end the evitable "who's to say he would even think you're cute or you can't be all that" comments. Next, I am not just into the physical, but you see looks before personality. Seriously, how many of y'all would really have think, "Oh, your sense of humor is really making me horny"? In to sum this whole thing up with some honesty. Even if you did go to school with Prince, nothing in his day-to-day life would have said that he was going to be the Prince that he is today. And, Prince the entertainer is the one who you all are referencing when you think of being intimate with him. The Jr High/HS Prince would not have a whole website dedicated to him and no one would think twice about if he's really good in bed.

Dren5 said:

mimi02 said:

There will never be a definitive answer to the question of Prince's sexual abilities.

Like I wrote earlier, it could go either way. Both of his exes (wives, that is) rebound with men who were known for the sexual exploits. Again, that could be interpret as Prince was a excellent lover and they were attempting to "stay in that lane" or he was an awful lover and they sought out men who could fill the void. Now, for the infamous Anna Stasia? article, maybe he was this tremendously romantic, gentle lover. Again, we don't know.

I don't think that people would want a man who is so associated with orgasms to be lackluster in bed.

Regardless, let's not make this topic, that is so clearly for entertainment purposes, into a debate.

No shit.

I meant that a lot of people seem really eager to dig their heels in and insist that he MUST be a crappy lay like they're emotionally invested in the idea and need it to be true. Which I think says more about the folks doing the insisting and where their heads are at, than it does about how good Prince is or isn't at fucking.

The rest of your post is purely gossip and speculation and no, I'm not gonna take that as fact. People spread dumb rumors all the time, so...

And, no shit, to you too.

With exception to the tangibles (how many albums/movies he's made) everything WE say on here is based on rumors. My response to your post was just me revisiting a previous statement. It was never meant to "sell you" on my opinion. If I'm not mistaken, I also wrote at the end of that post "let's not make this into a debate". So feel free to believe whatever you want.

I think Prince is a natural at wild animal sex.. But when it came to making love, it bored the (ex)girlfriends/wives... They may have had expectations of Prince because of his performances are so charged with sexual electicity. But, He had his own ideas of how he wanted to show his love for them. It may have ment a lot more to Prince than it did to them.. He loved them, and want to show it the best way he thought what love is/was.. I think when he lust for someone; the sex with them is totally different than it is with someone whom he loved deeply.. I also think he saves himself for the stage. He works like a maniac. Who wants to have sex after working all day?? And, personally, when you display sex all day as entertainment for others, you kinda don't feel like doing it..

rdhull said:

treehouse said:

The real elephant in the room is how many of us have tried Prince sex moves with another person .... uh, huh...and how'd that work out for you?

Darling Nikki choereography has no real place in the bedroom is all I'm saying.

The only Prince "move" I did was put on the God 12 inch when I was getting ready to do it with my gf back ibn 86. It worked. Not sure putting on a record is considered a 'move' though. And the record had no influence of me getting some either.

Wow this thread really blew up. ANd I was just fuckin around when I wrote it I bet ole boy used to fuck like a champ grindin his hips like a lil jack rabbit. Tell me you can't picture that. lol regardless I am now inspred to create another thread

mimi02 said:

artist76 said:

OK, I'll waste a few more brain cells on this one, even tho' I've got a PTA luncheon to set up soon--

We both seem to agree that a man who thinks he can get anybody he wants tends not to make an effort. I said basically the same thing in my 1st response. But maybe we differ in our opinion of how much of a studmuffin he was in his earlier days. I don't think he's that attractive, physically (demeanor, swagger, talent, status -- these things make him "attractive" now, of course). And I'm highly suspect of all the people on here who'd say they would have done him in high school. Seriously? Nah... I think he was savvy about building himself up in other ways to compensate for his shortcomings, if you will. His songs indicate that he was observant (I'd like to watch, can I watch, etc.) and tried to be more in tune with the woman (we're assuming he's straight - some here will disagree), which would make him quite good. But yes, when he can get any woman he wants, and in his heyday and his 20s I'm sure it was about quantity, conquest and stress-reliever/way-to-wind-down-after-a-concert. That's why it doesn't matter if a prostitute or random groupie says he wasn't good - he didn't care about that piece of ass! But if he wanted to, I think he'd have skills. To answer the OP's question, who's come out and said Prince was good - There was an interview with Anna Fantastic in which she said he was really good and slow, they made love all night when she turned 18, and she also mentions a coat of pink cashmere and that he dropped her because she posed for Playboy. So despite his moves on film and on stage, I think Prince is probably a good lay.

And with that, I'm off to the PTA!

Thank for putting that, because it's something that probably needs a thread of its own.

Here's my response to that. No, Prince couldn't have "got it" for a number of reasons. First, being that I like my man to be at least 6ft. When I dance, I have to reach up when putting my arms around my partner's shoulders and I couldn't do that with him. Prince (in heels) and I are the same height and that's not cute when you're dancing. As for looks, Prince didn't become "cute" to me until the Purple Rain era. In fact, his looks have been rather hit and miss since then. Then, there's the whole shy thing. In every book that I've read about Prince-the youth, he was described as shy and really into music. Whereas, I like someone who is more outgoing. Rant over.

Only thing is now I feel a need to defend my opinion. Of course, this is all based on whether he would be attracted to me or not. So, let's end the evitable "who's to say he would even think you're cute or you can't be all that" comments. Next, I am not just into the physical, but you see looks before personality. Seriously, how many of y'all would really have think, "Oh, your sense of humor is really making me horny"? In to sum this whole thing up with some honesty. Even if you did go to school with Prince, nothing in his day-to-day life would have said that he was going to be the Prince that he is today. And, Prince the entertainer is the one who you all are referencing when you think of being intimate with him. The Jr High/HS Prince would not have a whole website dedicated to him and no one would think twice about if he's really good in bed.

Good response mimi, and the highlighted sentence is so true it may offend some people. My

treehouse said:

Darling Nikki choereography has no real place in the bedroom is all I'm saying.

We live in completely different worlds

Mya said:

treehouse said:

Darling Nikki choereography has no real place in the bedroom is all I'm saying.

We live in completely different worlds

I have to 2nd that notion. Darling Nikki Choereography rocks my body.. JUST SAYING...

victory4humanity said:

Mya said:

We live in completely different worlds

I have to 2nd that notion. Darling Nikki Choereography rocks my body.. JUST SAYING...

Eh. If someone is grabbing the back of their own leg while pumping...they're doing it wrong.