Maybe somehow get a message to him letting him know you did what you did because you were trying to protect him. Let him know you're still there for him. Awful position to be in 4 you, you did what a lot of peep wouldn't. I've put my neck on the line for kids b4 too...they expect u 2 love their kids & be outraged if anyone troubles them (which u are in both cases) but what about when it's them you have to be outraged with & protect the kid from? Oh no!...then it's how dare you etc etc. Makes me sick, fuckers think they OWN their children, nah, you are the conduit for that soul, they are your blood/DNA kin. No respect for the child as an individual.
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NinaB said:

Maybe somehow get a message to him letting him know you did what you did because you were trying to protect him. Let him know you're still there for him. Awful position to be in 4 you, you did what a lot of peep wouldn't. I've put my neck on the line for kids b4 too...they expect u 2 love their kids & be outraged if anyone troubles them (which u are in both cases) but what about when it's them you have to be outraged with & protect the kid from? Oh no!...then it's how dare you etc etc. Makes me sick, fuckers think they OWN their children, nah, you are the conduit for that soul, they are your blood/DNA kin. No respect for the child as an individual. [Edited 1/21/16 7:29am] [Edited 1/21/16 7:30am]

Thank you. It was tough but I hope one day he understands. I don't really care that I'm no longer on speaking terms with the child's parent or grandparent but not having contact with the child is really killing me and THAT is why I've been cut off. The abusive parent cut me off in retaliation for reporting their BS and abuse. Oh well. I hope when the child turns 18 they remember me and we can start over again.