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Reply #30 posted 07/23/15 7:08pm

XxAxX

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Reply #31 posted 07/23/15 7:15pm

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Reply #32 posted 07/23/15 8:04pm

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This song is really good, had to listen to it again



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Reply #33 posted 07/23/15 8:04pm

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"Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination and life to everything." --Plato

https://youtu.be/CVwv9LZMah0
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Reply #34 posted 07/23/15 8:39pm

morningsong

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You know, this might of been the kind of "horse" PJ was referring to. The sly dawg.
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Reply #35 posted 07/24/15 12:27pm

MIGUELGOMEZ

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What's the safe-word? The safe-word is what?

What, you just said so!

MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits"
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Reply #36 posted 07/24/15 1:56pm

Slave2daGroove

All I know is my life is some BORING shit in comparison to that.

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Reply #37 posted 07/24/15 1:57pm

Slave2daGroove

Thanks for the education!

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Reply #38 posted 07/26/15 3:02am

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I'm surprised that no one did a formal negotiation of limits, both hard and soft. I've never done a scene with someone new without an in-depth discussion about triggers and limits.


My dream orger bottom is PJ.
"Aren't you even curious? Don't you want to see the dragon behind the door?"
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Reply #39 posted 07/26/15 7:46am

JoeTyler

LadyCasanova said:

I'm surprised that no one did a formal negotiation of limits, both hard and soft. I've never done a scene with someone new without an in-depth discussion about triggers and limits. My dream orger bottom is PJ.

there was the mail that explained things

PJ?

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Reply #40 posted 07/26/15 11:05am

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JoeTyler said:

LadyCasanova said:

I'm surprised that no one did a formal negotiation of limits, both hard and soft. I've never done a scene with someone new without an in-depth discussion about triggers and limits. My dream orger bottom is PJ.

there was the mail that explained things

PJ?


The mail was fine, sounds like a piece that covered house rules. However, that isn't the same thing as
negotiating limits with the people are you going to be in a scene with. It sounds like you definitely
have some limits around CBT and (in my world) a scene involving CBT would never happen without
some negotiation. Safe words (red/yellow) are great, but they shouldn't be the only line of consent.


S&M doesn't automatically include verbal humiliation or degradation, so your knee-jerk "no-no"
reaction was right on target.


I've been involved in BDSM/Kink/D/s for the last 10 years or so. There is a TON to explore and enjoy.


PurpleJedi.

"Aren't you even curious? Don't you want to see the dragon behind the door?"
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Reply #41 posted 07/26/15 11:47am

JoeTyler

LadyCasanova said:

JoeTyler said:

there was the mail that explained things

PJ?


The mail was fine, sounds like a piece that covered house rules. However, that isn't the same thing as
negotiating limits with the people are you going to be in a scene with. It sounds like you definitely
have some limits around CBT and (in my world) a scene involving CBT would never happen without
some negotiation. Safe words (red/yellow) are great, but they shouldn't be the only line of consent.


S&M doesn't automatically include verbal humiliation or degradation, so your knee-jerk "no-no"
reaction was right on target.


I've been involved in BDSM/Kink/D/s for the last 10 years or so. There is a TON to explore and enjoy.

eek razz smile biggrin

PurpleJedi. biggrin

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Reply #42 posted 07/26/15 3:03pm

morningsong

Poor PJ, in the crosshairs.
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Reply #43 posted 07/27/15 7:41am

luvsexy4all

sounds like a good time was had for all

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Reply #44 posted 07/27/15 7:44am

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I will admit, After seeing this mention for weeks ... I only just opened it up. I literally cracked up with your inside thoughts and to imagine that this stuff really goes on. Yeah... Many years ago, the Org and internet really opened my eyes, a girl who lived a very sheltered world growing up, but this world is anything but sheltered, unless you make it. I do my best to make it. Laugh.

lol

But you write very well. lol

Now on with my day. Still laughing. lol
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Reply #45 posted 07/27/15 7:57am

luvsexy4all

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^^four years ago, things were not as bad

I still remember this thread lol

http://prince.org/msg/100/366187

lucky dog

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Reply #46 posted 08/03/15 1:09pm

Gunsnhalen

That's a normal sunday for me.

Pistols sounded like "Fuck off," wheras The Clash sounded like "Fuck Off, but here's why.."- Thedigitialgardener

All music is shit music and no music is real- gunsnhalen

Datdonkeydick- Asherfierce

Gary Hunts Album Isn't That Good- Soulalive
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Reply #47 posted 08/03/15 3:00pm

JoeTyler

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That's a normal sunday for me.

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Reply #48 posted 08/03/15 6:54pm

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So you want S&M now huh? Well, come on you motherfucker, I'll give you plenty. I'm gonna pull down those underwear and for every pubic hair I see missing, I'm gonna hot glue each of them back until they're totally replaced. evillol

Andy is a four letter word.
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Reply #49 posted 08/04/15 8:45am

JoeTyler

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So you want S&M now huh? Well, come on you motherfucker, I'll give you plenty. I'm gonna pull down those underwear and for every pubic hair I see missing, I'm gonna hot glue each of them back until they're totally replaced. evillol

I always shave my privates for summer smile

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Reply #50 posted 08/04/15 8:52am

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JoeTyler said:

vainandy said:

So you want S&M now huh? Well, come on you motherfucker, I'll give you plenty. I'm gonna pull down those underwear and for every pubic hair I see missing, I'm gonna hot glue each of them back until they're totally replaced. evillol

I always shave my privates for summer smile

Well then, you're gonna be in a lot of pain from all the hot glue putting all those pubes back on. lol

Andy is a four letter word.
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Reply #51 posted 08/04/15 8:57am

JoeTyler

vainandy said:

JoeTyler said:

I always shave my privates for summer smile

Well then, you're gonna be in a lot of pain from all the hot glue putting all those pubes back on. lol

well, my abs-chest are trimmed, but not shaved, so I demand mercy lol

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Reply #52 posted 08/04/15 9:08am

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JoeTyler said:

vainandy said:

Well then, you're gonna be in a lot of pain from all the hot glue putting all those pubes back on. lol

well, my abs-chest are trimmed, but not shaved, so I demand mercy lol

Well, you better hope there's enough hair to weave some more into it or else I'm going to have to use more even more hot glue. And for each hair I find missing, I'm going to flip you over, slap, and put my red hand print across your ass for each one. lol

Andy is a four letter word.
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Reply #53 posted 08/04/15 9:10am

JoeTyler

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JoeTyler said:

well, my abs-chest are trimmed, but not shaved, so I demand mercy lol

Well, you better hope there's enough hair to weave some more into it or else I'm going to have to use more even more hot glue. And for each hair I find missing, I'm going to flip you over, slap, and put my red hand print across your ass for each one. lol

lol lol lol

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