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Thread started 10/12/14 2:53pm

Gunsnhalen

Male Sexual Assault

Just bringing to light something more should know.

7 Football players are accused of sexual assault. This happened in Sayreville, New Jersey. This is honestly something that happens a lot. But people are quiet about it and think it's just ''males goofing around''

Here's a link to the article.

http://www.nj.com/middlesex/index.ssf/2014/10/why_seven_sayreville_parent_explains_role_of_each_in_sexual_assault.html

I love football... and i played football in high school. And lord knows there's already enough of bad press among football players right now. But i have to honest here... this shit does happen In football (And those piece of shit fraternities, or ''frats) thing's that could very well be seen as sexual assault.

Older members sometimes haze the younger members. It happened to me when i was a freshman as well. Nothing too extreme ever happened to me. And yes, guys do horse around int he locker room. But there's a difference between horsing around and harassing.


And there's definitely some inappropriate touching that happens. And some violence, manipulation, and intimation. If one of the guys who's bigger than a freshman member. Does something like touching private parts or punching a kid around. It's seen as ''initiation'' or ''a kid learning respect'' it's just been told to man up about it and learn from it.

Male sexual assaults do happen. And a lot of males are just told ''man up and deal with it. It's not a big deal'' especially if it's another guy who does the inappropriate touching. Even if the other guy intimidates him and forces him to do it without reason.

The same exact thing happens with frat hazings as well. I'm very against any type of hazing bullshit whether from frats or from sports. And i hope the kids who did this get proper punishment.

http://www.nj.com/middlesex/index.ssf/2014/10/why_seven_sayreville_parent_explains_role_of_each_in_sexual_assault.html

[Edited 10/14/14 23:11pm]

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Reply #1 posted 10/12/14 6:19pm

Dalia11

It is a shame. Things like that happen among
Family members, teachers, priests. No one
can be trusted. My brother said that when he was
a kid his uncle, also a kid but a few years older,
assaulted him. No one believed my brother. My
mother and others said they were just playing.
That is why kids, especially boys stay quiet.
They think no one will believe them, are
ashamed and so on.
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Reply #2 posted 10/12/14 8:13pm

Dalia11

Those kids need to be punished. Jail time, not
being allowed in school, playing football, etc.
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Reply #3 posted 10/13/14 2:14pm

Dalia11

The news is talking about the incident with
the football players. The teens, 15 ~ 17 year
olds may be charged as adults. They should.
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Reply #4 posted 10/13/14 3:50pm

XxAxX

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this is truly shocking. gang rape is never "hazing"

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Reply #5 posted 10/13/14 4:14pm

Gunsnhalen

This is all about power dynamics. Making someone weak, do soemthing unwillingly. They use size, strength, age etc. Whatever it may be... and hurt someone sexually with it.

I remmeber whenever i was in high school. A kid slapped a guy int he face with his dick. And he didn't think it was a big deal confused another similar incident like that occured. When a guy was held down and ''tea bagged'' in the face . The guy was a younger player and was helpless. It was 3 big guys holding him down as one of them did it. And it was just a ''joke'' so everyone told him to man up and get the fuck over it rolleyes

Pistols sounded like "Fuck off," wheras The Clash sounded like "Fuck Off, but here's why.."- Thedigitialgardener

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Reply #6 posted 10/13/14 4:37pm

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Shoving your finger up some guys asshole and then in his mouth is disgusting.

The Most Important Thing In Life Is Sincerity....Once You Can Fake That, You Can Fake Anything.
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