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OldFriends4Sale said:
major props to Sheryl Underwood. The real killer are those comedians that were dogging her out yet smiling in her face are just now finding out Sheryl knew about them all these years. I know they feel like crap. | |
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I agree, I've been watching Sheryl for a while. She's come a long way | |
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Nancy, you haven't said hi in years. All you others say Hell Yea!! | |
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I wouldn't cut off a twenty year friendship because the person said something awful about me. I would confront them. I would ask them why they never confronted me about it. Then again I am not someone who refuses to hear anything but compliments about myself. I have a family member who had 2 close friends. Very close, they adored her. When I moved back to my hometown they were introduced to me. This family member treated me like I was an idiot and completely incompetent. They said something to her. I wasn't there when they did it. I realized afterwards that she was no longer doing things with them. Thinking back, would I maintain a friendship with someone who would not listen to the truth about herself? I don't have many friends as is. I tend to be the type that confronts people and doesn't hold it in or confide my opinions to other friends. I am not perfect and don't expect my friends to treat me as if I am. If you think I am wrong say it to my face so that I can learn something and grow from it. If it is just a bunch of nit picking I will let you know that is how I feel.
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The reason why I cut this person off after knowing them for over 20+ years is because they made a very nasty comment about me, one that was very degrading and one that I cannot just overlook and say, "Oh well, I forgive you". I don't put up with that bullshit from anybody, much less someone who was supposed to be a "friend". I confronted them about it, asked them why they called me that comment, why they couldn't be honest and tell me what was on their mind, told them that I was very hurt by what they said, asked them how I would feel if they said that to me. They didn't say much, because they knew they fucked up the friendship and that I was pissed off and angry at them. This isn't the first time that I have had issues with this person, and them making this nasty comment was the drop dead deal breaker. I don't need a two-faced, backstabber as a friend. There are already too many fake people in this world that I have to deal with. If someone can't say something to my face, and they have to talk about me behind my back like a little kid, then FUCK THEM! I have the right to cut them out of my life and move on to bigger and better things. I don't need people like that in my life. I would rather be lonely than to be friends with someone who backstabs and cannot be trusted. RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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I cut off my uncle(my dads brother) when I realized he was doing that to my family:parents, brothers It was like 3-4 years and the first time I heard from him was August 2013, but I haven't seen him yet. | |
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One thing I've learned is if someone tells/shows you who they are, BELIEVE THEM! Meaning, if your so-called best friend is a deceiver, user, gossiping or demeaning others in your presence, they are telling/showing you who they are. Better believe they are going to do the same behind your back. Why would you trust them to be loyal to you if they haven't shown they are loyal to other people? I speak from experience. I learned the hard way. "It's not nice to fuck with K.B.! All you haters will see!" - Kitbradley
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RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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And I it's weird because people would think because of the time I've known him and we were close that it would be forgiven quicker. But really because of the intimate relation the wound is deep. Someone I hardly know or a coworker I can just brush off. A take it or leave it. | |
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That is so true! I think it's more difficult to forgive someone that you were once close to because of the close bond that you had with that person. A stranger or a coworker is much easier to brush off and dismiss than someone who was close to you. RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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My former "friend" was saying negative things about me to someone else online. I don't know if they have been friends with this person for a long time or not, but to me, that makes no difference, because the negative, unnecessary comments were still being made. I don't feel bad at all for getting rid of this fake friend. I ripped them a new asshole, which they rightfully deserved. They won't have to worry about constipation for many months to come; hell, they'll probably need to start wearing Depends to keep from shitting on themselves by accident. They might as well wear a Depends over their mouth too, to prevent them from shit-talking about somebody else, they way they did with me. [Edited 10/4/14 8:08am] RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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i tend to prefer people who tell me to my face what they think, rather than sneaking around behind my back whispering about me. if someone has a problem with my behavior or words, i'd prefer they tell me timely, confront me and let me have it. | |
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Guess it would depend what was said and in what context. And if there is any truth to it. | |
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kitbradley said: One thing I've learned is if someone tells/shows you who they are, BELIEVE THEM! Meaning, if your so-called best friend is a deceiver, user, gossiping or demeaning others in your presence, they are telling/showing you who they are. Better believe they are going to do the same behind your back. Why would you trust them to be loyal to you if they haven't shown they are loyal to other people? I speak from experience. I learned the hard way. Yep | |
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I'm still seething angry about this whole situation. I don't think saying that I hate this person is a strong enough word. I know that I need to forgive this person, but it's going to take time. RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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I wish I could take this ex-friend out mafia style. Where is The Godfather when I need him? RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you. | |
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