(Inspired by JoeTyler's oral sex thread)

Does sex have to be Taboo, disgusting, or naughty to be enjoyed?

Is sex with your partner that you care for better than the sex with a partner you can't stand?[As in the case of the oral sex thread]

During the act of sex does 1 partner always have to be the more dominate role and the other more submissive in order to enjoy or have "better" sex?

[Edited 7/14/14 14:17pm]

I have never considered sex something that is "dirty."

Doesn't have to be naughty to be enjoyed, but there are times when taboo thoughts/actions can
make things that much hotter. Depends on the taboo and the people. Your kink is not my kink and
all that jazz.

Rage and love both burn bright, I just think one burns longer than the other.

ZombieKitten said:

I can't say I've ever stopped to think about this stuff. I go where the mood takes me and let nature run its course

However, I do believe that sex with somenoe I care for is MUCH better than someone I do not..

never understood those terms (or others) when it comes to sex

dirty?...meh, never liked that word, sounds like "lack of hygiene" , gross

naughty??? sounds childish ...

as long as those mental illnesses called "pooping" and "torture sex" ARE COMPLETELY AND UTTERLY avoided, I'm up for anything

[Edited 7/14/14 8:27am]

The term dirty implies that there is shame involved.

And it's shame and a hightened sense of self-awareness that spoils the mood. It prefents me from giving myself and losing myself.

I do have to confess that I'm a-dick-ted.


Had sex with a guy (met him at a party) and it was great.

We had great physical chemistry and I enjoyed him very much.


And I loved his dick. It was perfect. Good shape, big, but not too big, and not too slim.


I wonder if I'm becoming too superficial.


I'm done with the bullshit of relationships. I don't want to get emotional involved anymore. It's the same crap every time.


So, I cherish my friendships with men, but will not have sex with them.

And have sex with guys who have great dicks and have a good sex-klick with.




So, yes size matters for me.

^^ well, take care, there are many creepos out there, I prefer to KNOW who I'm fuckin' with, lol

JoeTyler said:

never understood those terms (or others) when it comes to sex

dirty?...meh, never liked that word, sounds like "lack of hygiene" , gross

naughty??? sounds childish ...

as long as those mental illnesses called "pooping" and "torture sex" ARE COMPLETELY AND UTTERLY avoided, I'm up for anything

[Edited 7/14/14 8:27am]

I think I should have used the term taboo as opposed to dirty. For dirty seems to imply filth, however, I was using it in the slang sense. Let's get down and dirty etc. (I'll change the title.)

dJJ said:

The term dirty implies that there is shame involved.

And it's shame and a hightened sense of self-awareness that spoils the mood. It prefents me from giving myself and losing myself.

Good point, does shame aka dirty need to be part of the sex act in order to make it that much more enjoyable for some partners?

Oh my gawd! Maybe I need to clarify dirty just for the heck of it. Pooping? Hell no! Torture? I'm like Rick James, "I don't like no pain". More like Janet's "My Need" kind of thing, definitely.