This, exactly, only from a male perspective. | |
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The bold part is basically what I was saying earlier in this thread. At this point, he'd have to be pretty fabulous to make me want to marry. I like coming home to my own space, and not have to deal with "couple" stuff. I would like to have the companionship and intimacy of a mate, but I don't know that I need to have him around all the time...
"Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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Oh who're you kidding? By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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I'm 30 with no children & I've never been married. I have plans for both someday, but I need to get myself together more financially before I even think about going there. الحيوان النادلة ((((|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|̲̅̅=̲̅̅|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|)))) ...AND THAT'S THE WAY THE "TITTY" MILKS IT!
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And there it is | |
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No red flag at all for me because I will not be rushing into marriage or trying to have kids just because my "clock is ticking". 29, no kids and no marriage and that will not change until I feel I'm absolutely ready. To be honest I don't even know if I'm marriage material because like some have said I like my "me" time way too much. | |
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Me too. Especially with the amount of people marrying the wrong people, for the wrong reasons, and getting divorced after a couple years.
People who really want to get married should do it and those who don't, should not..Neither should option sounds extremely better or worse If you will, so will I | |
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It wouldn't matter to me. I hope that doesn't matter to the women I might be with either, because I don't see myself getting married at least within the next five years or so.
I don't think something like that is so unusual to the artsy, travelling, free-spirited, etc. types.
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"Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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'How do you view a potential date who is middle-aged and never had sex?
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A genius.....
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I'd actually prefer men like that, I've never been married myself. All the guys I've been in relationships with were never married before. They didnt have to worry about ex-wives and I didnt have to worry about getting along with their kids (though I probably would). I've had opportunities to marry, but I've always been very cautious, esp with the divorce rate being what it is. If I'd ever marry I'd want it to be for life.
The one thing that would bother me is if the guy says he NEVER wants to get married or have a long-term relationship. Have u had your + sign today? | |
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A guy who's particular?
Religious?
Takes all kinds. The salvation of man is through love and in love. - Dr. V. Frankl
"When you close your heart, you close your mind." - Michael Jackson (Man In The Mirror) "I don't need anger management, I need people to stop pissing me off" | |
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Not for me.
Well, unless he was SMOKING hot and amazing in every other way. Then maybe... | |
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Former priest/nun/monk??? By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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me too. i love men, but that doesn't mean i want to live with one. | |
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i was told by a guy in my life a few years back that i could enjoy the privilege of living in his home with him (it was quite nice, his home), if i'd "get rid of those dang birds".
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the guy was not only arrogant, but also obviously evil | |
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well, no he's pretty cool. we're still friends. and, i still have all my birds. | |
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I've never been married and don't have kids and I think most people I meet don't judge me as being "weird" for that but I think it would be nice to meet a nice guy sooner or later. I have had enough crappy dating experiences for a few lifetimes and from my experience, it's the guys in their 40s that were the worst. They either had baggage or had some other issues that kept them on the dating market much longer than the average guy would have been. I think at this stage in the game, I am probably going to end up with a guy who has kids already because otherwise my dating pool would be even smaller if I didn't open myself to that possibility. Trolls be gone! | |
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It's all about priorities, but with that attitude you are narrowing it for yourself, and casue someone is 40 does not mean they have/had baggage, it's nonsense in my opinion. Prince I will always miss and love U. | |
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Sorry but I was only speaking from the experiences that I had to this point, didn't mean to offend but I find this age group of guys to be what I like the most but unfortunately they are either involved in divorce drama or they are playing the field and on the brink of being "older bachelors" who eat cereal and beer for breakfast, LOL Trolls be gone! | |
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I would view them as someone who is middle aged and never married.
Anything else is a story made up by your own personal experiences, judgments, opinions and prejudices and is not to be taken seriously. | |
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