uniden said:

yeah, back in 1999/2000 i was in a serious relationship with a man i met here at the org. we were together for a few years when he started showing off the other women he was dating, he would call them in-front of me, but speak in the language of his country so that i couldn't understand what he was saying. i finally had a friend translate e-mails that i saw in his yahoo mail into english. turns out he was cheating on me with like 6 other ladies.

he even took me over to one of his other girlfriends houses telling me it was just a friend from work. but then i saw how she treated him, and i could tell it was more than a friendship.

Wow.

paintedlady said:

PurpleJedi said:

Cheapskate dude was just trying to get "back" at you for dumping him.

Second dude shoulda gotten a backhand. At least u get to throw that in his face (u should'a thrown some Bengay at him too )

That's good... and

I am glad to have been rid of both guys. Thank goodness.

For real, one person's rejection ain't nonthin' but God's protection. Holla.

Stymie said:

Jesus Christ.

...is risen, and needs to come visit this thread. It's getting hardcore up in here.

Ottensen said:

paintedlady said:

That's good... and

I am glad to have been rid of both guys. Thank goodness.

For real, one person's rejection ain't nonthin' but God's protection. Holla.

I guess that's one way of seeing it.

Ottensen said:

Stymie said:

Jesus Christ.

...is risen, and needs to come visit this thread. It's getting hardcore up in here.

I started lighting a candle to the Virgin of Guadalupe for protection before logging onto here.

every day i hope and pray that my x will meet someone ~ just so he can leave me alone

and i would not care if he flaunted it - he was never all that anyway and so i know i wouldnt be missing out on 2 much!!!

ThisOne said:

every day i hope and pray that my x will meet someone ~ just so he can leave me alone

and i would not care if he flaunted it - he was never all that anyway and so i know i wouldnt be missing out on 2 much!!!

ThisOne said:

every day i hope and pray that my x will meet someone ~ just so he can leave me alone

and i would not care if he flaunted it - he was never all that anyway and so i know i wouldnt be missing out on 2 much!!!

I have children with my ex.. they never leave you alone until the kids are 18/independent.

Because you know the ex is having single when he starts acting all friendly and wants to hang around because he's horny.

This is my issue now, the ex tries to call me in the middle of the night (I never answer) he tries to touch me in the small of my back or tries to joke around and get "friendly"... I ignore all advances no matter how sublte and just keep it about the kids ONLY.

him! I always have to keep my guard up.

PurpleJedi said:

Ottensen said:

For real, one person's rejection ain't nonthin' but God's protection. Holla.

I guess that's one way of seeing it.

Amen Ottie!

PJ things will be better break ups are always hard for me too.

I've come to accept XxAxX fluffing her feathers for the peacocks that strut by, but she knows where her nest is.....

BlackAdder7 said:

I've come to accept XxAxX fluffing her feathers for the peacocks that strut by, but she knows where her nest is.....

whatchootalkinboutwillis???

paintedlady said:

ThisOne said:

every day i hope and pray that my x will meet someone ~ just so he can leave me alone

and i would not care if he flaunted it - he was never all that anyway and so i know i wouldnt be missing out on 2 much!!!

I have children with my ex.. they never leave you alone until the kids are 18/independent.

Because you know the ex is having single when he starts acting all friendly and wants to hang around because he's horny.

This is my issue now, the ex tries to call me in the middle of the night (I never answer) he tries to touch me in the small of my back or tries to joke around and get "friendly"... I ignore all advances no matter how sublte and just keep it about the kids ONLY.

him! I always have to keep my guard up.

Seriously?!?!

This the dude who left u for grannie?

BlackAdder7 said:

I've come to accept XxAxX fluffing her feathers for the peacocks that strut by, but she knows where her nest is.....

PurpleJedi said:

paintedlady said:

I have children with my ex.. they never leave you alone until the kids are 18/independent.

Because you know the ex is having single when he starts acting all friendly and wants to hang around because he's horny.

This is my issue now, the ex tries to call me in the middle of the night (I never answer) he tries to touch me in the small of my back or tries to joke around and get "friendly"... I ignore all advances no matter how sublte and just keep it about the kids ONLY.

him! I always have to keep my guard up.

Seriously?!?!

This the dude who left u for grannie?

Same one! He called me to ask how I was doing today and I answered: "You want to speak to the kids? Sure here they go..... "

He'll be by tomorrow to drop off sneakers for the boy.

paintedlady said:

PurpleJedi said:

Seriously?!?!

This the dude who left u for grannie?

Same one! He called me to ask how I was doing today and I answered: "You want to speak to the kids? Sure here they go..... "

He'll be by tomorrow to drop off sneakers for the boy.

Unbelievable.

If he also brings a pair of Nike's for YOU, then you KNOW what time it is!

PurpleJedi said:

paintedlady said:

Same one! He called me to ask how I was doing today and I answered: "You want to speak to the kids? Sure here they go..... "

He'll be by tomorrow to drop off sneakers for the boy.

Unbelievable.

If he also brings a pair of Nike's for YOU, then you KNOW what time it is!

PurpleJedi said:

paintedlady said:

Same one! He called me to ask how I was doing today and I answered: "You want to speak to the kids? Sure here they go..... "

He'll be by tomorrow to drop off sneakers for the boy.

Unbelievable.

If he also brings a pair of Nike's for YOU, then you KNOW what time it is!

Yup, and if she chooses to accept them, she can do so with a Coke and a smile and send his butt right on out the door back to Sra. Poligrip

Ottensen said:

PurpleJedi said:

Unbelievable.

If he also brings a pair of Nike's for YOU, then you KNOW what time it is!

Yup, and if she chooses to accept them, she can do so with a Coke and a smile and send his butt right on out the door back to Sra. Poligrip

Why did I have to have a long and drawn out conversation with babydaddy about why I do not want him calling me "baby" and "honey" ... and I don't want him trying to touch me when he comes over.

He asked me if I had a boyfriend... and I said yes, same one I mentioned I had over two years ago.

Then he asked why I didn't tell him that. So I told him that it is none of his business and we do not have that sort of relationship anyways. He acted hurt and then asked why we weren't friends.

Is he serious? WTH?

This guy is the most secretive person I know... he doesn't volunteer any info about himself, I don't even know where he lives (just the town) ... so why would I treat someone like that as a friend?

He doesn't trust me, why would I trust him?

I want to let my current guy meet him, to tell him to back the hell off now.

paintedlady said:

Why did I have to have a long and drawn out conversation with babydaddy about why I do not want him calling me "baby" and "honey" ... and I don't want him trying to touch me when he comes over.

He asked me if I had a boyfriend... and I said yes, same one I mentioned I had over two years ago.

Then he asked why I didn't tell him that. So I told him that it is none of his business and we do not have that sort of relationship anyways. He acted hurt and then asked why we weren't friends.

Is he serious? WTH?

This guy is the most secretive person I know... he doesn't volunteer any info about himself, I don't even know where he lives (just the town) ... so why would I treat someone like that as a friend?

He doesn't trust me, why would I trust him?

I want to let my current guy meet him, to tell him to back the hell off now.

That irks the FUCK out of me!!!

Anytime the ex needs something, (money, switching weekends, money, etc.) it's all "sweetie", "hun" and "babe" and being all touchy-feely.

GETTAFUKOUTTAHEREWITDATSHITT

I have plenty of friends, PLENTY. People who enjoy my company and genuinely care for me as a PERSON, not a wallet.

Trust is vital. With no trust, there is no relationship. NONE. Not even friendship.

Don't bring new guy into equation unless the ex disrespects you or something. (My 2¢)

PurpleJedi said:

paintedlady said:

Why did I have to have a long and drawn out conversation with babydaddy about why I do not want him calling me "baby" and "honey" ... and I don't want him trying to touch me when he comes over.

He asked me if I had a boyfriend... and I said yes, same one I mentioned I had over two years ago.

Then he asked why I didn't tell him that. So I told him that it is none of his business and we do not have that sort of relationship anyways. He acted hurt and then asked why we weren't friends.

Is he serious? WTH?

This guy is the most secretive person I know... he doesn't volunteer any info about himself, I don't even know where he lives (just the town) ... so why would I treat someone like that as a friend?

He doesn't trust me, why would I trust him?

I want to let my current guy meet him, to tell him to back the hell off now.

That irks the FUCK out of me!!!

Anytime the ex needs something, (money, switching weekends, money, etc.) it's all "sweetie", "hun" and "babe" and being all touchy-feely.

GETTAFUKOUTTAHEREWITDATSHITT

I have plenty of friends, PLENTY. People who enjoy my company and genuinely care for me as a PERSON, not a wallet.

Trust is vital. With no trust, there is no relationship. NONE. Not even friendship.

Don't bring new guy into equation unless the ex disrespects you or something. (My 2¢)

I don't know what's worse... an ex that tries to make you jealous

or an ex that pretends that he/she still wants you in order to keep the door open knowing full well they wouldn't do that mess if their current flame was present.

Either way its a manipulation tactic and I do not appreciate it... you're NOT my friend because a friend wouldn't try some mess like that on me.

BTW.. I told my boyfriend and he agreed, my boyfriend will not beat him up (unless he disrepescts me in a forceful way) but I am glad he knows what I have to deal with and supports me emotionally.

It also helps that my guy could be a body double for Terry Crews. Lil' ol 5'4" babydaddy will soil his panties if my boyfriend got up in his face.

paintedlady said:

PurpleJedi said:

That irks the FUCK out of me!!!

Anytime the ex needs something, (money, switching weekends, money, etc.) it's all "sweetie", "hun" and "babe" and being all touchy-feely.

GETTAFUKOUTTAHEREWITDATSHITT

I have plenty of friends, PLENTY. People who enjoy my company and genuinely care for me as a PERSON, not a wallet.

Trust is vital. With no trust, there is no relationship. NONE. Not even friendship.

Don't bring new guy into equation unless the ex disrespects you or something. (My 2¢)

I don't know what's worse... an ex that tries to make you jealous

or an ex that pretends that he/she still wants you in order to keep the door open knowing full well they wouldn't do that mess if their current flame was present.

Either way its a manipulation tactic and I do not appreciate it... you're NOT my friend because a friend wouldn't try some mess like that on me.

BTW.. I told my boyfriend and he agreed, my boyfriend will not beat him up (unless he disrepescts me in a forceful way) but I am glad he knows what I have to deal with and supports me emotionally.

It also helps that my guy could be a body double for Terry Crews. Lil' ol 5'4" babydaddy will soil his panties if my boyfriend got up in his face.

Manipulation indeed.

With "friends" like that, who needs cancer?

I had to google Terry Crews... ...most people know him as the dude from 'Everybody Hates Chris' ....but I know him as "T-Money" from BATTLEDOME!

If they ever met, you HAVE to put that shit on Youtube!!!

PurpleJedi said:

paintedlady said:

I don't know what's worse... an ex that tries to make you jealous

or an ex that pretends that he/she still wants you in order to keep the door open knowing full well they wouldn't do that mess if their current flame was present.

Either way its a manipulation tactic and I do not appreciate it... you're NOT my friend because a friend wouldn't try some mess like that on me.

BTW.. I told my boyfriend and he agreed, my boyfriend will not beat him up (unless he disrepescts me in a forceful way) but I am glad he knows what I have to deal with and supports me emotionally.

It also helps that my guy could be a body double for Terry Crews. Lil' ol 5'4" babydaddy will soil his panties if my boyfriend got up in his face.

Manipulation indeed.

With "friends" like that, who needs cancer?

I had to google Terry Crews... ...most people know him as the dude from 'Everybody Hates Chris' ....but I know him as "T-Money" from BATTLEDOME!

If they ever met, you HAVE to put that shit on Youtube!!!

Oh my damn!!!

paintedlady said:

PurpleJedi said:

Manipulation indeed.

With "friends" like that, who needs cancer?

I had to google Terry Crews... ...most people know him as the dude from 'Everybody Hates Chris' ....but I know him as "T-Money" from BATTLEDOME!

If they ever met, you HAVE to put that shit on Youtube!!!

Oh my damn!!!

But painted...be nice. Nicer than he was ever to you.

and make sure you're standing by with some of this stuff, for you know, consideration's sake to take on the way home

I figure that and having your camera phone ready to capture that magic moment would be a memory that you could all share til kingdom come! It really is the least of what you can do for all the consideration he's shown you through the years.

Ottensen said:

paintedlady said:

Oh my damn!!!

But painted...be nice. Nicer than he was ever to you.

and make sure you're standing by with some of this stuff, for you know, consideration's sake to take on the way home

I figure that and having your camera phone ready to capture that magic moment would be a memory that you could all share til kingdom come! It really is the least of what you can do for all the consideration he's shown you through the years.

Now if Painted can get her 6'-4" BF to hand the 5'-4" Ex a box of Depends, some pepsodent, Bengay & a can of Febreeze as an anniversary gift for him & the old crow...that would be EPIC.

PurpleJedi said:

Ottensen said:

But painted...be nice. Nicer than he was ever to you.

and make sure you're standing by with some of this stuff, for you know, consideration's sake to take on the way home

I figure that and having your camera phone ready to capture that magic moment would be a memory that you could all share til kingdom come! It really is the least of what you can do for all the consideration he's shown you through the years.

Now if Painted can get her 6'-4" BF to hand the 5'-4" Ex a box of Depends, some pepsodent, Bengay & a can of Febreeze as an anniversary gift for him & the old crow...that would be EPIC.

OMG!!

I would sooooo love to do this! This is even better than when he asked me to draw him a tattoo with Mandarin characters that made up his name...

but I really spelled out the traditional way to say "shiftless bum" instead of his name.

He didn't get the tattoo done, but this.... this will make up for that!

I am really giggling so much I have tears in my eyes.

paintedlady said:

I am really giggling so much I have tears in my eyes.

PurpleJedi said:

paintedlady said:

I am really giggling so much I have tears in my eyes.