PurpleJedi said:

TD3 said:

I don't know anything about those people and I don't care.

Flaunt affair.... at that point who gives a flyin' fig how the people in question conduct themselves. I don't think you get style points because you were more discreet. Even so its been my experience the only person who's the last to know is the persons who's being cheated on.

It's not about "style points"...it's about how FUCKED UP it is to have that shit rubbed in your face.

Makes you wanna burn things.

We've spoken about this before so I think you know my opinion about this. The fucking doesn't bother me, its the lying. I understand what you're saying; that's why one shouldn't mess around with other people feelings. Needless to say, leaving a mate for another or because an affair is bad enough. It goes to my central point view.

Be straight up, have the guts to say you want out. When most folks leave a wife or husband for another they've been unhappy or unsatisfied for awhile. Instead of being honest most people stay in the relationship, using their wife or husband as a backup plan. I'll wait and see if something comes along that's better, that's pretty fucked up.

Timmy84 said:

TD3 said:

I don't know anything about those people and I don't care.

Wha I say?

Timmy84 said:

TD3 said:

I don't know anything about those people and I don't care.

TD3 said:

PurpleJedi said:

It's not about "style points"...it's about how FUCKED UP it is to have that shit rubbed in your face.

Makes you wanna burn things.

We've spoken about this before so I think you know my opinion about this. The fucking doesn't bother me, its the lying. I understand what you're saying; that's why one shouldn't mess around with other people feelings. Needless to say, leaving a mate for another or because an affair is bad enough. It goes to my central point view.

Be straight up, have the guts to say you want out. When most folks leave a wife or husband for another they've been unhappy or unsatisfied for awhile. Instead of being honest most people stay in the relationship, using their wife or husband as a backup plan. I'll wait and see if something comes along that's better, that's pretty fucked up.

Amen.

...and in some instances, you're not being held as a "backup plan" but rather a walking wallet.

Shyra said:

Oh yeah, big time. I used to date a man who lived 3 doors away from my house. Yeah, that was not a smart relationship to start from jump, but we were instantly attracted to each other. Anyway, we dated from May to December, (doesn't that sound prophetic?) and then the shit hit the fan. He met another woman he found more intriguing and started a relationship with her. Since we lived so close, I could see him bringing her to his house or when she would drive to his house and park her car, I would see it there all nigh into the next morning and knew what was going on. It ripped my heart out that this man could be so insensitive. I finally got over it and he started creeping back to me. By then it wasn't the same, and I kicked his ass to the curb. He finally moved about 3 years later, but by then, I barely remember the nuccahs's name. When I fall, I fall hard, but when I get back up, I'M DONE. You are null and void in my book.

This is a hard art to learn but finally I did

PurpleJedi said:

ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

Nah, the limited fellas of the past were mostly discreet. But I dumped them shortly there after.

I thought it was low of Brad to do that to Jennifer. But now I'm getting sick of hearing about him and Angie as if they're Liz and Dick.

The problem with our society is that we condone these kind of relationships under the guise of "unrequited love" or "mismatched couples". I hate to say it, but we don't condone fidelity. I mean if you have an open relationship, or a "fuck buddy" situation, that's your business. But if you're a couple and you're committed, there's really no room for infidelity.

For gosh's sakes, I remember when they making a fucking movie about Prince Charles and Camilla...and how their relationship was one of those "unrequited love stories" and his marriage with Diana was a complete sham. Jesus....Diana loved Charles with everything she had. And Camilla was a married woman at the time the whole affair was happening. And speaking of flaunting...the bitch was even present at his and Diana's wedding.

Now that's just dispicable.

TD3 said:

Timmy84 said:

Wha I say?

lol you said you don't care about them folks (I know you don't) and you posted anyway. Just saying.

Timmy84 said:

TD3 said:

Wha I say?

lol you said you don't care about them folks (I know you don't) and you posted anyway. Just saying.

I responded to PJ's second question his example of those two... who gives a fuck. The question is still valid, I thought.

TD3 said:

Timmy84 said:

lol you said you don't care about them folks (I know you don't) and you posted anyway. Just saying.

I responded to PJ's second question his example of those two... who gives a fuck. The question is still valid, I thought.

nvm

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But I love that Supa vs. imago beef.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I take it back. I should only wish you well. Even if nobody ever loved me

[Edited 8/14/12 10:54am]

errant said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

This is a hard art to learn but finally I did

Oh please. No one's ever loved you.

Damn

yeah, back in 1999/2000 i was in a serious relationship with a man i met here at the org. we were together for a few years when he started showing off the other women he was dating, he would call them in-front of me, but speak in the language of his country so that i couldn't understand what he was saying. i finally had a friend translate e-mails that i saw in his yahoo mail into english. turns out he was cheating on me with like 6 other ladies.

he even took me over to one of his other girlfriends houses telling me it was just a friend from work. but then i saw how she treated him, and i could tell it was more than a friendship.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I take it back. I should only wish you well. Even if nobody ever loved me

[Edited 8/14/12 10:54am]

Thanks. I appreciate that. I still wish you ill. But you already are, so

errant said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I take it back. I should only wish you well. Even if nobody ever loved me

[Edited 8/14/12 10:54am]

Thanks. I appreciate that. I still wish you ill. But you already are, so

Oh my god.

errant said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I take it back. I should only wish you well. Even if nobody ever loved me

[Edited 8/14/12 10:54am]

Thanks. I appreciate that. I still wish you ill. But you already are, so

I have asked God to keep me out of your relationships. My intervention will not be needed as you will poison them on your own

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

errant said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I have asked God to keep me out of your relationships. My intervention will not be needed as you will poison them on your own

That's probably true. But don't delude yourself into believing for one moment that you could meaningfully come between two people united in their loathing of you, event to this day no matter what else may have come between them.

Oh I have no delusions on the power of your loathing. I could care less.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

errant said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Oh I have no delusions on the power of your loathing. I could care less.

Everyone else you met on your couple of pilgrammages couldn't stand being around you by the end of them either. Whereas when people meet me, they always fall over themselves telling me how much they love me and how sweet and wonderful I am despite my org persona. But I guess that's what you get ehen you invite yourself somewhere you're unwanted and then weasel your way into getting people to pay for you. Hope that cult you joined a couple years back has helped you come to grips with that.

I have zero issue taking personal responsibility and nobody, obviously, could tell me to my face what you've delighted in knowing all these years. Who says I wasn't bothered by others as well? You're a con man so of course you can convince people you're something you're not wheras I don't pretend to be anyone other than me. People can take it or leave it.

I'm friends with the people who mean the most to me. Your little cheering section doesn't matter to me.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

errant said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I have zero issue taking personal responsibility and nobody, obviously, could tell me to my face what you've delighted in knowing all these years. Who says I wasn't bothered by others as well? You're a con man so of course you can convince people you're something you're not wheras I don't pretend to be anyone other than me. People can take it or leave it.

I'm friends with the people who mean the most to me. Your little cheering section doesn't matter to me.

You can tell your cheering section that you told their secret

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

errant said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

You can tell your cheering section that you told their secret

Who's that? Everyone that's spent 5 minutes with you?

My cult has taught me not to take things personally. I forgive you.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

errant said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

My cult has taught me not to take things personally. I forgive you.

Awww thanks. But I can hear you crying inside. And I'm lapping up those delicious tears like nectar.

I'm not hurt or offended nor am I surprised by your antics. Any tears are from laughing so hard

Jesus Christ.

Stymie said:

Jesus Christ.

Amen