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Reply #60 posted 08/09/12 9:17pm

Analyst

I think with that Angelina/Brad thing, we have to remember that we don't know these folks and there was probably a lot of stuff going on that we weren't privy to. I highly doubt that he and Aniston were actually still living together as a couple when Brad and Angelina hooked up and started taking those pics, so I don't think that really applies to this subject.

But to answer the question...I've had guys I was mixed up with, go off and boink other chicks, then kinda introduce them to me like, "I love my girlfriend so-and-so, and you should too."

I was sitting there like, "You cannot be serious." neutral

In general I think people do that type of thing when they don't have the balls to break it off and they want you to be the one to do it, so they go out of their way to try and wrong you in some way that makes you throw them back; or they're just intentionally trying to hurt you for whatever reason.

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Reply #61 posted 08/09/12 9:21pm

PurpleJedi

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paintedlady said:

OK... so I will add my experience.

I dated a guy when I was young, he was young too... I taught him how to have a bit of chivalry.

He would embarrass me when we went out, was always broke and refused to tip the server and would get angry when I pulled out my cash to tip the server.

I would often pay for our dinners. I would force him out to decent placed to dine.

I held on to him for too long because I got pregnant by him and tried to salvage a normal relationship with this cheapskate.

I ended up breaking things off with him, he made it a point to let me know he his new girlfriend was a white woman. As if I were color struck. lol

He would then ask me for advice on how to impress her and which restaurants were the most romantic and which hotels were the best to stay in.

Meanwhile he complained on having to help me buy necessities for our son.

disbelief

Oh and I had an ex tell me that a woman who was old enough to be my mother (and he was cheating on me with, also dumped me for) was and I quote....

"better than me in everyway"

lol

Yeah, I'll never let that thoughtless ex forget saying that to me. I throw that back up in his face when ever the opportunity arises.

mr.green

I sure know how to pick em don't I? confused

pat

Cheapskate dude was just trying to get "back" at you for dumping him.

Second dude shoulda gotten a backhand. At least u get to throw that in his face (u should'a thrown some Bengay at him too lol )

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Reply #62 posted 08/09/12 9:33pm

PurpleJedi

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Analyst said:

I think with that Angelina/Brad thing, we have to remember that we don't know these folks and there was probably a lot of stuff going on that we weren't privy to. I highly doubt that he and Aniston were actually still living together as a couple when Brad and Angelina hooked up and started taking those pics, so I don't think that really applies to this subject.

But to answer the question...I've had guys I was mixed up with, go off and boink other chicks, then kinda introduce them to me like, "I love my girlfriend so-and-so, and you should too."

I was sitting there like, "You cannot be serious." neutral

In general I think people do that type of thing when they don't have the balls to break it off and they want you to be the one to do it, so they go out of their way to try and wrong you in some way that makes you throw them back; or they're just intentionally trying to hurt you for whatever reason.

hmmm I dunno.

What I recall from back then was them being a typical (Hollywood) couple and the fact that he wanted children while she didn't was all over the tabloids.

And regardless, they were still married.

The affair certainly took J.A. by surprise - and judging by the comment noted, she didn't appreciate the flaunting.

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Reply #63 posted 08/09/12 9:39pm

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PurpleJedi said:

paintedlady said:

OK... so I will add my experience.

I dated a guy when I was young, he was young too... I taught him how to have a bit of chivalry.

He would embarrass me when we went out, was always broke and refused to tip the server and would get angry when I pulled out my cash to tip the server.

I would often pay for our dinners. I would force him out to decent placed to dine.

I held on to him for too long because I got pregnant by him and tried to salvage a normal relationship with this cheapskate.

I ended up breaking things off with him, he made it a point to let me know he his new girlfriend was a white woman. As if I were color struck. lol

He would then ask me for advice on how to impress her and which restaurants were the most romantic and which hotels were the best to stay in.

Meanwhile he complained on having to help me buy necessities for our son.

disbelief

Oh and I had an ex tell me that a woman who was old enough to be my mother (and he was cheating on me with, also dumped me for) was and I quote....

"better than me in everyway"

lol

Yeah, I'll never let that thoughtless ex forget saying that to me. I throw that back up in his face when ever the opportunity arises.

mr.green

I sure know how to pick em don't I? confused

pat

Cheapskate dude was just trying to get "back" at you for dumping him.

Second dude shoulda gotten a backhand. At least u get to throw that in his face (u should'a thrown some Bengay at him too lol )

evillol

That's good... and hug

I am glad to have been rid of both guys. Thank goodness.

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Reply #64 posted 08/09/12 9:51pm

PurpleJedi

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paintedlady said:

PurpleJedi said:

pat

Cheapskate dude was just trying to get "back" at you for dumping him.

Second dude shoulda gotten a backhand. At least u get to throw that in his face (u should'a thrown some Bengay at him too lol )

evillol

That's good... and hug

I am glad to have been rid of both guys. Thank goodness.

nod

Mejor sola que en mala compañia

(better off alone than in bad company)

nod

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Reply #65 posted 08/09/12 9:55pm

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PurpleJedi said:

paintedlady said:

evillol

That's good... and hug

I am glad to have been rid of both guys. Thank goodness.

nod

Mejor sola que en mala compañia

(better off alone than in bad company)

nod

No need to translate... I speak Spanglish also.

nod

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Reply #66 posted 08/09/12 9:58pm

Beautifulstarr
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Analyst said:

In general I think people do that type of thing when they don't have the balls to break it off and they want you to be the one to do it, so they go out of their way to try and wrong you in some way that makes you throw them back; or they're just intentionally trying to hurt you for whatever reason.

Exactly nod

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Reply #67 posted 08/09/12 10:01pm

Analyst

PurpleJedi said:

Analyst said:

I think with that Angelina/Brad thing, we have to remember that we don't know these folks and there was probably a lot of stuff going on that we weren't privy to. I highly doubt that he and Aniston were actually still living together as a couple when Brad and Angelina hooked up and started taking those pics, so I don't think that really applies to this subject.

But to answer the question...I've had guys I was mixed up with, go off and boink other chicks, then kinda introduce them to me like, "I love my girlfriend so-and-so, and you should too."

I was sitting there like, "You cannot be serious." neutral

In general I think people do that type of thing when they don't have the balls to break it off and they want you to be the one to do it, so they go out of their way to try and wrong you in some way that makes you throw them back; or they're just intentionally trying to hurt you for whatever reason.

hmmm I dunno.

What I recall from back then was them being a typical (Hollywood) couple and the fact that he wanted children while she didn't was all over the tabloids.

And regardless, they were still married.

The affair certainly took J.A. by surprise - and judging by the comment noted, she didn't appreciate the flaunting.

Even if they were still legally married at the time, tons of couples break up and then start dating others before they actually go ahead and file for the divorce. So no, I don't think the fact that they were still technically married necessarily means they were still involved with each other at the time.

And as far as Aniston's comments, it could just mean that she didn't like that he went public with it before they'd tied up all the loose ends first and officially ended the relationship legally and announced it publically. Maybe she just wasn't ready for that to be 'out there' yet.

I think people tend to assume too much and think they know everything about what's going on with these people just because we see their movies and their faces on magazine covers all the time. We weren't there in their homes with them so we can't say for sure that it was CHEATING and all the stuff in the OP.

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Reply #68 posted 08/09/12 10:25pm

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paintedlady said:

PurpleJedi said:

nod

Mejor sola que en mala compañia

(better off alone than in bad company)

nod

No need to translate... I speak Spanglish also.

nod

lol

I was thinking of our non-Spanglish compadres

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Reply #69 posted 08/09/12 10:29pm

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Analyst said:

PurpleJedi said:

hmmm I dunno.

What I recall from back then was them being a typical (Hollywood) couple and the fact that he wanted children while she didn't was all over the tabloids.

And regardless, they were still married.

The affair certainly took J.A. by surprise - and judging by the comment noted, she didn't appreciate the flaunting.

Even if they were still legally married at the time, tons of couples break up and then start dating others before they actually go ahead and file for the divorce. So no, I don't think the fact that they were still technically married necessarily means they were still involved with each other at the time.

And as far as Aniston's comments, it could just mean that she didn't like that he went public with it before they'd tied up all the loose ends first and officially ended the relationship legally and announced it publically. Maybe she just wasn't ready for that to be 'out there' yet.

I think people tend to assume too much and think they know everything about what's going on with these people just because we see their movies and their faces on magazine covers all the time. We weren't there in their homes with them so we can't say for sure that it was CHEATING and all the stuff in the OP.

...you sure don't need to tell ME about that first comment...

fart

Regardless...since we DON'T know for sure one way or another, I'm taking the jilted wife's side.

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Reply #70 posted 08/09/12 10:42pm

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PurpleJedi said:

Analyst said:

Even if they were still legally married at the time, tons of couples break up and then start dating others before they actually go ahead and file for the divorce. So no, I don't think the fact that they were still technically married necessarily means they were still involved with each other at the time.

And as far as Aniston's comments, it could just mean that she didn't like that he went public with it before they'd tied up all the loose ends first and officially ended the relationship legally and announced it publically. Maybe she just wasn't ready for that to be 'out there' yet.

I think people tend to assume too much and think they know everything about what's going on with these people just because we see their movies and their faces on magazine covers all the time. We weren't there in their homes with them so we can't say for sure that it was CHEATING and all the stuff in the OP.

...you sure don't need to tell ME about that first comment...

lol fart

Regardless...since we DON'T know for sure one way or another, I'm taking the jilted wife's side.

Oprah agrees with you wink lol

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Reply #71 posted 08/09/12 11:16pm

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Nah, the limited fellas of the past were mostly discreet. But I dumped them shortly there after. nod

I thought it was low of Brad to do that to Jennifer. But now I'm getting sick of hearing about him and Angie as if they're Liz and Dick. lol

The problem with our society is that we condone these kind of relationships under the guise of "unrequited love" or "mismatched couples". I hate to say it, but we don't condone fidelity. I mean if you have an open relationship, or a "fuck buddy" situation, that's your business. But if you're a couple and you're committed, there's really no room for infidelity.

For gosh's sakes, I remember when they making a fucking movie about Prince Charles and Camilla...and how their relationship was one of those "unrequited love stories" and his marriage with Diana was a complete sham. Jesus....Diana loved Charles with everything she had. And Camilla was a married woman at the time the whole affair was happening. And speaking of flaunting...the bitch was even present at his and Diana's wedding.

Now that's just dispicable.

The salvation of man is through love and in love. - Dr. V. Frankl

"When you close your heart, you close your mind." - Michael Jackson (Man In The Mirror)

"I don't need anger management, I need people to stop pissing me off" lol
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Reply #72 posted 08/10/12 5:19am

Analyst

PurpleJedi said:

Analyst said:

Even if they were still legally married at the time, tons of couples break up and then start dating others before they actually go ahead and file for the divorce. So no, I don't think the fact that they were still technically married necessarily means they were still involved with each other at the time.

And as far as Aniston's comments, it could just mean that she didn't like that he went public with it before they'd tied up all the loose ends first and officially ended the relationship legally and announced it publically. Maybe she just wasn't ready for that to be 'out there' yet.

I think people tend to assume too much and think they know everything about what's going on with these people just because we see their movies and their faces on magazine covers all the time. We weren't there in their homes with them so we can't say for sure that it was CHEATING and all the stuff in the OP.

...you sure don't need to tell ME about that first comment...

fart

Regardless...since we DON'T know for sure one way or another, I'm taking the jilted wife's side.

I'mma let you read that again one more time and realize for yourself why it makes no sense whatsoever... lol

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Reply #73 posted 08/10/12 10:19am

SupaFunkyOrgan
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paintedlady said:

OK... so I will add my experience.

I dated a guy when I was young, he was young too... I taught him how to have a bit of chivalry.

He would embarrass me when we went out, was always broke and refused to tip the server and would get angry when I pulled out my cash to tip the server.

I would often pay for our dinners. I would force him out to decent placed to dine.

I held on to him for too long because I got pregnant by him and tried to salvage a normal relationship with this cheapskate.

I ended up breaking things off with him, he made it a point to let me know he his new girlfriend was a white woman. As if I were color struck. lol

He would then ask me for advice on how to impress her and which restaurants were the most romantic and which hotels were the best to stay in.

Meanwhile he complained on having to help me buy necessities for our son.

disbelief

Oh and I had an ex tell me that a woman who was old enough to be my mother (and he was cheating on me with, also dumped me for) was and I quote....

"better than me in everyway"

lol

Yeah, I'll never let that thoughtless ex forget saying that to me. I throw that back up in his face when ever the opportunity arises.

mr.green

I sure know how to pick em don't I? confused

Anyone trying that hard to put it in your face aint having that great a time cuz it would be obvious if they were lol

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Reply #74 posted 08/10/12 11:00am

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

paintedlady said:

OK... so I will add my experience.

I dated a guy when I was young, he was young too... I taught him how to have a bit of chivalry.

He would embarrass me when we went out, was always broke and refused to tip the server and would get angry when I pulled out my cash to tip the server.

I would often pay for our dinners. I would force him out to decent placed to dine.

I held on to him for too long because I got pregnant by him and tried to salvage a normal relationship with this cheapskate.

I ended up breaking things off with him, he made it a point to let me know he his new girlfriend was a white woman. As if I were color struck. lol

He would then ask me for advice on how to impress her and which restaurants were the most romantic and which hotels were the best to stay in.

Meanwhile he complained on having to help me buy necessities for our son.

disbelief

Oh and I had an ex tell me that a woman who was old enough to be my mother (and he was cheating on me with, also dumped me for) was and I quote....

"better than me in everyway"

lol

Yeah, I'll never let that thoughtless ex forget saying that to me. I throw that back up in his face when ever the opportunity arises.

mr.green

I sure know how to pick em don't I? confused

Anyone trying that hard to put it in your face aint having that great a time cuz it would be obvious if they were lol

nod You ain't neva lied!

and both men kept darkening my doorstep trying to get some more lovin'...even years later.

thank goodness I am over both of those guys and moved on to someone worth my efforts.

I hope they are happy making other women miserable.

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Reply #75 posted 08/10/12 2:12pm

Timmy84

Analyst said:

I think with that Angelina/Brad thing, we have to remember that we don't know these folks and there was probably a lot of stuff going on that we weren't privy to. I highly doubt that he and Aniston were actually still living together as a couple when Brad and Angelina hooked up and started taking those pics, so I don't think that really applies to this subject.

We may not know what goes on when their doors are locked, but to the PUBLIC (meaning you and me), they were ignorant. He was fucking with that girl on "Friends" mane... and not just any girl on "Friends", THE girl mane lol

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Reply #76 posted 08/10/12 2:13pm

Timmy84

Beautifulstarr123 said:

PurpleJedi said:

...you sure don't need to tell ME about that first comment...

lol fart

Regardless...since we DON'T know for sure one way or another, I'm taking the jilted wife's side.

Oprah agrees with you wink lol

Harpo wouldn't know about jilted lovers anyway. She only fucks herself. neutral

hijacked lol

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Reply #77 posted 08/12/12 3:35pm

Beautifulstarr
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Timmy84 said:

Beautifulstarr123 said:

Oprah agrees with you wink lol

Harpo wouldn't know about jilted lovers anyway. She only fucks herself. neutral

hijacked lol

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lol

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Reply #78 posted 08/12/12 4:41pm

Shyra

Oh yeah, big time. I used to date a man who lived 3 doors away from my house. Yeah, that was not a smart relationship to start from jump, but we were instantly attracted to each other. Anyway, we dated from May to December, (doesn't that sound prophetic?) and then the shit hit the fan. He met another woman he found more intriguing and started a relationship with her. Since we lived so close, I could see him bringing her to his house or when she would drive to his house and park her car, I would see it there all nigh into the next morning and knew what was going on. It ripped my heart out that this man could be so insensitive. I finally got over it and he started creeping back to me. By then it wasn't the same, and I kicked his ass to the curb. He finally moved about 3 years later, but by then, I barely remember the nuccahs's name. lol When I fall, I fall hard, but when I get back up, I'M DONE. hmph! You are null and void in my book.

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Reply #79 posted 08/12/12 5:33pm

Beautifulstarr
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Timmy84 said:

Beautifulstarr123 said:

Oprah agrees with you wink lol

Harpo wouldn't know about jilted lovers anyway. She only fucks herself. neutral

hijacked lol

But she went on Oprah's show twice, crying her eyes out over Brad. Up till this day, I don't think she's gotten over him.

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Reply #80 posted 08/12/12 6:40pm

Timmy84

Beautifulstarr123 said:

Timmy84 said:

Harpo wouldn't know about jilted lovers anyway. She only fucks herself. neutral

hijacked lol

But she went on Oprah's show twice, crying her eyes out over Brad. Up till this day, I don't think she's gotten over him.

LOL her first mistake was to go on Harpo's show. That wasn't gonna help her situation anyways.

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Reply #81 posted 08/12/12 6:40pm

Timmy84

Beautifulstarr123 said:

Timmy84 said:

Harpo wouldn't know about jilted lovers anyway. She only fucks herself. neutral

hijacked lol

image

lol

It's true. Or she and Gayle are bed partners. lol

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Reply #82 posted 08/12/12 7:03pm

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Timmy84 said:

Beautifulstarr123 said:

But she went on Oprah's show twice, crying her eyes out over Brad. Up till this day, I don't think she's gotten over him.

LOL her first mistake was to go on Harpo's show. That wasn't gonna help her situation anyways.

Not at all because Brangelina has been together for what, seven years now? I believe that the same way you get a person is the same way you lose them.

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Reply #83 posted 08/12/12 7:05pm

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Beautifulstarr123 said:

image

lol

It's true. Or she and Gayle are bed partners. lol

That rumor about those two has been out for years lol

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Reply #84 posted 08/12/12 7:06pm

Timmy84

Beautifulstarr123 said:

Timmy84 said:

LOL her first mistake was to go on Harpo's show. That wasn't gonna help her situation anyways.

Not at all because Brangelina has been together for what, seven years now? I believe that the same way you get a person is the same way you lose them.

Hmm... just like the rumor that either Brad or Angelina have someone "on the side"...

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Reply #85 posted 08/12/12 7:21pm

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Timmy84 said:

Beautifulstarr123 said:

Not at all because Brangelina has been together for what, seven years now? I believe that the same way you get a person is the same way you lose them.

Hmm... just like the rumor that either Brad or Angelina have someone "on the side"...

I read the Walmart tabloids, too wink lol

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Reply #86 posted 08/12/12 8:22pm

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I don't know anything about those people and I don't care. lol

Flaunt affair.... at that point who gives a flyin' fig how the people in question conduct themselves. I don't think you get style points because you were more discreet. lol Even so its been my experience the only person who's the last to know is the persons who's being cheated on.

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Reply #87 posted 08/12/12 9:56pm

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ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

Nah, the limited fellas of the past were mostly discreet. But I dumped them shortly there after. nod

I thought it was low of Brad to do that to Jennifer. But now I'm getting sick of hearing about him and Angie as if they're Liz and Dick. lol

The problem with our society is that we condone these kind of relationships under the guise of "unrequited love" or "mismatched couples". I hate to say it, but we don't condone fidelity. I mean if you have an open relationship, or a "fuck buddy" situation, that's your business. But if you're a couple and you're committed, there's really no room for infidelity.

For gosh's sakes, I remember when they making a fucking movie about Prince Charles and Camilla...and how their relationship was one of those "unrequited love stories" and his marriage with Diana was a complete sham. Jesus....Diana loved Charles with everything she had. And Camilla was a married woman at the time the whole affair was happening. And speaking of flaunting...the bitch was even present at his and Diana's wedding.

Now that's just dispicable.

hug

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Reply #88 posted 08/12/12 10:02pm

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I don't know anything about those people and I don't care. lol

Flaunt affair.... at that point who gives a flyin' fig how the people in question conduct themselves. I don't think you get style points because you were more discreet. lol Even so its been my experience the only person who's the last to know is the persons who's being cheated on.

wink

It's not about "style points"...it's about how FUCKED UP it is to have that shit rubbed in your face.

Makes you wanna burn things.

lurking

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Reply #89 posted 08/12/12 10:11pm

Timmy84

TD3 said:

I don't know anything about those people and I don't care. lol

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