xpertluva said:

vainandy said:

Sounds exactly like me. I've been a fool in the past but never again. For years I've been basically all about getting the dick and telling them to their face to not spoil it by talking. If someone comes along to change my attitude, that's fine, but I'm not exactly out looking for them.

If she's gotten through to you and means that much to you, try to talk to her. Just don't be no fool. If she rejects you, oh well... Hell, you're gorgeous as hell and won't have no problem whatsoever finding someone else.

Thanks Andy. I don't think I've ever been quite as cold-hearted as you, but I was definitely emotionally distant. I didn't even have to try; I just didn't really care. It's weird how this one got to me out of nowhere. I never thought I'd be on here whining about some girl and trying to write a letter (because she blocked my # right after she split and I think email is too impersonal) to persuade her to at least open the door to discussion.

I'm not too worried about finding someone else. It's just so hard to find someone who's worth all the sacrafice and work that goes into a healthy relationship. I've never been one to settle.

Just don't go on a rebound. Not fair to her and to you.