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Thread started 03/13/12 4:53pm

ThrillUorKillU

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Asking for things Back after a Break-up?

Is it fucked up for me to ask for my stuff and everthing i bought for her back? Im contemplating. but dont know what to do. My shirts, teddy bears, braclets ect. (This is my 1st thread btw confused )

"Don't make me chase u, even doves have pride.."
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Reply #1 posted 03/13/12 5:00pm

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Gifts to her are hers to keep... let her keep that stuff. Write that stuff off.

Now engagement rings, cars, furniture, stuff like that is shared between you two... well, you can still say you NEED them since you both used them.

Now from now on, only gift a woman who deserves gifts... if you give her trinkets then make sure bifts are affordable for you and that you will not want them back.

Besides, you don't need those reminders hanging around anyways.

hug

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Reply #2 posted 03/13/12 5:04pm

alphastreet

Let her keep them. If it's something like concert tickets or something to share, negotiate something ASAP

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Reply #3 posted 03/13/12 5:05pm

AsherFierce

Nuh-uh, can't take back gifts and shit. bored2 Unwritten Rule. razz

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Reply #4 posted 03/13/12 5:06pm

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If you ain't talkin bout diamonds, cars, or the lease on your home then what the hell do you want any of it back for?

Fuck outta here with that! Teddy bears?

[img:$uid]http://i42.tinypic.com/350to49.gif[/img:$uid]

Oh, and welcome to the Org.

Edit: Nevermind, you ain't new! Five years and this is your first thread!? Dayumn.

[Edited 3/13/12 17:09pm]

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Reply #5 posted 03/13/12 5:17pm

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Naw man, let her keep that stuff. It's just material stuff. Shucks sometimes I wish I could get those many Guess watches, colognes, dress shirts, polo shirts, slacks, jackets and sunglasses back from those assholes I was in relationships with, but at the end of the day, it's pointless. I wouldn't dare give back any gifts that I received, despite the fact that I don't even use or wear half that stuff. It's mine. Goodbye and good riddens. So yeah just forget about it and move on to the next one! thumbs up!

I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince.
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Reply #6 posted 03/13/12 5:24pm

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paintedlady said:

Now engagement rings...

When I broke it off, I took that sucker off and put it back in the box, and handed it to him.

He gave it back to me and told me it was mine. We went back and forth about it, and he begged me to keep it.**

A week later, we got back together for about a week. We broke up over the phone this time (he pulled that, "You can't dump me, I dump you" BS. rolleyes).

I kept that thing in a locked drawer for 7 years... waiting for a letter from that vindictive bastard's lawyer. Last summer, I sold it and put it toward a down payment on my Camaro....

**He proposed on Christmas; it was a gift. I got a diamond, he got a sweater. [img:$uid]http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a51/DeniCamuiTsukino/Smileys/29_2_22.gif[/img:$uid]

evillol

But seriously...

Don't worry about those things. The next girl won't want "hand-me-downs", and like painted said: you shouldn't have that stuff hanging around as reminders.

[Edited 3/13/12 17:53pm]


"Love Hurts.
Your lies, they cut me.
Now your words don't mean a thing.
I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..."

-Cher, "Woman's World"
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Reply #7 posted 03/13/12 5:30pm

KingBAD

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"DON'T TOUCH THAT COAT!!!"

i am KING BAD!!!
you are NOT...
evilking
STOP ME IF YOU HEARD THIS BEFORE...
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Reply #8 posted 03/13/12 5:37pm

ThrillUorKillU

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Thanks guys..But you should know that she was the one who said she was guna come by and pick up her stuff first..So i was like fuck it, gimme my shit back too. And I mean I have her blanket, a few thongs, handcuffs and girly lotion. and thats it. Maybe she just wants to see me again, idk. She has a few a my t- shirts, and shorts aside from the gifts.

And i dont want the gifts back for myself or for another girl. I was guna get rid of them. Call me fucked up but I just dont want HER to HAVE them. But the gifts are hers, yall right.

[Edited 3/13/12 18:07pm]

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Reply #9 posted 03/13/12 5:38pm

ThrillUorKillU

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Spinlight said:

If you ain't talkin bout diamonds, cars, or the lease on your home then what the hell do you want any of it back for?

Fuck outta here with that! Teddy bears?

[img:$uid]http://i42.tinypic.com/350to49.gif[/img:$uid]

Oh, and welcome to the Org.

Edit: Nevermind, you ain't new! Five years and this is your first thread!? Dayumn.

[Edited 3/13/12 17:09pm]

Hell yeah, I wanted that shit back..And yeah Ive been here for like 5 years and this is my first thread lol

"Don't make me chase u, even doves have pride.."
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Reply #10 posted 03/13/12 5:40pm

JustErin

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I know that feeling of wanting it all back but it's best to just forget about it all.
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Reply #11 posted 03/13/12 5:44pm

KingBAD

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JustErin said:

I know that feeling of wanting it all back but it's best to just forget about it all.

come give me that bj back

or take it back, i don't particularly

want the steak

i am KING BAD!!!
you are NOT...
evilking
STOP ME IF YOU HEARD THIS BEFORE...
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Reply #12 posted 03/13/12 5:46pm

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Fold her shit up neatly, put it in a box, put her name on the side of the box, piss in the box and leave that box of her shit outside on the side walk.

hug

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Reply #13 posted 03/13/12 5:47pm

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paintedlady said:

Fold her shit up neatly, put it in a box, put her name on the side of the box, piss in the box and leave that box of her shit outside on the side walk.

hug

So sentimental...

touched


"Love Hurts.
Your lies, they cut me.
Now your words don't mean a thing.
I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..."

-Cher, "Woman's World"
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Reply #14 posted 03/13/12 5:51pm

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chocolate1 said:

paintedlady said:

Fold her shit up neatly, put it in a box, put her name on the side of the box, piss in the box and leave that box of her shit outside on the side walk.

hug

So sentimental...

touched

I was gonna say pour bleach.... but his own piss would lend that personal touch that really says...

"fuck you". mushy He should eat asparagus tonight.

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Reply #15 posted 03/13/12 5:53pm

Spinlight

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ThrillUorKillU said:

Thanks guys..But you should know that she was the one who said she was guna come by and pick up her stuff first..So i was like fuck it, gimme my shit back too. And I mean I have her blanket, a few thongs, handcuffs and girly lotion. and thats it. Maybe see just wants to see me again, idk. She has a few a my t- shirts, and shorts aside from the gifts.

And i dont want the gifts back for myself or for another girl. I was guna get rid of them. Called me fucked up but I just dont want HER to HAVE them. But the gifts are hers, yall right.

lol Cold!

I get what you mean, though. But yeah, I'm with painted. Put her garbage where it belongs - on the curb. And mentally write off the stuff you gave her.

A clean break (well, after you soil her junk) is best.

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Reply #16 posted 03/13/12 5:53pm

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paintedlady said:

Fold her shit up neatly, put it in a box, put her name on the side of the box, piss in the box and leave that box of her shit outside on the side walk.

hug

Don't forget to pour the lighter fluid and flick the cigarette...

I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince.
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Reply #17 posted 03/13/12 5:56pm

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missfee said:

paintedlady said:

Fold her shit up neatly, put it in a box, put her name on the side of the box, piss in the box and leave that box of her shit outside on the side walk.

hug

Don't forget to pour the lighter fluid and flick the cigarette...

highfive Take yo shit!! I mean if a bitch wants her lotion and blanket back that badly...

demon

[Edited 3/13/12 17:58pm]

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Reply #18 posted 03/13/12 6:01pm

paintedlady

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timeout

Don't start any fires... the police may arrest you or give you a citation for that mess. Neighbors won't make a big stink about a pissy box, and you'll get a great laugh.

hug

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Reply #19 posted 03/13/12 6:08pm

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paintedlady said:

Fold her shit up neatly, put it in a box, put her name on the side of the box, piss in the box and leave that box of her shit outside on the side walk.

hug

Oh that would be some messed up shit. But not a bad idea lol

"Don't make me chase u, even doves have pride.."
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Reply #20 posted 03/13/12 6:12pm

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ThrillUorKillU said:

paintedlady said:

Fold her shit up neatly, put it in a box, put her name on the side of the box, piss in the box and leave that box of her shit outside on the side walk.

hug

Oh that would be some messed up shit. But not a bad idea lol

Breaking up can be a memorable experience

... just gotta know how to make lemonaide out of those lemons. wink

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Reply #21 posted 03/13/12 6:14pm

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Spinlight said:

ThrillUorKillU said:

Thanks guys..But you should know that she was the one who said she was guna come by and pick up her stuff first..So i was like fuck it, gimme my shit back too. And I mean I have her blanket, a few thongs, handcuffs and girly lotion. and thats it. Maybe see just wants to see me again, idk. She has a few a my t- shirts, and shorts aside from the gifts.

And i dont want the gifts back for myself or for another girl. I was guna get rid of them. Called me fucked up but I just dont want HER to HAVE them. But the gifts are hers, yall right.

lol Cold!

I get what you mean, though. But yeah, I'm with painted. Put her garbage where it belongs - on the curb. And mentally write off the stuff you gave her.

A clean break (well, after you soil her junk) is best.

Trust me I want to. Bust one off on it too (opps) lol

"Don't make me chase u, even doves have pride.."
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Reply #22 posted 03/13/12 6:17pm

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paintedlady said:

ThrillUorKillU said:

Oh that would be some messed up shit. But not a bad idea lol

Breaking up can be a memorable experience

... just gotta know how to make lemonaide out of those lemons. wink

Yeah I know, memorable and hard. 3 years down the fuckin drain. But thanks, you made me laugh with your posts smile .

"Don't make me chase u, even doves have pride.."
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Reply #23 posted 03/13/12 6:20pm

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ThrillUorKillU said:

Spinlight said:

lol Cold!

I get what you mean, though. But yeah, I'm with painted. Put her garbage where it belongs - on the curb. And mentally write off the stuff you gave her.

A clean break (well, after you soil her junk) is best.

Trust me I want to. Bust one off on it too (opps) lol

Own a dog? Dog shit is really the BEST way to go in a situation like that... especially a big dog that poops a nice soft pie.

lil' post-it saying "here's your shit" on the box. Your semen may send a mixed signal, unless its in a few used condoms you used with someone else. lol

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Reply #24 posted 03/13/12 6:34pm

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paintedlady said:

ThrillUorKillU said:

Trust me I want to. Bust one off on it too (opps) lol

Own a dog? Dog shit is really the BEST way to go in a situation like that... especially a big dog that poops a nice soft pie.

lil' post-it saying "here's your shit" on the box. Your semen may send a mixed signal, unless its in a few used condoms you used with someone else. lol

Yeah, I gotta dog, but its a little ass mut though. lol And you're so creative with these posts, do you have experience in this kinda work? lol

"Don't make me chase u, even doves have pride.."
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Reply #25 posted 03/13/12 6:46pm

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ThrillUorKillU said:

paintedlady said:

Own a dog? Dog shit is really the BEST way to go in a situation like that... especially a big dog that poops a nice soft pie.

lil' post-it saying "here's your shit" on the box. Your semen may send a mixed signal, unless its in a few used condoms you used with someone else. lol

Yeah, I gotta dog, but its a little ass mut though. lol And you're so creative with these posts, do you have experience in this kinda work? lol

Um... sorta. I tend to do funny shit like getting back at people for fun.

Like putting poison ivy in my window box to stop heffa from picking my flowers, purposefully stepping into digshit then stepping into someone's car, clear dishwashing liquid on the steps on a rainy day for nusiance neighbors, wiping babyshit on the doorknobs, catching a large spider and putting it in his sandwich, making up his entire face while he slept and allowed him to leave my home like that-he got pulled over by the cops cause of that... funny stuff like that.

That's the stuff I remember... I also put an exploding cigarette in my mom's cigs and her lip blew up bad.... yeah, I do lots of shit like that, what's worse is I have a BFF that's just as evil and we had so much fun growing up.

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Reply #26 posted 03/13/12 6:51pm

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Oh... and I hope your eating asparagus or broccoli ... it makes your pee stinkier.

biggrin

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Reply #27 posted 03/13/12 7:33pm

HuMpThAnG

ThrillUorKillU said:

Thanks guys..But you should know that she was the one who said she was guna come by and pick up her stuff first..So i was like fuck it, gimme my shit back too. And I mean I have her blanket, a few thongs, handcuffs and girly lotion. and thats it. Maybe she just wants to see me again, idk. She has a few a my t- shirts, and shorts aside from the gifts.

And i dont want the gifts back for myself or for another girl. I was guna get rid of them. Call me fucked up but I just dont want HER to HAVE them. But the gifts are hers, yall right.

[Edited 3/13/12 18:07pm]

spit!!!

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Reply #28 posted 03/13/12 7:44pm

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HuMpThAnG said:

ThrillUorKillU said:

Thanks guys..But you should know that she was the one who said she was guna come by and pick up her stuff first..So i was like fuck it, gimme my shit back too. And I mean I have her blanket, a few thongs, handcuffs and girly lotion. and thats it. Maybe she just wants to see me again, idk. She has a few a my t- shirts, and shorts aside from the gifts.

And i dont want the gifts back for myself or for another girl. I was guna get rid of them. Call me fucked up but I just dont want HER to HAVE them. But the gifts are hers, yall right.

[Edited 3/13/12 18:07pm]

spit!!!

What's so funny about that stuff?

"Girly lotion" is that sweet scented (usually fruity or soft smelling) cocoa butter lotion or something like that... can't be sexy if you all ashy ya know!

hmmm He should open the bottle and put his jizz in that, come to think of it.

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Reply #29 posted 03/13/12 7:58pm

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lol

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