Aunt Ottie, if Uncle Teddy were around-God Almighty. I shudder to think. Lord. Maybe I should do a seance.

Uhm...any chance that she may have been just saying it in jest?

I mean, if she SERIOUSLY suggested that the baby was too light to be her son's, then there are underlying issues of mistrust that cannot be ignored.

Otherwise, is there any chance she was just making a colorful remark???

scriptgirl said:

Aunt Ottie, if Uncle Teddy were around-God Almighty. I shudder to think. Lord. Maybe I should do a seance.

Mom is special...........

missfee said:

scriptgirl said:

My cousin's hubby is not talking to his mom and hasn't ever since she made that dumb ass suggestion

Oh okay, but this isn't exactly helping the issue either. She will forever be his mother, so its going to come to a point where he's going to have to address the issue with her and lay down the law.

!!!

I am sure the MIL thinks she is protecting her son, but she needs to allow him to make his own decisions based on how she raised him and respect his choices he makes as an adult. Momma its time to let go.

Heck, they are married now so MIL needs to respect that fact too.

paintedlady said:

missfee said:

Oh okay, but this isn't exactly helping the issue either. She will forever be his mother, so its going to come to a point where he's going to have to address the issue with her and lay down the law.

!!!

I am sure the MIL thinks she is protecting her son, but she needs to allow him to make his own decisions based on how she raised him and respect his choices he makes as an adult. Momma its time to let go.

Heck, they are married now so MIL needs to respect that fact too.

Of course...the minute your son stops talking to you because his girlfriend or wife can't stand you, someone's getting CUT.

PurpleJedi said:

paintedlady said:

!!!

I am sure the MIL thinks she is protecting her son, but she needs to allow him to make his own decisions based on how she raised him and respect his choices he makes as an adult. Momma its time to let go.

Heck, they are married now so MIL needs to respect that fact too.

Of course...the minute your son stops talking to you because his girlfriend or wife can't stand you, someone's getting CUT.

Been there done that!

I told my son not to date a certain Vietnamese girl who wouldn't introduce him to her parents. He didn't listen, turns out she had a white boyfriend she would sport in front of her parents while having my son buy her Ipod/cellphone/laptops/dinners/ etc.

I nick-named her "Sum Yung Ho" and my son hated that until he found out he was being played for a sucka and now calls her that too.

He is now dating a much prettier girl now that isn't a ho.

paintedlady said:

PurpleJedi said:

Of course...the minute your son stops talking to you because his girlfriend or wife can't stand you, someone's getting CUT.

Been there done that!

I told my son not to date a certain Vietnamese girl who wouldn't introduce him to her parents. He didn't listen, turns out she had a white boyfriend she would sport in front of her parents while having my son buy her Ipod/cellphone/laptops/dinners/ etc.

I nick-named her "Sum Yung Ho" and my son hated that until he found out he was being played for a sucka and now calls her that too.

He is now dating a much prettier girl now that isn't a ho.

paintedlady said:

PurpleJedi said:

Of course...the minute your son stops talking to you because his girlfriend or wife can't stand you, someone's getting CUT.

Been there done that!

I told my son not to date a certain Vietnamese girl who wouldn't introduce him to her parents. He didn't listen, turns out she had a white boyfriend she would sport in front of her parents while having my son buy her Ipod/cellphone/laptops/dinners/ etc.

I nick-named her "Sum Yung Ho" and my son hated that until he found out he was being played for a sucka and now calls her that too.

He is now dating a much prettier girl now that isn't a ho.

paintedlady said:

PurpleJedi said:

Of course...the minute your son stops talking to you because his girlfriend or wife can't stand you, someone's getting CUT.

Been there done that!

I told my son not to date a certain Vietnamese girl who wouldn't introduce him to her parents. He didn't listen, turns out she had a white boyfriend she would sport in front of her parents while having my son buy her Ipod/cellphone/laptops/dinners/ etc.

I nick-named her "Sum Yung Ho" and my son hated that until he found out he was being played for a sucka and now calls her that too.

He is now dating a much prettier girl now that isn't a ho.

*dead*

paintedlady said:

PurpleJedi said:

Of course...the minute your son stops talking to you because his girlfriend or wife can't stand you, someone's getting CUT.

Been there done that!

I told my son not to date a certain Vietnamese girl who wouldn't introduce him to her parents. He didn't listen, turns out she had a white boyfriend she would sport in front of her parents while having my son buy her Ipod/cellphone/laptops/dinners/ etc.

I nick-named her "Sum Yung Ho" and my son hated that until he found out he was being played for a sucka and now calls her that too.

He is now dating a much prettier girl now that isn't a ho.

paintedlady said:

PurpleJedi said:

Of course...the minute your son stops talking to you because his girlfriend or wife can't stand you, someone's getting CUT.

Been there done that!

I told my son not to date a certain Vietnamese girl who wouldn't introduce him to her parents. He didn't listen, turns out she had a white boyfriend she would sport in front of her parents while having my son buy her Ipod/cellphone/laptops/dinners/ etc.

I nick-named her "Sum Yung Ho" and my son hated that until he found out he was being played for a sucka and now calls her that too.

He is now dating a much prettier girl now that isn't a ho.

Dude better learn how 2 keep his loot in his own pocket.

Graycap23 said:

paintedlady said:

Been there done that!

I told my son not to date a certain Vietnamese girl who wouldn't introduce him to her parents. He didn't listen, turns out she had a white boyfriend she would sport in front of her parents while having my son buy her Ipod/cellphone/laptops/dinners/ etc.

I nick-named her "Sum Yung Ho" and my son hated that until he found out he was being played for a sucka and now calls her that too.

He is now dating a much prettier girl now that isn't a ho.

Dude better learn how 2 keep his loot in his own pocket.

Oh HELL yeah.

scriptgirl said:

I posted this in the Shuggie Otis thread, but here it is. My cousin just had a baby girl-the problem is two fold-one, my cousin almost died giving birth and two, her mother in law wants a paternity test-reason being, the baby was born "too light."

My cousin is like most of my family-very fair-she has green eyes and sandy blonde hair-her husband is brown skinned, as is most of his family. The mother in law says there is no way the baby should be that light and she is saying the baby isn't his. Drama.

The hell? The baby looks like the momma and that's a problem? Besides, many babies come out light only to change color after a few months. Crazy.

If she has any say in the matter, I would MOVE away from that woman. When she gets her way by forcing this DNA test, she will come up with more strategies to control their lives. Get away from her.

Graycap23 said:

Dude better learn how 2 keep his loot in his own pocket.

I think he learned a bit... (I hope he did ) he hid stuff from me with SYH. Now he seems to be more open and honest.

Never even thought that lesson needed to be taught! Gifting is nice, but on that level?? Sum Yung Ho had a good hustle!

Now this MIL betta be thankful a woman would risk her life to give birth to her grandchild! I don't think she sees it that way though.

HotGritz said:

scriptgirl said:

I posted this in the Shuggie Otis thread, but here it is. My cousin just had a baby girl-the problem is two fold-one, my cousin almost died giving birth and two, her mother in law wants a paternity test-reason being, the baby was born "too light."

My cousin is like most of my family-very fair-she has green eyes and sandy blonde hair-her husband is brown skinned, as is most of his family. The mother in law says there is no way the baby should be that light and she is saying the baby isn't his. Drama.

The hell? The baby looks like the momma and that's a problem? Besides, many babies come out light only to change color after a few months. Crazy.

Oh yes! My BF gave birth to a porcelain skinned baby boy and he toasted up nicely over a years time. Now he is so brown that even he didn't believe that was him in his own baby pictures. You just never know especially with children with a history of mixed parentage through the generations.

paintedlady said:

HotGritz said:

The hell? The baby looks like the momma and that's a problem? Besides, many babies come out light only to change color after a few months. Crazy.

Oh yes! My BF gave birth to a porcelain skinned baby boy and he toasted up nicely over a years time. Now he is so brown that even he didn't believe that was him in his own baby pictures. You just never know especially with children with a history of mixed parentage through the generations.

Yes! Shit, that's all the kids in my family. Rainbow children.

HotGritz said:

scriptgirl said:

I posted this in the Shuggie Otis thread, but here it is. My cousin just had a baby girl-the problem is two fold-one, my cousin almost died giving birth and two, her mother in law wants a paternity test-reason being, the baby was born "too light."

My cousin is like most of my family-very fair-she has green eyes and sandy blonde hair-her husband is brown skinned, as is most of his family. The mother in law says there is no way the baby should be that light and she is saying the baby isn't his. Drama.

The hell? The baby looks like the momma and that's a problem? Besides, many babies come out light only to change color after a few months. Crazy.

That's true. I have interracial nephews and when the first one was born, he was so light that his daddy asked the black nurse if she was sure that was their baby because he looked 100% white. The nurse pulled back the sheet and looked at his balls and said...."Yep, that's your baby".

vainandy said:

HotGritz said:

The hell? The baby looks like the momma and that's a problem? Besides, many babies come out light only to change color after a few months. Crazy.

That's true. I have interracial nephews and when the first one was born, he was so light that his daddy asked the black nurse if she was sure that was their baby because he looked 100% white. The nurse pulled back the sheet and looked at his balls and said...."Yep, that's your baby".

Sho nuff! Dead giveaway.

vainandy said:

HotGritz said:

The hell? The baby looks like the momma and that's a problem? Besides, many babies come out light only to change color after a few months. Crazy.

That's true. I have interracial nephews and when the first one was born, he was so light that his daddy asked the black nurse if she was sure that was their baby because he looked 100% white. The nurse pulled back the sheet and looked at his balls and said...."Yep, that's your baby".

STOP IT!

We need a thread about different colored dicks and balls. Man that would be awesome.

I lost my virginity to a whitey white boy, he was so fine. Actually he looked like Michael Fassbender which I now realize is the reason I find the actor so attractive.

Anyway, as I became more experienced **cough** hoish, I realized that maybe he was not all that white. Ya see, his skin was the fairest shade of pink but his dick was rather beige. Oh well, he still tasted good....like pickled ginger.

One of my chocolate honies had a light skinned dick which just grossed me out. I was afraid it would glow in the dark or something.

I like it when the sofa and end tables match the wallpaper ya dig?

HotGritz said:

vainandy said:

That's true. I have interracial nephews and when the first one was born, he was so light that his daddy asked the black nurse if she was sure that was their baby because he looked 100% white. The nurse pulled back the sheet and looked at his balls and said...."Yep, that's your baby".

STOP IT!

We need a thread about different colored dicks and balls. Man that would be awesome.

I lost my virginity to a whitey white boy, he was so fine. Actually he looked like Michael Fassbender which I now realize is the reason I find the actor so attractive.

Anyway, as I became more experienced **cough** hoish, I realized that maybe he was not all that white. Ya see, his skin was the fairest shade of pink but his dick was rather beige. Oh well, he still tasted good....like pickled ginger.

One of my chocolate honies had a light skinned dick which just grossed me out. I was afraid it would glow in the dark or something.

I like it when the sofa and end tables match the wallpaper ya dig?

HotGritz said:

vainandy said:

That's true. I have interracial nephews and when the first one was born, he was so light that his daddy asked the black nurse if she was sure that was their baby because he looked 100% white. The nurse pulled back the sheet and looked at his balls and said...."Yep, that's your baby".

STOP IT!

We need a thread about different colored dicks and balls. Man that would be awesome.

I lost my virginity to a whitey white boy, he was so fine. Actually he looked like Michael Fassbender which I now realize is the reason I find the actor so attractive.

Anyway, as I became more experienced **cough** hoish, I realized that maybe he was not all that white. Ya see, his skin was the fairest shade of pink but his dick was rather beige. Oh well, he still tasted good....like pickled ginger.

One of my chocolate honies had a light skinned dick which just grossed me out. I was afraid it would glow in the dark or something.

I like it when the sofa and end tables match the wallpaper ya dig?

Yeah...I'm officially getting the hell out of this thread!!!!

HotGritz said:

vainandy said:

That's true. I have interracial nephews and when the first one was born, he was so light that his daddy asked the black nurse if she was sure that was their baby because he looked 100% white. The nurse pulled back the sheet and looked at his balls and said...."Yep, that's your baby".

STOP IT!

We need a thread about different colored dicks and balls. Man that would be awesome.

I lost my virginity to a whitey white boy, he was so fine. Actually he looked like Michael Fassbender which I now realize is the reason I find the actor so attractive.

Anyway, as I became more experienced **cough** hoish, I realized that maybe he was not all that white. Ya see, his skin was the fairest shade of pink but his dick was rather beige. Oh well, he still tasted good....like pickled ginger.

One of my chocolate honies had a light skinned dick which just grossed me out. I was afraid it would glow in the dark or something.

I like it when the sofa and end tables match the wallpaper ya dig?

Well I don't mind mixed match colors, just as long as the dick is smooth and curves. At least your mixed matched honies didn't have a mole sticking out the side of the dick. That shit is the worse and a major TURN OFF. Especially when the guy KNOWS that he got this damn mole there and wonders why you won't suck his damn dick. Umm really tho'? Get that shit frozen off and then we can talk.

missfee said:

HotGritz said:

STOP IT!

We need a thread about different colored dicks and balls. Man that would be awesome.

I lost my virginity to a whitey white boy, he was so fine. Actually he looked like Michael Fassbender which I now realize is the reason I find the actor so attractive.

Anyway, as I became more experienced **cough** hoish, I realized that maybe he was not all that white. Ya see, his skin was the fairest shade of pink but his dick was rather beige. Oh well, he still tasted good....like pickled ginger.

One of my chocolate honies had a light skinned dick which just grossed me out. I was afraid it would glow in the dark or something.

I like it when the sofa and end tables match the wallpaper ya dig?

Well I don't mind mixed match colors, just as long as the dick is smooth and curves. At least your mixed matched honies didn't have a mole sticking out the side of the dick. That shit is the worse and a major TURN OFF. Especially when the guy KNOWS that he got this damn mole there and wonders why you won't suck his damn dick. Umm really tho'? Get that shit frozen off and then we can talk.

oh hell naw!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

is it one of those big ass raised moles with the whisker peeking out?

HotGritz said:

missfee said:

Well I don't mind mixed match colors, just as long as the dick is smooth and curves. At least your mixed matched honies didn't have a mole sticking out the side of the dick. That shit is the worse and a major TURN OFF. Especially when the guy KNOWS that he got this damn mole there and wonders why you won't suck his damn dick. Umm really tho'? Get that shit frozen off and then we can talk.

oh hell naw!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

is it one of those big ass raised moles with the whisker peeking out?

Yeah it was Just like the ones you see some people have all around their necks.

HotGritz said:

missfee said:

Well I don't mind mixed match colors, just as long as the dick is smooth and curves. At least your mixed matched honies didn't have a mole sticking out the side of the dick. That shit is the worse and a major TURN OFF. Especially when the guy KNOWS that he got this damn mole there and wonders why you won't suck his damn dick. Umm really tho'? Get that shit frozen off and then we can talk.

oh hell naw!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

is it one of those big ass raised moles with the whisker peeking out?

Ribbed for your pleasure !

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

HotGritz said:

oh hell naw!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

is it one of those big ass raised moles with the whisker peeking out?

Ribbed for your pleasure !

HotGritz said:

scriptgirl said:

I posted this in the Shuggie Otis thread, but here it is. My cousin just had a baby girl-the problem is two fold-one, my cousin almost died giving birth and two, her mother in law wants a paternity test-reason being, the baby was born "too light."

My cousin is like most of my family-very fair-she has green eyes and sandy blonde hair-her husband is brown skinned, as is most of his family. The mother in law says there is no way the baby should be that light and she is saying the baby isn't his. Drama.

The hell? The baby looks like the momma and that's a problem? Besides, many babies come out light only to change color after a few months. Crazy.

Had I not witnessed my son come out of the va jay jay, I would have demanded that they bring me MY baby........that boy was whiter than the white women in there......I had heard of it, but didn't know it was possible. I think I saw a flash of doubt on my husbands face when that boy came out....

paintedlady said:

vainandy said:

That's true. I have interracial nephews and when the first one was born, he was so light that his daddy asked the black nurse if she was sure that was their baby because he looked 100% white. The nurse pulled back the sheet and looked at his balls and said...."Yep, that's your baby".

Sho nuff! Dead giveaway.

Seriously.....that is REAL.