formallypickles said:

straight man "bitch"= bitter hag

gay man/ female "bitch" = term of endearment ....or fighting word

someone I was with called me sexy bitch and it really bothered me and I had to tell him off

kewlschool said:

Listen up Bitches! Bitch isn't always a negative term, case in point:

Explain how this is NOT negative?

Virgo92 said:

kewlschool said:

Listen up Bitches! Bitch isn't always a negative term, case in point:

I like that!

Ignorance would.

Virgo92 said:

kewlschool said:

Listen up Bitches! Bitch isn't always a negative term, case in point:

I like that!

Then give your mother one for Mother's Day.

johnart said:

Damn u are jarvis aren't u?

I figured that out a long time ago.

Virgo92 said:

kewlschool said:

Listen up Bitches! Bitch isn't always a negative term, case in point:

I like that!

So, you think bad grammar okay? And also conveying that

faeces of female dog is good and that you compare you'r girlfriend with that?

Wow, and there are actually girls outthere that did not smack/ leave you for it?

I guess it's up to yourself to choose, what standard you set yourself to treat you'r girlfriend. Don't complain about your rusty relationship however, when you don't treat her with respect, you will never be with a well respected woman, because you can't give her that!

2elijah said:

johnart said:

Damn u are jarvis aren't u?

I figured that out a long time ago.

Why will folk not change their posting style when reusing?

Virgo92 said:

WaterInYourBath said:

You totally missed the point of him calling you that.

Nah, I got the point. I just reacted the wrong way to the post. He called me "fag" in the same mannermen call women "bitches".

So you answered your own damn question.

*cues Strange Relationship in the background*

eye only ever call a woman a bitch in the bedroom,anything goes in the bedroom.but if eye was 2 bump in2 my x wife at anytime calling her a bitch would give me great pleasure!!!THE BITCH!!!

dJJ said:

Dysfunctional ass thread!!!!!

All u bitches bite!!!!

Now if someone wants to see REAL trolling, this thread is it!

Actually I've never really gotten butthurt about being called a bitch - or a cunt, another one that's supposed to cut everybody who doesn't have a penis, deeply.

The word "bitch" in an of itself is not a word women necessarily hate. I think women in general hate the context in which the word is used and the person who utters the word in the first place. In a conversation, any wise person knows when the word is being used as a weapon versus slang or even a term of endearment among some friends.

I think if a woman is called a bitch and she finds it offensive to her sex then it should be taken as such and she is owed an apology. Words are like art....there is a general sense of what is acceptable and what is not but we should err on the side of caution and be mindful not to offend.

However if one sister calls her other sister a bitch then that isn't any of my business.

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armpit said:

Actually I've never really gotten butthurt about being called a bitch - or a cunt, another one that's supposed to cut everybody who doesn't have a penis, deeply.

I know -men- who detest being called a cunt, much less a woman. I tend to use the word frequently (I have a sailor's mouth, so what) but cunt gets a rise more often than not.

i hate women who like being called bitches, like it's a badge of pride or something.

johnart said:

2elijah said:

I figured that out a long time ago.

Why will folk not change their posting style when reusing?

That's what's hilarious about it. It's really not that difficult to figure out a reuser, because rarely do they change their posting style. I mean what do they think will change about them using a different name? They'll still be the same person, and have the same way of thinking and beliefs. If a cobra sheds it's skin, and displays a new one...it's still a cobra.

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whistle said:

i hate women who like being called bitches, like it's a badge of pride or something.

There are a lot of women, especially in their teens and early 20s, who hold this opinion about the word bitch. I've even heard it broken down.

B= Being

I = In

T = Total

C = Control of

H = Herself

I actually thought that was cute when I first heard it. I guess the rationale is that if someone calls you a bitch it means they are hating on you for doing something right or having some degree of success (jealousy).

There are gay guys who like being called a bitch too because they think its a sexy and/or powerful word.

meh. in my experience it's an excuse for obnoxious diva behaviour.

whistle said:

meh. in my experience it's an excuse for obnoxious diva behaviour.

Who you calling obnoxious diva?

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whistle said:

i hate women who like being called bitches, like it's a badge of pride or something.

I can imagine. These are the fly girls who get paid to dance or bounce at some swimming pool or carm in a video clip of an overweight/ too muscular rapper/ hiphop artist/ R&B boy, in order to polish the guy's image.

In reality everybody knows that there's a selection of females that would hunt for an easy prey like that. Rightly so, these girls want to get paid for the image they bring to these pathetic guys.

The rest of womenkind doesn't identify herself with the term 'bitch' . And know that if a man calls her like that, he's not very developed and needs some life time to grow as a person/ man.

SUPRMAN said:

kewlschool said:

Listen up Bitches! Bitch isn't always a negative term, case in point:

Explain how this is NOT negative?

First off I was using comedy by stating "Listen up you bitches." By calling every one bitches was a true play on words. The meaning of the word bitches was used as to gripe or to complain as in : They bitched about the service. So that line could be read as listen up you complainers/ gripers. The second line is to show you that some people do not believe it's a negative term. (The point being to show other perspectives).

Before continuing on let's look at some of the definitions of the word bitch:

1) a female canine

2)a complaint ( I don't know how many times I've heard people say: "Don't mind me. I'm just bitching.") Although slang, it is commonly used.

3) a thing or situation that is unpleasant or difficult to deal with: that car is a bitch to fix.

4)informal derogatory a woman whom one dislikes or considers to be malicious or unpleasant.

Although context plays a key role here when using the term bitch.

I know women that define themselves as a bitch and are proud of it. But heaven help you if another man or woman calls them a bitch. They will probably say," I'll show you what a bitch I can be." These women define the term bitch to mean that they are a strong, confident, take no sh*t from anybody kind of woman. I must add these woman are in control of their lives and are in relationships that are strong. In no way are they arm candy.

As regards to the bear-Would totally give that to my girlfriend, especially on Valentines day (irony people). Because if it's funny-I would go there. The people I hang out with (some are professional comics) We go to the uncomfortable and make fun of everything and everyone (Family Guy style).

In all sincerity, ask your mother.

Our generation has let certain things become far too casual these days.

kewlschool said:

SUPRMAN said:

Explain how this is NOT negative?

First off I was using comedy by stating "Listen up you bitches." By calling every one bitches was a true play on words. The meaning of the word bitches was used as to gripe or to complain as in : They bitched about the service. So that line could be read as listen up you complainers/ gripers. The second line is to show you that some people do not believe it's a negative term. (The point being to show other perspectives).

Before continuing on let's look at some of the definitions of the word bitch:

1) a female canine

2)a complaint ( I don't know how many times I've heard people say: "Don't mind me. I'm just bitching.") Although slang, it is commonly used.

3) a thing or situation that is unpleasant or difficult to deal with: that car is a bitch to fix.

4)informal derogatory a woman whom one dislikes or considers to be malicious or unpleasant.

Although context plays a key role here when using the term bitch.

I know women that define themselves as a bitch and are proud of it. But heaven help you if another man or woman calls them a bitch. They will probably say," I'll show you what a bitch I can be." These women define the term bitch to mean that they are a strong, confident, take no sh*t from anybody kind of woman. I must add these woman are in control of their lives and are in relationships that are strong. In no way are they arm candy.

As regards to the bear-Would totally give that to my girlfriend, especially on Valentines day (irony people). Because if it's funny-I would go there. The people I hang out with (some are professional comics) We go to the uncomfortable and make fun of everything and everyone (Family Guy style).

Every definition after the first one has a negative connotation. So three out of four and you imply it is not negative, merely 'uncomfortable?'

SUPRMAN said:

kewlschool said:

First off I was using comedy by stating "Listen up you bitches." By calling every one bitches was a true play on words. The meaning of the word bitches was used as to gripe or to complain as in : They bitched about the service. So that line could be read as listen up you complainers/ gripers. The second line is to show you that some people do not believe it's a negative term. (The point being to show other perspectives).

Before continuing on let's look at some of the definitions of the word bitch:

1) a female canine

2)a complaint ( I don't know how many times I've heard people say: "Don't mind me. I'm just bitching.") Although slang, it is commonly used.

3) a thing or situation that is unpleasant or difficult to deal with: that car is a bitch to fix.

4)informal derogatory a woman whom one dislikes or considers to be malicious or unpleasant.

Although context plays a key role here when using the term bitch.

I know women that define themselves as a bitch and are proud of it. But heaven help you if another man or woman calls them a bitch. They will probably say," I'll show you what a bitch I can be." These women define the term bitch to mean that they are a strong, confident, take no sh*t from anybody kind of woman. I must add these woman are in control of their lives and are in relationships that are strong. In no way are they arm candy.

As regards to the bear-Would totally give that to my girlfriend, especially on Valentines day (irony people). Because if it's funny-I would go there. The people I hang out with (some are professional comics) We go to the uncomfortable and make fun of everything and everyone (Family Guy style).

Every definition after the first one has a negative connotation. So three out of four and you imply it is not negative, merely 'uncomfortable?'

It's about perspective and choice.

i try not to use the word and i particularly don't like it ...... esp when my soon to b ex often called me that name... esp in public

and in recent experiences i have found men to be bigger bitches than woman

not all men, but more men than woman!!!!!!!!

and yes it can b used in a fun way, but i am referring to the nasty ways it's said about others!

physco185 said:

i try not to use the word and i particularly don't like it ...... esp when my soon to b ex often called me that name... esp in public

and in recent experiences i have found men to be bigger bitches than woman

not all men, but more men than woman!!!!!!!!

and yes it can b used in a fun way, but i am referring to the nasty ways it's said about others!

That's almost always the case. But of course, being a bitch isn't necessarily a bad thing. Is it?

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