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PrintableLaVisHh said: EllisDee said: LaVisHh said: Then have some REAL LOUD sex... bang EllisDee's woman...
  banging my woman is not a good idea... unless i can join in... or at least sit in the corner and watch... Let's call it a deal then.it's been a pleasure doing bidness with you...   Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo 
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Just remember one thing. She's family, which means shes' part of your life till one of you dies.
So make your best to have good relationship with her, or else, you'll both suffer and hurt. _______________________________
 Miss Cute
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MissCute said: Just remember one thing. She's family, which means shes' part of your life till one of you dies.
So make your best to have good relationship with her, or else, you'll both suffer and hurt. I think the whole point of this topic is that he's already suffering  | |
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chickengrease said: Honestly, if we can make it through this visit the next 13 days. I will ask her not to return unless she has somewhere else to stay. When I married my wife, I thought that crazy nutjob mother of hers was funny. But 7 years later I'm now realizing that she is certified crazy and needs some help.
I've heard it recommended before by relationship counselors before that for extended visits by family members - and especially ones there is a lot of tension with or ones that *cause* you and your spouse/s.o. tension - one of most beneficial things you can do to help save the relationship w/that person is tell them they must find other accomodations while they are in town visiting you. Even if you have to help pay some of their hotel costs...just do it. Whatever you need to do to find them another place to stay other than at your home. These sort of situations are so sticky. Being your wife's mom and your kids' grandma isn't something you want to lose but at the same time you should NOT have to put up with the problems she causes your family, or with her bossy behavior, either. And if her visits always end up causing you all so much frustration and anger, that's where the relationship with her is headed - DESTROYED, which would be sad. I think you're absolutely right to request she doesn't stay at your home for these long visits. I hope she's a reasonable enough person to understand the logic behind having her stay elsewhere and how in the long run it's a good thing for everybody concerned. I hope these next 13 days turn out better than you're expecting they might. Hang in there.  chickengrease | |
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althom said: MissCute said: Just remember one thing. She's family, which means shes' part of your life till one of you dies.
So make your best to have good relationship with her, or else, you'll both suffer and hurt. I think the whole point of this topic is that he's already suffering and he's already offered me a klondike bar, if i'll kill her... Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo
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Chicken, I think that if she acts like a child, you might have to treat her like one.
If she wants to do something ridiculous like take the baby to the park in the middle of winter...say no, but offer her an alternative (like you would with a child) like taking the baby to the mall or something. I don't envy you...but, hang in there. She'll be going home soon. | |
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SnowQueen said: chickengrease said: Honestly, if we can make it through this visit the next 13 days. I will ask her not to return unless she has somewhere else to stay. When I married my wife, I thought that crazy nutjob mother of hers was funny. But 7 years later I'm now realizing that she is certified crazy and needs some help.
I've heard it recommended before by relationship counselors before that for extended visits by family members - and especially ones there is a lot of tension with or ones that *cause* you and your spouse/s.o. tension - one of most beneficial things you can do to help save the relationship w/that person is tell them they must find other accomodations while they are in town visiting you. Even if you have to help pay some of their hotel costs...just do it. Whatever you need to do to find them another place to stay other than at your home. These sort of situations are so sticky. Being your wife's mom and your kids' grandma isn't something you want to lose but at the same time you should NOT have to put up with the problems she causes your family, or with her bossy behavior, either. And if her visits always end up causing you all so much frustration and anger, that's where the relationship with her is headed - DESTROYED, which would be sad. I think you're absolutely right to request she doesn't stay at your home for these long visits. I hope she's a reasonable enough person to understand the logic behind having her stay elsewhere and how in the long run it's a good thing for everybody concerned. I hope these next 13 days turn out better than you're expecting they might. Hang in there. chickengreaseThanks SnowQueen. Unfortunately she's just not reasonable enough to understand. I did ask her to change her returning ticket home for 5 days earlier and offer to pay for it. It will be the best $400 I've spent all year long. In the long run, it keeps her from returning home in a body bag. | |
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Thank you all for your advice. EllisDee, you might want to check for an orgnote from me if things don't simmer down over the next few days. | |
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